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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just looking for general observations! When would you look at a profile and think " oh he's not verified yet at this stage there must be something wrong"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 weeks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 weeks..."
I would of said six myself but well go with five cause I'm feeling a little bit mean today

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 weeks..."

Oh Candy, you're so cruel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 weeks..."
Anyone could say that by looking at my profile and giving a smart answer!

Legitimate answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't judge I know how hard it is to find a meet

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

About as long as it takes you to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol took me 6 weeks to get my first social meet its bloody hard on here first time around

So none of u ladies would meet me lol

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"5 weeks...I would of said six myself but well go with five cause I'm feeling a little bit mean today

Tomcat "

Ah come on ladies!! It's Christmas, why not make it 6 weeks??

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Just looking for general observations! When would you look at a profile and think " oh he's not verified yet at this stage there must be something wrong"? "

5 weeks isn't long mate... Why not try looking for Social or Coffee meet.

As it's Xmas why not try meeting for a Xmas drink purely as a Social meet??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just looking for general observations! When would you look at a profile and think " oh he's not verified yet at this stage there must be something wrong"?

5 weeks isn't long mate... Why not try looking for Social or Coffee meet.

As it's Xmas why not try meeting for a Xmas drink purely as a Social meet??

"
tried that already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a piece of string, really depends how much time one spends on Fab, but I'd say they should be giving themselves 3 months to get the meet that THEY would like and not just any meet

After 6 months and no verify, without legit reason, like they haven't logged on, I would be thinking something is wrong. Could be many things like poor profile, an ability to converse or respect others boundaries for a start

But I guess this is just a problem for men here.....unless of course you are a woman looking for that special one!

Lee

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Just looking for general observations! When would you look at a profile and think " oh he's not verified yet at this stage there must be something wrong"?

5 weeks isn't long mate... Why not try looking for Social or Coffee meet.

As it's Xmas why not try meeting for a Xmas drink purely as a Social meet??

tried that already "

then try it again... and again..and again!

Keep at it until someone agrees just to shut you up!! Just be like a dog with a bone!! (not boner.. )

Start a new thread every day...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just looking for general observations! When would you look at a profile and think " oh he's not verified yet at this stage there must be something wrong"?

5 weeks isn't long mate... Why not try looking for Social or Coffee meet.

As it's Xmas why not try meeting for a Xmas drink purely as a Social meet??

tried that already

then try it again... and again..and again!

Keep at it until someone agrees just to shut you up!! Just be like a dog with a bone!! (not boner.. )

Start a new thread every day... "
ha! Sure u can't do that! U try hard to get a meet, ur classed as desperate

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

...and if you don't try??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a piece of string, really depends how much time one spends on Fab, but I'd say they should be giving themselves 3 months to get the meet that THEY would like and not just any meet

After 6 months and no verify, without legit reason, like they haven't logged on, I would be thinking something is wrong. Could be many things like poor profile, an ability to converse or respect others boundaries for a start

But I guess this is just a problem for men here.....unless of course you are a woman looking for that special one!

Oh forgot,if you are an arrogant f@%k then I think most women will strike you off their list

Lee "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...and if you don't try??"
ur questioned after a certain length of time as to why ur still unverified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When u have joined on about your 10th profile and noone has ever met you because you don't do social meets because they are a waste of time according to you and you won't meet people you don't want to fuck so you won't meet men just for a social to get verified. And you also won't travel. I think u should just hire someone rather than trying here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When u have joined on about your 10th profile and noone has ever met you because you don't do social meets because they are a waste of time according to you and you won't meet people you don't want to fuck so you won't meet men just for a social to get verified. And you also won't travel. I think u should just hire someone rather than trying here.. "
i said I would meet men on another thread for a coffee! U must have missed that

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"...and if you don't try??ur questioned after a certain length of time as to why ur still unverified! "

On the previous thread there was a very nice offer from the male half of a couple to meet for a coffee... did anyone take up this offer??

Male half of couples have verified guys as being genuine etc... and nothing wrong with that at all!!

It was made clear it was just for a coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you will meet men for social meets but not women. How strange. But I'm guessing you expect them to come to your front door with the coffee in hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you will meet men for social meets but not women. How strange. But I'm guessing you expect them to come to your front door with the coffee in hand."
what are u on about? I put up a thread here looking for a social coffee to get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...and if you don't try??ur questioned after a certain length of time as to why ur still unverified!

On the previous thread there was a very nice offer from the male half of a couple to meet for a coffee... did anyone take up this offer??

Male half of couples have verified guys as being genuine etc... and nothing wrong with that at all!!

It was made clear it was just for a coffee!"

Tbh, I think a male to male veri doesn't seem to carry the same value as meeting a woman or couple, unless of course the male doing the verification has a lot of what would be seen as trustworthy genuine good verifications. There is a responsibility here to ensure you aren't giving the wrong impression to a lady who could end up meeting a completely different guy to what the veri might suggest.

Lee

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"So you will meet men for social meets but not women. How strange. But I'm guessing you expect them to come to your front door with the coffee in hand.what are u on about? I put up a thread here looking for a social coffee to get verified "

Once!

Do it everyday until someone meets just to shut you up!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"...and if you don't try??ur questioned after a certain length of time as to why ur still unverified!

On the previous thread there was a very nice offer from the male half of a couple to meet for a coffee... did anyone take up this offer??

Male half of couples have verified guys as being genuine etc... and nothing wrong with that at all!!

It was made clear it was just for a coffee!

Tbh, I think a male to male veri doesn't seem to carry the same value as meeting a woman or couple, unless of course the male doing the verification has a lot of what would be seen as trustworthy genuine good verifications. There is a responsibility here to ensure you aren't giving the wrong impression to a lady who could end up meeting a completely different guy to what the veri might suggest.

Lee"
ye I was told that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never put a time limit on it ourselves. We both found the unverified people we met as singles were often more reliable than the verified people . We were both previously stood up by verified profiles. Definitely wouldn't rule out meeting unverified people again

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"...and if you don't try??ur questioned after a certain length of time as to why ur still unverified!

On the previous thread there was a very nice offer from the male half of a couple to meet for a coffee... did anyone take up this offer??

Male half of couples have verified guys as being genuine etc... and nothing wrong with that at all!!

It was made clear it was just for a coffee!

Tbh, I think a male to male veri doesn't seem to carry the same value as meeting a woman or couple, unless of course the male doing the verification has a lot of what would be seen as trustworthy genuine good verifications. There is a responsibility here to ensure you aren't giving the wrong impression to a lady who could end up meeting a completely different guy to what the veri might suggest.

Lee"

Indeed! From memory, the male that made the offer was well verified as part of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you will meet men for social meets but not women. How strange. But I'm guessing you expect them to come to your front door with the coffee in hand.what are u on about? I put up a thread here looking for a social coffee to get verified

Once!

Do it everyday until someone meets just to shut you up!! "
no

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"So you will meet men for social meets but not women. How strange. But I'm guessing you expect them to come to your front door with the coffee in hand.what are u on about? I put up a thread here looking for a social coffee to get verified

Once!

Do it everyday until someone meets just to shut you up!! no "

OK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say within a week of joining you should have at least one veri. If you have plenty cock pics, sky remotes and lynx cans then maybe 2 veri in first week. Posting desperation to meet threads, well then the sky is the limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"5 weeks...I would of said six myself but well go with five cause I'm feeling a little bit mean today

Tomcat

Ah come on ladies!! It's Christmas, why not make it 6 weeks?? "

Bah humbug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 weeks for me but guess I live busy life.

Glad I didn't give up or wasn't given up on.

That would make the whole place far less interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined it took me about 8 weeks or so to get verified by meeting in person. I'm happy I bided my time as it couldn't have been a better experience. At the time you could get cam verified or phone verified but it wasn't something that I wanted to do. As a result I was called a fake for the first couple of months but not one fook did I give.

I think by 3 months you would think to have got at least a social meet under the belt regardless of what happened on it. If not maybe the site isn't working out for the person.

Empty unverified profiles here over a year I'd never reply to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say within a week of joining you should have at least one veri. If you have plenty cock pics, sky remotes and lynx cans then maybe 2 veri in first week. Posting desperation to meet threads, well then the sky is the limit "

Smartarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it someone has been on for 4/5 months and actively using forum and regularly on wud be wondering why not getting anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people prefer anonymotivitinessitynousnous and don't need or want veris

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