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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

I enjoy Fab, the socials, my meets but especially the fabulous ppl.

In regards to the online fabbing experience, there's the forums which I love reading for the banter & general fun. I have noticed the negative that runs thru it, whether it's trolls trying to stir things up or ppl airing their dirty (not naughty)laundry or just ppl complaining of the way they get ignored/ not getting meets & blaming it on not getting a chance or wondering what their doing wrong. Then there's private messages, the majority of mine are negative ones.

So I'm gonna try for a wee while to change my approach to online fabbing. Il redo my profile later to a more positive one, will try to have less do's & dont's & see what happens. A positive output can only bring good things yeah?? We'll see.

Happy Fabbing everyone, be good, be nice & behave (suppose that's ironic for a swinging site where we want naughtiness).

You live only once so love life xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

The power of positivity rocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent post!

I can feel the love already!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive vibes only!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good women

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Love this, I've knocked around forums on and off for years and there's always an undercurrent of negativity about most, so I view forums as a tool, and if you use them correctly they can add, in a positive way, to your life.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Nice touch missus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a profile like that it's sure to brighten up this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree op...that is..you should rewrite..lol..

..i often read profiles and wonder what possessed ppl writing them...then again..my own us far from a literary masterpiece..

..but negativity gets everywhere...stamp it out at source..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a profile full of what I call 'angry bird' rules very offsetting.

Here's to positive pollys in 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constructive positive criticism... It needs a rewrite...it reads as me me me, I want I want I want plus the use of text speak is lazy.

You have some nice pics

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By *ony_cluedoMan
over a year ago

Belfast

And can you feel the love tonight?

It is where we are.

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D


"Constructive positive criticism... It needs a rewrite...it reads as me me me, I want I want I want plus the use of text speak is lazy.

You have some nice pics "

I will take that as positive criticism but will defend myself as it is MY profile so if it was 'me me me & I want want want' then so be it as I respect others want & needs on their profile. Thanks for compliment tho.

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

Profile updated & hopefully more friendlier & positive.

Let's all think before we speak/type & make the Fabbing experience a positive one xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy Fab, the socials, my meets but especially the fabulous ppl.

In regards to the online fabbing experience, there's the forums which I love reading for the banter & general fun. I have noticed the negative that runs thru it, whether it's trolls trying to stir things up or ppl airing their dirty (not naughty)laundry or just ppl complaining of the way they get ignored/ not getting meets & blaming it on not getting a chance or wondering what their doing wrong. Then there's private messages, the majority of mine are negative ones.

So I'm gonna try for a wee while to change my approach to online fabbing. Il redo my profile later to a more positive one, will try to have less do's & dont's & see what happens. A positive output can only bring good things yeah?? We'll see.

Happy Fabbing everyone, be good, be nice & behave (suppose that's ironic for a swinging site where we want naughtiness).

You live only once so love life xoxo

"

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I'm not sure what your profile was like before but it's perfectly acceptable now

And your pics would entice even the most shy Angel

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By *idserzryanerzMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Here here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More constructive criticism...it's better but still reads as a list of rules and assumes everyone wants to meet you.

Why not say who you are, what you like and are about, who you want to meet and importantly what do you have to offer.

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D


"More constructive criticism...it's better but still reads as a list of rules and assumes everyone wants to meet you.

Why not say who you are, what you like and are about, who you want to meet and importantly what do you have to offer. "

*I'm assuming ppl contact ME as their

interest in meeting (is a swingers site

after all)

*'who I am' My description is on my

details, height, age, description etc

*'what I like' Also on my profile under

'interests'.

*'who I like to meet' Also in my profile

under 'looking to meet'.

*'what I have to offer' again if ppl

contact me, they like what they see

& read & we'll go from there.

Anything else does be discussed when conversations are flowing.

Your new constructive (you left out positive this time)criticism is hypercritical of your previous post where you accused me of a 'me me me & I want I want' attitude. Plus I never actually asked for opinions.

Please bear in mind 2 constructive criticisms has the negative vibe that this post highlighted & is avoiding.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I work on the basis i treat people like i would like them to treat me.

It's nice to be nice and a smile works wonders sometimes....

Share the love people .. You will be a long time dead ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an extremely positive post. I like it because I'm on a positive buzz so far this year. What's the point of negativity?

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More constructive criticism...it's better but still reads as a list of rules and assumes everyone wants to meet you.

Why not say who you are, what you like and are about, who you want to meet and importantly what do you have to offer.

*I'm assuming ppl contact ME as their

interest in meeting (is a swingers site

after all)

*'who I am' My description is on my

details, height, age, description etc

*'what I like' Also on my profile under

'interests'.

*'who I like to meet' Also in my profile

under 'looking to meet'.

*'what I have to offer' again if ppl

contact me, they like what they see

& read & we'll go from there.

Anything else does be discussed when conversations are flowing.

Your new constructive (you left out positive this time)criticism is hypercritical of your previous post where you accused me of a 'me me me & I want I want' attitude. Plus I never actually asked for opinions.

Please bear in mind 2 constructive criticisms has the negative vibe that this post highlighted & is avoiding. "

No negative intent sorry if it seemed that way. Just my 2 cents

Peace and love

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By *ne of manyMan
over a year ago

east Galway


"I enjoy Fab, the socials, my meets but especially the fabulous ppl.

In regards to the online fabbing experience, there's the forums which I love reading for the banter & general fun. I have noticed the negative that runs thru it, whether it's trolls trying to stir things up or ppl airing their dirty (not naughty)laundry or just ppl complaining of the way they get ignored/ not getting meets & blaming it on not getting a chance or wondering what their doing wrong. Then there's private messages, the majority of mine are negative ones.

So I'm gonna try for a wee while to change my approach to online fabbing. Il redo my profile later to a more positive one, will try to have less do's & dont's & see what happens. A positive output can only bring good things yeah?? We'll see.

Happy Fabbing everyone, be good, be nice & behave (suppose that's ironic for a swinging site where we want naughtiness).

You live only once so love life xoxo

"
what a breath of fresh air , well said ??

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