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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

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I agree completely but it's a fact of on here so may get used to it unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often bulk delete because of to many messages. I don't see that as rude, I simply don't have the time to read and reply to all.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

Some men on here just use the method of "copy and paste" to mail women here and they could be sent 100 mails a day so a genuine mail can get lost in that bulk and deleted doesn't mean they don't wanna chat with you at all.

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By *es_im_marriedMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yeah I’ve got a ton of these too, I understand the reason as I’m married and that comes with the territory, we also have to consider that for every girl there must be 102 to 15 guys and if you don’t stick out then it’s easier to delete. Also I see from updates and profile messages there must be a lot of cut and pastes, if you can’t be original what’s the point?

I also get a lot of emails from guys asking but I am respectful and reply with no thanks. I guess that’s the rules of the game on here! Not complaining though it was my choice to join.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

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very rude indeed

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed "

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mail

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I need to stop trying to compose a Shakespearean sonnet and go for the copy and paste method ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye I think it's rude only takes a min to reply and it called been nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mail"

I'm talking about a mail been opened and deleted straight away, I understand fully that women get bombarded with mail here and have no issue at all with bulk deleting messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always reply no matter who it is even if it's an odd pm. Just good manners really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always reply no matter who it is even if it's an odd pm. Just good manners really. "

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mail

I'm talking about a mail been opened and deleted straight away, I understand fully that women get bombarded with mail here and have no issue at all with bulk deleting messages"

I had the same problem and I asked for advice and the best thing I was told is make yourself stand out from the rest of the thousands of males on fab. It's a swinging site so don't let a mail being read then deleted get to you there are other ladies out there that will reply to your mails. I for one don't think it's rude maybe they don't know how to turn you down without sounding like a #itch for doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not rude to delete some mail. Its self preservation.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mail

I'm talking about a mail been opened and deleted straight away, I understand fully that women get bombarded with mail here and have no issue at all with bulk deleting messages

I had the same problem and I asked for advice and the best thing I was told is make yourself stand out from the rest of the thousands of males on fab. It's a swinging site so don't let a mail being read then deleted get to you there are other ladies out there that will reply to your mails. I for one don't think it's rude maybe they don't know how to turn you down without sounding like a #itch for doing so "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its rude.. sorry op , its just a case of not having the time to go through all the messages and unfortunately some really nice mails get lost . there are so many hi , wanna fuck or I'm in your area messages bulk delete has to be used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its decent to just say..no thanks..I do appreciate it from women. .unfortunately not everyone has the manners to do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first. "

I've never or will ever have an issue with no and if my ego was that big I wouldn't have posted in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think its rude.. sorry op , its just a case of not having the time to go through all the messages and unfortunately some really nice mails get lost . there are so many hi , wanna fuck or I'm in your area messages bulk delete has to be used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first. "

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to reply to most mail I receive even if it is a no thank you response. Then I'd receive a reply asking me why not or worse again, abusive mail because I won't meet them. Thankfully they are the minority. If you were on the receiving end of some of the emails I've received it may just alter your opinion.

People have different reasons for not replying which does not make them rude in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I would like to reply to most mails because I would hate if someone didn't reply to me . its just real life gets in the way and there's just not enough time

Sarah x

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?"

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude. "

But isn't that lumping everyone into the same boat. How do we then judge who we should reply to. On looks alone ? I'm screwed so

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude.

But isn't that lumping everyone into the same boat. How do we then judge who we should reply to. On looks alone ? I'm screwed so"

thats the point you reply to those you like or want to meet. and let the rule of no reply means no sort everyone else out.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I see a White knight is doing the usual. The thing is people ask for originality in messages they don't want the same old twaddle time and again. Yet they delete messages En masse and bemoan the fact they get no originality how can they have originality if they do not check their messages?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Wouldn't worry about it, I sent one 8 months ago, haven't received reply YET!

With Internet so slow around here reckon I need to change my Internet Provider!!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"I see a White knight is doing the usual. The thing is people ask for originality in messages they don't want the same old twaddle time and again. Yet they delete messages En masse and bemoan the fact they get no originality how can they have originality if they do not check their messages? "

whos doing a white knight ? the op is a man ? also its in a f.a.q of the site that no reply is a reply in the negative. its like people moaning about not being verified after a meet people are free to do as they wish reply don't reply meet dont meet verify or dont verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all first mails received. I tell them I'm not looking, I say that's why my profile is hidden. They usually reply saying thanks and leave it at that. If they persist, (almost all stop), then I don't reply again. I've rarely had abuse. I think I've only ever blocked one person, maybe two. I have a lot of filters, so I get very little mail. It's easy for me to reply.

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude.

But isn't that lumping everyone into the same boat. How do we then judge who we should reply to. On looks alone ? I'm screwed so

thats the point you reply to those you like or want to meet. and let the rule of no reply means no sort everyone else out."

I agree laid. I seen some rude mails after getting replies saying no thanks not interested so a simple read and delete should be a clear no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive filtered most people out so they cant mail me unless I mailed them first , its not perfect , but its a solution , and it works for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude.

But isn't that lumping everyone into the same boat. How do we then judge who we should reply to. On looks alone ? I'm screwed so

thats the point you reply to those you like or want to meet. and let the rule of no reply means no sort everyone else out."

That's not a rule it's a personal choice but I'll side on the side of being polite. I do on the other hand totally respect you making the choice to blank someone because of their looks.

I'm also certain that many of the people I chat with here might not consider me attractive but still have it in them to take a chance at having something resembling a decent conversation. Oh well, each to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude. "

Exactly this!!! Forum rules - no reply = no interest! Plus a polite no thanks is invariably met with insults, why would I bother?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just for the record I have always and will continue to respect ones right to say no... and I have received mails back saying no thanks and have always replied thanking them for their reply and will continue to do so

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry

I don't read

" hey baby "

" wanna suck my cock "

" you look like a good fuck "

Seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well seeing as (not me) some copy and paste and can be a reason to not reply.. Then maybe the people who didn't reply previously even copy and paste a "no thank you" Hahaha. If you've time to open it then you've time to paste a no thank you. Just an opinion, all have different reasons but I think if you genuinely think it's not rude to open a mail and not reply then we are clearly a race on the way down, don't forget the person who mailed you took the time to mail you haha

That's my good preaching done for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive filtered most people out so they cant mail me unless I mailed them first , its not perfect , but its a solution , and it works for me . "

Exactly... Work with what you're given... Site filters..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't read

" hey baby "

" wanna suck my cock "

" you look like a good fuck "

Seriously "

Fully agree !

Anybody sending a mail like that and expecting a reply does have issues

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"I don't read

" hey baby "

" wanna suck my cock "

" you look like a good fuck "

Seriously

Fully agree !

Anybody sending a mail like that and expecting a reply does have issues

"

I normally put a thread up asking women do they want a fuck me mail It's always nice to give the lovely ladies the option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. Not reading unsolicited mail is not rude.

Get over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't read

" hey baby "

" wanna suck my cock "

" you look like a good fuck "

Seriously

Fully agree !

Anybody sending a mail like that and expecting a reply does have issues

"
oh I'll reply but it won't be a nice friendly one and swiftly followed by a block. Fools gotta learn somehow

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed "
nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just not interested in you. I mean the FAQ even says if there is no reply whether read on not just means not interested and so move along.

I reply sometimes. I don't other times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

"

How very dare they, them charlatans, despicable humans not replying to a message that you have taken 20 seconds to type out, dam them, DAM THEM ALL TO THE GATES OF HELL!!!! Build a bridge and get the fook over it, nobody owes you a reply no matter how much "time" you put into your message, grow a pair and move on and stop moaning...peace be with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably just not interested in you. I mean the FAQ even says if there is no reply whether read on not just means not interested and so move along.

I reply sometimes. I don't other times. "

This isn't a go... But if you read it then it has to be true or OK social understanding is something we are born with

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By *icketyupWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Personally I try to reply to everyone, usually to say I'm not looking to meet men. And yes some people will say I should put filters up but as my profile states in the first line that this is the case , is it not rude for a man to send me a message when it clearly says that that's not what I'm looking for?? That being said I do still reply to these people and sometimes it's not worth the reply as I end up replying to 5-6 of the same person continuing to want to meet in one week and then being abused because apparently I'd be in the wrong for not changing my preferences for them.

I completely understand why people don't respond to the messages of someone they're not interested in as you don't know who's going to get abusive if no is said. People you reply to can also get get past filters if you decide to put them up at some point plus there's also the added element that we're not all sitting here waiting to reply to mails. At the end of the day we're all here for our own reasons and look for people within our own preferences, it just so happens that everyone needs to have a thick skin, and if you don't get a reply it's a no as per site rules.

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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago

tipperary

It's a supply and demand thing. I'd imagine lots of ladies here have to bulk delete mails.

Most of us blokes wouldn't know how to do it if we were asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no reply means no its simple ..

I can't get my head round how fragile some peoples egos are if the liked you they'd reply and if they really wanted you they would mail first.

I fail to see how ego comes into it really. Isn't it just polite to say thanks but no thanks even put as bluntly as that. Ego only comes into it if the sender follows up bemoaning the fact that you didn't jump at the chance. One might say the ego is shown more from those who consider themselves to important to reply to a simple newbie.

I think we all get that some don't have the time or simply couldn't be arsed but don't you agree that's it is more mannerly to reply if you have the time ?

iv seen women reply nicely with a no then they get the why not ? or sure we can just talk cant we ? so replying only gets messy at times.

I think it is down to ego they think they deserve a reply just for mailing and when they don't get one they moan about it being rude.

Exactly this!!! Forum rules - no reply = no interest! Plus a polite no thanks is invariably met with insults, why would I bother?"

Hey said I'd just share my view on all of this.

I've been on this a while now, and it hasn't changed at all, if anything it's getting worse, I've noticed that if any new girls or couples joins this (mostly younger people) they get bombarded by hundreds of messages and that's why they just do bulk, until there on this for a couple of weeks, but people that have been on this for months have no excuse, I've messaged people on this and 95% of time my messages just gets deleted straight away, and 5% they reply but stop messing me, there's just to many stuck up picky girls or couples on this, they all think that there gods gift

and and know there will be hundreds of guys messaging them, and from there they have plenty to choose from, but don't even reply a simple no thanks, they got the power and there's just way to many guys on this and very little girls on this so it's impossible to chat to anyone, it's just one big competition and if your lucky enough you just might win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I try to reply to everyone, usually to say I'm not looking to meet men. And yes some people will say I should put filters up but as my profile states in the first line that this is the case , is it not rude for a man to send me a message when it clearly says that that's not what I'm looking for?? That being said I do still reply to these people and sometimes it's not worth the reply as I end up replying to 5-6 of the same person continuing to want to meet in one week and then being abused because apparently I'd be in the wrong for not changing my preferences for them.

I completely understand why people don't respond to the messages of someone they're not interested in as you don't know who's going to get abusive if no is said. People you reply to can also get get past filters if you decide to put them up at some point plus there's also the added element that we're not all sitting here waiting to reply to mails. At the end of the day we're all here for our own reasons and look for people within our own preferences, it just so happens that everyone needs to have a thick skin, and if you don't get a reply it's a no as per site rules."

I agree with that. And you did reply to me and admittedly it was a no but a reply so I was happy.. Ish haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

How very dare they, them charlatans, despicable humans not replying to a message that you have taken 20 seconds to type out, dam them, DAM THEM ALL TO THE GATES OF HELL!!!! Build a bridge and get the fook over it, nobody owes you a reply no matter how much "time" you put into your message, grow a pair and move on and stop moaning...peace be with you "

Funny I thought the abusive would have come sooner .... well done sir / madame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey said I'd just share my view on all of this.

I've been on this a while now, and it hasn't changed at all, if anything it's getting worse, I've noticed that if any new girls or couples joins this (mostly younger people) they get bombarded by hundreds of messages and that's why they just do bulk, until there on this for a couple of weeks, but people that have been on this for months have no excuse, I've messaged people on this and 95% of time my messages just gets deleted straight away, and 5% they reply but stop messing me, there's just to many stuck up picky girls or couples on this, they all think that there gods gift

and and know there will be hundreds of guys messaging them, and from there they have plenty to choose from, but don't even reply a simple no thanks, they got the power and there's just way to many guys on this and very little girls on this so it's impossible to chat to anyone, it's just one big competition and if your lucky enough you just might win.

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry

You all need to calm the feck down over some people not messaging u !!! Get over it and build a bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo I agree I'm on it awhile now and all I keep getting is I'm not verified and that's cause I can't get a meet but I've text every one on the site and can't get a reply very rude to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lolita is bang on.... fecks sake its a pure numbers game... I wouldn't read a 100 email all saying essentially the same thing every day!

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry


"Defo I agree I'm on it awhile now and all I keep getting is I'm not verified and that's cause I can't get a meet but I've text every one on the site and can't get a reply very rude to be honest "

Well welcome to fab X

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry


"Lolita is bang on.... fecks sake its a pure numbers game... I wouldn't read a 100 email all saying essentially the same thing every day! "

Here here

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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago

tipperary

They should have a message template here for ladies with a I regret to inform you message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

How very dare they, them charlatans, despicable humans not replying to a message that you have taken 20 seconds to type out, dam them, DAM THEM ALL TO THE GATES OF HELL!!!! Build a bridge and get the fook over it, nobody owes you a reply no matter how much "time" you put into your message, grow a pair and move on and stop moaning...peace be with you

Funny I thought the abusive would have come sooner .... well done sir / madame "
its not abuse its reality, why should people reply to every message, most people have written on their profile what they are looking for, but yet get a multitude of messages off people who obviously haven't even taken the time to read the profile, here's an example of a message we got yesterday , hi, I want to fuck use...and believe me we get something simar to that on a regular basis, now if someone has read our profile and puts some effort in we will reply, which then usually leads to them sending some abuse and blocking us

Also do you think its only single guys that don't get replys? Trust me its not....

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By *ike 50Man
over a year ago

North Cork

My faith is restored on the site....I sent a few messages last year to a polite lady....we met for a coffee some time later...Went our separate ways....12 months later the lady sees my profile again and after I made contact....she agreed to meet. I cant say enough about this lady...WONDERFUL....KIND...SWEET...CARING...and GORGEOUS....

Fab is a great place...and yes I feel I won the lotto...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

How very dare they, them charlatans, despicable humans not replying to a message that you have taken 20 seconds to type out, dam them, DAM THEM ALL TO THE GATES OF HELL!!!! Build a bridge and get the fook over it, nobody owes you a reply no matter how much "time" you put into your message, grow a pair and move on and stop moaning...peace be with you

Funny I thought the abusive would have come sooner .... well done sir / madame its not abuse its reality, why should people reply to every message, most people have written on their profile what they are looking for, but yet get a multitude of messages off people who obviously haven't even taken the time to read the profile, here's an example of a message we got yesterday , hi, I want to fuck use...and believe me we get something simar to that on a regular basis, now if someone has read our profile and puts some effort in we will reply, which then usually leads to them sending some abuse and blocking us

Also do you think its only single guys that don't get replys? Trust me its not...."

Ah I understand fully and to be honest I'm not whinging and I do get some very nice replies and have chatted to singles and couples alike....The site gets brought down by morons sending the mails as described on this thread...and it does make it harder for everyone else, but sure if it was easy we'd andll be doing it ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not rude. Females often look at profiles and read them before they reply. And OP...yours would make a lot delete and block. Zero effort and crude. Sorry but somebody has to say it. Good luck.

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn


"Its not rude. Females often look at profiles and read them before they reply. And OP...yours would make a lot delete and block. Zero effort and crude. Sorry but somebody has to say it. Good luck. "

Have to agree, your profile alone would make us delete AND block.

Mr N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lolita is bang on.... fecks sake its a pure numbers game... I wouldn't read a 100 email all saying essentially the same thing every day!

Here here "

Lolita are you agreeing with me agreeing with you????? In which case I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not rude. Females often look at profiles and read them before they reply. And OP...yours would make a lot delete and block. Zero effort and crude. Sorry but somebody has to say it. Good luck.

Have to agree, your profile alone would make us delete AND block.

Mr N

"

Totally, pro licker, c'mon now...put a bit of effort in..

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry


"Lolita is bang on.... fecks sake its a pure numbers game... I wouldn't read a 100 email all saying essentially the same thing every day!

Here here

Lolita are you agreeing with me agreeing with you????? In which case I agree! "

I agreed that u agreed that I agree that you agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mail"
Are you a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only reply if I feel like there was a effort made. There no way I am going to reply to everyone that messages me as it's impossible as we get loads of messages a week. And as the rules states in the faq no reply means not interested . Tough why should I waste my time replying to people who obviously haven't had the cop on to read my profile and send me stupid messages. That's just my opinion and I am not going to change the way I do it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a White knight is doing the usual. The thing is people ask for originality in messages they don't want the same old twaddle time and again. Yet they delete messages En masse and bemoan the fact they get no originality how can they have originality if they do not check their messages?

whos doing a white knight ? the op is a man ? also its in a f.a.q of the site that no reply is a reply in the negative. its like people moaning about not being verified after a meet people are free to do as they wish reply don't reply meet dont meet verify or dont verify. "
You do like to think you know it all don't you.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

It is in the guidelines that no reply can be taken as no interest.if I message someone and they don't reply I simply take it that they aren't interested but i wouldn't take offence ,it's saving both parties wasted time or effort tbh and in all honesty yes there can be a lot of mail sent to people so they simply won't see them all /have time to reply to them. I used to try and reply politely to people and still do when I have time but if they aren't someone I might be interested in meeting /chatting to or they clearly didn't read profile etc I tend not to anymore as what would be the point? Sadly I have found the polite no thank you can often lead to a "why not " reply followed by the less savory message, obviously not everyone does that. Afer time on here you simply just ignore/delete etc

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt compose a formal letter if i were you because 1 time out of 10 if that said woman was to send the first message instead of you she would probably send "how big is ur cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only find it rude when people have on their profile to include feckin banana in mail header and a list of ridicolous criteria before mailing.

You do this and then they delete. These are the only people who dont reply who are being rude..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt compose a formal letter if i were you because 1 time out of 10 if that said woman was to send the first message instead of you she would probably send "how big is ur cock" "

10 times*

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"I see a White knight is doing the usual. The thing is people ask for originality in messages they don't want the same old twaddle time and again. Yet they delete messages En masse and bemoan the fact they get no originality how can they have originality if they do not check their messages?

whos doing a white knight ? the op is a man ? also its in a f.a.q of the site that no reply is a reply in the negative. its like people moaning about not being verified after a meet people are free to do as they wish reply don't reply meet dont meet verify or dont verify. You do like to think you know it all don't you."

ah sligo moved to cavan now ? Welcome back I hope you've upped your trolling game a bit .

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mailAre you a woman. "

That's your worse one yet sligo

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mailAre you a woman.

That's your worse one yet sligo "
id never not reply to you brute your a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wish the site would introduce that you have read the FAQ's and understand that no reply is not rude. Alot of whiney men complaining about it all over the forum. Read the FAQ'S of the site you have joined FFS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mailAre you a woman.

That's your worse one yet sligo id never not reply to you brute your a gentleman"
Are you sure seems to think he's a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bulk delete....

I get WAY too many to read!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't delete without reading, but sometimes it's not worth reading

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

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Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not rude. It's one of the site etiquettes in fact and thinking it's rude is...well rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

"

May sound harsh so I apologise but no one owes you nothing on here

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a White knight is doing the usual. The thing is people ask for originality in messages they don't want the same old twaddle time and again. Yet they delete messages En masse and bemoan the fact they get no originality how can they have originality if they do not check their messages?

whos doing a white knight ? the op is a man ? also its in a f.a.q of the site that no reply is a reply in the negative. its like people moaning about not being verified after a meet people are free to do as they wish reply don't reply meet dont meet verify or dont verify. You do like to think you know it all don't you."

Ah jayus if it isn't Sligo. Your last profile got the snip unlike myself

Now I know the latest addition to a very select group. Our block list.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wish the site would introduce that you have read the FAQ's and understand that no reply is not rude. Alot of whiney men complaining about it all over the forum. Read the FAQ'S of the site you have joined FFS!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there werent so many desperate men on here mailing any ol bit of fluff with a warm hole then there wouldnt be so much mail traffic going around for women to plough through/delete

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

very rude indeed

How Is it rude if your mail in lost in all the copy and paste mails you can't blame a woman that doesn't wanna go thru 100 mails to get to that one genuine mail"
very true.. But then again what if it's not lost!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution OP....

Don't mail anyone for about 6 weeks, they'll all miss you so much by week 4 that they'll be messaging you in their droves!

#you'rewelcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men on here just use the method of "copy and paste" to mail women here and they could be sent 100 mails a day so a genuine mail can get lost in that bulk and deleted doesn't mean they don't wanna chat with you at all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I deleting msgs even not opening or some after reading...Because: * I see person never ever bothered read profile *Person readed it but didnt bother write more like I wanna f*ck, or traditiona Hi how are you.. or write long msg but its seems weird for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget say.. No I mostly don't msg back with-no thanks! Because than is another few msgs with question why..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is bill

Bill is on Fab

Bill doesn't delete without reply

Bill is not ignorant

Bill is smart

Be like Bill

?

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LL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often bulk delete because of to many messages. I don't see that as rude, I simply don't have the time to read and reply to all."

Lol that's what's happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well honestly I always delete without replying when single males message us. And if I have opened the mail, I will always mark it as unread then delete, just to piss off guys who haven't read our profile as it clearly states we aren't looking for single guys.

I couldn't be bothered type the same old "sorry, not looking for single guys" response a million times when they'd know that if they read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll retract a part of an earlier post because even though I did read the forum/message rules I don't remember the part about no reply means no which is fair enough. I also totally understand that it's a pain in the ass replying to countless blobs/blank profiles and I certainly don't have to deal with the number of mails that female members do. That said with the 2 or 3 mails I do get a year It's not a big deal for me to reply. As for building a bridge, I prefer swimming

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I have said it before and will say it again.

Sometimes you need skin like a rhino in here. And if it starts to do your head in its time to take a break for a while.

You just have to go with the flow and see what happens.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I have said it before and will say it again.

Sometimes you need skin like a rhino in here. And if it starts to do your head in its time to take a break for a while.

You just have to go with the flow and see what happens. "

You need grey skin? Ah feck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have said it before and will say it again.

Sometimes you need skin like a rhino in here. And if it starts to do your head in its time to take a break for a while.

You just have to go with the flow and see what happens.

You need grey skin? Ah feck! "

Oooiiii,don't knock people with grey skin,grey is the new tanned.

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"Well honestly I always delete without replying when single males message us. And if I have opened the mail, I will always mark it as unread then delete, just to piss off guys who haven't read our profile as it clearly states we aren't looking for single guys.

I couldn't be bothered type the same old "sorry, not looking for single guys" response a million times when they'd know that if they read our profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have said it before and will say it again.

Sometimes you need skin like a rhino in here. And if it starts to do your head in its time to take a break for a while.

You just have to go with the flow and see what happens.

You need grey skin? Ah feck!

Oooiiii,don't knock people with grey skin,grey is the new tanned."

And the new dead!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ#noreply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is bill

Bill is on Fab

Bill doesn't delete without reply

Bill is not ignorant

Bill is smart

Be like Bill

?

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LL "

This is bill

Bill is on fab

Bill takes time to read profiles and if he is not what said profile is looking for he doesn't message them

Bill is sound

Be like bill

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

10: 'hi your profile and pics are class, what to meet'

20: 'you clearly haven't read our profile'

30: 'oh i have, i have a female FB who is interested'

40: 'great, make a couples profile, get verified, get back to us'

50: 'okay. Can i see your private pics?'

60: go to 10

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I have said it before and will say it again.

Sometimes you need skin like a rhino in here. And if it starts to do your head in its time to take a break for a while.

You just have to go with the flow and see what happens.

You need grey skin? Ah feck!

Oooiiii,don't knock people with grey skin,grey is the new tanned.

And the new dead! "

The old dead, more like. It takes a while these days with embalming

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"This is bill

Bill is on Fab

Bill doesn't delete without reply

Bill is not ignorant

Bill is smart

Be like Bill

?

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/ | \

LL

This is bill

Bill is on fab

Bill takes time to read profiles and if he is not what said profile is looking for he doesn't message them

Bill is sound

Be like bill

"

This is Bill

Bill is on fab

Bill is bi

Bill has a massive cock

Fuck reading profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish Bill would fuckoff back to facebook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is bill

Bill is on Fab

Bill doesn't delete without reply

Bill is not ignorant

Bill is smart

Be like Bill

?

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/ | \

LL

This is bill

Bill is on fab

Bill takes time to read profiles and if he is not what said profile is looking for he doesn't message them

Bill is sound

Be like bill

"

You forgot bill doesn't whinge about people not replying to their mails.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish Bill would fuckoff back to facebook! "

Bill woke up this morning with a horse head in his bed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is bill

Bill is on Fab

Bill doesn't delete without reply

Bill is not ignorant

Bill is smart

Be like Bill

?

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LL "

What happened to your head?

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

yes indeedhate people we mail and the jump on our page and delete mail witout readingwud rather a polite fuck off tbhits all bout diva mentaility.i knw i wudnt turn my back ona stranger sayin hello on the street.):

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"This is bill

Bill is on Fab

Bill doesn't delete without reply

Bill is not ignorant

Bill is smart

Be like Bill

?

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LL

What happened to your head?"

I guess Bill wasn't that smart he lost his head lol

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Sorry. I'm just not going to reply to a 1 word mail with a cock pic attached (even to say no) Call me rude if you want. I call it having standards.

Ps. I also don't respond to cut n paste mails. I mean why bother, he didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id agree fully it's very rude read a mail and reply even if they said not intersted it's only manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As of now we have 253 mails too go true not a chance would we read them all we do bulk delete mails from time too time but it's hard too reply too everyone just think about op there's tons among tons of guys doing what your doing on a daily basis our inboxes get full up failry fast failry soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive accidentally opened mail by mistake..another *HI* *where you from* *how you like FAB* and more often than not the message is just an av or dick pic and profile is vapid, vauge or boring!!!. Ive also opened profiles by mistake. I Delete Unread when I want to. Ive also accidentally deleted mail I wanted to respond to. Guess what. It happens. If your getting deleted way more than read and responded...ask YOU why...not THEM. I dont internalize any BS feelings because they didnt get the response THEY wanted from me. Call it harsh, rude whatever you want. Not my sorrow. Into the fuckit bucket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

"

Longer than pressing 'delete'...

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

I do reply back fairly often apparently (checked my 'sent' mail and there's lots of replies to first messages, to my surprise), but still, most of the time it's abuntantly clear they haven't took the time to read the preferences in my profile, so it seems fair (filters can't block guys pretending to be straight from messaging me, for example).

And as has been said, lots of guys get snotty about being turned down (it's never anything personal, we don't know each other!) or ask 'why not' or 'can we still chat' etc.

Another reason is women and TVs sometimes get more messages than there's time for and replying to each one would take a chunk of time out of their day - really, nobody's contractually obligated to reply to everyone - it sucks the fun out of the site to spend most of your time here typing "sorry not interested, but thankyou" instead of enjoying everything else the site (and whatever else you'd like to do in your spare time) has to offer.

Short answer. No :P If you're not getting replies, make sure you read the profile of people you're about to message, avoid "how r u lets fuck", make sure your own profile is interesting, etc. Thousands of threads on that.

I still personally would never bulk delete unread messages though, for risk of losing a message from someone who's actually serious. Seems a bit excessive, regardless of how much mail you get. But everyone has their reasons, eh.

I've typed too much as usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who thinks its rude can thank us for sparing them the ordeal of our acquaintance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id agree fully it's very rude read a mail and reply even if they said not intersted it's only manners "

But why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well honestly I always delete without replying when single males message us. And if I have opened the mail, I will always mark it as unread then delete, just to piss off guys who haven't read our profile as it clearly states we aren't looking for single guys.

I couldn't be bothered type the same old "sorry, not looking for single guys" response a million times when they'd know that if they read our profile. "

Or you could just block single guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well honestly I always delete without replying when single males message us. And if I have opened the mail, I will always mark it as unread then delete, just to piss off guys who haven't read our profile as it clearly states we aren't looking for single guys.

I couldn't be bothered type the same old "sorry, not looking for single guys" response a million times when they'd know that if they read our profile.

Or you could just block single guys..."

Well we use Fab to keep in contact with friends we make here, plenty of which are guys. So we're not gonna block them just because other guys won't take the time to read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

"
Ah don't worry about it the majority of them probably have no confidence in the real world anyway, it builds up their self esteem in the virtual world. You should be thankful anyway they didn't reply obviously not worth it. Karma is a bitch.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Just wondering if you take the time to write a mail ... not talking about a 'what about a fuck one' but a proper well scripted one. Does anyone else think it's rude not to reply. How long does it take to say 'no thanks'

Ah don't worry about it the majority of them probably have no confidence in the real world anyway, it builds up their self esteem in the virtual world. You should be thankful anyway they didn't reply obviously not worth it. Karma is a bitch. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete without reading if they don't match criteria as if they can't be bothered reading the profile properly it doesn't show much in the way of manners either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well honestly I always delete without replying when single males message us. And if I have opened the mail, I will always mark it as unread then delete, just to piss off guys who haven't read our profile as it clearly states we aren't looking for single guys.

I couldn't be bothered type the same old "sorry, not looking for single guys" response a million times when they'd know that if they read our profile.

Or you could just block single guys...

Well we use Fab to keep in contact with friends we make here, plenty of which are guys. So we're not gonna block them just because other guys won't take the time to read our profile. "

The block doesnt apply to those youve msgd before...only those messaging you for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well honestly I always delete without replying when single males message us. And if I have opened the mail, I will always mark it as unread then delete, just to piss off guys who haven't read our profile as it clearly states we aren't looking for single guys.

I couldn't be bothered type the same old "sorry, not looking for single guys" response a million times when they'd know that if they read our profile.

Or you could just block single guys...

Well we use Fab to keep in contact with friends we make here, plenty of which are guys. So we're not gonna block them just because other guys won't take the time to read our profile. "

The 'block single guys' thing doesnt apply to your single guy friends you messaged before, so yes you can block single guys from messaging you if you dont like them messaging you

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By *olita xxWoman
over a year ago

derry


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Haha"

Brilliant

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By *leasurehunters7Couple
over a year ago

Youghal, Co. Cork


"Ye I think it's rude only takes a min to reply and it called been nice "

Open your email box and find 20 new messages a few times and it wouldn't take long before you too would learn it's a necessary rudeness, unless of course you can afford to pay someone to answer every mail.

Also the longer you are online the more mails you get which means even more work......the minutes can easily become hours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who thinks its rude can thank us for sparing them the ordeal of our acquaintance."

Same here,wouldn't want to upset any delicate wee flowers.

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By *eandmrsjones1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Is it rude to mail if the profile says "not looking for single guys"

Do you think you should still get a response even if you didn't bother reading the profile or you did read it and just mailed anyway ?

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By *leasurehunters7Couple
over a year ago

Youghal, Co. Cork


"I wish Bill would fuckoff back to facebook! "

??????????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it rude to mail if the profile says "not looking for single guys"

Do you think you should still get a response even if you didn't bother reading the profile or you did read it and just mailed anyway ?"

Rude? No, they see a crack, they'll have it open like a Pistachio in a second, you just have to try & resist the cheeky chappies.

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