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anyone else getting bored on here of time waisters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a timewaster to you?

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I know what you mean....some are here to chat and that's fine...we find if you suggest form early in the conversation that meeting for a coffee is the best way for us it kinda solves things...just what works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x"

Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x

Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged. "

Agree

That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x

Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.

Agree

That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really "

Lots of them

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol "

Maybe theyre put off by the four socket extension cable that seems to be hanging from your knob ? : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol never thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x

Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.

Agree

That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really "

people use the site as they please. To call them timewasters for just wanting to chat is a bit harsh

Tomcat

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


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Maybe theyre put off by the four socket extension cable that seems to be hanging from your knob ? : ) "

Hope it has a Surge Protector!!

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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Mid Meath


"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol

Maybe theyre put off by the four socket extension cable that seems to be hanging from your knob ? : ) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all its good to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone who chats but never meets up wha about u x

Someone who doesn't show up for meets as arranged.

Agree

That is the only type I would consider a timewaster....some ppl just like to chat..no harm in it really "
no harm of course but should let u know at beginning they have no indication of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see anything wrong with people who are just here to chat if they state it on their profiles or from the get go in conversations. I'm only here for chat and forums at this time. If you message someone who says they are not meeting then it's you who is wasting your own time and not them. Just my opinion

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I dont see the issue with chatting. For me,i like to get a sense of the person im chatting to and that cant happen after one or two messages.If i decide not to meet ive saved myself time and the other persons time too.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol

Maybe theyre put off by the four socket extension cable that seems to be hanging from your knob ? : ) "

Or the sky remote and measuring tape guess what he was doing when he got snap happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just here to chat, and whats wrong with that? Quite often they make that clear from the start.

A timewaster to me is someone who does not show up for a date, or constantly cancels dates at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i mean people who say there gonna meet up but dont then try chat with u after

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"i mean people who say there gonna meet up but dont then try chat with u after "

Block them so.id understand a cancellation once or reschedule but not twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use this site to keep in touch with people I've met in clubs. So by your definition OP I'm a time waster. I'll remember that next time I'm being spit roasted. May even send you a message to tell you how much fun it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pool or women is small here as it is mate but then u take that some don't meet that pool becomes tiny but as they say, it's their perogative

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

u got it lol stand me up once shame on u do it again shame on me lol

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By *ardtofindMan
over a year ago

galway

It's not the nob it's what at ached to the nob people want to get to know. The only way I know to do that is to chat first Then a coffee meet And possibly maybe more Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a time waster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up. If costs money for hotels. Or even people who orginise partys and people say they will come and don't turn up. I know some things happen at the last min. But you got to let people know. Am I wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't see anything wrong with people who are just here to chat if they state it on their profiles or from the get go in conversations. I'm only here for chat and forums at this time. If you message someone who says they are not meeting then it's you who is wasting your own time and not them. Just my opinion "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a time waster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up. If costs money for hotels. Or even people who orginise partys and people say they will come and don't turn up. I know some things happen at the last min. But you got to let people know. Am I wrong??

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"alot of people on here just like to chat ... i dont want a penpal im ere for one thing lol "
. I don't think there is any need to worry about time wasters . They have no impact on other members . All you have to worry about is how you market yourself on fab.

In any event fakes or so called time wasters stand out like a sore thumb.

I just assume that poorly written profiles or those that are less than fifteen lines are not interested in meeting . .

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By *eamkinky2013Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Surprised there not alot more then this writting on this topic

Think sometimes there are very few gen people left on this site....

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"I think a time waster is someone who says they will meet and don't turn up. If costs money for hotels. Or even people who orginise partys and people say they will come and don't turn up. I know some things happen at the last min. But you got to let people know. Am I wrong?? "

No your not wrong...how ppl can do that I will never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprised there not alot more then this writting on this topic

Think sometimes there are very few gen people left on this site....

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Not at all. Ive been on and off a while and it just fets boring commenting on same topics after a while is all. There always has been and will be timewasters, fakes and so on on here. just like in vanilla life. Just cut the ones that dont matter and keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody get their fair share of timewasters its all part of experience. It be next to near impossible to totally eliminate them, after a while you develop

Ways to spot them and than minimizes the annoyance of it all.

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