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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

My guy wants to try a bit of Naughty Talk in the bedroom. Now I'm not shy & love all the new experiences that I'm having on Fab but I've never tried dirty talk. Think I would feel self-conscious or giggle my tits off. Anyone any ideas where I could start & how to pull it off??

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Call him a wretched little oik and tell him to prepare himself for a world of pain!! Too much?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"My guy wants to try a bit of Naughty Talk in the bedroom. Now I'm not shy & love all the new experiences that I'm having on Fab but I've never tried dirty talk. Think I would feel self-conscious or giggle my tits off. Anyone any ideas where I could start & how to pull it off?? "

Are you just giving him a hand job

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Get into the mindset that youre a porn star. Beautiful and so damn sexy he needs to prove to you hes turning you on.... start off with gentle moans encouraging him to go harder here or gentler there...that hes a sexy beast and a dirty fk... when the tension increases use graphic words..i want your cock baby..my pussy is soaking for you etc.... ill get the naughty step if i say anymore cos id turn the air blue!!!... you get the jist though yes??

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

Lol Wilder, I want to turn him on not belittle him & shrink his manhood.

Thanks _isdirtygirl, good advice. Il start slow & nice and get slowly into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm miss.... sounds like your onto something :P

OP.... relax ... if you giggle hell get over it. Ive gotten tongue tied myself in the heat of passion and we just laughed it off !

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Get into the mindset that youre a porn star. Beautiful and so damn sexy he needs to prove to you hes turning you on.... start off with gentle moans encouraging him to go harder here or gentler there...that hes a sexy beast and a dirty fk... when the tension increases use graphic words..i want your cock baby..my pussy is soaking for you etc.... ill get the naughty step if i say anymore cos id turn the air blue!!!... you get the jist though yes?? "

Great advice .....don't worry op i'm rubbish too i usually just can't take myself seriously enough to not laugh but there have been occasions /people who have inspired me so let it happen as/ when/how it feels right for you.

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn lots and lots of adjectives. It's soooo much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you talk about some of your favourite meets and what you liked seeing him do and how you enjoyed what you wer doing, that way you can picture it n remb the feeling, Mr Gee loves that and I cam get very graphic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very sexy some dirty talk in the throws of it all just tell him what you like being done to you in a graphic kinda way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try giving him tiquila and talk dirty in Spanish

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a hard one if it's not in your nature, but a strong drink beforehand might help to loosen the tongue.

I know I'm crap with talking dirty, just doesn't sit with me and feel stupid when giving an attempt. My receipe is to make it up with some loud moaning, I'm rather good with that one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try giving him tiquila and talk dirty in Spanish "

Ash has that covered but with Suddy.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Real dirty talk to most men would be did u put the bins out,that ceiling needs painting, thee grass needsmowing, think we need to change those curtains and the one that really drives em mad is will u come shopping with me I need a new dress now that's what u call pure filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try giving him tiquila and talk dirty in Spanish

Ash has that covered but with Suddy."
lol ash is a law onto herself

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Fair enough if you're able to talk dirty but I've learned that it's just not something i can do. It ends up spoiling the mood and we end up stopping just to laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair enough if you're able to talk dirty but I've learned that it's just not something i can do. It ends up spoiling the mood and we end up stopping just to laugh. "

Wait until someone is gently scraping a full set of French manicured nails along your shaft & balls telling you they won't suck it until you tell them how you want it sucked & by whom...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just a suggestion but when ur up on all fours and he's doing u doggy why not start a convo like

U, harder

Him.sorry what did u say

U. I said harder fuck me harder

And see where it takes ye by the way if does take off I want the transcript one good turn deserves another like

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Fair enough if you're able to talk dirty but I've learned that it's just not something i can do. It ends up spoiling the mood and we end up stopping just to laugh.

Wait until someone is gently scraping a full set of French manicured nails along your shaft & balls telling you they won't suck it until you tell them how you want it sucked & by whom... "

Oh oh sweet devine u have got mail candy

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Fair enough if you're able to talk dirty but I've learned that it's just not something i can do. It ends up spoiling the mood and we end up stopping just to laugh.

Wait until someone is gently scraping a full set of French manicured nails along your shaft & balls telling you they won't suck it until you tell them how you want it sucked & by whom... "

Good point but i can't promise i won't end up giving them the giggles.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Real dirty talk to most men would be did u put the bins out,that ceiling needs painting, thee grass needsmowing, think we need to change those curtains and the one that really drives em mad is will u come shopping with me I need a new dress now that's what u call pure filth "

And there's me thinking you like the ladies changing room when your shopping

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Real dirty talk to most men would be did u put the bins out,that ceiling needs painting, thee grass needsmowing, think we need to change those curtains and the one that really drives em mad is will u come shopping with me I need a new dress now that's what u call pure filth

And there's me thinking you like the ladies changing room when your shopping "

Depends on WHOS in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well all I know is when a man talks dirty to a woman you can be accused of Sexual harassment.but when a woman talks dirty to a man it's €2.99 a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My guy wants to try a bit of Naughty Talk in the bedroom. Now I'm not shy & love all the new experiences that I'm having on Fab but I've never tried dirty talk. Think I would feel self-conscious or giggle my tits off. Anyone any ideas where I could start & how to pull it off?? "

Talk to him slow and calm , and start touching yourself, describe how you feel and ask him does he want have you. I had this done before playing and it got me fairly worked up. Cannot fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider myself a good dirty talker I love it! I find telling him or her what you want and how you want them to do it generally does the trick.. I have to be careful though because I have made someone cum without any touching at all hahaha true story! It was a nice appetiser lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would consider myself a good dirty talker I love it! I find telling him or her what you want and how you want them to do it generally does the trick.. I have to be careful though because I have made someone cum without any touching at all hahaha true story! It was a nice appetiser lol"

Did they atleast get it up straight afterwards.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes tbg lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh martinis are kicking in haha

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By *olepullerMan
over a year ago

Newry


"I would consider myself a good dirty talker I love it! I find telling him or her what you want and how you want them to do it generally does the trick.. I have to be careful though because I have made someone cum without any touching at all hahaha true story! It was a nice appetiser lol

Did they atleast get it up straight afterwards.lol"
newry here too m8

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

Thanks everyone. Yeah I think il take the advice of CandyStore & Samalan. A little mix of telling him what I want & how it feels with the teasing him part and see how that sits before deciding to use the dirty words. He's very vanilla so I don't want to scare him off & at same time I want it to appear natural rather than porn talk (il progress to that lol) and sure if it fails we'll just giggle about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it a bit on the rough side with some spanking as he fucks you, some dominance on his part may help as he asks you are you getting what you need. A few orgasms in there at the right time also will make it hotter.

It all starts in the brain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always try it on the phone from another room with him too...?

Then go & see the results.

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