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"Ok so logged in this morning to find that my profile has been changed from a female to a couples page??? Can admin do this and why??? ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh feck...... You're whole profile has been changed, except for your veri's, that says you're single.... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"They change my profile pict two days ago " Why would they do that?? | |||
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"Lol that doesn't mean I'm in a swinging couple!!!! At the minute im Looking for females. That's stated clearly in the 'looking for' section! " No.. You're profile says you're looking for single females to JOIN you and your guy. | |||
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"Ok so logged in this morning to find that my profile has been changed from a female to a couples page??? Can admin do this and why??? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Can I request them to change it bk?? ![]() | |||
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"Lol that doesn't mean I'm in a swinging couple!!!! At the minute im Looking for females. That's stated clearly in the 'looking for' section! No.. You're profile says you're looking for single females to JOIN you and your guy. " So!! I can say there that I want to meet a female to meet with me and a 'guy' doesn't imply that's an exclusive arrangement!!! | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() If a single guy had an incorrect profile just to be able to contact people he normally wouldn't be able to there would be uproar ![]() | |||
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"If you are looking to meet without your guy too then put something on your profile about that before you try and get it changed back. Admin are absolutely right. There are an annoying number of single profiles who are only looking to meet with their partners, and they are trying to them out. They get slagged for doing nothing and then get slagged again when then do. " m I'm afraid I disagree with you! It's my profile I paid a subscription, I'm verified as being a female! I don't believe I've broken any of the site rules! I'm keeping my options open! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() ![]() "People he wouldn't normally be able to contact" that's ridiculous! I'm not stopping anyone from contacting me! I'm not in a swinging couple therefore it's not a couples profile ![]() | |||
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"If you are looking to meet without your guy too then put something on your profile about that before you try and get it changed back. Admin are absolutely right. There are an annoying number of single profiles who are only looking to meet with their partners, and they are trying to them out. They get slagged for doing nothing and then get slagged again when then do. m I'm afraid I disagree with you! It's my profile I paid a subscription, I'm verified as being a female! I don't believe I've broken any of the site rules! I'm keeping my options open! ![]() ![]() But what you're failing to understand is that your profile says you are looking to meet women WITH your guy. Not alone. | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well your profile suggests other wise. Which you are completely failing to understand. Just because you paid doesn't give you the right to do what you want . Many on here understand the frustration of looking through single profiles on here to see "I don't meet alone. Only meet with xxx" etc. These are not single profiles and neither is yours going by the text you have written. Not ridiculous at all. | |||
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"If you are looking to meet without your guy too then put something on your profile about that before you try and get it changed back. Admin are absolutely right. There are an annoying number of single profiles who are only looking to meet with their partners, and they are trying to them out. They get slagged for doing nothing and then get slagged again when then do. m I'm afraid I disagree with you! It's my profile I paid a subscription, I'm verified as being a female! I don't believe I've broken any of the site rules! I'm keeping my options open! ![]() ![]() So if my text read that I wanted to meet a guy with my bi female friend then it would have to be a couples profile? I change what's written there according to my circumstances and what I'm looking for at the time! | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you are looking to meet without your guy too then put something on your profile about that before you try and get it changed back. Admin are absolutely right. There are an annoying number of single profiles who are only looking to meet with their partners, and they are trying to them out. They get slagged for doing nothing and then get slagged again when then do. m I'm afraid I disagree with you! It's my profile I paid a subscription, I'm verified as being a female! I don't believe I've broken any of the site rules! I'm keeping my options open! ![]() ![]() Lol yes!! That would be a FF couple profile!! Lol | |||
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"Ok so logged in this morning to find that my profile has been changed from a female to a couples page??? Can admin do this and why??? ![]() ![]() ![]() Well at least you are still Female! ![]() | |||
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"If you are looking to meet without your guy too then put something on your profile about that before you try and get it changed back. Admin are absolutely right. There are an annoying number of single profiles who are only looking to meet with their partners, and they are trying to them out. They get slagged for doing nothing and then get slagged again when then do. m I'm afraid I disagree with you! It's my profile I paid a subscription, I'm verified as being a female! I don't believe I've broken any of the site rules! I'm keeping my options open! ![]() ![]() There you go! Should I put 'facetious bitch' in the title too? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No point arguing over it. As the others have said your profile reads as a couple. Someone has reported this and administration must have agreed with them hence the change. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lots of profiles have random crap and song lyrics and poems and no mention of intentions or what they'd like! I don't complain that they don't give me the information I'm looking! No one has contacted me complaining that my profile was misleading?? So why change it? ![]() | |||
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"Jaysus it's a good job I told the wife at Xmas we were on here, for some reason I got a message last Friday saying that we were given a 24hour time out. " ... and a one match ban?? ![]() | |||
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"Jaysus it's a good job I told the wife at Xmas we were on here, for some reason I got a message last Friday saying that we were given a 24hour time out. ... and a one match ban?? ![]() Yeah, pity they wouldn't tell me what I did wrong, | |||
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"Jaysus it's a good job I told the wife at Xmas we were on here, for some reason I got a message last Friday saying that we were given a 24hour time out. ... and a one match ban?? ![]() Oh probably some grump with no sense of humour reported you for something trivial... ![]() | |||
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"Some people have 2 profiles, a single one for single meets and a couple one when they meet together. Maybe you should look into that option. With your profile text it clearly reads as a couple profile." This. | |||
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"Some people have 2 profiles, a single one for single meets and a couple one when they meet together. Maybe you should look into that option. With your profile text it clearly reads as a couple profile." Lots of single female profiles that mention they want to meet with their male friend and they've not been changed to a couples profile. I don't want a couples profile (as I'm not in a 'swinging couple') but thanks for suggestion | |||
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"Some people have 2 profiles, a single one for single meets and a couple one when they meet together. Maybe you should look into that option. With your profile text it clearly reads as a couple profile. This." Even now? | |||
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"Some people have 2 profiles, a single one for single meets and a couple one when they meet together. Maybe you should look into that option. With your profile text it clearly reads as a couple profile. This. Even now? " no, not now. | |||
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"Ok so logged in this morning to find that my profile has been changed from a female to a couples page??? Can admin do this and why??? ![]() ![]() ![]() If your profile read as a couples profile yes admin can change it. Why? Its their site, their rules. If a profile reads as a couple they shall change it. If it reads as a single male or female they will change. You paying site support doesn't change the rules of the site. Tomcat | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() That's the very reason why so many masquerade as a single woman because they wouldn't get as much attention if as a couple. It's right that it's cleaned up and profilers are honest about it. If you're single but have a fb or 3 then that's different. As someone said earlier...change your profile to be clear about your singleness and then get back to fab police about it. | |||
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" Lots of single female profiles that mention they want to meet with their male friend and they've not been changed to a couples profile. " Had a single-female-profile-turned-into-couple-profile messaging me last week. 'she' offered me to meet her bf, promising 'endless' sex. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Some people have 2 profiles, a single one for single meets and a couple one when they meet together. Maybe you should look into that option. With your profile text it clearly reads as a couple profile. This. Even now? " Yah. Still does. Now apoears as a lady with a silent partner. ![]() | |||
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"Some people have 2 profiles, a single one for single meets and a couple one when they meet together. Maybe you should look into that option. With your profile text it clearly reads as a couple profile. This. Even now? Yah. Still does. Now apoears as a lady with a silent partner. ![]() Or her tongue cut out ![]() | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() I totally understand that but I have 6 verifications (that were displayed) that verify I am female not a man pretending! | |||
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"Ok so logged in this morning to find that my profile has been changed from a female to a couples page??? Can admin do this and why??? ![]() ![]() ![]() To be fair there wasn't much to read to draw that conclusion and it changes regularly ![]() | |||
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"Funny we got 24HR tine out a few days ago for no apparent reason is it possible someone has accessed the site from outside ? Or is someone in admin up to mischief ![]() ![]() You might not have been reported... | |||
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"Would have been courteous if they'd messaged me and asked did I want it changed to a couples profile or give me the option of rewording my profile! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Fair play to admin I say. So annoying checking 'single' profiles and seeing 'will only meet with my partner/fb/husband or will not meet alone. If I wanted to meet with a woman and her partner/fb/husband I'd check 'couples profiles' So I agree with admin that it should be a couples profile. If people are asking to meet occasionally with partner/fb/husband etc but do meet alone then they should have the right to remain a singles profile." I do and have met on my own that's why it's not a couples profile ![]() | |||
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"Fair play to admin I say. So annoying checking 'single' profiles and seeing 'will only meet with my partner/fb/husband or will not meet alone. If I wanted to meet with a woman and her partner/fb/husband I'd check 'couples profiles' So I agree with admin that it should be a couples profile. If people are asking to meet occasionally with partner/fb/husband etc but do meet alone then they should have the right to remain a singles profile. I do and have met on my own that's why it's not a couples profile ![]() If you stated on your profile 'you do meet alone' then I agree you should have the right to keep it a single profile. | |||
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"Fair play to admin I say. So annoying checking 'single' profiles and seeing 'will only meet with my partner/fb/husband or will not meet alone. If I wanted to meet with a woman and her partner/fb/husband I'd check 'couples profiles' So I agree with admin that it should be a couples profile. If people are asking to meet occasionally with partner/fb/husband etc but do meet alone then they should have the right to remain a singles profile. I do and have met on my own that's why it's not a couples profile ![]() Yes but it didn't say that on your profile earlier. It said you were looking for a girl for the two of ye | |||
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"Fair play to admin I say. So annoying checking 'single' profiles and seeing 'will only meet with my partner/fb/husband or will not meet alone. If I wanted to meet with a woman and her partner/fb/husband I'd check 'couples profiles' So I agree with admin that it should be a couples profile. If people are asking to meet occasionally with partner/fb/husband etc but do meet alone then they should have the right to remain a singles profile. I do and have met on my own that's why it's not a couples profile ![]() Yes it did and next week it might say looking to meet a fem on my own or a couple. Variety is the spice of life! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you are only looking to meet people with your partner then keep the couples profile and fill it in properly. If you are sometimes looking to meet people with your partner and sometimes on your own, then keep the couples profile, fill it in, and create a new single fem profile for your 1 to 1 meets. .. That's what I'd do anyway " Surely I'd keep this profile with veri's etc and if I wanted to id create a new couples profile? | |||
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"Happened me before and for same reason if you explain to admin your verifications were for single women meets and take off the sentence saying your looking for women to meet with your guy they will change it back. You just have to show you actually meet on your own ![]() Thanks. my veri's did show that though | |||
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"Happened me before and for same reason if you explain to admin your verifications were for single women meets and take off the sentence saying your looking for women to meet with your guy they will change it back. You just have to show you actually meet on your own ![]() so did mine you may contact them reassure them your not a couple | |||
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"Happened me before and for same reason if you explain to admin your verifications were for single women meets and take off the sentence saying your looking for women to meet with your guy they will change it back. You just have to show you actually meet on your own ![]() I have done thanks x just a disgruntled guy who can't take no for an answer! ![]() | |||
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"Funny we got 24HR tine out a few days ago for no apparent reason is it possible someone has accessed the site from outside ? Or is someone in admin up to mischief ![]() ![]() They are called the super sleuth brigade, when getting no action they pounce on subjects like this ![]() | |||
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" Yes but it didn't say that on your profile earlier. It said you were looking for a girl for the two of ye Yes it did and next week it might say looking to meet a fem on my own or a couple. Variety is the spice of life! ![]() ![]() Okay. It doesn't bother me so stop rolling your eyes. And if your profile changes that much why not explain in your profile text? | |||
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"They are called the super sleuth brigade, when getting no action they pounce on subjects like this ![]() Well said!! Some sad guys out there! | |||
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" Yes but it didn't say that on your profile earlier. It said you were looking for a girl for the two of ye Yes it did and next week it might say looking to meet a fem on my own or a couple. Variety is the spice of life! ![]() ![]() Lol I wasn't rolling my eyes at you! More just at the fact that some guy thought it important enough to bother reporting me in the first place. (Not rolling eyes) ![]() | |||
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"Too lazy read all thread comment, but someone said there is plenty single girl profiles who actually sound like couple.. yes I agree with it! And some is not that they might meet as couple sometimes,but that they meet ONLY as couple.. don't understand why these ''single'' women not set up couple profile straight away :/ " They probably had a couples profile before and found couples don't get nearly as much interest as single wmen | |||
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"Too lazy read all thread comment, but someone said there is plenty single girl profiles who actually sound like couple.. yes I agree with it! And some is not that they might meet as couple sometimes,but that they meet ONLY as couple.. don't understand why these ''single'' women not set up couple profile straight away :/ They probably had a couples profile before and found couples don't get nearly as much interest as single wmen" Not all of them..some is pretty new profiles and says first time so be kind blah blah.. | |||
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"Too lazy read all thread comment, but someone said there is plenty single girl profiles who actually sound like couple.. yes I agree with it! And some is not that they might meet as couple sometimes,but that they meet ONLY as couple.. don't understand why these ''single'' women not set up couple profile straight away :/ They probably had a couples profile before and found couples don't get nearly as much interest as single wmen" You'd think! But since my profile has changed today to a couples profile I'm getting twice as many messages, fabs, winks and views? Go figure! (promise I'm not rolling my eyes) ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Too lazy read all thread comment, but someone said there is plenty single girl profiles who actually sound like couple.. yes I agree with it! And some is not that they might meet as couple sometimes,but that they meet ONLY as couple.. don't understand why these ''single'' women not set up couple profile straight away :/ They probably had a couples profile before and found couples don't get nearly as much interest as single wmen You'd think! But since my profile has changed today to a couples profile I'm getting twice as many messages, fabs, winks and views? Go figure! (promise I'm not rolling my eyes) ![]() ![]() That blows my theory then lol | |||
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"Personally I think if you only meet as a couple then a iuple profile is in order. If you meet as a single but have someone who you occasionally invite to your meets then a singles profile is fine. A lot of people here seem to think that only fully single people can have singles profile. I think the distinction is that if you meet as a couple always then you shouldn't have a singles profile. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Have you contacted admin? What did they say?" Yes I contacted them yesterday and they replied that I'd been reported for only meeting as a couple and if I could prove I was a single female then it could be changed back. I did this including veri's but no word yet. | |||
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"Have you contacted admin? What did they say? Yes I contacted them yesterday and they replied that I'd been reported for only meeting as a couple and if I could prove I was a single female then it could be changed back. I did this including veri's but no word yet. " Wow! Being very proactive aren't they. So they've left the ball in your court, I would have expected to hear from admin BEFORE the change but nothing? Just changed. | |||
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"Have you contacted admin? What did they say? Yes I contacted them yesterday and they replied that I'd been reported for only meeting as a couple and if I could prove I was a single female then it could be changed back. I did this including veri's but no word yet. Wow! Being very proactive aren't they. So they've left the ball in your court, I would have expected to hear from admin BEFORE the change but nothing? Just changed." Yes! Didn't even message to ask if it was a couple and could they change it. Just changed it. Apparently I have to state in my blurb that I "meet females/couples on my own and sometimes have a partner that I play with" which I think is very unfair of them to request! I'm not trying to hide anything but I hate being told what I HAVE to do! (Which is very unusual for a sub ![]() | |||
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"It's complete bollox, you pay for the site, you should be able to use it as you see fit. Not to mention the double standards.. I state on my profile that I'm only meeting alongside the missus, don't see them rushing to change me to a couple. You should have the option to have a playmate, instead of admin making it obligatory that you both play together. How we view us is down to us, not admin" Lots of single female profiles say "won't meet alone"! What's the difference in me saying "meeting with my sexy guy"?? Double standards is right!! | |||
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"It's complete bollox, you pay for the site, you should be able to use it as you see fit. Not to mention the double standards.. I state on my profile that I'm only meeting alongside the missus, don't see them rushing to change me to a couple. You should have the option to have a playmate, instead of admin making it obligatory that you both play together. How we view us is down to us, not admin Lots of single female profiles say "won't meet alone"! What's the difference in me saying "meeting with my sexy guy"?? Double standards is right!! " Your right there is loads of single profiles that state don't meet alone. If you do meet alone don't state meeting with a guy on your profile and contact admin. | |||
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"It's complete bollox, you pay for the site, you should be able to use it as you see fit. Not to mention the double standards.. I state on my profile that I'm only meeting alongside the missus, don't see them rushing to change me to a couple. You should have the option to have a playmate, instead of admin making it obligatory that you both play together. How we view us is down to us, not admin Lots of single female profiles say "won't meet alone"! What's the difference in me saying "meeting with my sexy guy"?? Double standards is right!! Your right there is loads of single profiles that state don't meet alone. If you do meet alone don't state meeting with a guy on your profile and contact admin." Have done that, thanks x | |||
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"It's complete bollox, you pay for the site, you should be able to use it as you see fit. Not to mention the double standards.. I state on my profile that I'm only meeting alongside the missus, don't see them rushing to change me to a couple. You should have the option to have a playmate, instead of admin making it obligatory that you both play together. How we view us is down to us, not admin" Ah Jimmy, you just need to piss someone off so they report you... ![]() | |||
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"It's complete bollox, you pay for the site, you should be able to use it as you see fit. Not to mention the double standards.. I state on my profile that I'm only meeting alongside the missus, don't see them rushing to change me to a couple. You should have the option to have a playmate, instead of admin making it obligatory that you both play together. How we view us is down to us, not admin Ah Jimmy, you just need to piss someone off so they report you... ![]() Obviously I did! ![]() | |||
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"Ok so logged in this morning to find that my profile has been changed from a female to a couples page??? Can admin do this and why??? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You can but if you are playing as a couple you have the right profile. You can ask though from the CONTACT button. | |||
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