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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not me boasting, but I see some fellas moaning here so maybe it could be a little advice.

I haven't had much joy with this site so thought I would get involved in some of the forums. Since then I have gotten more replies from women and I am enjoying the site much more.

So, my advice is put yourself out there. I just come on and quite often chat a lot of nonsense but some people seem to like it!

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By *eddybear_14Man
over a year ago

Somewhere...


"This is not me boasting, but I see some fellas moaning here so maybe it could be a little advice.

I haven't had much joy with this site so thought I would get involved in some of the forums. Since then I have gotten more replies from women and I am enjoying the site much more.

So, my advice is put yourself out there. I just come on and quite often chat a lot of nonsense but some people seem to like it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's the point tho! Ye can kinda get a grasp of a personality from the banter.

Mrs B

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

This, by far is the easiest method in doing well on fab for single guys, if they have the patience.

I joined fab as part of a couple. At the start we were only interested in couples and fems, but the prospect of a MMF was discussed. Sadly we broke up before we could, but we had been looking.

How we searched for guys started off with looking at the forum, and looking at the guys who posted. those who came across as genuine and a bit of craic went to the top of our list.

When I became single and rejoined, thats the attitude I took with me as I knew if we were looking at guys that way, then others were too, and it paid off dividends for me.

So, the moral of the story is, engage in the forums in a fun and intelligent way and the real fun will soon follow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon "

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol"

Youll have a black book with names before long,im sure loads on here will find ye irrestible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol

Youll have a black book with names before long,im sure loads on here will find ye irrestible "

Hope so...I would have been delighted to add you to a book but I see I am outside your age range

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol

Youll have a black book with names before long,im sure loads on here will find ye irrestible

Hope so...I would have been delighted to add you to a book but I see I am outside your age range "

Ha ha i put my hand out to be slapped there!! ... ive "bent" my rules on a couple of occassions depending on the guy in question.ill continue to watch you converse on here for the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol

Youll have a black book with names before long,im sure loads on here will find ye irrestible

Hope so...I would have been delighted to add you to a book but I see I am outside your age range

Ha ha i put my hand out to be slapped there!! ... ive "bent" my rules on a couple of occassions depending on the guy in question.ill continue to watch you converse on here for the moment "

aw, so I need to impress then

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol

Youll have a black book with names before long,im sure loads on here will find ye irrestible

Hope so...I would have been delighted to add you to a book but I see I am outside your age range

Ha ha i put my hand out to be slapped there!! ... ive "bent" my rules on a couple of occassions depending on the guy in question.ill continue to watch you converse on here for the moment

aw, so I need to impress then "

Not necessarily but continuing as you are and throwing a couple of pics onto your profile might push you a little further than where you are. Im speaking in general here too and not just for my benefit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Up there for thinking,down there for dancing

Delighted youre enjoying the site more,youll be a wanted man soon

Oh I doubt that, but its an ok site when people actually talk to you lol

Youll have a black book with names before long,im sure loads on here will find ye irrestible

Hope so...I would have been delighted to add you to a book but I see I am outside your age range

Ha ha i put my hand out to be slapped there!! ... ive "bent" my rules on a couple of occassions depending on the guy in question.ill continue to watch you converse on here for the moment

aw, so I need to impress then

Not necessarily but continuing as you are and throwing a couple of pics onto your profile might push you a little further than where you are. Im speaking in general here too and not just for my benefit."

Thanks

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray


"This, by far is the easiest method in doing well on fab for single guys, if they have the patience.

I joined fab as part of a couple. At the start we were only interested in couples and fems, but the prospect of a MMF was discussed. Sadly we broke up before we could, but we had been looking.

How we searched for guys started off with looking at the forum, and looking at the guys who posted. those who came across as genuine and a bit of craic went to the top of our list.

When I became single and rejoined, thats the attitude I took with me as I knew if we were looking at guys that way, then others were too, and it paid off dividends for me.

So, the moral of the story is, engage in the forums in a fun and intelligent way and the real fun will soon follow. "

As usual Mingo said it! Since I started participating at forums I got messages from very hot ladies and couples I never thought i would have had a chance with...as of today I had a meet with a lady fabber and I am making plans to meet with a very nice couple. Patience definetely works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick at it boys, both coming across very well

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By *he HunterMan
over a year ago

leitrim

Joining in on forums was the best thing I've done on here. The lads and ladies on here are a friendly bunch and the its helped break me in.

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By *eeperscreepersMan
over a year ago

Tipp & Dublin

Was going to post something similar, I've had more interactions (views, winks, messages) since I started being a small bit more active in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to hear lads - it is refreshingly nice to hear some good stories on here as all one tends to get is the negativity that pours from everyone. . . . Some good advice too, so thanks for sharing that as well.. . . . God knows we could all do with some help from time to time

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