FabSwingers.com forum: Once bitten ....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not turning up after planning via numerous medsaging ect is simply cowardly!!!

Do not ley him dictate hoe you enjoy Fab...

Consider him.a numpty of the highest order

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not turning up after planning via numerous medsaging ect is simply cowardly!!!

Do not ley him dictate hoe you enjoy Fab...

Consider him.a numpty of the highest order

Thanks , its just a shame that a few people can ruin the site for others and verified too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like maybe he bit ofmore than he could chew perhaps .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

We had this happen too. He had even met kitty for coffee. He bailed last minute. We against our better judgement gave him another chance. Bailed the week before. He deleted came back met another couple. Had the brass neck to mail us again we told him where to go. Guess the moral of the story is don't let others ruin fab for you if they haven't got the stones to meet people

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

Tomcat"

Omg some people have some cheek

Last msg we got was to say he was on d way so when he didn't turn up I stupidly thought something had happened ... Until he posted looking for a meet on here few days later

So obviously me he didn't want but its only polite to even msg to say so .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

Tomcat

Omg some people have some cheek

Last msg we got was to say he was on d way so when he didn't turn up I stupidly thought something had happened ... Until he posted looking for a meet on here few days later

So obviously me he didn't want but its only polite to even msg to say so . "

Ignorance to say the least. If he had an excuse or something fair enough but to not even message to call it off? Ignorance of the highest degree

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person must be an idiot.simple as. All mouth and no trousers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He's probably reading this now

Ah well

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

Don't fret Mr mojo is around here somewhere he be in soon, as for ur confidence I'd give it a wack anytime he's a ignorant ass to say his on the way and then not turn up I hope he was reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cheek, big loss on his part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

Don't fret Mr mojo is around here somewhere he be in soon, as for ur confidence I'd give it a wack anytime he's a ignorant ass to say his on the way and then not turn up I hope he was reported "

Lol cj whack away

No I never even thought to report ?? Wanted to name but thought I'd just look like d bad one so didn't bother

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By *wingpeterMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Really bad form.his loss.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

Don't fret Mr mojo is around here somewhere he be in soon, as for ur confidence I'd give it a wack anytime he's a ignorant ass to say his on the way and then not turn up I hope he was reported

Lol cj whack away

No I never even thought to report ?? Wanted to name but thought I'd just look like d bad one so didn't bother "

If he's doing it to others and enough reports go in he get a warning while nothing worse than a slap on the hard from an anonymous administration of a Web site he might think for a second before he does it again causing upset to others

As for the wack away I'll see u in the toilets of kildare village third cubicle from the end be bent over and ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

Don't fret Mr mojo is around here somewhere he be in soon, as for ur confidence I'd give it a wack anytime he's a ignorant ass to say his on the way and then not turn up I hope he was reported

Lol cj whack away

No I never even thought to report ?? Wanted to name but thought I'd just look like d bad one so didn't bother

As for the wack away I'll see u in the toilets of kildare village third cubicle from the end be bent over and ready

Yes sir

You better be there !!!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

As for the wack away I'll see u in the toilets of kildare village third cubicle from the end be bent over and ready

Yes sir

You better be there !!! "

Pmsi u know I will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why the sad face cj haha

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Why the sad face cj haha

Fook that was a happy slappy face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why the sad face cj haha

Fook that was a happy slappy face

Don't worry I'll have a smile on your face in no time , meet ya there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd put that down to his stupidity anyone that knows you know your a lovely couple. Men on fab need to remember any woman can replace them in the blink of an eye. If one isn't up to the task there's always another 5 ready to step into his shoes. Chin up gal xx

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

If a guy posted saying he lost his mojo after someone didn't turn up he'd be told to grow a pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy posted saying he lost his mojo after someone didn't turn up he'd be told to grow a pair"

Well maybe some women are more sensitive to these things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy posted saying he lost his mojo after someone didn't turn up he'd be told to grow a pair"

Not always true ! I'd never say anything like that and tbh I've seen plenty of forums posted by men and there has been plenty of pleasant comments posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be obliged if OP and Tomcat if you'd pm me your no shows.

I'll add them to my NOTlist!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's becoming more common than it used to be OP wouldn't take it personnel you probably had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sent yolo & peachy think your right ,hearing about it a lot lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be obliged if OP and Tomcat if you'd pm me your no shows.

I'll add them to my NOTlist!! "

Apologies yolo but he's no longer on site. That and we prefer not to name and shame. Apologies again

Tomcat

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Yeah op tell me too. I hate people playing games

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

There are plenty of people who don't show... Couples included from my experience recently...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are plenty of people who don't show... Couples included from my experience recently... "

I'm sure there are plenty guilty of it , actually the male that didn't show is part of couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be obliged if OP and Tomcat if you'd pm me your no shows.

I'll add them to my NOTlist!!

Apologies yolo but he's no longer on site. That and we prefer not to name and shame. Apologies again

Tomcat "

No worries Tomcat xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks it happens regularly here but you just get on with it. Its there loss and you should just arrange you next meets and have fun...

Worse one for me was in Ireland...I was sitting in Dublin hotel when Cpl I was due to meet called me and asked if I could drive out to them in Ballbriggan and gave me point to meet at but when I got there and waited 20mins of so with no answer to their phone I returned to Dublin....Went online and seen them in chatroom so gave them dogs abused and told all in room they were timewasters. They left site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So just before Xmas we had someone who , after messaging for weeks and weeks , didn't turn up for arranged meet with no explanation nothing and still hasn't been in touch

That's fine his loss but what I've found is the aul confidence got a good whack because of it and I now am questioning and double thinking every message and invite we get

Surely my faith will be restored in you lovely Fab people ?! Mojo is well and truly AWOL

First off my God absolutely fabulous profile and the pictures are just stunning. Sorry to see that yer trust by betrayed like that.don't let people like that get you down there really not worth your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd put that down to his stupidity anyone that knows you know your a lovely couple. Men on fab need to remember any woman can replace them in the blink of an eye. If one isn't up to the task there's always another 5 ready to step into his shoes. Chin up gal xx"

Ya,see...this is where ppl are goin wrong..there aren't actually as many reliable guys as posts like this infer..its tricky enough...so best advice is do your homework and pick one of the good ones..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Ya,see...this is where ppl are goin wrong..there aren't actually as many reliable guys as posts like this infer..its tricky enough...so best advice is do your homework and pick one of the good ones.."

I'd agree with u there xxp I had a convo with a fem here no so long ago we were chatting about getting last min late night meets. when she put up a status looking for one within ten mins she had 25 mails from males I wonder if we went to the next step and sent them a point to meet how many would have turned up not that we do it without being willing to carry on from that but I just wonder it seems there are lots that like the chase but can't play the endgame

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ya,see...this is where ppl are goin wrong..there aren't actually as many reliable guys as posts like this infer..its tricky enough...so best advice is do your homework and pick one of the good ones..

Tend to agree , its not just males tho , its fems & couples too but then I suppose its to be expected when all first contact is behind a screen !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well..from what we all hear..not very many...the Increased proliferation of no shows may not just be co-incidental with the fact that very few couples post meets anymore..its almost always last minute status meets!!

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

males dont show sometimes.

Females dont show sometimes.

Couples dont show sometimes.

Sadly its life in here and you have to just get on with it and start again.

Somethings are just not ment to be sadly so i wouldnt take it personally. There are a million reasons why someone might get cold feet but basic manners would mean they would contact you to say why they didnt show.

Hopefully you can find your mojo again and kick on to the next level.

Everything happens for a reason but sometimes we just dont know what the reason is.

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By *illytullMan
over a year ago

Anywhere I travel a lot

I know and have met this couple. And know it took a bit out of Sarah at the time. But just let me put this out there. As I said I have met Sarah and John and quite sure I will again, have some contact with them every day. You will not meet a nicer couple on Fab, quite, charming and respectful. Well that's till they get you alone then the turn into sexy, exciting and down right naughty. This guy missed a chance to get his mind blown away. Sarah is sex on legs and still remember the wow moment when we last met and she walked out of the Bathroom and what she was wearing. No bull shit just fun with this couple. Till next time, keep Fabbing

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