FabSwingers.com forum: Would you change??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Swinging for most people is a lifestyle rather than a phase!

If you met someone you were really into and got on with but they had no interest in the swinging life, would u change for them and walk away from your lifestyle or would u always be sneaking back for the thrill or what ever it is you like about swinging?

Majority of females on here will meet couples so we can take that to be part of your sexual fantasies!

Would u stop all that for someone?

This goes for couples too!

If you split with your partner and found another who had no interest, how do you think it would be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging for most people is a lifestyle rather than a phase!

Majority of females on here will meet couples so we can take that to be part of your sexual fantasies!

Would u stop all that for someone?

This goes for couples too!

If you split with your partner and found another who had no interest, how do you think it would be?"

Good thread

I met a fellow swinger and was in a relationship for four years, we both stopped swinging.

I did miss the lifestyle at all, now though I am enjoying swing freedom

However, if I met someone again, not a swinger and thought the relationship was going somewhere, yes I would give it up again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh, I would have no hesitation in giving up the swinging lifestyle for a guy outside of Fab if I was really into that person & he felt the same way & the chemistry was great too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a single male so it's not really the same.

But if I met someone soecial who had no interest in this game then it wouldn't bother me to walk away from it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think for some people it's a thrill that they can't do without.

I know a female who married, has tried to get the husband involved in a ffm but he has no interest.

She's still here swinging and he hasn't a clue.

She's tried to walk away from it a few times but finds the thrill of even being here too good.

Then you've couples who look for meets every weekend,always wonder what would they do with their weekends if they split up

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

I Mrs crazy don't think I could meet anyone outside the swinging world and if I did I would try and introduce swinging into the relationship. I think it's probally easier for a woman to introduce swinging to a vanilla guy than it is for a man to introduce it to a vanilla woman. But I no if Mr crazy met someone out of the swinging world he would have no problem giving up this life style as he can take or leave it as he says himself

Crazy cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally, I'd walk away without hesitation. That's because I don't want to share my partner with anyone else sexually. It all depends on the individuals though. Some may stumble upon another who would like to learn more about the lifestyle. They could then open up a new door of sexual discovery. If on the other hand I couldn't walk away from the lifestyle and my partner wasn't into it. Then I'd have to walk away from that relationship. I couldn't do it behind their back.

In any relationship, you have to be true to yourself and your partner. There are many scenarios but honesty and trust are the basis of any relationship. Without it, it's not really a relationship. So you either go down a path of truth or decietfulness. We all have these choices. It's all up to the individual which one they choose. The scenarios are plenty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think for some people it's a thrill that they can't do without.

I know a female who married, has tried to get the husband involved in a ffm but he has no interest.

She's still here swinging and he hasn't a clue.

She's tried to walk away from it a few times but finds the thrill of even being here too good.

Then you've couples who look for meets every weekend,always wonder what would they do with their weekends if they split up

If she is willing to risk a possible end to her marriage, then she needs to think again..

If I found that swinging was dictating my freetime, taking me away from the real life as I call it.

I would certainly consider taking a break..

There are definately people who get swallowed up by this lifestyle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lord Jaysus if I got out of a relationship there would be no way I'd get into another one, I'd just be a male slut, as my single males friends would say "I'd never eat out of the same chip shop twice"

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm in too deep now, I doubt i'm gonna change. Part of finding the right person for me would be an interest or experience in swinging.

......and i may have found her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm in too deep now, I doubt i'm gonna change. Part of finding the right person for me would be an interest or experience in swinging.

......and i may have found her

Hopefully u have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I found a partner that wasn't into the lifestyle, I would give it up to see if I could make a go of things. I would keep my account just to chat with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why oh why would yous want to get back into a relationship if yous got out of one

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

I don't think I would change for anyone, I've always been really open and into exploring all things sexual and I think previous relationships where I felt I had to be more tame didn't and would never work because I wasn't fully being myself. Sex and sexuality is way more important to our mental health than people give it credit for and I think denying that side of ourselves is why so many relationships are doomed to fail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why oh why would yous want to get back into a relationship if yous got out of one"

So are u saying stay single forever more if a relationship doesn't work out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't hesitate if I met someone who had no interest in this site etc. It's fun and great way to indulge my pervy side but I don't think I'm here for the rest of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn't hesitate if I met someone who had no interest in this site etc. It's fun and great way to indulge my pervy side but I don't think I'm here for the rest of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I've no interest or time for a relationship.

BUT...

If they were into swinging then fine, would I try introduce it, of course but in an unlikely situation that they weren't interested id respect their choice.

Again I can see myself not having this problem

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By *rossflow daveMan
over a year ago

Mullingar

"Lord Jaysus if I got out of a relationship there would be no way I'd get into another one, I'd just be a male slut, as my single males friends would say "I'd never eat out of the same chip shop twice""

I presume you have the safety of the Irish Sea between you and your good lady to be making a statement like that !!

lol

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