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"Can people help please, due to meet female tonight but went quiet this evening, even though she told me her address beforehand. Should i turn up or not.. Its an hour away" Turn up | |||
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"Can people help please, due to meet female tonight but went quiet this evening, even though she told me her address beforehand. Should i turn up or not.. Its an hour away" Are you sure its a female at all? Is this person verified? | |||
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"Maybe she is away getting the hair done. Did she give u her number, I wouldn't trust someone giving me their address without them giving me their number. " Got to agree with the phone number and address Tomcat | |||
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"Maybe she is away getting the hair done. Did she give u her number, I wouldn't trust someone giving me their address without them giving me their number. " didnt give me her number | |||
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"Did you arrange to meet at her house ? She could just be busy but I'd def like to make contact before I turned up at someone's door x" yes arranged to meet at her place | |||
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"Did you arrange to meet at her house ? She could just be busy but I'd def like to make contact before I turned up at someone's door x yes arranged to meet at her place " Definatly a bummer.... Your between a rock and a hard place there mate. It's hard to know what to do... Drive a hour for some boum shikka wow wa or drive an hour for some spa to have a laugh.... Tough call! | |||
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"We always have our meets at our home without giving any phone numbers so not all of us can be fake some just like too protect there private numbers from other members on fab just go with your gut if u think it's a waste of time leave it at that if not take a chance " Have you considered what might happen if this is someone's idea of a nasty joke? If there was contact & now unexpectedly none I'd be wondering about the validity of the offer. | |||
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"I'd knock on her door If you don't get the response your looking for you could run Knick knock " Ah can you imagine a big bruiser chasing him down the street while he's screaming "KNICK KNOCK!" "KNICK KNOCK!". | |||
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"We always have our meets at our home without giving any phone numbers so not all of us can be fake some just like too protect there private numbers from other members on fab just go with your gut if u think it's a waste of time leave it at that if not take a chance Have you considered what might happen if this is someone's idea of a nasty joke? If there was contact & now unexpectedly none I'd be wondering about the validity of the offer." I understand that that there's messesers out there but not all of us are messers infact none of our meets have gotten our private number other than hosts of party's | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. " how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live " But if you're expecting someone do you suddenly go quiet hours before? | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live But if you're expecting someone do you suddenly go quiet hours before?" nope we stay online till there at our door or near enough at it | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live " Because we never bring anyone to our home or tell them where we live - if things go wrong and you get a psycho or a stalker it's a damn sight easier to change a phone number than to move | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live " I have a separate email away from real life. Nothing at all to do with any part of my life. That's how I make contact here! | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live But if you're expecting someone do you suddenly go quiet hours before? nope we stay online till there at our door or near enough at it " I'd be the same. I guess that's his problem then, he can't get hold of her to make sure everything's still going ahead. | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live Because we never bring anyone to our home or tell them where we live - if things go wrong and you get a psycho or a stalker it's a damn sight easier to change a phone number than to move" that's fair enough but surely your partner or hubby is able too stand up for his lady an a stalker can easily tract u down with your phone number via Facebook or other social media sites it has happened too us twice in the past all due too our phone number being handed out | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live But if you're expecting someone do you suddenly go quiet hours before? nope we stay online till there at our door or near enough at it I'd be the same. I guess that's his problem then, he can't get hold of her to make sure everything's still going ahead." well if she's ain't replying I'd leave her off common sense | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live Because we never bring anyone to our home or tell them where we live - if things go wrong and you get a psycho or a stalker it's a damn sight easier to change a phone number than to move that's fair enough but surely your partner or hubby is able too stand up for his lady an a stalker can easily tract u down with your phone number via Facebook or other social media sites it has happened too us twice in the past all due too our phone number being handed out " I dont give out my phone number either(we only use kik) and its not as if your partner is with you 24/7 is it? | |||
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"Go buy a pizza from dominos, then turn up and knock at the door, if a big maniacal lookin dude answers just pretend your a delivery man.." I like this idea lol only you might need a domino cap? If she's there you brought a gift! Lol if not you get a dominos pizza to yourself! Win win | |||
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"I had a meet similar to this a couple of years ago ... Long story short, Turned up at her door happy as Larry. The girl that answered the door was the one in the pics and all the email we had exchanged, however it turned out she hadn't a clue what was going on and got quite freaked about it! I explained myself and gave her a look at some of the mail and contents of same on my phone and she realised what was going on telling me that I had been a pawn in a sick game. It turns out the EX boyfriend had been dumped by her and had been harassing her non stop since then. This was just the next step for him to wind her up! We actually kept in touch for a while and eventually she had to get the guards involved to get this nutter to stop. Lesson learned I can tell you " There is a profile that turns up in here every few weeks different user names. The only pics up are full face pics of a girl and I always think this is a revenge post. I report every time. This could be the set up. | |||
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"Well what's the update did she get in contact or are u like the rest of us waiting to hear her excuse " | |||
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"The bloke on her friends list could be her x" Or she could be the bloke. 3 fellas I know have been caught out on here by the same fella who pretends to be a single woman or a couple | |||
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"The bloke on her friends list could be her x Or she could be the bloke. 3 fellas I know have been caught out on here by the same fella who pretends to be a single woman or a couple" That's what I ment lol x the bloke on her friends could be pretending to be her x | |||
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"The bloke on her friends list could be her x Or she could be the bloke. 3 fellas I know have been caught out on here by the same fella who pretends to be a single woman or a couple That's what I ment lol x the bloke on her friends could be pretending to be her x" | |||
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"I had a meet similar to this a couple of years ago ... Long story short, Turned up at her door happy as Larry. The girl that answered the door was the one in the pics and all the email we had exchanged, however it turned out she hadn't a clue what was going on and got quite freaked about it! I explained myself and gave her a look at some of the mail and contents of same on my phone and she realised what was going on telling me that I had been a pawn in a sick game. It turns out the EX boyfriend had been dumped by her and had been harassing her non stop since then. This was just the next step for him to wind her up! We actually kept in touch for a while and eventually she had to get the guards involved to get this nutter to stop. Lesson learned I can tell you " This is what was going through my mind. Now let's change Yossers understanding lady to a vulnerable single Mum with small kids....I'd be absolutely terrified. | |||
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"Giving out an adress before a phone number sounds pretty suspect to me. how though we don't exchange numbers with any of our meets other than telling them where we live Because we never bring anyone to our home or tell them where we live - if things go wrong and you get a psycho or a stalker it's a damn sight easier to change a phone number than to move that's fair enough but surely your partner or hubby is able too stand up for his lady an a stalker can easily tract u down with your phone number via Facebook or other social media sites it has happened too us twice in the past all due too our phone number being handed out I dont give out my phone number either(we only use kik) and its not as if your partner is with you 24/7 is it? " yes my husband is with me when where meeting of course he's not around 24/7 but if we are meeting strangers for nsa fun he's always there | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, " Bit of a stalkerish comment | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment " no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? " Yes I did ... If the lady has gone on the missing list I don't think it's appropriate to start hunting her down sorry do some PI work... Maybe she changed her mind or something came up ... Yes it's bad form to keep the op hanging but that doesn't mean one can invade her private life outside of here especially if family are involved or an emergency has occurred | |||
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"Why would you go to someone you don't know house????" I agree with snow white why would you ... | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? Yes I did ... If the lady has gone on the missing list I don't think it's appropriate to start hunting her down sorry do some PI work... Maybe she changed her mind or something came up ... Yes it's bad form to keep the op hanging but that doesn't mean one can invade her private life outside of here especially if family are involved or an emergency has occurred" he wanted to find out, was it a woman in the first place, might not even be a real address, why would someone give you their address? when they haven't talked to you on Skype or phone, | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? Yes I did ... If the lady has gone on the missing list I don't think it's appropriate to start hunting her down sorry do some PI work... Maybe she changed her mind or something came up ... Yes it's bad form to keep the op hanging but that doesn't mean one can invade her private life outside of here especially if family are involved or an emergency has occurred he wanted to find out, was it a woman in the first place, might not even be a real address, why would someone give you their address? when they haven't talked to you on Skype or phone," True but why still consider turning up if there is doubt .... Just leave it and if she makes contact sort something out but don't invade someone's privacy with some PI work... | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? Yes I did ... If the lady has gone on the missing list I don't think it's appropriate to start hunting her down sorry do some PI work... Maybe she changed her mind or something came up ... Yes it's bad form to keep the op hanging but that doesn't mean one can invade her private life outside of here especially if family are involved or an emergency has occurred he wanted to find out, was it a woman in the first place, might not even be a real address, why would someone give you their address? when they haven't talked to you on Skype or phone, True but why still consider turning up if there is doubt .... Just leave it and if she makes contact sort something out but don't invade someone's privacy with some PI work... " I didn't tell him to turn up, it would be the last thing on my mind, I was just saying, you can check if its a real address. | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? Yes I did ... If the lady has gone on the missing list I don't think it's appropriate to start hunting her down sorry do some PI work... Maybe she changed her mind or something came up ... Yes it's bad form to keep the op hanging but that doesn't mean one can invade her private life outside of here especially if family are involved or an emergency has occurred he wanted to find out, was it a woman in the first place, might not even be a real address, why would someone give you their address? when they haven't talked to you on Skype or phone, True but why still consider turning up if there is doubt .... Just leave it and if she makes contact sort something out but don't invade someone's privacy with some PI work... I didn't tell him to turn up, it would be the last thing on my mind, I was just saying, you can check if its a real address." There's a line and looking up someone in a phone book is a line crossed even if the person in question is fake or not | |||
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"if you have her address, must have her name, check the phonebook, might have a landline, Bit of a stalkerish comment no, just some good PI work. did you read what this thread is about? Yes I did ... If the lady has gone on the missing list I don't think it's appropriate to start hunting her down sorry do some PI work... Maybe she changed her mind or something came up ... Yes it's bad form to keep the op hanging but that doesn't mean one can invade her private life outside of here especially if family are involved or an emergency has occurred he wanted to find out, was it a woman in the first place, might not even be a real address, why would someone give you their address? when they haven't talked to you on Skype or phone, True but why still consider turning up if there is doubt .... Just leave it and if she makes contact sort something out but don't invade someone's privacy with some PI work... I didn't tell him to turn up, it would be the last thing on my mind, I was just saying, you can check if its a real address. There's a line and looking up someone in a phone book is a line crossed even if the person in question is fake or not" hold your horses, where is crossing the line? if they gave you their address.. | |||
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"We always have our meets at our home without giving any phone numbers so not all of us can be fake some just like too protect there private numbers from other members on fab just go with your gut if u think it's a waste of time leave it at that if not take a chance " Not critisising as I've had people over to my house too but isn't a home more vurnerable than a phone number? You can change a phone, yes bit of hassle but if we're willing to risk our addresses what does a phone number matter? | |||
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"Why would you go to someone you don't know house???? I agree with snow white why would you ... " Sure I think even if you've met a person once for the coffee meet or not whenever you go to their house, you still don't know them | |||
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"If someone gave you a house address I would nearly guarantee you were talking to 1. A guy pretending to be a woman 2. A guy pissed off with someone maybe an ex who's picture he probably used to entice you to meet 3. An idiot trying to get you to act like an idiot Block and forget " Agree totally. | |||
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"We always have our meets at our home without giving any phone numbers so not all of us can be fake some just like too protect there private numbers from other members on fab just go with your gut if u think it's a waste of time leave it at that if not take a chance Not critisising as I've had people over to my house too but isn't a home more vurnerable than a phone number? You can change a phone, yes bit of hassle but if we're willing to risk our addresses what does a phone number matter?" I do see where your coming from but I'd rather deal with a person face2face more sore than them finding my family and friends on other social media sites true phone numbers just my opinion I'm a big boy an well able too handle myself an my wife we had in the past had trouble with 2 guys there where quickly told where too go not a word since | |||
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"Anyone know what happened?? Was the woman real? Were her veris real? Was the house real? Was the woman's friend real? Did they live happily ever after? Or did he turn up at the house to find... A) a bewildered family staring at him.. wondering who the fuck are you?! B) a group of setanic devil worshippers..with big smiles on their faces Or C) the local estate agent.. would be a good way to drum up business Anyone know?? " I'd love to know what happened too. !!! I wonder is he still there ??? | |||
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"Can people help please, due to meet female tonight but went quiet this evening, even though she told me her address beforehand. Should i turn up or not.. Its an hour away" . I would never leave the house if the meet did not answer their phone just as I was about to leave . Anyone worried about giving out their number can buy a cheap payg phone just for fab activities . | |||
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"Most people have a separate swing phone we do and we only use that Sam" well where of those who don't and tend not too get one either | |||
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"If someone gave you a house address I would nearly guarantee you were talking to 1. A guy pretending to be a woman 2. A guy pissed off with someone maybe an ex who's picture he probably used to entice you to meet 3. An idiot trying to get you to act like an idiot Block and forget " well cleary your wrong there where not fake like I said above!! | |||
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"Anyone know what happened?? Was the woman real? Were her veris real? Was the house real? Was the woman's friend real? Did they live happily ever after? Or did he turn up at the house to find... A) a bewildered family staring at him.. wondering who the fuck are you?! B) a group of setanic devil worshippers..with big smiles on their faces Or C) the local estate agent.. would be a good way to drum up business Anyone know?? I'd love to know what happened too. !!! I wonder is he still there ??? " Or has he been sacrificed!! | |||
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"Ok sorry for not updating sooner as you seem to want to know whats gone on. I didnt go didnt feel right just turning up at some random address as didnt even speak to her. She messaged me next day saying to call down next week, i just told her maybe in new year. Unless i get phone number theres not a chance ile be going" Would a phone number make much difference in this case? It could be real and the address could still be fake. I'd arrange to meet somewhere nearby, a local pub maybe | |||
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"Ok sorry for not updating sooner as you seem to want to know whats gone on. I didnt go didnt feel right just turning up at some random address as didnt even speak to her. She messaged me next day saying to call down next week, i just told her maybe in new year. Unless i get phone number theres not a chance ile be going Would a phone number make much difference in this case? It could be real and the address could still be fake. I'd arrange to meet somewhere nearby, a local pub maybe" Definatly. You just don't know who or what you are walking into man.... | |||
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"Ok sorry for not updating sooner as you seem to want to know whats gone on. I didnt go didnt feel right just turning up at some random address as didnt even speak to her. She messaged me next day saying to call down next week, i just told her maybe in new year. Unless i get phone number theres not a chance ile be going Would a phone number make much difference in this case? It could be real and the address could still be fake. I'd arrange to meet somewhere nearby, a local pub maybe" . With a phone number you should be able to make a realistic assessment of the potential meet . In any event , not many fakes will go to the bother of writing a detailed profile .. | |||
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"If someone gave you a house address I would nearly guarantee you were talking to 1. A guy pretending to be a woman 2. A guy pissed off with someone maybe an ex who's picture he probably used to entice you to meet 3. An idiot trying to get you to act like an idiot Block and forget well cleary your wrong there where not fake like I said above!! " Not sure if you read or understand my point but I done know or care if you are fake | |||
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"If someone gave you a house address I would nearly guarantee you were talking to 1. A guy pretending to be a woman 2. A guy pissed off with someone maybe an ex who's picture he probably used to entice you to meet 3. An idiot trying to get you to act like an idiot Block and forget well cleary your wrong there where not fake like I said above!! Not sure if you read or understand my point but I done know or care if you are fake " either do I care but you said most and I replied not all of us are fake just because someone refuses to give out there number that don't mean there fake or guys pretending to be women and where not one of those who you said happy crimbo | |||
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"Hahahaha ridiculous .....obviously the block button is useful for a reason ..... You" for what reason I dunno iv never had any dealings with you but everyone has different views on different topics seasons greetings guys | |||
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"Well I blocked you about a year ago but you still feel the need to comment on my comments in a cuntish way ... But hey that's just you Sam " nope not all as I said people have different views on different topics an in this case and in many other cases with other members we sometimes so but like I care have a good Xmas | |||
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"Is it a domestic" nope not that I'm aware of I just simply stated my view on it no big deal really | |||
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"It's all about good adult fun " more fukin less bitching | |||
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"It's all about good adult fun " more fukin less bitching | |||
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