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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt theres many wobbly bits on a size 8 or 10

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on "

I better join you and cover up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on "
I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people aren't toned tho, and there is more to being sexy than just that, it helps but it's not the only thing that makes a person attractive in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True whats the point on looking great if your not a nice person

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Being skinny or toned isn't what makes a person attractive. Their personalities and how they act or behave attracts me to the person in the first place. Conceited and full off themselves is an ugly trait

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

popcorn beer and sofa here this could get jnteresting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people aren't toned tho, and there is more to being sexy than just that, it helps but it's not the only thing that makes a person attractive in my opinion "

I agree. If they look good that's attractive obviously but there is more to it than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette "

8 or 10 is bigger???? wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette

8 or 10 is bigger???? wow"

haha healthy size!!sounds like envy! anyways the face is always the deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette

8 or 10 is bigger???? wow

haha healthy size!!sounds like envy! anyways the face is always the deal breaker"

Not envy - just a bit bewildered that you think 8 or 10 is 'bigger'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette

8 or 10 is bigger???? wow

haha healthy size!!sounds like envy! anyways the face is always the deal breaker

Not envy - just a bit bewildered that you think 8 or 10 is 'bigger'"

ah you picked it up wrong im saying is.nt it sexier to be a size 8 or 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette "

Okay. Are you saying dresses and tops wouldn't flatter mine as I'm not size 8-10

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By *itanium 5Man
over a year ago

Cork


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on I did.nt say cover up im saying been bigger seems to be in... but personnally when I put on a top or dress I like it to flatter my silouette

Okay. Are you saying dresses and tops wouldn't flatter mine as I'm not size 8-10 "

you,re fab as you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a woman to look womanly so size 8 or size 18 has no impact on that for me . The classic bottle shaped ladies with some feminine curves I like in any size .Its great to see body confidence on here regardless of dress size .

I am clearly in the minority. I was just looking at the hot Irish pics page and the top voted pic flat chested with a curve less 28-28-28 figure seems to be the top choice of Irish men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it sexier to be yourself and confident in that? I'm a slim lady but I've seen loads of bigger girls who ooze sexuality in a way I just couldn't! Size has nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen terrible pictures of "skinny" people and terrible pictures of "pleasantly plump" people on here. I've also seen sexy as hell pictures from both groups. Something for everyone on here. If people wanna flaunt wobbly bits, who cares ?? If you don't like it move onto the pictures of the body types you like. As I often say, whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you're presuming everyone likes the same thing. And not just that all people like the same body type but also that all people only like one body type.

I like a wide variety of guy types myself, am sure some men are the same.

Everyone will appeal to someone else on here, doesn't bother me to show my belly despite it being messed up by 5 full term children. Am sure some will find it disgusting but for others they like that my body's been through stuff and is more interesting, and maybe is less intimidating than a 'perfect' 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on "

Please don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well wouldn't every woman like a fit toned guy? Don't slate the OP for having an opinion...

I like a healthy size lady who is classy and sassy.

Haters gunna hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love healthy men with good attitudes and a decent smile.

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"Being skinny or toned isn't what makes a person attractive. Their personalities and how they act or behave attracts me to the person in the first place. Conceited and full off themselves is an ugly trait "

So agree toxic

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!


"Being skinny or toned isn't what makes a person attractive. Their personalities and how they act or behave attracts me to the person in the first place. Conceited and full off themselves is an ugly trait

All of this

So agree toxic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to play with someone with a wee bit of weight on them. Neither of us like the size 0 look. Give us a big girl anyday. Love to play with those massive puppies and lick that lovely big hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing sexy about narcissism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of things here. First of all we are naturally pre disposed to go for a healthy looking body. That's something that seems to be the starting point, it's bred into us from day one but when we actually meet people we tend to realise it's a small part of the overall picture.

I've been told in the last 6 months in look better carrying and extra pound or two while others seem to like a toned fitter version. I would however be far more flattered if someone thought I was a half decent person to converse with. That said I think the OP was making a perfectly acceptable point. It wasn't an insult aimed at anyone, just pointing out how things seem to work here for the most part. There is little point again in most guys or girls for that matter denying they/we love the perfectly toned and proportioned body, it's doesn't in anyway mean they aren't very open to loving other body types. Personal preference should never be frowned upon once it's said in a respectful way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doubt theres many wobbly bits on a size 8 or 10"

Sorry to correct u huni but I am a size 8 and I have my fair share of wobbly bits and body parts that I hate.

However OP, I believe that fab is all about being happy with the skin u are in,and personally I've seen people of all shapes and sizes walk into a room and in varying degrees of undress,and simply ooze sexuality.

Fab I believe endorses not the idealised model image but more so the individual person. There is someone for everyone on here thankfully because I for one would hate to be judged by my wobbly bits.

Apologies if I have offended anyone

Kitty xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well wouldn't every woman like a fit toned guy? Don't slate the OP for having an opinion...

I like a healthy size lady who is classy and sassy.

Haters gunna hate "

Hands up I love admiring a tight sexy body the same as anyone would. But if it were to come down to a play partner that 'gymfit' toned and super tight body would intimidate me and it's doubtful that I would approach that person as I would feel inferior beside someone who I class to have a superior body to mine. And yes I'd be worried that my wobbly bits would disgust them and turn them off. Now before anyone comments, I do work out, and I do go to the gym I love it, but it doesn't mean that I have the confidence of one of those Adonis nubile young bodies. Every body tells a story and some stories aren't as pretty as the person who owns that body.

Kitty xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yikes.. At my age I have "folds" I'm a size 10-12 and I do work out but I will never be toned again .... In my opinion I admire all the guys and gals who get on here and strut their stuff ...

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.... So happy new year all you beautiful sexy people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on "

O please please don't put any clothes on . Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends a skinny girl like and 8 can be such a turn on as with big hands like mine you can hold her and control her easy.

But say 12 is nice to explore and feel those curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 10/12 and have lumps after the kids. I do believe sexiness is how you carry yourself big or small.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a size 10/12 and have lumps after the kids. I do believe sexiness is how you carry yourself big or small."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 12 you need a bit of cushion for the pushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an old lorry driver friend of mine used to say,Straights are boring its all about the curves

Give me a confident sexy curvy lady any day (mj)

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Beside folds, I've even got wrinkles! I got them from being a happy smiling 45year old

Everything has beauty but not everyone can see it - Confucius

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Curves everyday of the week for me have to say. Sexy isn't all about looks. It's attitude confidence smile and attributes I can't actually describe as it's just there. I can't describe it some women I think are just sexy and I couldn't tell you why they just are! Rambling now but hope you get what I mean.

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

*looks at clock*

*looks at time stamp on first 20 posts*

Well, you all had a great NYE.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a size 10/12 and have lumps after the kids. I do believe sexiness is how you carry yourself big or small."

Great to hear everyones opinion there.s always some for, some against ,ones who dont mind and then there.s the ones who find any naked body a turn on...I like guys of all ages, shapes and sizes just not overweight as I like to keep fit and healthy i rather have balls slapping against me than a beer belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10? "

I have no issue or envy ladies who are a size 8/10. But im a healthy not overweight 12..N i know many women who are bigger n sexier than me..im not big or overweight. I'd have to literally starve to be an 8..just not my build but to see another female suggest 8/10 is a bigger size..frankly im just disappointed..does the op know that the average size is now a 14/16..??

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


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ah you picked it up wrong im saying is.nt it sexier to be a size 8 or 10"

No.

Sexiness is not about size.

That's like saying something like "isn't it sexier to NOT be from cork?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

I have no issue or envy ladies who are a size 8/10. But im a healthy not overweight 12..N i know many women who are bigger n sexier than me..im not big or overweight. I'd have to literally starve to be an 8..just not my build but to see another female suggest 8/10 is a bigger size..frankly im just disappointed..does the op know that the average size is now a 14/16..??"

I just don't see why there even has to be a thread on body shape n size...I thought fab was supposed to be accepting of all

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

I have no issue or envy ladies who are a size 8/10. But im a healthy not overweight 12..N i know many women who are bigger n sexier than me..im not big or overweight. I'd have to literally starve to be an 8..just not my build but to see another female suggest 8/10 is a bigger size..frankly im just disappointed..does the op know that the average size is now a 14/16..??

I just don't see why there even has to be a thread on body shape n size...I thought fab was supposed to be accepting of all"

OP didnt get the memo.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Well wouldn't every woman like a fit toned guy? Don't slate the OP for having an opinion...

I like a healthy size lady who is classy and sassy.

Haters gunna hate "

I think it's the inference that only size 8/ 10 toned bodies are sexy that has most wincing it's not the opinion but implying it should be the only opinion That's struck a cord

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I'm a size 10/12 and have lumps after the kids. I do believe sexiness is how you carry yourself big or small.

Great to hear everyones opinion there.s always some for, some against ,ones who dont mind and then there.s the ones who find any naked body a turn on...I like guys of all ages, shapes and sizes just not overweight as I like to keep fit and healthy i rather have balls slapping against me than a beer belly "

lucky I've got big balls then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beside folds, I've even got wrinkles! I got them from being a happy smiling 45year old

Everything has beauty but not everyone can see it - Confucius "

Well put. I am a size 10 and could be slimmer, but that would mean my breasts and stomach would have slack skin from having been stretched carrying and feeding my 3 children, no amount of gym work will change that, nor would I want it to.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I'm a size 10/12 and have lumps after the kids. I do believe sexiness is how you carry yourself big or small.

Great to hear everyones opinion there.s always some for, some against ,ones who dont mind and then there.s the ones who find any naked body a turn on...I like guys of all ages, shapes and sizes just not overweight as I like to keep fit and healthy i rather have balls slapping against me than a beer belly

lucky I've got big balls then lol "

is that u Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I just don't see why there even has to be a thread on body shape n size...I thought fab was supposed to be accepting of all"

Interestingly that so many took part in voting for the Fab Awards of 2015, best BBW, best slim woman ect ect...

The OP simply gave an opinion, he opened a discussion on size preference...

If one is happy in their own skin then there is no need to get upset by any opinions on this particular thread..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The truth of the matter most of the people here want to make it their new years resolution to lose weight and be healthier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10? "

Not if you haven't got one...

is.nt it better to be honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The truth of the matter most of the people here want to make it their new years resolution to lose weight and be healthier!"

They want to? Or you think they should? So much for preferences lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The truth of the matter most of the people here want to make it their new years resolution to lose weight and be healthier!"

Oh so this is a motivational thread! Gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting discussion. Ee obviously all have our body shape preference. Be a boring place if we all looked the same. We also have hangups about our own bodies. Mines is my boobs are small but hell just make the most of what mama gave me, so work that booty lol. All body shapes and sizes can be sexy, cos sexy is in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The truth of the matter most of the people here want to make it their new years resolution to lose weight and be healthier!

Oh so this is a motivational thread! Gotcha "

Turn it stretch it lift it burn it...it's made me want cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on "

No take more clothes off! But just for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on

No take more clothes off! But just for me"

How selfish of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy women between 10-16 maybe 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging isn't about every one being toned or a size 8 to 10 every woman is beautiful in her own way and manner regardless of shape or size, I am not saying that every woman is to my taste, but she is to somebody, I like my women all sizes but there needs to be a mental attraction too, confidence, style and charisma go a long way!!

Sexiness is not just about looks either its about personality, a sultry woman does not need to be a model or a size 8 or 10 to be the sexiest woman out there among the rest of the ladies nor does a man have to be Mr Muscle with a 10 inch cock to be the most sought after man, its about the whole package, some of the pics that are in hot pics are not from size 8 or 10 or even 12 or 14 and in my opinion that is great to see, sorry for ranting on but this is what I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10? "

thats quite an ugly thing to say ... beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes.. i know people that are a size 8 and still have wobbly bits so its not just "pleasently plump" people

im a size 12 ive had 3 kids i have plenty of wobbly bits which im comfortable with .yes i do exercise,i play womens rugby. But I also love my food .. If u dont like the way i look naked/clothed dont look .what gives anyone the right to put someone down ... You might think youve written it nicely but someone out there it will hurt them regardless of what way you write it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

thats quite an ugly thing to say ... beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes.. i know people that are a size 8 and still have wobbly bits so its not just "pleasently plump" people

im a size 12 ive had 3 kids i have plenty of wobbly bits which im comfortable with .yes i do exercise,i play womens rugby. But I also love my food .. If u dont like the way i look naked/clothed dont look .what gives anyone the right to put someone down ... You might think youve written it nicely but someone out there it will hurt them regardless of what way you write it "

Well said !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

thats quite an ugly thing to say ... beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes.. i know people that are a size 8 and still have wobbly bits so its not just "pleasently plump" people

im a size 12 ive had 3 kids i have plenty of wobbly bits which im comfortable with .yes i do exercise,i play womens rugby. But I also love my food .. If u dont like the way i look naked/clothed dont look .what gives anyone the right to put someone down ... You might think youve written it nicely but someone out there it will hurt them regardless of what way you write it "

Hardly ugly....

People are so quick to take offense when he obviously did not mean to insult or offend...

We are all judged about size, shape, age, looms ect ect...

The knack is knowing that we dictate our reaction to being judged...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

thats quite an ugly thing to say ... beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes.. i know people that are a size 8 and still have wobbly bits so its not just "pleasently plump" people

im a size 12 ive had 3 kids i have plenty of wobbly bits which im comfortable with .yes i do exercise,i play womens rugby. But I also love my food .. If u dont like the way i look naked/clothed dont look .what gives anyone the right to put someone down ... You might think youve written it nicely but someone out there it will hurt them regardless of what way you write it

Hardly ugly....

People are so quick to take offense when he obviously did not mean to insult or offend...

We are all judged about size, shape, age, looms ect ect...

The knack is knowing that we dictate our reaction to being judged..."

im not affected by it im extremly happy with how my body is ..but someone out there will be offended by it..

what i do find annoying is him clearly saying a size 8-10 is more attractive than 12+... its quite narrow minded .. this is the attitude that contributes to younger generations starving themselves or commiting suicide because of ppl with that kind of attitude ...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

thats quite an ugly thing to say ... beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes.. i know people that are a size 8 and still have wobbly bits so its not just "pleasently plump" people

im a size 12 ive had 3 kids i have plenty of wobbly bits which im comfortable with .yes i do exercise,i play womens rugby. But I also love my food .. If u dont like the way i look naked/clothed dont look .what gives anyone the right to put someone down ... You might think youve written it nicely but someone out there it will hurt them regardless of what way you write it

Hardly ugly....

People are so quick to take offense when he obviously did not mean to insult or offend...

We are all judged about size, shape, age, looms ect ect...

The knack is knowing that we dictate our reaction to being judged...

im not affected by it im extremly happy with how my body is ..but someone out there will be offended by it..

what i do find annoying is him clearly saying a size 8-10 is more attractive than 12+... its quite narrow minded .. this is the attitude that contributes to younger generations starving themselves or commiting suicide because of ppl with that kind of attitude ... "

just being a PRICK here but it may not be him as it's a cpls profile that posted let's not make assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry i do appolgise if it isnt the male part of the couple

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over a year ago

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By *enuine fit guyMan
over a year ago

Genuine lane

Two points:

Firstly

Some contributing to this post seem to think the op is male..."He" being used to make a comment. It's a couple's profile and my guess is it's the female chatting with the "balls slapping against my ass comment" lol

Especially since I know this to be true lol

Secondly I think the op was just asking the question if bigger was gaining in popularity with fab folks. No judgenents either way

Peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 6-10 depending on the clothes....i hate being less curvy (skinny)..yes I probably look fit but id much rather be a size 12.. a woman who's a 12-14 would turn me on more than a size 8-10..better start eating more!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious to know what people prefer a lot of women and men on fab seem happy to flaunt their wobbly bits but is.nt it sexier to show off a fit toned body without the folds!! Not talking size zero but an 8 or 10?

thats quite an ugly thing to say ... beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes.. i know people that are a size 8 and still have wobbly bits so its not just "pleasently plump" people

im a size 12 ive had 3 kids i have plenty of wobbly bits which im comfortable with .yes i do exercise,i play womens rugby. But I also love my food .. If u dont like the way i look naked/clothed dont look .what gives anyone the right to put someone down ... You might think youve written it nicely but someone out there it will hurt them regardless of what way you write it

Hardly ugly....

People are so quick to take offense when he obviously did not mean to insult or offend...

We are all judged about size, shape, age, looms ect ect...

The knack is knowing that we dictate our reaction to being judged...

im not affected by it im extremly happy with how my body is ..but someone out there will be offended by it..

what i do find annoying is him clearly saying a size 8-10 is more attractive than 12+... its quite narrow minded .. this is the attitude that contributes to younger generations starving themselves or commiting suicide because of ppl with that kind of attitude ... "

My daughter was seriously bullied about her size at the age of fifteen..

I explained to her that people will judge , that is reality, but I also taught her to love herself and accept herself for HERSELF...

Result?? A now beautiful,confident young woman who does not give one toss what others think of her..

Now the OP, IMO was simply stating his preference in body shape, which happens daily here.

As a slim.woman who does not fit the curvacious appeal , do I feel insulted by some of the comments here?

No, I learned a longtime ago that size, shape ect is not important..

However, for some it still is, their choice and fully entitled to it..

So my comment earlier still stands, why complain about being judged, whilst at the same time appaudling a thread that does judge on size, shape ect..

It baffles me...

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

These threads seem more common recently. We are not going to solve this age old debate on a swing site where people are attracted to what they like. Forming groups of curvy big fat people against skinny slim stick insect types will never help. We are what we are and up to each individual to be happy with themselves as they are. If you aren't try and change it if you can. The op just asked a question. No need to get the firing squad out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people bigger than size 10 should keep covered up? Okay. I'll put some clothes on "
don't you dare funplaything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True whats the point on looking great if your not a nice person"

looks are often over rated when the mind is often forgotten. Few on here know how to use their mind effectively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer OP's question if it's sexier to show a fit toned body over a wobbly one - of course it's not as it's 100% subjective. Some are into overweight bodies, others into skinny bodies. There's no definitive of which is sexier, despite the mainstream suggesting we should all like fit bodies.

That said, people are being far too sensitive here. OP is allowed to have a preference which doesn't make them an ugly person just because it doesn't align with yours.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"These threads seem more common recently. We are not going to solve this age old debate on a swing site where people are attracted to what they like. Forming groups of curvy big fat people against skinny slim stick insect types will never help. We are what we are and up to each individual to be happy with themselves as they are. If you aren't try and change it if you can. The op just asked a question. No need to get the firing squad out. "

They could always sit on us, but they would have to catch us first.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"These threads seem more common recently. We are not going to solve this age old debate on a swing site where people are attracted to what they like. Forming groups of curvy big fat people against skinny slim stick insect types will never help. We are what we are and up to each individual to be happy with themselves as they are. If you aren't try and change it if you can. The op just asked a question. No need to get the firing squad out.

They could always sit on us, but they would have to catch us first. "

Shouldn't laugh probably but that is funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads seem more common recently. We are not going to solve this age old debate on a swing site where people are attracted to what they like. Forming groups of curvy big fat people against skinny slim stick insect types will never help. We are what we are and up to each individual to be happy with themselves as they are. If you aren't try and change it if you can. The op just asked a question. No need to get the firing squad out.

They could always sit on us, but they would have to catch us first.

Shouldn't laugh probably but that is funny."

Is it?

I think it's a kinda warped thing to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two points:

Firstly

Some contributing to this post seem to think the op is male..."He" being used to make a comment. It's a couple's profile and my guess is it's the female chatting with the "balls slapping against my ass comment" lol

Especially since I know this to be true lol

Secondly I think the op was just asking the question if bigger was gaining in popularity with fab folks. No judgenents either way

Peter "

I dunno in fairness Peter would you class me as attractive or sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a kinda warped thing to say. "

Childish too. Though I assume it's meant to be antagonistic more than anything, especially given the tone in parts of their profile.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"These threads seem more common recently. We are not going to solve this age old debate on a swing site where people are attracted to what they like. Forming groups of curvy big fat people against skinny slim stick insect types will never help. We are what we are and up to each individual to be happy with themselves as they are. If you aren't try and change it if you can. The op just asked a question. No need to get the firing squad out.

They could always sit on us, but they would have to catch us first.

Shouldn't laugh probably but that is funny.

Is it?

I think it's a kinda warped thing to say. "

It's a joke, jeez. Relax.

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"These threads seem more common recently. We are not going to solve this age old debate on a swing site where people are attracted to what they like. Forming groups of curvy big fat people against skinny slim stick insect types will never help. We are what we are and up to each individual to be happy with themselves as they are. If you aren't try and change it if you can. The op just asked a question. No need to get the firing squad out.

They could always sit on us, but they would have to catch us first.

Shouldn't laugh probably but that is funny.

Is it?

I think it's a kinda warped thing to say. "

Yes. I would also probably laugh if it was something the other way round. We all laugh at things that may not be politically correct but we can see funny side of. Most comedians makes their living out of it. I respect the fact you probably don't but please also respect the fact I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Two points:

Firstly

Some contributing to this post seem to think the op is male..."He" being used to make a comment. It's a couple's profile and my guess is it's the female chatting with the "balls slapping against my ass comment" lol

Especially since I know this to be true lol

Secondly I think the op was just asking the question if bigger was gaining in popularity with fab folks. No judgenents either way

Peter "

As usually peter your spot on its an age old debate..just putting my personal preferences out their not trying to be offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer to OP is no I personally don't agree it's sexier and you've helped my blocking list rise so thank you and happy new year xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

"

If the original post didn't open Pandora's box I think you've just blown it wide open!! (With your "will meet sizes 0-?")

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all personal preference and my personal preference is always for a curvy or larger figured lady. Each to their own;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

If the original post didn't open Pandora's box I think you've just blown it wide open!! (With your "will meet sizes 0-?") "

Pandora sounds like a nice lady

I think I shall do a profile search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

If the original post didn't open Pandora's box I think you've just blown it wide open!! (With your "will meet sizes 0-?")

Pandora sounds like a nice lady

I think I shall do a profile search "

I think she's plus size! You might not like her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

If the original post didn't open Pandora's box I think you've just blown it wide open!! (With your "will meet sizes 0-?")

Pandora sounds like a nice lady

I think I shall do a profile search

I think she's plus size! You might not like her "

Thats fine x

Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy "

Jesus....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy

Jesus...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy

Jesus....

"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy

Jesus...."

Better than "pulse optional"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

If the original post didn't open Pandora's box I think you've just blown it wide open!! (With your "will meet sizes 0-?")

Pandora sounds like a nice lady

I think I shall do a profile search

I think she's plus size! You might not like her

Thats fine x

Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy "

Just as well, as I don't think Pandora has necrophilia on her interests list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people aren't toned tho, and there is more to being sexy than just that, it helps but it's not the only thing that makes a person attractive in my opinion

I agree. If they look good that's attractive obviously but there is more to it than that "

Yeah attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder! If we were all the same shape and size it would be a boring place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be the option in the filters to say

Will meet size 0 to size 100

Or any size u desire or don't desire, it would stop these threads for the body conscious

Me (Noel) personally love a woman with a bit of weight and who is confident

Nothing sexier that confidence and a smile it outweighs everything else about the person

I'd imagine the ladies feel the same.

If the original post didn't open Pandora's box I think you've just blown it wide open!! (With your "will meet sizes 0-?")

Pandora sounds like a nice lady

I think I shall do a profile search

I think she's plus size! You might not like her

Thats fine x

Im more a "once she has a pulse" kinda guy

Just as well, as I don't think Pandora has necrophilia on her interests list! "

Tbh I couldn't find her profile to find out

Probably has it hidden while she gets her box fixed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I dont know why the op or anyone else cares. If you are comfortable in your own skin good for you,and so be it. Dont worry about what others feel comfortable doing.

This site should be more about personal pleasure and less about what everyone else thinks.

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