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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

[Removed by poster at 07/01/16 18:30:55]

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

Do we really want to hear about it. By all means delete away. No need to post it as status update.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

But then we wouldn't know how popular they are.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"But then we wouldn't know how popular they are. "

Ah got ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I think it's mostly put on a status's because they didn't want people to think they deleted their mail because they aren't interested. Simply because they had too much mail, or bulk deleted by accident.

If people checked sent mail and saw something was deleted unread they would think they were uninterested otherwise.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"To be fair I think it's mostly put on a status's because they didn't want people to think they deleted their mail because they aren't interested. Simply because they had too much mail, or bulk deleted by accident.

If people checked sent mail and saw something was deleted unread they would think they were uninterested otherwise. "

Na il go with answer a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've bulk deleted by accident before and put up a status.. I didn't wanna miss out on any hotties who might think I was uninterested.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

bulk delete is treating the symptom rather than the cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bulk delete is treating the symptom rather than the cause"

What would you consider to be the cause?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've bulk deleted by accident before and put up a status.. I didn't wanna miss out on any hotties who might think I was uninterested. "

What I'd give to have enough messages to bulk delete.

I got 2,,,,,,,,,once. I did a lap around the living room.

One hand aloft shouting "Whaoo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if you take porridge or prunes or any type of roughage regularly theres never a difficulty with bulk. Just sayin.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

Most of the bulk delete messages are for show anyone thinks different well that's up to them I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't pretty much everything here for show?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Isn't pretty much everything here for show? "

True but some things show better than others

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"bulk delete is treating the symptom rather than the cause

What would you consider to be the cause? "

Allowing to get swamped in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've bulk deleted by accident before and put up a status.. I didn't wanna miss out on any hotties who might think I was uninterested.

What I'd give to have enough messages to bulk delete.

I got 2,,,,,,,,,once. I did a lap around the living room.

One hand aloft shouting "Whaoo"

"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we really want to hear about it. By all means delete away. No need to post it as status update. "
women I'm told often do it! You could send a woman a mail she might not even see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But then we wouldn't know how popular they are. "

Exactly !

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"But then we wouldn't know how popular they are.

Exactly !"

There does seem to be a type though whether its a conscious or subconscious thing in the ME ME ME posturing I cannot yet decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But then we wouldn't know how popular they are. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bulk delete is treating the symptom rather than the cause

What would you consider to be the cause? "

A durty rash of mails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've bulk deleted by accident before and put up a status.. I didn't wanna miss out on any hotties who might think I was uninterested.

What I'd give to have enough messages to bulk delete.

I got 2,,,,,,,,,once. I did a lap around the living room.

One hand aloft shouting "Whaoo"

"

Lol. I've gotten 2 messages in a day on this profile too. Both from guys unfortunately so no shouting was necessary I was part of a couples profile before and we got a shitton of mail. Keeping up with it was a proper chore. I get why it can get on top of people sometimes.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I've bulk deleted by accident before and put up a status.. I didn't wanna miss out on any hotties who might think I was uninterested.

What I'd give to have enough messages to bulk delete.

I got 2,,,,,,,,,once. I did a lap around the living room.

One hand aloft shouting "Whaoo"

Lol. I've gotten 2 messages in a day on this profile too. Both from guys unfortunately so no shouting was necessary I was part of a couples profile before and we got a shitton of mail. Keeping up with it was a proper chore. I get why it can get on top of people sometimes.

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But did your couples profile feel the need to proclaim "oh deary me I guess I am toooo popular so I better tell the less fortunates I am bulk deleting mails"?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway

In fact at least one responder on this thread has done it in the past day or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You better not look at my status so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to myself ... If bulk deleting don't put status up For a place that's supposed to be full of non judgemental and open minded people all I'm seeing recently on threads is critics. If it's attention seeking who cares at least it's not done with negativity towards others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Note to myself ... If bulk deleting don't put status up For a place that's supposed to be full of non judgemental and open minded people all I'm seeing recently on threads is critics. If it's attention seeking who cares at least it's not done with negativity towards others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread stinks of jealousy from those who don't receive lots of messages. Dress it up any way you like.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"This thread stinks of jealousy from those who don't receive lots of messages. Dress it up any way you like. "

Can I dress it with parsley and sage?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Note to myself ... If bulk deleting don't put status up For a place that's supposed to be full of non judgemental and open minded people all I'm seeing recently on threads is critics. If it's attention seeking who cares at least it's not done with negativity towards others.

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Who said this place was supposed to be full of non judgemental people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never needed to bulk delete,I savour any messages I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Note to myself ... If bulk deleting don't put status up For a place that's supposed to be full of non judgemental and open minded people all I'm seeing recently on threads is critics. If it's attention seeking who cares at least it's not done with negativity towards others.

Who said this place was supposed to be full of non judgemental people? "

Well true maybe I just am naive and very stupid to think that when you indulge in a lifestyle where jealousy is supposed to be left outside and people are hoping to indulge in fantasies and talk about taboos that in normal society they would be judged that most would join in hope of it being non judgemental. Am I wrong why did you join the site??

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Note to myself ... If bulk deleting don't put status up For a place that's supposed to be full of non judgemental and open minded people all I'm seeing recently on threads is critics. If it's attention seeking who cares at least it's not done with negativity towards others.

Who said this place was supposed to be full of non judgemental people?

Well true maybe I just am naive and very stupid to think that when you indulge in a lifestyle where jealousy is supposed to be left outside and people are hoping to indulge in fantasies and talk about taboos that in normal society they would be judged that most would join in hope of it being non judgemental. Am I wrong why did you join the site??"

Yup naive. People judge it's that simple. Even the most open minded people judge it's human nature. Do you have filters?do you get messages and think nope not for me? Have you read all the posts let's say for example critical of bareback. Why would a swing site be non judgemental?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP   Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Note to myself ... If bulk deleting don't put status up For a place that's supposed to be full of non judgemental and open minded people all I'm seeing recently on threads is critics. If it's attention seeking who cares at least it's not done with negativity towards others.

Who said this place was supposed to be full of non judgemental people?

Well true maybe I just am naive and very stupid to think that when you indulge in a lifestyle where jealousy is supposed to be left outside and people are hoping to indulge in fantasies and talk about taboos that in normal society they would be judged that most would join in hope of it being non judgemental. Am I wrong why did you join the site??"

Your own profile says you try to reply to everyone even to just say no thanks. Therefore you have judged them not meet worthy it os what it is. I joined to meet people as per your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've filters I don't criticise people's choices or opinions. I respect people's choices I don't judge as for forum posts it represents very little of the site thank god.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I bulk delete if i find im too overwhelmed... ive put it on my status twice in the length of time ive been here and then the mails came back with " i know youre inundated but by chance can you read this" type of message which makes it worse.Its not me being rude or ignorant,its a time issue for me. Ive not posted on my status that i was bulk deleting to seek attention,i think i get more than my fair share of attention already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a big difference between having personal preferences, and being judgemental.

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