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By *otLips 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

Just curious how close to home would you go, to meet anyone of fab, my closest is 10 miles. What's yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person in fairness.. Some people I chat to on here would convince me to travel 100 miles

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By *imon237771Man
over a year ago

antrim

My closest was about 3 miles up the road small area too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest is 12 miles but i have travelled 180 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather go at lest 30 miles , don't want to run in to women ive met on fab in day day to things it easier for them a and me ,, if we wanted to play local we wouldn't need fab

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By *otLips 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Here or There


"Depends on the person in fairness.. Some people I chat to on here would convince me to travel 100 miles "

Seriously 100 miles!! I don't see the point of that unless I was going away for a weekend. I'd then arrange to meet someone from that area but to just travel 100 miles for a bit of fun they'd need to be dynamite. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person in fairness.. Some people I chat to on here would convince me to travel 100 miles

Seriously 100 miles!! I don't see the point of that unless I was going away for a weekend. I'd then arrange to meet someone from that area but to just travel 100 miles for a bit of fun they'd need to be dynamite. Lol"

Dublin is nearly 100 miles from belfast..

Not saying I would everytime but there is a select few I would drive that distance for. It's a day out after all

But closed I would meet is over 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

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By *otLips 69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Here or There


"My closest was about 3 miles up the road small area too!"

That's just asking for trouble in a small area, bigger area I could live with less chance of bumping into them.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

There's still a big catchment around me at 2 miles

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By *imon237771Man
over a year ago

antrim


"My closest was about 3 miles up the road small area too!

That's just asking for trouble in a small area, bigger area I could live with less chance of bumping into them. "

Yeah I understand thankfully all involved discreet was about 6 months ago and haven't bumped into them yet so all good don't imagine any issues even if we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I rather spend too hours travelling 100 miles and stay overnight with my meet in a hotel then be recognised comeing pout of her house for her sake as well as mine ,, or meet her in the supermarket the following weekend with her teenage kids

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I travel regularly 260 miles and back for someone I meet. Worth it everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you need to build a rappore with someone before meeting. When you get to know someone a bit better you can judge then how discreet they can be. Once you trust them and they trust you and your both honest about everything with each other it shouldn't matter.

That's just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have travelled as little as 1 mile for a meet

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

My closest meet was less than a mile. I had a another one that was a similar distance. There's probably 15,000 people within that radius so it's not as risky as it seems. The trustworthiness of the person is much more important than the distance.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Personally I think you need to build a rappore with someone before meeting. When you get to know someone a bit better you can judge then how discreet they can be. Once you trust them and they trust you and your both honest about everything with each other it shouldn't matter.

That's just my opinion"

Sounds rather time consuming and more like a date.

A distance of 20miles minimum is healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same road doesnt bother me a bit

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Personally I think you need to build a rappore with someone before meeting. When you get to know someone a bit better you can judge then how discreet they can be. Once you trust them and they trust you and your both honest about everything with each other it shouldn't matter.

That's just my opinion"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously if your meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest was around 10 miles. I have traveled to England a few times for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closest 6 mile .

But usually around 15 miles . two big towns both around 15 mile away

But again depends on who your travelling to .

Usually nothing further than a hours drive .

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby

I've met a few people from the local area, within a few miles, on here and meet them in the street now and again, it's kinda fun to I've each other a knowing look! Everyone very discreet usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As close as a mile as far away as the other side of the country. .

What can I say, Im the milk tray guy

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I met someone from the estate I was living in at the time!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result"

You sell your clients?

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I don't see distance as any problem or meeting on street or supermarket what happens in private stays private it is only fun after all otherwise why be on fab

Just my thinking

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

What's the problem with bumping into people after a meet or several meets?? It's making out fab is like a naughty secret or should be kept in the shadows. Obviously discretion is a very big must but surely we are all adult enough to just say hi and carry on doing what we were doing be it in the street or supermarket or wherever? Or is that just me lol

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"What's the problem with bumping into people after a meet or several meets?? It's making out fab is like a naughty secret or should be kept in the shadows. Obviously discretion is a very big must but surely we are all adult enough to just say hi and carry on doing what we were doing be it in the street or supermarket or wherever? Or is that just me lol "

Id be the same, doesnt bother me if i see a fabber when im out and about. So convinced was i recognising someone i walked into a pole cos i wasnt watching where i was going and ended up with a nasty bump on my forehead. face forward in future, my mother always told me its rude to stare

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"What's the problem with bumping into people after a meet or several meets?? It's making out fab is like a naughty secret or should be kept in the shadows. Obviously discretion is a very big must but surely we are all adult enough to just say hi and carry on doing what we were doing be it in the street or supermarket or wherever? Or is that just me lol

Id be the same, doesnt bother me if i see a fabber when im out and about. So convinced was i recognising someone i walked into a pole cos i wasnt watching where i was going and ended up with a nasty bump on my forehead. face forward in future, my mother always told me its rude to stare "
Lol trust you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I was a single guy 1.5km away

Tomcat

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

You sell your clients? "

Oh no, does that make him a pimp?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

You sell your clients?

Oh no, does that make him a pimp? "
I was half a mile away from you one time michael

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest I've travelled to was Cork and closest was a few miles away but only had to go as far as my bedroom both were well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closest woould be 10mts anyone got a gps?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

You sell your clients?

Oh no, does that make him a pimp? I was half a mile away from you one time michael "

The one that got away!

That day is etched in my mind. A dark day in McCarthy history

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

You sell your clients?

Oh no, does that make him a pimp? I was half a mile away from you one time michael

The one that got away!

That day is etched in my mind. A dark day in McCarthy history "
ur aways within a mile from me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a fab party back in March/April last year, after the party, we (my date and I) were invited back to a little gathering in one of our fellow fabbers apartment. Same block of apartments as I lived in.

I've met one young lady who worked 2 mins walk from the same apartment . I have not seen them since, but I don't think it would be a problem, if I did. I would be (as I am in my day to day life) polite, social and of course discreet.

I also met a very sexy girl on fab in October last year and we meet regularly when I'm back in Dublin. she lives on the opposite quay to me. 10min walk Max.

I've was on a flight a few days after attending a social on a different site, maybe 4 years ago now, one of the stewardess was at the social too.

To me, it would be no different than bumping a girl I'd slept with from out side of fab.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

A couple of years ago I arranged to meet a couple in a local hotel. They turned out to be my next door neighbours.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

You sell your clients?

Oh no, does that make him a pimp? I was half a mile away from you one time michael

The one that got away!

That day is etched in my mind. A dark day in McCarthy history ur aways within a mile from me haha "

you're always close to me too even closer when im at football lol

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

It depends, usually we don't tell people where we live until we've met them and if they seem like decent people then we'll invite them back if it turns out they live nearby then that's no biggie. We've met people for a coffee meet only to find out they live across the road lol.

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By *irty MurtyMan
over a year ago

my place

Closest is 6 miles but I live in the sticks, furthest is 170 miles, but closer is not a problem I've nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel regularly 260 miles and back for someone I meet. Worth it everytime "

I would travel the same distance if I had the same chrmistry as you do with your meet....... But I have travelled 50 mile to and back for a coffee and been so disappointed to know I could not go to the next step.....a snag living in Donegal. I have learned my lesson though..... I visit Dublin regularly but can incorporate a lot into my travels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 miles. The couple were very decent people. We have seen each other in the street twice since. Smile and keep on walking was the agreed way of dealing with it. It's no big deal really as we both took photos at the meet. It's in both of our interests to enjoy it for what it was and leave it at that

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Mine was a client I sold too. Went ok. Sales increased! Result

You sell your clients?

Oh no, does that make him a pimp? I was half a mile away from you one time michael

The one that got away!

That day is etched in my mind. A dark day in McCarthy history ur aways within a mile from me haha "

I'm driving around with my binoculars at the ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone local would be handy.

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By *erhavingalaugh5Man
over a year ago

dundonald

Closest was 1 mile away met her the following day in Sainsburys but fab code is fab code she looked at me I looked at her smiled and carried on shopping

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