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By *-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Kark

Not the poo type, or the fly-tipping type, or the price dropping type but the getting "dumped" by someone type!

This kind of happened to me recently, if you can even call it being dumped. Got a number of a girl, sent a few texts, went on a couple of dates and things got no further than kissing. I got a call saying she felt no chemistry and to be fair that's true, I felt no chemistry either, we gave it a shot and its just one of those things, so alls good.

But I was pleasantly surprised I got a phone call and not a text, I appreciate she took the time and courage needed to actually make the call, it was the most pleasant way I've ever been dumped, I actually smiled afterwards and thought "What a great woman!"

So what's the best way you've dumped someone or vice verse, or the worst?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever been dumped !! Don't think I'd take it so good

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By *-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Kark


"I don't think I've ever been dumped !! Don't think I'd take it so good

"

It's all new to me too, think it's the 3rd time ever in my life it's happened, neither of us were invested so it wasn't hard to take tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one break up and it was a mutual agreement that things had run their course ahhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always the instigator here, if I get past date 1 I don't get dumped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was *ghosted* once. Nt very nice at all considering we had mutual friends. We hooked up twice and then we had plans for a 3rd time and he just stopped responding to messages. just *ghosted* me was very akward experience. no closure. my mate told me after he was wanker and wished she told me before hand. Took me a while to realize it wasn't me. he was just a coward.

Nice that she could just be right upfront with you and not take the easy way out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A call? Even that's too impersonal. Has to be done face to face if you ask me.

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By *-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Kark


"Only had one break up and it was a mutual agreement that things had run their course ahhhhhhh "

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!

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By *-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Kark


"I was *ghosted* once. Nt very nice at all considering we had mutual friends. We hooked up twice and then we had plans for a 3rd time and he just stopped responding to messages. just *ghosted* me was very akward experience. no closure. my mate told me after he was wanker and wished she told me before hand. Took me a while to realize it wasn't me. he was just a coward.

Nice that she could just be right upfront with you and not take the easy way out "

Fuck that's just low, some people are so selfish and windy, I couldn't do that to anyone

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By *-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Kark


"A call? Even that's too impersonal. Has to be done face to face if you ask me."

If we were a little more involved I'd expect a face to face but we weren't, so I'm cool with a call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After five years, I got an email

Then told he was moving on with the intention of seeking a new partner

Sad man.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After five years, I got an email

Then told he was moving on with the intention of seeking a new partner

Sad man......."

That's a real shite way...no backbone there. The least is a face to face talk after that time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't a dump as such but a mutaul parting of ways as things had started to change for both of us. We still keep in touch but purely as friends. There had been alot shared and still are good friends. So not that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a teen my then bf said I'm not sure if things are working out ... I said why what's up ? , he said .... Well I've cheated on you every weekend since I got with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in my way twenties and a girl I had been seeing on and off for about four years, the last year exclusively.

One Friday afternoon one of my best and closest friends who was attached at the time said my gf had text him asking if he was willing to meet up being his gfs back and mine. Have to say I was pretty gutted as I treated her pretty well. Anyway he kept this going after telling me and agreed to meet her in citywest hotel for a meal and maybe more.

Thing is when she walked into the restaurant I was sitting at the table with him enjoying a steak dinner . I was still devastated but the look on her face almost made is worth the grief. She lost all her friends and our larger circle because of it. Oh well, that's the risk she took

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a teen my then bf said I'm not sure if things are working out ... I said why what's up ? , he said .... Well I've cheated on you every weekend since I got with you "

Hahahaha jaysus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a teen my then bf said I'm not sure if things are working out ... I said why what's up ? , he said .... Well I've cheated on you every weekend since I got with you

Hahahaha jaysus"

I know mad thing is we are great "friends" now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friend zoning has to be the worst thing when you really fancy the hole off someone, we've all had it I'm sure.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I was in my way twenties and a girl I had been seeing on and off for about four years, the last year exclusively.

One Friday afternoon one of my best and closest friends who was attached at the time said my gf had text him asking if he was willing to meet up being his gfs back and mine. Have to say I was pretty gutted as I treated her pretty well. Anyway he kept this going after telling me and agreed to meet her in citywest hotel for a meal and maybe more.

Thing is when she walked into the restaurant I was sitting at the table with him enjoying a steak dinner . I was still devastated but the look on her face almost made is worth the grief. She lost all her friends and our larger circle because of it. Oh well, that's the risk she took "

Ohhhh my!!!!.....id faint on the spot!!! ...I can imagine how hurt you were but your friend was decent enough to tell you so fair play to him. As for her,what a devious bitch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in my way twenties and a girl I had been seeing on and off for about four years, the last year exclusively.

One Friday afternoon one of my best and closest friends who was attached at the time said my gf had text him asking if he was willing to meet up being his gfs back and mine. Have to say I was pretty gutted as I treated her pretty well. Anyway he kept this going after telling me and agreed to meet her in citywest hotel for a meal and maybe more.

Thing is when she walked into the restaurant I was sitting at the table with him enjoying a steak dinner . I was still devastated but the look on her face almost made is worth the grief. She lost all her friends and our larger circle because of it. Oh well, that's the risk she took

Ohhhh my!!!!.....id faint on the spot!!! ...I can imagine how hurt you were but your friend was decent enough to tell you so fair play to him. As for her,what a devious bitch!! "

I never did get a reason why and I'm not the sort to take rejection badly. If she had just told me I would have said cool spuds,no bother let's just move on. One of life's little lessons

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