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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your partner is unaware then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

"

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be more like live porn as you're not actually touching the person or emotionally involved.

Good question tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?"

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?"

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images"

But he needs to hide it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images"

Is not watching a cam the same thing but in real time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will have people using technicalities to excuse their actions all the time e.g. a blowjob is not cheating.

Bottom line, if you wouldn't tell your partner about it, you have to ask yourself why...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

But he needs to hide it "

Then his partner has insecurity issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

Is not watching a cam the same thing but in real time "

It's slightly different alright to be fair

I'd imagine you'd have to talk to the other person and interact with them on cam

Whereas porn you have no interaction and it's only a video clip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

Is not watching a cam the same thing but in real time

It's slightly different alright to be fair

I'd imagine you'd have to talk to the other person and interact with them on cam

Whereas porn you have no interaction and it's only a video clip "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will get all manner of views here, ultimately there is only one person whose opinion on your actions matters....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

Is not watching a cam the same thing but in real time

It's slightly different alright to be fair

I'd imagine you'd have to talk to the other person and interact with them on cam

Whereas porn you have no interaction and it's only a video clip "

Point taken I was thinking of a person lurking rather than directing or being directed

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"You will get all manner of views here, ultimately there is only one person whose opinion on your actions matters...."

We agree on something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will get all manner of views here, ultimately there is only one person whose opinion on your actions matters....

We agree on something "

And would you agree that said person is entitled to honesty?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha use are all deadly thank u all for ur opinions ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

Is not watching a cam the same thing but in real time

It's slightly different alright to be fair

I'd imagine you'd have to talk to the other person and interact with them on cam

Whereas porn you have no interaction and it's only a video clip

Point taken I was thinking of a person lurking rather than directing or being directed "

So just viewing cam rooms ?

Not interacting with anyone?

Surely that's just watching live porn then

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?

I know some females that consider that if their partners even watch porn that they are cheating on them.

Would u consider that cheating just because one decides to watch porn without the other consent?

Porn is not interaction with another human, its watching 3d images

Is not watching a cam the same thing but in real time

It's slightly different alright to be fair

I'd imagine you'd have to talk to the other person and interact with them on cam

Whereas porn you have no interaction and it's only a video clip

Point taken I was thinking of a person lurking rather than directing or being directed

So just viewing cam rooms ?

Not interacting with anyone?

Surely that's just watching live porn then"

Yes, you're grand there, just wash your hands after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha use are all deadly thank u all for ur opinions ?? "

No1 - Beginning a post with "Ha ha" for absolutely no reason.

No2 - Using "use" in completely the wrong way. "You's" might be OK at a push.

No3 - Ending with a "??" when there isn't a question.

That is all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not interested in meeting just cam of fhone its just a thing I have about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, but, but baby! They said it wasn't cheating, please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha use are all deadly thank u all for ur opinions ??

No1 - Beginning a post with "Ha ha" for absolutely no reason.

No2 - Using "use" in completely the wrong way. "You's" might be OK at a push.

No3 - Ending with a "??" when there isn't a question.

That is all.

"

Think the question mark thingy is an iPhone emoticon that doesn't show on here.

As for the rest, doesn't much matter. I think we all understood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I feel like I'm logging on to a Catholic Church website...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some days I feel like I'm logging on to a Catholic Church website... "

Integrity is hardly a religious concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not interested in meeting just cam of fhone its just a thing I have about them "

Im not talking about meeting I'm talking about act sully talking to the other person u want to cam with

That kind of interaction.

It's phone sex with two people who have and are chatting to each other behind their partners back. That's cheating.

If it's you going into some random porn site and clicking on a live cam and having a wank to it and then turning it off

That is surely not cheating

That's just watching porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself if your partner would consider it cheating if they knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie...."

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

"

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner...."

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer "

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Some days I feel like I'm logging on to a Catholic Church website... "

Really? Some days I think it's a crèche.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some days I feel like I'm logging on to a Catholic Church website...

Really? Some days I think it's a crèche."

Is it time for another bbw thread already?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose"

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some days I feel like I'm logging on to a Catholic Church website...

Really? Some days I think it's a crèche."

Sunday school chèche...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

"

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you."

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept..."

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

"

I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

"

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy "

So you're judging me as judgemental....

Too frickin funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy

So you're judging me as judgemental....

Too frickin funny"

Your not a person who interest me and it's plain for everyone to see where your judgements lie...

Take care...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy

So you're judging me as judgemental....

Too frickin funny

Your not a person who interest me and it's plain for everyone to see where your judgements lie...

Take care..."

That'll be the honesty, you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn many of use think that playing on cam with someone is classed as cheating

If you feel the need to hide it from your partner what else would you call it?"

Having to hide something because you don't want the other to find out is cheating...If you're looking for support or a reason to placate your mind and actions then you also know it's cheating. Sounds like a little uncomfortable activity going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy

So you're judging me as judgemental....

Too frickin funny

Your not a person who interest me and it's plain for everyone to see where your judgements lie...

Take care...

That'll be the honesty, you see"

Well I'm not here to judge your honesty no more than your capable of judging mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy

So you're judging me as judgemental....

Too frickin funny

Your not a person who interest me and it's plain for everyone to see where your judgements lie...

Take care...

That'll be the honesty, you see

Well I'm not here to judge your honesty no more than your capable of judging mine "

Since we're not friends I don't care, that's the beauty of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting that you describe yourself as loyal and honest on your profile Annie....

Yes...To people I choose to have as friends or people I meet...

Yes, and some see honesty as a desireable attribute in a life partner....

Awwh...Thanks Casey but I just don't see you in that light.....

But thanks for the offer

Nah, afraid I see integrity as an intrinsic quality, not something you pick and choose

Well then even yours in in question as your having sex with men that aren't your partner and he's obviously having sex with other people too...

Is that not pick and choosing?

In everyday life you being on a swingers site is shocking to the ordinary Joe,so judge your own integrity before you judge anyone else's!

I merely made the point to the OP that the only person whose opinion matters is his partners. I'm sorry if the concept of trust and integrity in intimate relationships is somehow uncomfortable for you.

On the contrary...

But you said you see integrity as a intrinsic quality not something you pick and choose yet integrity in peoole also means principles,ethics,decency morality as well as truthfulness...

You being on a swingers site I think means you may not be ticking all these boxes yourself...

Ie..pick and choosing!

I'm sorry if you misunderstood my concept...

Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

However, I doubt our paths will ever cross outside this forum so I won't lose too much sleep over your principles.

Nor I yours,nor would you ever be a person of interest to me,I prefer my friends and playmates to be less judgemental,enjoy

So you're judging me as judgemental....

Too frickin funny

Your not a person who interest me and it's plain for everyone to see where your judgements lie...

Take care...

That'll be the honesty, you see

Well I'm not here to judge your honesty no more than your capable of judging mine

Since we're not friends I don't care, that's the beauty of it."

And we never will be

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over a year ago


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Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

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That's a contradiction in terms. In this case it's only moral for you not based upon anything concrete and can change with feelings, yet it effects other people... Morality isn't subjective at all...If so it has no basis other than change as and when it suits. There is no constant and therefore no guide and therefore of little value to anyone else other than yourself. However if it is objective as it's not about yourself but more about others and becomes a guide for community and society that you're involved in. Who am I to know anyway just my thoughts.

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over a year ago


"Some days I feel like I'm logging on to a Catholic Church website...

Integrity is hardly a religious concept."

What is your view on the use of people using pornograhic mags to jack off behind their partners back.

Or calling sex lines to chat to women or men about sex?

Is this cheating?

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Morality is subjective. I act on the principle of not doing harm to others. Doesn't seem to me like too difficult a concept.

That's a contradiction in terms. In this case it's only moral for you not based upon anything concrete and can change with feelings, yet it effects other people... Morality isn't subjective at all...If so it has no basis other than change as and when it suits. There is no constant and therefore no guide and therefore of little value to anyone else other than yourself. However if it is objective as it's not about yourself but more about others and becomes a guide for community and society that you're involved in. Who am I to know

anyway just my thoughts. "

Of course morality is subjective. It's open to interpretation from person to person and situation to situation. Most people make moral judgements daily and uses their own personal experience to do the best they can. Noone can see inside your head and know why people make the decisions they do.

I'd be interested to hear what concrete things morals should be based upon in your opinion. Religion? Law? Political teaching? Something else?

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