FabSwingers.com forum: disillusioned

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there I am totally disillusioned with this site,is it just me,thinking of leaving altogether and before you say it I know I won't be a big loss.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

what do/did you want from posting ? do you want people to rally around and beg you not to go or do you expect people to feel sorry for you and offer you a meet ? iv never seen a post like this ever end that way.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Shake your profile up a bit Op, ..if your existing one isnt working for you,then change it and see how that goes rather than throwing the towel in....

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hi there I am totally disillusioned with this site,is it just me,thinking of leaving altogether and before you say it I know I won't be a big loss."

It's a swingers site - a fun site. If it's not fun, leave. Why would you bother with something you were getting no enjoyment from? Why would you let a simple website affect you ? Life's too short ! Do something you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yah. The lady is right. Gotta find stuff that you enjoy. Like archery, snorkelling, acting, snowboarding. ....sur the list is endless. We'll all be a long time dead so if ya can't grab a girl or two when you want grab something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there I am totally disillusioned with this site,is it just me,thinking of leaving altogether and before you say it I know I won't be a big loss."

Here four weeks and verified. Not many can say that. This isn't dial a shag or easy ride. I was a single male once and often thought it was harder to get a meet here then pull down a pub or club. It can be hard work but if you put it in you'll get I back tenfold. Expand your profile a bit. Put some pictures up. Approach people like you would in everyday life. Be polite and respectful.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys for the input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is making you feel disillusioned with the site?

As others have said you could have a look at adding to your profile. IMO It is a bit direct almost clinical and probably not giving a true reflection of your personality. (Just my opinion)

Also, and I could be wrong but having "hung" in your name might have a lot of people just dismiss you before taking a further look rather than drawing them in. I think it's fair to say that most of the people here are looking for more than just a hung guy. To add to another poster, a couple of public pics might also help.

Patience is a virtue, you already a have a veri which may be worth publishing, that's up to you.

Many find it impossible to get that far.

Lee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you lee I appreciate your advice.

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

What can I say if you want to go no one will stop you. If you are looking to stay you must

Put a few pics up.

A few visable Verifications

A better profile statement

If you don't get the Shopfront right People will just pass on. As there are plenty of cock on here I wish you all the best whatever you decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you again , I will shake up the profile hopefully you nice people will like.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"what do/did you want from posting ? do you want people to rally around and beg you not to go or do you expect people to feel sorry for you and offer you a meet ? iv never seen a post like this ever end that way."

Awe Laid...are we detecting a slight "touch'eness" to your posts lately..? It's not like you......

You're normally as close to Santa as these single guys are ever gonna meet on here.

But yes your 100% correct...if they put as much effort into their profile and messaging, and realised it's not a matter of just putting up a picture of their willies, tv remotes & and toilets...

A little tilt at humour in the forums and their messages.

And a more imaginative and less childish user name....well' maybe then they'd have some degree of success.

Ollie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think to be honest the op is in exactly the same place as we all were after a few weeks on here...then you develop friendships, attend a few events and being brutally honest, it becomes part of your life ..

..we have all been there op..just do what feels right...always..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, stick up your fav political theorists, say why Hobbe's State of Nature is redundant in discussing human nature and how Rousseau got it spot on with his criticisms.

Don't forget to type in your favorite type of clouds........

In reality, stay clear of anyone who says 'you need to say more to get my attention than "hi"'. They're off in their own world, corrupted by this site.

It's a sex site, nothing else. Just keep trying or go on tinder instead. Tinder is better for women. You shouldn't need to type in the ingredients for your fav dish for a ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put in your status I love shopping lol Jesus they will come to you like flys round shite lol aww just injoy yourself there's no hard n fast rules

hang in there

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

"Think to be honest the op is in exactly the same place as we all were after a few weeks on here...then you develop friendships, attend a few events and being brutally honest, it becomes part of your life ..

..we have all been there op..just do what feels right...always.."
this.

Takes time and patience so dont delete as you have to start up again. Keep profile hidden and get some ideas

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