FabSwingers.com forum: its nice to be nice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why dont ppl reply when u message them, even just to say sorry not interested, i hate ignorant ppl, i was allways told it costs nothing to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya Tim,

we get loads of mails from single guys at both this couples profile and usee gets them - really try to reply to them all but sometimes ya don't get to.

Also some people have clicked the option to block single guys, so they may not even know you've mailed them!

All that said - judging from some of the forums and profiles I've read in here - there's some terrible arrogant & ignorant folk in here who treat single guys like second class citizen - sure there's lots of them, sure some of them can be over bearing and annoying - but I think everyone deserves the chance to prove they are decent!

Mmm I'm ranting again - where's the vodka!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the reply waitanduuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oops spelt it wrong sorry ( WAITANDUSEE ) lol

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

well first of all we get loads of mail from single men and we dont get to replay to all of them for the reason there is just to many sometimes, the ones we do replay back to have sometimes came off with some rude and cheeky replays because we have said no thanks, and another reason why we havent gave a relay back because just from there age they havent had a read of our profile so if they havent had a read at what we are looking then why should we replay to them, and sometimes its not even single men its couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why tar us all with the same brush, there is still some genuine single guys out there. i no theres some males out there pretending to be females and couples just to get a wank off chat, but not all are like that

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

we have stated on profile that we wont reply to certain messages and if ppl not just single but cpls as well dont read it 1st thats their look out... may sound harsh but thats y ppl have profiles

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

just today alone we have replied to single males,and couples,but some of the messages are just wrong,youl see in previous threads the same type as this and its iscussed in lenght basically it boils down to either being t straight in the message,as i call it the joey syndrome,,"how you doin,or hey sexy wanna play",thats the type we dont reply to,,iv lost my train of tought now,wait pass the vodka

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

ill have some vodka to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone gets mail from singles on the site. We have every amount of time for singles ont his site.. however... when you log on and theres loads of mails ( from males ) all stating the same thing.. 2 be perfectly honest.. at times I ( male ) just cant be arsed replying to them. Although, we have updated our profile soo many times that some of the mails we get.. we simply wont reply to. cus they cant foooking read. Apart from that, any singles querying why they dont get reply, if you were to find a female to swing with id dare say that yas would get a lot lot lot more replys to any mails yas send out. If not, sometimes things are just the way they are... and remember folks.. keep reading profiles... we would love to mail loads more people, ( couples ), but when we read their profiles, theyre not suited to us... so.. guys.. read profiles..and stop moanin lol.. happy swinging xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i even had to put lesbian down three times on my profile so they would get the message. Its all about reading the profile.besides if they dont want to answer then isnt that your answer .

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By *weetnspicyWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Im newish to this site.. i must admit i dont answer all mails, personal reasons why someone wouldnt pique my interest.

if i answer with sorry not interested..then that seems equally as rude..and (cos im a real softy) then ur open to a reply saying "aw hun why" and not replying to that then makes u as rude as not replying to the first.

In general a no reply is a ...sorry not interested.

and a reply is a reply..with me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will always reply to e-mails sent to us even if its a no as its just polite. We meet lots of people on here and other sites and meet lots of single guys so we never mind when singles e-mail us. There is 1 pet hate we have. clearly states on our profile that we will not accept friends invites to people we dont know. It just amazing the amout of people that will send an requests to see our private pics! 90% of people dont read profiles at all, and this just dont happen from singles either. Even validated cpls do it without chatting to us first.Why do they do that??? Our blocked list is just hugh.. We mean what we say on our profile, were here to meet "which we do" we will block people that send invites without chatting first "which we do" who else on here has the same problem?

Naked;s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it too....and sometimes I am tempted to add people as friends out of laziness, so i can see why people do it...but it is quite annoying...normally to be bold, if they've pics, I'll add them quick, perve them quick then remove them from our friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tut tut tut naughty fokers ... LOL

tis okay ur not alone there ... hahaha

however i do agree "it is nice to be nice", it costs nothing. Those arseholes who keep coming back with the one liners however should just be blocked. Everyone m,f or cpl deserve a chance ... but if the F**k it up well it's time not to be nice then

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

"I hate it too....and sometimes I am tempted to add people as friends out of laziness, so i can see why people do it...but it is quite annoying...normally to be bold, if they've pics, I'll add them quick, perve them quick then remove them from our friends list

I can hold my hands up and say your not the only one who adds and removes in less than a min LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wud say everybody on the site wud add on the friends list if there is a few private pics to look at and then if theres no interest delete the friendship, and people who dont read profiles are mostly wasting their own time aswell as everybody elses, there are quite a few cpl profile that states " not looking single guys, if we want u we will find u " but yet everyday there are msgs from single guys asking to meet. yes we can block msgs from single guys but then that does tar the decent ones that actually read the profile, but it also gets annoying when after a chat they say can we meet...

Rant over lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are some that take the time to read what you have wrote then dont look at the rest of the profile like age size est

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ryan we are so so so bold

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

"Ryan we are so so so bold

I know but i love it

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

just this morning we had 3 messages from single males,all with the immortal words "id love to................"

we know you would thats why your here and why we are here,but read the profile,you obviously can read and write,so put it to good use,,,,

we have single males as friends,and the reason is theyr nice guys and chat and if we ever do go back to the single male thing,theyl be the ones we meet,,,

i tried replying to all the single men mails,but got rsi,,,from sticking the middle finger up at the screen

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