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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)"the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol | |||
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"the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol" So have you been getting much, dear? | |||
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"the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol So have you been getting much, dear? "loads over Xmas I'm worn out | |||
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"the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol So have you been getting much, dear? "Harsh Shandy, Im not a supporter and I get my fair share!  | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol"Well thats charming!!  becoming a site supporter is for your own benefit and noone elses. You can keep a history of chats youve had,keep private notes on likes etc of people youve chatted to.To rubbish the small 10 euro charge is crazy. Try it..its a tenner well spent.  | |||
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" So have you been getting much, dear? loads over Xmas I'm worn out "aw, that's great! Are they going to verify you, then? | |||
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" So have you been getting much, dear? loads over Xmas I'm worn out
aw, that's great! Are they going to verify you, then? "Oh sorry you were on about fab? I ment sex away from here! I saw very little of fab over Xmas! It's the best time of the year to go on the pull  | |||
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" Harsh Shandy, Im not a supporter and I get my fair share! "I know. I'm a bitch. And you at least appear to have some verifications, even though you choose not to share them with the rest of us! I was only genuinely trying to help the lad get some meets on here. As someone else has now pointed out the other advantages of being a supporter I won't bother to repeat what she has to say...  | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol
Well thats charming!! becoming a site supporter is for your own benefit and noone elses. You can keep a history of chats youve had,keep private notes on likes etc of people youve chatted to.To rubbish the small 10 euro charge is crazy. Try it..its a tenner well spent. "i don't need to use it, that's my point! I love the fact the site is free to use and Imo been a site supporter doesn't tell u anything about a person | |||
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" Oh sorry you were on about fab? I ment sex away from here! I saw very little of fab over Xmas! It's the best time of the year to go on the pull "Good for you! So, why are you bothered about meeting people off the site?  | |||
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" Oh sorry you were on about fab? I ment sex away from here! I saw very little of fab over Xmas! It's the best time of the year to go on the pull
Good for you! So, why are you bothered about meeting people off the site? "i signed up here for more options plus to full fill fantasies | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol"So what exactly are you saying? That we are all prostituting ourselves here? Classy  | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol
So what exactly are you saying?
That we are all prostituting ourselves here?
Classy "no but turning around and saying you should be a site supporter on here to do certain things or also judging a person because they're not a site supporter is also wrong! All I'm saying is a site supporter tells u nothing | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol
So what exactly are you saying?
That we are all prostituting ourselves here?
Classy no but turning around and saying you should be a site supporter on here to do certain things or also judging a person because they're not a site supporter is also wrong! All I'm saying is a site supporter tells u nothing "Neither do your claims of endless offsite shagging over the holidays... | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol
So what exactly are you saying?
That we are all prostituting ourselves here?
Classy no but turning around and saying you should be a site supporter on here to do certain things or also judging a person because they're not a site supporter is also wrong! All I'm saying is a site supporter tells u nothing
Neither do your claims of endless offsite shagging over the holidays..."the question was asked, I answered | |||
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"All I'm asking is why judge somebody on been a site supporter? "For verified people not being a site supporter is not an issue for us, as they show that they are genuine about the scene. For a new profile not being verified; well to us that comes across as someone not prepared to show some commitment to the scene, maybe a fake profile, possibly someone who is not genuine, so we would not bother interacting with them. While that is tarring everyone with the one brush, it is something we are very wary of. Our opinion, so maybe it might give an insight into the way some people think or view non-verified new profiles. | |||
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)the one thing I really like about here is its free to use! Becoming a site supporter to me is like paying a charge before u get sex lol
Well thats charming!! becoming a site supporter is for your own benefit and noone elses. You can keep a history of chats youve had,keep private notes on likes etc of people youve chatted to.To rubbish the small 10 euro charge is crazy. Try it..its a tenner well spent. i don't need to use it, that's my point! I love the fact the site is free to use and Imo been a site supporter doesn't tell u anything about a person "Ah here Whip im not having a go at you,im just telling you what the general consensus is from longer term users like myself. It just a wee bit of advice | |||
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"All I'm asking is why judge somebody on been a site supporter? "ffs... I'm not Judging anyone, just trying to make helpful suggestions! And the others are also pointing out the BENEFITS of being a supporter. If you feel you are getting enough out of the site without making any financial contribution... good on ya!  | |||
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" So have you been getting much, dear? loads over Xmas I'm worn out
aw, that's great! Are they going to verify you, then? Oh sorry you were on about fab? I ment sex away from here! I saw very little of fab over Xmas! It's the best time of the year to go on the pull "You saw very little of Fab over Christmas? Lol, have you a secretary online for you when you're off yourself, ROFL L | |||
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"Hi @LL. I've been here for a small while. I have to say it ain't easy to get into the system. Is it always like this or there is some special way...? Please if you have any advice, how to get verified.... Or if you just could share how it was in your case when you've started? "Tbh OP its a matter of luck and timing. I got lucky early and since then have had a ball on here. For other guys it can take months to even strike up a conversation, I will say that the forums definitely help as people can get a feel for you by your posts and over time mail gets more frequent. Also a good profile goes a long way.
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"Have you thought of becoming a site supporter? There are advantages, not the least of which is being able to contact people who have non-supporters blocked. It also shows a serious intent to stick around for a few months at least! This is intended as serious advice, not criticism. (Shandy)"I'll take it on the board. I should do it so Thank you for advice. | |||
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Well I guess you are both right.
Being new ain't easy.
Well can I ask you @LL.... How did you start on this site? | |||
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" Well can I ask you @LL.... How did you start on this site? " I pestered a woman I liked until she caved, now we're together mostly every day.. patience, persistence, and more patience | |||
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" Well can I ask you @LL.... How did you start on this site? I pestered a woman I liked until she caved, now we're together mostly every day.. patience, persistence, and more patience "I guess you are right, patience is the key
I'll stay Strong and will keep looking for my lucky day
Thanks man for responding to my question. | |||
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" Oh sorry you were on about fab? I ment sex away from here! I saw very little of fab over Xmas! It's the best time of the year to go on the pull
Good for you! So, why are you bothered about meeting people off the site? i signed up here for more options plus to full fill fantasies "So what fantasies have you 'fulfilled' then? You've been on this site quite a few times now Snickers and not once have you been verified... You even turned down a meet to be verified once before when you were here as 'knickersoaker' because you said you only do coffee meets if it ended in sex! Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to badger you into meeting or being verified, everyone has their own reasons of being here, but you're hardly the voice of experience to any 'newbies' who come along who want to get themselves verified... #justsaying | |||
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"I consider myself as genuine and normal guy. Paying for this wouldn't change a thing. I guess I'll wait for my lucky day. " Same as! I'm 100 % genuine! What it comes down to is someone taking a chance on u | |||
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"I consider myself as genuine and normal guy. Paying for this wouldn't change a thing. I guess I'll wait for my lucky day. " It would put you a step ahead of those with no sub or veris! | |||
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"I consider myself as genuine and normal guy. Paying for this wouldn't change a thing. I guess I'll wait for my lucky day. " It would change quite a bit actually, but I won't bother to repeat what's already been said... Look at the 'benefits' section. So, if you think you'll get 'lucky' just waiting for some beautiful woman to contact you: my advice is 'Don't hold your breath!'  | |||
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"I consider myself as genuine and normal guy. Paying for this wouldn't change a thing. I guess I'll wait for my lucky day. It would change quite a bit actually, but I won't bother to repeat what's already been said... Look at the 'benefits' section. So, if you think you'll get 'lucky' just waiting for some beautiful woman to contact you: my advice is 'Don't hold your breath!' "that's like Imo turning around and saying the only way ul succeed here is to be a site supporter when I'm sure many have succeeded by not paying! Maybe some might clarify this! I saw yosser say it already | |||
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" Oh sorry you were on about fab? I ment sex away from here! I saw very little of fab over Xmas! It's the best time of the year to go on the pull
Good for you! So, why are you bothered about meeting people off the site? i signed up here for more options plus to full fill fantasies
So what fantasies have you 'fulfilled' then? You've been on this site quite a few times now Snickers and not once have you been verified...
You even turned down a meet to be verified once before when you were here as 'knickersoaker' because you said you only do coffee meets if it ended in sex!
Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to badger you into meeting or being verified, everyone has their own reasons of being here, but you're hardly the voice of experience to any 'newbies' who come along who want to get themselves verified...
#justsaying "I"m sure this would have constituted 'badmouthing' or 'name and shaming' if I'd posted it... but thanks for the info! S. | |||
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"that's like Imo turning around and saying the only way ul succeed here is to be a site supporter when I'm sure many have succeeded by not paying! Maybe some might clarify this! I saw yosser say it already "Of course we have... All that's being said is how to improve chances!! | |||
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"that's like Imo turning around and saying the only way ul succeed here is to be a site supporter when I'm sure many have succeeded by not paying! Maybe some might clarify this! I saw yosser say it already
Of course we have... All that's being said is how to improve chances!!"i could also relocate to a city like dublin or cork, would seem to also help as I see alot have a problem with location | |||
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"There always seems to be a rush to get verified. Surely verification will happen in due course. Why not just enjoy the site, take your time and have fun. There always seems to be this race to be verified. Yes I understand it may open a few doors but verification shouldn't be a quest. If you're a genuine person, then confirmation of that will come in due time. I feel a bit sorry for these first meets. It's as if they are being used for a newbie just to get a tick. To what end? How will this verification be used. I suppose each to there own. Oh and before anyone dives down my throat for being here only a week. I've been on fab before over the course of the last 3 years. So I'm familiar with the ins and outs. So just be yourself, be up front and truthful and you'll get what you want from this site in due course. Happy fabbing OP. Good luck "Not a rush pal but putting effort in and getting nowhere is not fun, put it that way | |||
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"There always seems to be a rush to get verified. Surely verification will happen in due course. Why not just enjoy the site, take your time and have fun. There always seems to be this race to be verified. Yes I understand it may open a few doors but verification shouldn't be a quest. If you're a genuine person, then confirmation of that will come in due time. I feel a bit sorry for these first meets. It's as if they are being used for a newbie just to get a tick. To what end? How will this verification be used. I suppose each to there own. Oh and before anyone dives down my throat for being here only a week. I've been on fab before over the course of the last 3 years. So I'm familiar with the ins and outs. So just be yourself, be up front and truthful and you'll get what you want from this site in due course. Happy fabbing OP. Good luck Not a rush pal but putting effort in and getting nowhere is not fun, put it that way "I understand that. It just a matter of patience and building trust. I think once you understand it may take time, the frustration subsides. I think a lot of guys expect it to be a simple case of registering and horny women will drop their pants. We're all here for different reasons. There's no one way of getting what you want from the site. Like anything, before you reap, you have to sow the seeds and put the spade work in. | |||
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"There always seems to be a rush to get verified. Surely verification will happen in due course. Why not just enjoy the site, take your time and have fun. There always seems to be this race to be verified. Yes I understand it may open a few doors but verification shouldn't be a quest. If you're a genuine person, then confirmation of that will come in due time. I feel a bit sorry for these first meets. It's as if they are being used for a newbie just to get a tick. To what end? How will this verification be used. I suppose each to there own. Oh and before anyone dives down my throat for being here only a week. I've been on fab before over the course of the last 3 years. So I'm familiar with the ins and outs. So just be yourself, be up front and truthful and you'll get what you want from this site in due course. Happy fabbing OP. Good luck Not a rush pal but putting effort in and getting nowhere is not fun, put it that way
I understand that. It just a matter of patience and building trust. I think once you understand it may take time, the frustration subsides. I think a lot of guys expect it to be a simple case of registering and horny women will drop their pants. We're all here for different reasons. There's no one way of getting what you want from the site. Like anything, before you reap, you have to sow the seeds and put the spade work in. "I'm digging | |||
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"We d just like to say welcome ,join in the fun stuff on the forums and ignore the crap z.Best of luck to you "Thanks for this positive vibe
I'll be myself and I guess I'll stay patient
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"We d just like to say welcome ,join in the fun stuff on the forums and ignore the crap z.Best of luck to you
Thanks for this positive vibe
I'll be myself and I guess I'll stay patient
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" It's fairly simple - A person who can communicate well, has respect for others and their boundaries, puts some time and effort into their profile and the mails they send to people to will eventually make progress. It's critical when you get a response to an email that you engage well and attract interest. If you are a genuine decent person it will show fairly quickly as will the opposite. True colours will eventually show. Good luck, I hope you get on well. L" Thanks guys I'll do my best and keep myself on the right track
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"There always seems to be a rush to get verified. Surely verification will happen in due course. Why not just enjoy the site, take your time and have fun. There always seems to be this race to be verified. Yes I understand it may open a few doors but verification shouldn't be a quest. If you're a genuine person, then confirmation of that will come in due time. I feel a bit sorry for these first meets. It's as if they are being used for a newbie just to get a tick. To what end? How will this verification be used. I suppose each to there own. Oh and before anyone dives down my throat for being here only a week. I've been on fab before over the course of the last 3 years. So I'm familiar with the ins and outs. So just be yourself, be up front and truthful and you'll get what you want from this site in due course. Happy fabbing OP. Good luck "Pornyhorny Thanks Man I'll keep it up. I'll stay true | |||
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