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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys

I just noticed that from chatting some people here, they go silent once they know that I'm an Arab, even though they were interested before.

Do we really have that bad repetition, or what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad to say but Ireland is quite a monocultural country. But I think if people don't you, your gonna have to work a bit harder to gain friendship. If they don't like you if your an Arab then they aren't worth your friendship. Good luck lad.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Add your Arabic background into the information in your profile txt and then people can decide for themselves? It will avoid you feeling this way.

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By *oodtimes2019xMan
over a year ago

D6

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it's ok mate. I just wanted to know what local people think about Arabs.

Cheers man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should do brill here. Sur everyone wants to meet an arab at least once in their lifetime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it's ok mate. I just wanted to know what local people think about Arabs.

Cheers man "

It's very simple, it's like the rest of humanity. Like any other ethnicity Arabs as a group can be split up in three broad categories.

There's sound Arabs, indifferent Arabs and cunts of Arabs. The only way for people to find out what category an individual belongs in is by getting to know a person a wee bit better.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Rather than saying you're an Arab , which unfortunately groups all middle east countries in the the same group.

just put your country of origin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

I just noticed that from chatting some people here, they go silent once they know that I'm an Arab, even though they were interested before.

Do we really have that bad repetition, or what?"

Arab men generally follow Arab values when is far more restrictive than their European counterparts. So while you might be dead on Arabs most certainly do have a bad reputation. It's not deserved for the most post but if you are wondering if it's an issuse then dispell that myth about you personally in your profile. Talk about respect, Your views on certain things which you think you might be judged on. Tackle it head on and people will respect you for it.

There was a thread on gut feeling here yesterday in which people can only judge someone on their background or what they know about them and unfortunately Arab culture is still a couple of hundred years in the past when it comes to morals and respect for human life and civil freedoms. My gut feeling would tell me to avoid unless that person let me have a better view of their personal belief's.

I admire the fact that you even asked the question but I have to keep in mind that someone like me would face prison or worse for my life choices in Arab countries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

I just noticed that from chatting some people here, they go silent once they know that I'm an Arab, even though they were interested before.

Do we really have that bad repetition, or what?

Arab men generally follow Arab values when is far more restrictive than their European counterparts. So while you might be dead on Arabs most certainly do have a bad reputation. It's not deserved for the most post but if you are wondering if it's an issuse then dispell that myth about you personally in your profile. Talk about respect, Your views on certain things which you think you might be judged on. Tackle it head on and people will respect you for it.

There was a thread on gut feeling here yesterday in which people can only judge someone on their background or what they know about them and unfortunately Arab culture is still a couple of hundred years in the past when it comes to morals and respect for human life and civil freedoms. My gut feeling would tell me to avoid unless that person let me have a better view of their personal belief's.

I admire the fact that you even asked the question but I have to keep in mind that someone like me would face prison or worse for my life choices in Arab countries. "

Surely the fact that he is on a swing site would dispel your fear that he follows those Arab values..

Ie , lack of respect for others and freedom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Surely the fact that he is on a swing site would dispel your fear that he follows those Arab values..

Ie , lack of respect for others and freedom?"

Like all the other respectful swingers here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant to add, he has stated all you mentioned on his profile already, respect ect....

Quite a good profile actualy, better than a lot here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Surely the fact that he is on a swing site would dispel your fear that he follows those Arab values..

Ie , lack of respect for others and freedom?

Like all the other respectful swingers here? "

Not quite sure exactly what you mean by this so can not comment further...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of sweeping generalization in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys

I just noticed that from chatting some people here, they go silent once they know that I'm an Arab, even though they were interested before.

Do we really have that bad repetition, or what?

Arab men generally follow Arab values when is far more restrictive than their European counterparts. So while you might be dead on Arabs most certainly do have a bad reputation. It's not deserved for the most post but if you are wondering if it's an issuse then dispell that myth about you personally in your profile. Talk about respect, Your views on certain things which you think you might be judged on. Tackle it head on and people will respect you for it.

There was a thread on gut feeling here yesterday in which people can only judge someone on their background or what they know about them and unfortunately Arab culture is still a couple of hundred years in the past when it comes to morals and respect for human life and civil freedoms. My gut feeling would tell me to avoid unless that person let me have a better view of their personal belief's.

I admire the fact that you even asked the question but I have to keep in mind that someone like me would face prison or worse for my life choices in Arab countries.

Surely the fact that he is on a swing site would dispel your fear that he follows those Arab values..

Ie , lack of respect for others and freedom?"

The fact that he's on a swing site has no relevance to his views on respecting others. I could show you my inbox here from the last week which would eave you in no uncertainty that being on a swing site does not come hand in hand with tolerance.

It's brilliant if the OP does mention respect and his profile in my view is pretty good. But he did ask why some might find being Arab an issuse and I suspect he probably already knows why it would be. I just spelled it out like he asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The fact that he's on a swing site has no relevance to his views on respecting others. I could show you my inbox here from the last week which would eave you in no uncertainty that being on a swing site does not come hand in hand with tolerance.

It's brilliant if the OP does mention respect and his profile in my view is pretty good. But he did ask why some might find being Arab an issuse and I suspect he probably already knows why it would be. I just spelled it out like he asked"

Exactly, it does not come hand in hand with how guys actualy treat others.

Yet, around the world Irish men are still in some quarters viewed as beer swlling, chauvtanist louts.

Yet had one Irish guy posed the same question, woukd he be treated differently to the OP.

Surely if other members are not capable of seeing past his nationality, then sadly that is their problem not his..

Not you I might stress

Your points are great...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you have had bad luck, we had a 3way with an Arab guy, sound lad great craic, and like every guy we met here so far, showed herself a good time and respected the fact we are a couple.

Also met a few at m&g's, again no issues whatsoever.

So as I said, you probably just had bad luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many thanks for your words

Xx

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I lived and worked in Saudi for a number of years and met some lovely lovely people out there. They aren't that far off us really most of the blokes I knew had 2 mobiles one for family the other for boyfriends/girlfriends. Affairs going on left right and centre as they'd only go with married women as a girl has to be a Virgin when she gets married so to get round that single Arab girls used to take it up the bum!! Just my experience of living there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, thank you so much guys. Your responses show me that the problem is not about ethnicity, It's just the fact that some people are close minded.

Thankfully I'm bi, and gay guys find being an Arab is a bonus.

Happy swinging folks

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds you know it all man

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I lived and worked in Saudi for a number of years and met some lovely lovely people out there. They aren't that far off us really most of the blokes I knew had 2 mobiles one for family the other for boyfriends/girlfriends. Affairs going on left right and centre as they'd only go with married women as a girl has to be a Virgin when she gets married so to get round that single Arab girls used to take it up the bum!! Just my experience of living there. "

So all I'm taking from that is.... go to Saudi if you like anal with virgins, nice!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure you will have more than what you expect

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Yes _ilder lol although many aren't anal virgins lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal...

Booking my tickets as we speak lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pretty sure they are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes _ilder lol although many aren't anal virgins lol "

I guess that will be a minor problem...do the ladies keep their hijab/niquab on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a joke, isn't it??

Do you really think they would keep it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a joke, isn't it??

Do you really think they would keep it?"

No, a genuine question as I don't have any Arabian friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knew an arabian gymnast once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knew an arabian gymnast once."

How was her dismount?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

It's logical thing, imagine an Arab lady takes her panties off but keeps her hijab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of sweeping generalization in this thread "

Agree..no matter what race or creed take each person on his or her own merits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..except arabs christians methodists presbyterians indians coloureds of course.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked for the Saudi Arabian royal family back in the late 80s and early 90s when I lived in London ,,,,,,, OMG the parties. !!! Would make fab look like a children's tea party !! I had a particularly close friendship with one of the princes , lol

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