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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 21 with a pretty good body and I'm good enough looking. I'm hung but it's so hard to find women/couples to meet. What's wrong with being 21 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we swing to get away from people your aget'would feel like babysitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 31 an i still feel 21 lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we swing to get away from people your aget'would feel like babysitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody will mention this part but I know lots of friends and couples etc who set age limits of 30 and above for the simple reason that most young lads haven't a clue what they're doing.

Now OP I'm not saying your one of these guys but I know for a fact in my early 20's i thought I'd have put Ron jeremy to shame with my hijinks but the truth is now I'm in my 30's I've learned how wrong I was back then haha.

Again no offence intended

Just pointing out one reason why plenty don't go so young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age means Jack shit! U can't tar everybody with the one brush

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Why?

Because they're young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age means Jack shit! U can't tar everybody with the one brush "

Yeah the same goes for single guys on fab.

But we're all generally tarred with the same brush.

Just because something shouldn't be, doesn't mean it won't be lol

Definitely not here on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody will mention this part but I know lots of friends and couples etc who set age limits of 30 and above for the simple reason that most young lads haven't a clue what they're doing.

Now OP I'm not saying your one of these guys but I know for a fact in my early 20's i thought I'd have put Ron jeremy to shame with my hijinks but the truth is now I'm in my 30's I've learned how wrong I was back then haha.

Again no offence intended

Just pointing out one reason why plenty don't go so young. "

This

Also a good chunk of men in their 30's also have no idea what they're doing.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

No experience, they can't teach me anything new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women on here are looking for something new and exciting. Most younger guys are likely to be less experienced than the older females here and are less likely to be able to give them the experience they are looking for.

Obviously some younger guys are gonna be better than some older guys.. but on balance it's less likely.

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By *ondo84Man
over a year ago

carrick


"No experience, they can't teach me anything new."

Experience goes both ways !! You may be fit to teach them something new !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only I was young enough to know everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No experience, they can't teach me anything new."

Respect ???

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin


"No experience, they can't teach me anything new.

Experience goes both ways !! You may be fit to teach them something new !!"

I am not here to teach anybody.

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


"If only I was young enough to know everything "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No experience, they can't teach me anything new.

Experience goes both ways !! You may be fit to teach them something new !!

I am not here to teach anybody."

Maybe not but you are fit

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I dont mind being a "teacher" on occassion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind being a "teacher" on occassion "

You that had the hots for your teacher

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I dont mind being a "teacher" on occassion

You that had the hots for your teacher "

Teachers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind being a "teacher" on occassion

You that had the hots for your teacher

Teachers "

Did it run in the family ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He might know something u don't, u might know some he doesn't, it's all circles and roundabouts, nobody knows everything

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I dont mind being a "teacher" on occassion

You that had the hots for your teacher

Teachers

Did it run in the family ? "

Nah..theres only one of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. "
i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude "

Easily said by the young free and single...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single..."

I see your point but I have to side with casey Lee on this one.

The problem is the laid back care free is all good when you are young free and single.

But if your in a different position, say married, mortgage, kids, job, etc etc it boils down to maybe having a fab fun meet once a month or even alot less. So if you have to organise sitters and book hotels and worry bout timing and kids etc then your not gonna risk it all that maybe the 20yr old is more mature and experienced than his age would suggest. Your simply gonna play the numbers game and play safe with an older age bracket.

Again this is all generalisation but it's like this for a huge number on here (myself included)

So yeah your right saying we should all be laid back and care free etc but unfortunately not all of us can afford to

Trust me I wish I could lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always happpy to learn from a good sexy teacher with a good attitude and one tha can learn a lesson or two from a good student

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe better a very bold student

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single..."
i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single...i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof "

I'm not sure why you equate "serious" with mature, they are not at all the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single...i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof "

Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single...i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof

I'm not sure why you equate "serious" with mature, they are not at all the same thing."
One can easily fall into another as I have seen with people in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single...i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof

Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to "
mate if u adopt that mindset and attitude about sex, give up now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 21 with a pretty good body and I'm good enough looking. I'm hung but it's so hard to find women/couples to meet. What's wrong with being 21 ?"

It's not 31??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single...i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof

I'm not sure why you equate "serious" with mature, they are not at all the same thing.One can easily fall into another as I have seen with people in life "

Not at all, maturity is about having your ego in check, taking responsibility for your actions and understanding how your actions impact on those around you, being resilient and flexible when needed to cope with life's challenges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mind being a "teacher" on occassion

You that had the hots for your teacher

Teachers

Did it run in the family ?

The maths teachers family ?

Nah..theres only one of me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we swing to get away from people your aget'would feel like babysitting.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her as she comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not nothing to do with sexual experience and everything to do with immaturity. i hope I never end up a serious individual, yes u learn right from wrong but life is best lived in a casual way and don't let things bother u or get on top of you! In other words adopt a laid back attitude

Easily said by the young free and single...i have an uncle in his 60's, has children from 2 marriages and I have never met as laid back an individual! Yes, kids can stress u but there is no reason why a person in a relationship with no kids or a person whose single, can't have a laid back attitude, just go with the flow! U start worrying about everything under the rising sun your blood pressure will go through the roof

I'm not sure why you equate "serious" with mature, they are not at all the same thing.One can easily fall into another as I have seen with people in life

Not at all, maturity is about having your ego in check, taking responsibility for your actions and understanding how your actions impact on those around you, being resilient and flexible when needed to cope with life's challenges."
yep your right, well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to mate if u adopt that mindset and attitude about sex, give up now lol "

The point is either lost on your or were just crossing wires.

The worry or stress isn't about the 'sex'

But when your planning so much JUST to actually get the time to yourself, then yes you will make sure you put effort into finding the right person to have some fun with.

Yes a shot in the dark MIGHT work but the odds are heavily stacked in favour of choosing with a little bit of bias towards someone on the same page and wave length as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to mate if u adopt that mindset and attitude about sex, give up now lol

The point is either lost on your or were just crossing wires.

The worry or stress isn't about the 'sex'

But when your planning so much JUST to actually get the time to yourself, then yes you will make sure you put effort into finding the right person to have some fun with.

Yes a shot in the dark MIGHT work but the odds are heavily stacked in favour of choosing with a little bit of bias towards someone on the same page and wave length as you.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to mate if u adopt that mindset and attitude about sex, give up now lol

The point is either lost on your or were just crossing wires.

The worry or stress isn't about the 'sex'

But when your planning so much JUST to actually get the time to yourself, then yes you will make sure you put effort into finding the right person to have some fun with.

Yes a shot in the dark MIGHT work but the odds are heavily stacked in favour of choosing with a little bit of bias towards someone on the same page and wave length as you.

"
that's where single guys with no ties have an advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to mate if u adopt that mindset and attitude about sex, give up now lol

The point is either lost on your or were just crossing wires.

The worry or stress isn't about the 'sex'

But when your planning so much JUST to actually get the time to yourself, then yes you will make sure you put effort into finding the right person to have some fun with.

Yes a shot in the dark MIGHT work but the odds are heavily stacked in favour of choosing with a little bit of bias towards someone on the same page and wave length as you.

"

Totally agree, my free time is precious so I ensure to choosing wisely those I intend meeting up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Well yeah but your talking about everyday life that's one thing.

When your talking bout a night of filthy fun you don't get anywhere near often enough as you like, then trust me you'll worry enough about it to make sure it goes as you want it to mate if u adopt that mindset and attitude about sex, give up now lol

The point is either lost on your or were just crossing wires.

The worry or stress isn't about the 'sex'

But when your planning so much JUST to actually get the time to yourself, then yes you will make sure you put effort into finding the right person to have some fun with.

Yes a shot in the dark MIGHT work but the odds are heavily stacked in favour of choosing with a little bit of bias towards someone on the same page and wave length as you.

Totally agree, my free time is precious so I ensure to choosing wisely those I intend meeting up with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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that's where single guys with no ties have an advantage "

Tell that to the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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that's where single guys with no ties have an advantage

Tell that to the OP "
it seems been a young guy is a disaster on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its just young guys lol

Im sure lots of older guys have the same problems... ive seen a few of the youngers guys on here have reviews from some of the best women it has to offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly,like babysitting,it`s huge difference to feel younger or being young,there r cpls and girls at the same age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think its just young guys lol

Im sure lots of older guys have the same problems... ive seen a few of the youngers guys on here have reviews from some of the best women it has to offer "
the first reply on y

The getting verified thread is spot on

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Les jeunes hommes devraient être amènent les jeunes femmes sur la scène. Si ils ne sont pas ils sont simplement morts de poissons qui devraient être chassé du filet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Les jeunes hommes devraient être amènent les jeunes femmes sur la scène. Si ils ne sont pas ils sont simplement morts de poissons qui devraient être chassé du filet."

Didn't realise you were French. Thought you were from the North.

I don't speak french I didn't fare well at it in school but I'm reading something like young men with young women on the scene. And something about dead fish.

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By *harlie141r42Man
over a year ago

galway


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that's where single guys with no ties have an advantage

Tell that to the OP it seems been a young guy is a disaster on fab "

I feel the point a few people here were making is that they find the lack of maturity in young men off putting, and while you have made good arguements to back your points, your profile name really doesn`t help your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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that's where single guys with no ties have an advantage

Tell that to the OP it seems been a young guy is a disaster on fab

I feel the point a few people here were making is that they find the lack of maturity in young men off putting, and while you have made good arguements to back your points, your profile name really doesn`t help your cause.

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a profile name is only a bit of fun on a site like this

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