FabSwingers.com forum: Frustration

By *vsnikki OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

In the last few days I have been "stood up" by four spineless individuals that, having agreed to meet, then dropped all contact. It's hard work being a slut!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Don't let them drag you down! Wimps! It's their own loss! Go and treat yourself with something nice today like a new outfit or a spa visit or a nice dinner and then let that positive spirit work for you.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"It's hard work being a slut!"

..but you do it so well

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By *indalaceTV/TS
over a year ago

Derry

It seems to be happening more and more up here in the North West, loads of newbies many of whom are absolute timewasters.

Also quite a few who have been on Fab a while, are regularly online that 'talk the talk' but don't 'walk the walk'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke to a very good tv friend last night who was stood up by a potential meet. It was her first meet in some time and it's very disheartening when you're so unsure of yourself as a tv. Life fucks with your head more than enough as it is.

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I spoke to a very good tv friend last night who was stood up by a potential meet. It was her first meet in some time and it's very disheartening when you're so unsure of yourself as a tv. Life fucks with your head more than enough as it is.

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming "

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more."

And nothing more was implied but their seems to be penalties and ramifications for every other action on fab. If there anyway to deal with the scourge that is the lesser spotted stander upper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more.

And nothing more was implied but their seems to be penalties and ramifications for every other action on fab. If there anyway to deal with the scourge that is the lesser spotted stander upper

Careful selection eliminates a lot. In fab, as in life in general, it's good to understand that other people's motivation and actions revolve around themselves, not you.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more.

And nothing more was implied but their seems to be penalties and ramifications for every other action on fab. If there anyway to deal with the scourge that is the lesser spotted stander upper

Unfortunately the lesser spotted has become common but we could cull them

block and report move on to the next victim

I mean potential meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more.

And nothing more was implied but their seems to be penalties and ramifications for every other action on fab. If there anyway to deal with the scourge that is the lesser spotted stander upper

Careful selection eliminates a lot. In fab, as in life in general, it's good to understand that other people's motivation and actions revolve around themselves, not you."

While that maybe so it still doesn't stop them standing people up. Would it be great to have an add on to the verification system.

Verified by X amount of females, x males, x tvs and stood 5 people up. Never gonna happen I know but it would be a deterrent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more.

And nothing more was implied but their seems to be penalties and ramifications for every other action on fab. If there anyway to deal with the scourge that is the lesser spotted stander upper

Careful selection eliminates a lot. In fab, as in life in general, it's good to understand that other people's motivation and actions revolve around themselves, not you.

While that maybe so it still doesn't stop them standing people up. Would it be great to have an add on to the verification system.

Verified by X amount of females, x males, x tvs and stood 5 people up. Never gonna happen I know but it would be a deterrent "

There's a very good reason for a ban on "name and shame' - the inevitable flood of malicious false reports that would ensue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot to be said for naming and shaming

Anyone can be stood up, it's a reflection on the one doing the standing up - nothing more.

And nothing more was implied but their seems to be penalties and ramifications for every other action on fab. If there anyway to deal with the scourge that is the lesser spotted stander upper

Careful selection eliminates a lot. In fab, as in life in general, it's good to understand that other people's motivation and actions revolve around themselves, not you.

While that maybe so it still doesn't stop them standing people up. Would it be great to have an add on to the verification system.

Verified by X amount of females, x males, x tvs and stood 5 people up. Never gonna happen I know but it would be a deterrent

There's a very good reason for a ban on "name and shame' - the inevitable flood of malicious false reports that would ensue..."

True, if a privilege can be abused it sure as hell will be

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By *vsnikki OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"It's hard work being a slut!

..but you do it so well

I do

With much more celibacy I'll become a wanking slut. I won't care which hand I use and welcome (self) abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the last few days I have been "stood up" by four spineless individuals that, having agreed to meet, then dropped all contact. It's hard work being a slut!"

But so rewarding when the right one appears.

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By *vsnikki OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Almost laughing. One of my four time wasting cowards messaged me today having received a vitriolic message from me. He said he wasn't able to ring and asked if I was still up for a meet. So not just a time wasting coward then; no, a STUPID time wasting coward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost laughing. One of my four time wasting cowards messaged me today having received a vitriolic message from me. He said he wasn't able to ring and asked if I was still up for a meet. So not just a time wasting coward then; no, a STUPID time wasting coward."

Looks like you are well able to handle them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol! Idiot.

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