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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My own personal experience is that whenever I appear to be in a relationship ship, I get more attention from girls. Why is that?

I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I do have a regular play-partner, whom I also happen to be good friends with. Whenever we're out together, we do look like a proper couple, but we've both agreed that we're not as we wish to take different paths in life and neither of us wish to get too emotionally attached to the other. She knows I'm on here, and she knows I'm not exclusive to her, same as she's not exclusive to me.

After a social (non-swingers) gathering we both attended, she told me that all her female friends asked (quote) who is that hot guy (end quote). I'm also getting much more attention from the girls at work, and in pubs even though I'm not with her there.

Why is this? I don't get this kind of attention when I don't have anyone. Do girls/ladies have a sixth sense telling them that a guy is taken, and as such is a forbidden fruit that they must (but can not) have?

I believe it is in human nature to crave what you can not have, but since I'm not in what I'd call a relationship (at least not a traditional one), I'm available for fun.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think you think too much...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you think too much... "

Last one who accused me of that was a Lieutenant Commander when I was a Junior Seaman in the Norwegian Navy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folks who are innately happy in themselves [with their Life in general] tend to have more self-confidence, portray themselves better and will attract more attention.

Happy Bunny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But not available to us - you're in Blackpool. We're not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My own personal experience is that whenever I appear to be in a relationship ship, I get more attention from girls. Why is that?

I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I do have a regular play-partner, whom I also happen to be good friends with. Whenever we're out together, we do look like a proper couple, but we've both agreed that we're not as we wish to take different paths in life and neither of us wish to get too emotionally attached to the other. She knows I'm on here, and she knows I'm not exclusive to her, same as she's not exclusive to me.

After a social (non-swingers) gathering we both attended, she told me that all her female friends asked (quote) who is that hot guy (end quote). I'm also getting much more attention from the girls at work, and in pubs even though I'm not with her there.

Why is this? I don't get this kind of attention when I don't have anyone. Do girls/ladies have a sixth sense telling them that a guy is taken, and as such is a forbidden fruit that they must (but can not) have?

I believe it is in human nature to crave what you can not have, but since I'm not in what I'd call a relationship (at least not a traditional one), I'm available for fun."

Ladies may like to be attracted to attached men by their primal as such men signalised that these man can commit and commitment is attractive, not every woman may admit that though

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"But not available to us - you're in Blackpool. We're not!"

Blackpool in cork

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But not available to us - you're in Blackpool. We're not!

Blackpool in cork "

Yup! 10 minutes walk to city centre.

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By *eeperscreepersMan
over a year ago

Tipp

I've had that.

Couldn't buy a ride (figuratively :D ) when I was single years ago. Got into a relationship for a while and never had so much interest from the opposite sex. Ended up single a good while later and most of the interest waned.

Us humans are an odd bunch

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Have you shaved your beard?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The beard has been gone for about 3-4 months now. Which reminds me I really need to update my profile-picture. lol

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"The beard has been gone for about 3-4 months now. Which reminds me I really need to update my profile-picture. lol"

There's your reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm all I'm getting from this thread is that u are mad about ur regular FB.. Ur too confident n can't understand y she won't commit !!

Just what I can read.. But hey .. Shit happens

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"Folks who are innately happy in themselves [with their Life in general] tend to have more self-confidence, portray themselves better and will attract more attention.

Happy Bunny? "

As above

Mrs S

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