FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked by hubby cause he didn't like what we talked about.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems a tad odd on a couples profile that the next day the hubby decides to block a guy cause he didn't like the "flirting" that went on the night before!

Why have a couples profile!

Anyway onwards and upwards.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

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Just the way things are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

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"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it."

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

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How do you know hubby did the blocking??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it."

Hadn't thought of that. Fair point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when messaging a couple profile you need to be aware all messages are equally shared and both need to "like" what you communicate to them..if one doesn't like how things are developing then there's no point in continuing hence the block button option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what they say..

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

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"How do you know hubby did the blocking??"

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

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"How do you know hubby did the blocking??"

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

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"How do you know hubby did the blocking??

???"

As per original post.. " the next day the hubby decides to block a guy..."!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had that too, just recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh heck! Seems a bit over sensitive if it was just a little phone fun. Maybe she used up all the free texts & it cost him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it."

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think my point is lost in a hasty and I'll judged post.

Appreciate now it has come across wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know hubby did the blocking??

???

As per original post.. " the next day the hubby decides to block a guy..."!!"

Are you answering your own question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems a tad odd on a couples profile that the next day the hubby decides to block a guy cause he didn't like the "flirting" that went on the night before!

Why have a couples profile!

Anyway onwards and upwards. "

probably had a few drinks at the time and enjoyed it then woke up the next day feeling all weird about it so hence the blocking. You find that a lot on here, few tipples brings out the bravery.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

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"How do you know hubby did the blocking??

???

As per original post.. " the next day the hubby decides to block a guy..."!!

Are you answering your own question lol

ehhh No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

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"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

...and very well put!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat "

Would Tomcat just block if he thought some guy was getting his jollies from dirty talk with Kitty or would he discuss it with Kitty first and then block as a mutual decision?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any single guys we meet or have met exchange texts with Mrs Sugar. Never with me. Why would I want to text them or have them text me? It's not like I want action with them or them with me. It's a MMF with Mrs Sugar as the focus after all.

As the action will be between Mrs Sugar and the guy in question, texting between them is fine with me and encouraged. A little flirting and sext texts builds the anticipation for her, and besides she always keeps me in the loop and shows me the texts.

If one part of a couple in too insecure that they block someone that their partner has been flirting with then maybe swinging really isn't an activity suited to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

This is spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the female half, I'm perfectly capable of deciding for myself which men I want to chat to. If Lee objected to someone, I would have no hesitation in cutting him off because I know where my priorities lie, but the idea that Lee would intervene and block someone in some kind of proprietorial hissy fit? Just lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the female half, I'm perfectly capable of deciding for myself which men I want to chat to. If Lee objected to someone, I would have no hesitation in cutting him off because I know where my priorities lie, but the idea that Lee would intervene and block someone in some kind of proprietorial hissy fit? Just lol"

Why oh why isn't Smallville a lot closer to us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat

Would Tomcat just block if he thought some guy was getting his jollies from dirty talk with Kitty or would he discuss it with Kitty first and then block as a mutual decision?"

Oh we would discuss it definitely. Couples profile after all. Both have equal input into it.

Tomcat

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

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"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat

Would Tomcat just block if he thought some guy was getting his jollies from dirty talk with Kitty or would he discuss it with Kitty first and then block as a mutual decision?

Oh we would discuss it definitely. Couples profile after all. Both have equal input into it.

Tomcat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

I get what you are saying and it's proper that people show respect and all that, but you've got to understand that the man's primary concern is fucking your wife and that's a fact no matter how respectful he is....he's after her pussy end of...unless of course he's Bi and seeks more..

It's just the nature of the beast. He will be nice and great company and all that but he's there to Fuck

C is well able to deal with people she's not happy with and I trust her judgement.

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth.

It's just the nature of the beast. He will be nice and great company and all that but he's there to Fuck

C is well able to deal with people she's not happy with and I trust her judgement.

Lee"

So if you had a bad feeling about a guy, you'd let him shag herself? Irrespective of how you felt?

Not a hope in this earth would I let him within the same town if possible. If I don't feel comfortable in him then it dies t happen, and also, if she has a bad feeling about a girl it dies t happen.

We go with our gut feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth.

It's just the nature of the beast. He will be nice and great company and all that but he's there to Fuck

C is well able to deal with people she's not happy with and I trust her judgement.

Lee

So if you had a bad feeling about a guy, you'd let him shag herself? Irrespective of how you felt?

Not a hope in this earth would I let him within the same town if possible. If I don't feel comfortable in him then it dies t happen, and also, if she has a bad feeling about a girl it dies t happen.

We go with our gut feeling.

Up to now it's been fairly obvious to us that there are a very limited number of guys we would meet and both of us have a fair idea of what C likes. Sometimes I see her in conversation with guys and you can read between lines and I know where it's going fast if he steps out of line.

It's true she would say I've the final veto, but I've not yet had to use it as she's an extremely good judge of character.

But I completely get what you are saying, and if I find there's a guy I'm not happy with then I'll tell her, but she is picky

She's got high standards,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth.

It's just the nature of the beast. He will be nice and great company and all that but he's there to Fuck

C is well able to deal with people she's not happy with and I trust her judgement.

Lee

So if you had a bad feeling about a guy, you'd let him shag herself? Irrespective of how you felt?

Not a hope in this earth would I let him within the same town if possible. If I don't feel comfortable in him then it dies t happen, and also, if she has a bad feeling about a girl it dies t happen.

We go with our gut feeling.

It's true she would say I've the final veto, but I've not yet had to use it as she's an extremely good judge of character.

But I completely get what you are saying, and if I find there's a guy I'm not happy with then I'll tell her, but she is picky

She's got high standards,

Something got lost in translation because our views are similar

I am happy to sit back and look at the chats, but once I see something I don't like I intervene. Doesn't matter how nice she thinks he is, if we both don't agree it doesn't happen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth.

It's just the nature of the beast. He will be nice and great company and all that but he's there to Fuck

C is well able to deal with people she's not happy with and I trust her judgement.

Lee

So if you had a bad feeling about a guy, you'd let him shag herself? Irrespective of how you felt?

Not a hope in this earth would I let him within the same town if possible. If I don't feel comfortable in him then it dies t happen, and also, if she has a bad feeling about a girl it dies t happen.

We go with our gut feeling.

It's true she would say I've the final veto, but I've not yet had to use it as she's an extremely good judge of character.

But I completely get what you are saying, and if I find there's a guy I'm not happy with then I'll tell her, but she is picky

She's got high standards,

Something got lost in translation because our views are similar

I am happy to sit back and look at the chats, but once I see something I don't like I intervene. Doesn't matter how nice she thinks he is, if we both don't agree it doesn't happen..."

Agreed, in our time here, I've not yet had a situation where she liked a guy and I didn't. We are very close and our tastes or the type of personality we are comfortable with are extremely similar. You know what you want in any case and are experienced enough to see the red flags.

Lots about though who have insecurities or trust issues and not better place for it to surface. I wish you good fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth.

It's just the nature of the beast. He will be nice and great company and all that but he's there to Fuck

C is well able to deal with people she's not happy with and I trust her judgement.

Lee

So if you had a bad feeling about a guy, you'd let him shag herself? Irrespective of how you felt?

Not a hope in this earth would I let him within the same town if possible. If I don't feel comfortable in him then it dies t happen, and also, if she has a bad feeling about a girl it dies t happen.

We go with our gut feeling.

It's true she would say I've the final veto, but I've not yet had to use it as she's an extremely good judge of character.

But I completely get what you are saying, and if I find there's a guy I'm not happy with then I'll tell her, but she is picky

She's got high standards,

Something got lost in translation because our views are similar

I am happy to sit back and look at the chats, but once I see something I don't like I intervene. Doesn't matter how nice she thinks he is, if we both don't agree it doesn't happen...

Lots about though who have insecurities or trust issues and not better place for it to surface. I wish you good fun!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of men do ye Like if u don't mind .e asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A mistake I (Mr K) find, is when some guys message us, and he seems ok, we message back (Mrs K would normally)

Then they focus all the messages to her, and forget we are a couple. Bottom line is, if I don't get a good feeling that you are sound, there is no way you are fucking my wife.

That is the thing they forget, she is "my wife" my life, my best friend.

If you ignore the couple element you can forget about any ideas you may have if being with her.

Just the way we work, our opinion for what it's worth."

couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What kind of men do ye Like if u don't mind .e asking"

I think the comment we put up explains our view on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok cool Mr k I'll remember that did ye have a good weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok cool Mr k I'll remember that did ye have a good weekend"

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

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"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat "

same here Tomcat, if a guy gets out of hand or any way pushy Niall hits the block button. Or if he will chat away to me but won't chat at all to Niall its instant block, after all its both of us here, respect to Niall is just as important as respect to me. At the back of it all I'm his woman and no one will get near me unless it's OK with both of us

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat

Tina

That kinda guy annoys me. A old profile who was here until recently on the forums (seems his profile went the way of the dodo lately) did that to one of our old profiles and was told in no uncertain terms what I thought of him. Poor rudeness in my opinion. Was funny watching him talk utter shit to make excuses on the plus side.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is der nuthin at all on da telly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it odd? It's a couples profile,two people,and you have to get on with both of them.

In this case you obviously didn't,so one blocked you.get over it.

Completely agreed. If I don't like the way someone is talking to kitty id have no problem blocking them or if I think its a guy getting his jollies off over a bit of dirty talk ill block too.

Tomcat

Tina

Exactly...

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