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By *ingerrrr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Meath

So you get a mail from some guy..,

You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.

So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would we block? If he wants to waste his time endlessly mailing despite the caveat in our profile - knock yourself out, dude

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"So you get a mail from some guy..,

You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.

So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?

"

U surely changed ur mind by now

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By *ingerrrr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Meath

No CJ... He's still not what I'm interested in. If he looked at my profile he'd see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block. Why waste your own time reading the same mail over and over again

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By *rchon12Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Wow I didn't realise you could leave notes!

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Personally, I'd block. No point in him or you wasting each other's time .. Maybe there'd be some space in your inbox for me .. Err I mean for somebody else if his messages weren't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure he thinks it's worth a try ginger. Sure who wouldn't keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure he thinks it's worth a try ginger. Sure who wouldn't keep trying "

Who wouldn't keep trying is right, I looked at your profile a good while back and you don't meet smokers and I respect that so I never mailed, as for the other I would just block him!

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

While I agree that it's them wasting their time by continuing to message but I'd be more inclined to block them saves me having to deal with it!

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"So you get a mail from some guy..,

You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.

So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?

"

Apologies for all those mails...Don't know what got into me.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

With those notorious rewriters I normally use a bit more clear language if needed, still polite but clearly pointing out that there's no point in contacting again. The block button is an item I use rarely, but not shy using it when everything else fails.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"No CJ... He's still not what I'm interested in. If he looked at my profile he'd see that. "

But he must see that hence the mails as mentioned stronger reply or hit the button, I just love those notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow I didn't realise you could leave notes! "

If you're a site supporter you have that option of the note.... it's very handy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get a mail from some guy..,

You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.

So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?

"

This is something I don't get. The repeat mailers unless replied to are given a warning so to speak that the person they are about to mail hasn't replied to their last mail so why bother sending another mail

Id just tell them you aren't interested ginger and if that doesn't work just block them.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree it's very annoying.. In the end I just block

Like God loves a trier, but after a good few it gets to the stage where u just think feck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get peeved I just block

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

If I don't get peeved then I get really peeved!!

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!


"I'd block. Why waste your own time reading the same mail over and over again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd block. Why waste your own time reading the same mail over and over again "

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By *rchon12Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Wow I didn't realise you could leave notes!

If you're a site supporter you have that option of the note.... it's very handy!! "

Yeah just became one and noticed that. Veeeeeeery handy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get a mail from some guy..,

You read it, go look at his profile and see you've left yourself a note.. Which reads, mailed me in Jan, I replied not interested.. Mailed again Feb, March, June.

So.. Do you just go block or politely mail not interested again?

This is something I don't get. The repeat mailers unless replied to are given a warning so to speak that the person they are about to mail hasn't replied to their last mail so why bother sending another mail

Id just tell them you aren't interested ginger and if that doesn't work just block them.

Tomcat "

I wondered about this... does the warning specifically pop up if the other person hasn't responded to the LAST message or if they have never responded? I used to send back a polite "no thanks" to those I wasn't interested in, but then got the same message from them again and again I have a feeling that if you ever responded to them, the warning doesn't pop up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes brown eyed girl , I think if you have ever responded to them the warning doesn't show . I was always reluctant to use the block button , but recently have got more into the swing of it , same , repeat mailers who I have politely told I'm not interested , some of them who've got hostile and abusive . Once a guy mailed me , I read his mail and then went to pour myself a drink and go to the loo , when I got back , like 7 minutes later , he'd messaged me back calling me an ignorant fat cunt , cos I'd read his message and not answered ( in 7 minutes. ). . Jasus , like could he not see I was fat the first time he looked at my profile , lol

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By *on1980Man
over a year ago

City Centre

I had to block a lady on another site, she just set up a new profile and contacted me again so I deleted my account. Desperate measures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me several times Ginger. I dont think non site supporters can see that they've messaged before.

I take similar notes so after a few times of replying with polite 'no thanks' I end up reminding them of such and saying 'dont take offense but it'll save time for both of us if I just block'.

And that's it, polite but problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has happened to me several times Ginger. I dont think non site supporters can see that they've messaged before.

I take similar notes so after a few times of replying with polite 'no thanks' I end up reminding them of such and saying 'dont take offense but it'll save time for both of us if I just block'.

And that's it, polite but problem solved."

I'm with Yolo on this ...polite, to the point and problem solved.

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