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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here a while but gave it a break for a week or two..I'm struggling to find meets and stuff, is it because I'm too young? Or what? Any advice welcome!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I've been on here a while but gave it a break for a week or two..I'm struggling to find meets and stuff, is it because I'm too young? Or what? Any advice welcome!! "

Yes after 3 or 4 weeks you would have needed a break... you've only been here 5 weeks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one public pic and hardly any info isn't going to help.

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By *he HunterMan
over a year ago

leitrim

Only here the same amount of time myself but if you dig in, chat on the forums and have a wee bit of manners you'll get on well. Worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhhh...Bless!

At 21 you should be out in the pubs on the pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one picture. Bad profile needs a bit of work. You have marked down you would do all the interests but in all fairness really???? Only have the ones you would do down and get rid of the rest. Some would see 21 being too you due to having kids that age buy you will find that a few won't mind. Keep chatting in the forums and join in when you can. Also keep an eye on the irish page and matey ask and join in a meet and greet as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhhhh...Bless!

At 21 you should be out in the pubs on the pull "
you can be out in the pubs on the pull in your 30's to! Technically your on the pull here 2 ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhhhh...Bless!

At 21 you should be out in the pubs on the pull "

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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Mid Meath

When I was 21 I was lucky to get onesomes, let alone theeesomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was 21 I was lucky to get onesomes, let alone theeesomes "
a lot of 21 yos especially if in college are riding right left and centre each week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sure it's like eating out in a restaurant. Sometimes you get great service, sometimes you get just alright service but at times the self service is far better.

Young man stick with it. Don't give up. We nearly did but thankfully we didn't. Be nice and look for coffee meetings. Ya gotta walk and don't run, well run if you meet someone like Susan Boyle.

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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I'm only on here the same amount of time or maybe even less. I was on here before and didn't put in the effort.

Since Iv joined back I'm trying to make more of an effort with my pics my profile and started chatting in the forums and even on chat.

Join in and be prepared for the banter and slagging and the odd bit of abuse and don't take being called young to badly we all get it .

I'v had one meet so far which is good considering I'm not long here . My goal for 2016 will b hopefully attend an M&G or social if possible. Ps invites welcome

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside

Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy love

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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Mid Meath


"When I was 21 I was lucky to get onesomes, let alone theeesomes a lot of 21 yos especially if in college are riding right left and centre each week "

Like I said, when I was 21...

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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"Ah sure it's like eating out in a restaurant. Sometimes you get great service, sometimes you get just alright service but at times the self service is far better.

Young man stick with it. Don't give up. We nearly did but thankfully we didn't. Be nice and look for coffee meetings. Ya gotta walk and don't run, well run if you meet someone like Susan Boyle. "
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Now thats some good advice.

I have chatted to a few on here are the type which like the chat and coffee or drinks and then theres the others that want jump into bed straight away.

Personally I'm the coffee/drinks and chat for starters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy love"
the opposite to that is it certainly shouldn't be hard! That's one thing for certain in my opinion

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here a while but gave it a break for a week or two..I'm struggling to find meets and stuff, is it because I'm too young? Or what? Any advice welcome!! "
you need to just bare with it! As u can see yourself it's v difficult from the outset on here! There is way more men on the site to women so from the off there is no level playing field! Women have the choice! With number also comes women signing into lots of mail, sometimes it's bulk deleted, she might not have even seen ur message! Since I came on a few weeks back I think the forums are huge and where you can kind of get known! I'd understand your frustration as it's supposed to be fun but there is no quick fix

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy lovethe opposite to that is it certainly shouldn't be hard! That's one thing for certain in my opinion "

And if it ain't hard sur its like pushing a car with a rope I'd say the women here like it hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not a whole lot in your profile to attract much attention to be honest, maybe if you make a bit more of an effort. Plus 5 weeks? Not a long time on here to warrant a moan really

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy lovethe opposite to that is it certainly shouldn't be hard! That's one thing for certain in my opinion "
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Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy lovethe opposite to that is it certainly shouldn't be hard! That's one thing for certain in my opinion .

Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo. "
You Said That Not me but The Site should Be Fun And Not hard! Work every day of the week is hard, not a fun website! There is no reason why a nice lad of any adult age can't succeed on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy lovethe opposite to that is it certainly shouldn't be hard! That's one thing for certain in my opinion .

Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo. "

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo. "

My goodness you are hard work... expecting guys to drop trou half way!! AND expecting guys to last 5 minutes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus it's often said "why are you here when so young, you should be out in pubs pulling"! What you forget is some sign up here with fantasies that you struggle to accomplish in a pub situation

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Why did you expect it to be so "easy"? Nothing worth having is easy lovethe opposite to that is it certainly shouldn't be hard! That's one thing for certain in my opinion .

Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo. "

Oh no, is that not acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not fun anyway.... Or do the women here have to be easier than others to be here... Do a Dorothy and click yer heels ya might end up where all the slutty women are on cloud 9 in fantasy land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it not fun anyway.... Or do the women here have to be easier than others to be here... Do a Dorothy and click yer heels ya might end up where all the slutty women are on cloud 9 in fantasy land"
i would imagine once you get meets it is fun

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


" Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo.

My goodness you are hard work... expecting guys to drop trou half way!! AND expecting guys to last 5 minutes!"

You have no idea. I DEMAND 6 minutes!!!

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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Mid Meath


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You have no idea. I DEMAND 6 minutes!!!"

And you'll get 6 minutes.

One minute on Monday, one minute on Tuesday, one on Wednesday

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


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You have no idea. I DEMAND 6 minutes!!!

And you'll get 6 minutes.

One minute on Monday, one minute on Tuesday, one on Wednesday "

Let me guess. Nothing on sunday. Day of rest and all. Pffft

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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Mid Meath


"

You have no idea. I DEMAND 6 minutes!!!

And you'll get 6 minutes.

One minute on Monday, one minute on Tuesday, one on Wednesday

Let me guess. Nothing on sunday. Day of rest and all. Pffft"

It's a holy Day. The other six are hole days

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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I Know i gave my 2pc earlier on this, Thinking about it Is less more when it comes to reading a profile ? Have i too much on mine ? Should verification be displayed or not ? Sorry for hijacking your thread firsttimeirish

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" Ahh I get ya. It's a sex site. All us women are easy sluts just waiting for you...for anyone to give us the 5 minutes it'll take for you to get off and put your shoes back on. Hell, why waste time with taking your shoes off. Just drop trou half way. Ffs kiddo.

My goodness you are hard work... expecting guys to drop trou half way!! AND expecting guys to last 5 minutes!

You have no idea. I DEMAND 6 minutes!!!"

But that means lowering trousers and watching the time!! I'm only a man and that involves multi-tasking!!

No wonder us guys find things difficult on FAB with all the demands made on us!! Oh I need to lie down....

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