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By *ork3Some OP   Couple
over a year ago

BaileSexy

Hi guys,

just wondering what your take on this would be.

We were contacted by the female half of a couple over the holidays, asking us would we like to meet. She is over in Cork (alone) for 2 weeks so we accepted as friend and everything looked quite legit, besides only one verification (unpublished) by cam.

We asked to skype so everyone could establish everyone was real and sexy. No problem there, she said she'd be happy to. When it came to arranging a time, she read message, didn't reply and hasn't returned to site since.

Are we over thinking things here, i.e. pichunter, challenged to prove real and goes incommunicado or maybe there's an innocent reason behind not responding? Suppose we're bearing in mind she's due to fly out soon and if she was as interested as all her mails suggest, she'd be on top of this (or us )

Just been burned on Fab like this in the past so twice shy....

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Better to get burned on a Skype session than after you get all dolled up (and clean the house) just to get a last minute text, or worse, nothing at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a guy. I seriously don't understand why guys would do this. Seems like such a waste of their time, not to mention yours. Don't worry, plenty more women out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can do is wait. But I'd start looking elsewhere whilst waiting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chalk it down, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd put money down its a man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd put money down its a man! "
if it is I can't understand for the life of me why someone would go to so much effort

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

Why some people would waist there time and yours is beyond me Block and move on There's loads of great people not to far away from you Happy fabbing xx

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sounds like a pic hunter or she cold cold feet in the floods. No harm done, de-friend and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what probably happened here was that you were talking to a complete unverified stranger on the Internet and then they stopped talking to you.

You're an adult, you'll get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Into the *fuckit* bucket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she looking any other details ? Phone number ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo "challenged to prove real and goes incommunicado".

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Into the *fuckit* bucket "

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By *ork3Some OP   Couple
over a year ago

BaileSexy


"Was she looking any other details ? Phone number ? "

Went from facepics, to whatsapp, to kik....reading back think we were a bit naive not to see spot this, but I guess there is a learning in everything!

It's frustrating for anyone to experience this but doubly so when our work commitments only allow us certain times to meet, and we had set aside time to meet this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys,

just wondering what your take on this would be.

We were contacted by the female half of a couple over the holidays, asking us would we like to meet. She is over in Cork (alone) for 2 weeks so we accepted as friend and everything looked quite legit, besides only one verification (unpublished) by cam.

We asked to skype so everyone could establish everyone was real and sexy. No problem there, she said she'd be happy to. When it came to arranging a time, she read message, didn't reply and hasn't returned to site since.

Are we over thinking things here, i.e. pichunter, challenged to prove real and goes incommunicado or maybe there's an innocent reason behind not responding? Suppose we're bearing in mind she's due to fly out soon and if she was as interested as all her mails suggest, she'd be on top of this (or us )

Just been burned on Fab like this in the past so twice shy.... "

Perhaps she got cold feet.

Perhaps she felt overwhelmedcby how quuckly it all moving.

Perhaps she simply lost interest, it does happen.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

1 hidden verie isn't worth the paper its written on

They should show it to you when asked. If they don't I'd say fake for sure. If they do I'd still be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was she looking any other details ? Phone number ?

Went from facepics, to whatsapp, to kik....reading back think we were a bit naive not to see spot this, but I guess there is a learning in everything!

It's frustrating for anyone to experience this but doubly so when our work commitments only allow us certain times to meet, and we had set aside time to meet this weekend "

Don't take this the wrong way because its meant in the nicest way possible. Live and learn and don't worry about it. Take this as a lesson and move on with your fab activities. Dwelling on it shall get you both nowhere. Happy fabbing

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was she looking any other details ? Phone number ?

Went from facepics, to whatsapp, to kik....reading back think we were a bit naive not to see spot this, but I guess there is a learning in everything!

It's frustrating for anyone to experience this but doubly so when our work commitments only allow us certain times to meet, and we had set aside time to meet this weekend

Don't take this the wrong way because its meant in the nicest way possible. Live and learn and don't worry about it. Take this as a lesson and move on with your fab activities. Dwelling on it shall get you both nowhere. Happy fabbing

Tomcat "

I'm with Tomcat on this one, worrying about it is such a waste of energy (when you could be putting that energy into something else ) her/his loss plenty of other genuine people one this site xx

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

happens us all,there are worse things out there guys,move on and up stay happy x

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