Spur of the moment/organic meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are meets that aren't planned ahead of time rare? I ask because I'm seeing someone at the moment and she's said she thinks the idea of being with another couple in the same room sounds good...

My issue is the idea of it happening randomly during a night out where we get chatting to a couple and it goes from there is SO much hotter than the pre-planned figure each other out for ages before meeting type of thing.

Should I give up on it or is it a possibility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples have kids, and spur of the moment stuff is impossible as babysitting and planning is needed.

For singles it's easier, but loads of people can't accommodate so that makes it tricky too.

It's actually easier to pull in the real world a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Many couples have kids, and spur of the moment stuff is impossible as babysitting and planning is needed.

For singles it's easier, but loads of people can't accommodate so that makes it tricky too.

It's actually easier to pull in the real world a lot of the time. "

Yeah that makes sense. Should probably start getting more used to the idea of sorting it out before-hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well paired meets here with people I am attracted to (mentally and physically) have never led me down. I've had bad one night stands but when you've been waiting for a meet for a while there can be fireworks.

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