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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks "
if u find out how let me know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks if u find out how let me know "
no bother may let a few women let us know

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By *oey22 and HeelsCouple
over a year ago

Cork City

Lads,

You've only joined a couple of weeks....give people chance ...if you see M&G's advertised request an invite ....simple as that....plenty of singles on here so can be difficult but persevere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads,

You've only joined a couple of weeks....give people chance ...if you see M&G's advertised request an invite ....simple as that....plenty of singles on here so can be difficult but persevere "
i have already asked to go too 3 meet and greets and was told have to be meet verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lads,

You've only joined a couple of weeks....give people chance ...if you see M&G's advertised request an invite ....simple as that....plenty of singles on here so can be difficult but persevere i have already asked to go too 3 meet and greets and was told have to be meet verified "
well why don't ye lads go for a pint and verify each other

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Fab helps those who help themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you build it they will come!!!

So basically build your own venue

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By *eth TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Mid Meath

Whatever about verified or not verified, coming on and screaming desperate is not the best way to bring in the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever about verified or not verified, coming on and screaming desperate is not the best way to bring in the ladies "
see been on I don't see it as screaming desperate I see it as a good way of trying to get verified! If you sit back on your arse and wait, nothing is gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever about verified or not verified, coming on and screaming desperate is not the best way to bring in the ladies see been on I don't see it as screaming desperate I see it as a good way of trying to get verified! If you sit back on your arse and wait, nothing is gonna happen "

You're right, sitting back and waiting for something to happen simply doesn't work...

So, try browsing the forums and reading the NUMEROUS amount of threads here about the subject...

I mean, putting in NO groundwork and griping about it is just the same as sitting back and waiting, isn't it?

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

All these posts looking for help to get meets comes across as needy start trying to get invite to party's or coffee meets start off slow cause if u think ur only gonna be here a few weeks and girls are gonna be flinging themselves at ya ur on a lost cos

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Ist pic you should have shaved 2nd pic you should have washed your arse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever about verified or not verified, coming on and screaming desperate is not the best way to bring in the ladies see been on I don't see it as screaming desperate I see it as a good way of trying to get verified! If you sit back on your arse and wait, nothing is gonna happen

You're right, sitting back and waiting for something to happen simply doesn't work...

So, try browsing the forums and reading the NUMEROUS amount of threads here about the subject...

I mean, putting in NO groundwork and griping about it is just the same as sitting back and waiting, isn't it? "
i see between today and Wednesday or whenever it was 3 different lads looking to be verified over a tea coffee meet? Yesterday there was commotion on a lads thread which resulted in him leaving, no need for it whatsoever! I see it as a great way of trying to get that green tick and I don't scroll down through the forums for pages to see what's been written! I just did a tea coffee meet thread myself a few days ago to see could I try get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever about verified or not verified, coming on and screaming desperate is not the best way to bring in the ladies see been on I don't see it as screaming desperate I see it as a good way of trying to get verified! If you sit back on your arse and wait, nothing is gonna happen

You're right, sitting back and waiting for something to happen simply doesn't work...

So, try browsing the forums and reading the NUMEROUS amount of threads here about the subject...

I mean, putting in NO groundwork and griping about it is just the same as sitting back and waiting, isn't it? i see between today and Wednesday or whenever it was 3 different lads looking to be verified over a tea coffee meet? Yesterday there was commotion on a lads thread which resulted in him leaving, no need for it whatsoever! I see it as a great way of trying to get that green tick and I don't scroll down through the forums for pages to see what's been written! I just did a tea coffee meet thread myself a few days ago to see could I try get verified "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the parties and meet and greets are verified only??

Then simply forget about them and concentrate on getting verified instead?????

The bottom line on this site is it doesn't matter how hot ye think you are how amazing you think you are in bed or that you've a seven inch tongue and can breathe through your ears.

None of it matters. Fab is a woman's world (ok it's a woman's and couples world but it doesn't have the same ring to it does it?)

So just get chatting to some of the singles or couples who take your eye.

Will they all reply?

Hell no. Some women get upwards of 250 mails a DAY so don't think it's odd if your mails go unanswered.

Eventually a few will reply and you can get chatting.

But just because your chatting doesn't mean your ENTITLED to a meet to be verified.

It's no different to any other social scene. There needs to be a bit of banter and something there to justify these woman choosing to go for coffee with you instead of the other 249 fellas in their inbox lol

So basically Chillax

Send out some mails (don't copy and paste they have built in BS detectors fab gave them when they signed up haha)

Then go have a and a smile and just wait.

It's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I'd love to know these women who get 250 mails a day! I must be giving off a certain vibe i.e. fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I'd love to know these women who get 250 mails a day! I must be giving off a certain vibe i.e. fuck off "

I think their the ones without filters somehow lol

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I'd love to know these women who get 250 mails a day! I must be giving off a certain vibe i.e. fuck off "

Trust me it happens lol

But to be fair most haven't got any filters up either.

Ive been to lunch with female friends from here who would be chatting bout fab we'd be looking at diff pics etc

Wed be finishing lunch bout to leave and they'd show me how many new mails had come in in the short time it took us to eat lol

Some horned up people out there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I'd love to know these women who get 250 mails a day! I must be giving off a certain vibe i.e. fuck off

I think their the ones without filters somehow lol

Tomcat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would drive me insane. I have the attention span of a puppy so that many mails would tip me over the edge altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair

If you've zero filters you can't complain about that many mails lol.

It's hardly possible that fab has some people who crave the attention is it? ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair

If you've zero filters you can't complain about that many mails lol.

It's hardly possible that fab has some people who crave the attention is it? ........ "

Don't be talking crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the parties and meet and greets are verified only??

Then simply forget about them and concentrate on getting verified instead?????

The bottom line on this site is it doesn't matter how hot ye think you are how amazing you think you are in bed or that you've a seven inch tongue and can breathe through your ears.

None of it matters. Fab is a woman's world (ok it's a woman's and couples world but it doesn't have the same ring to it does it?)

So just get chatting to some of the singles or couples who take your eye.

Will they all reply?

Hell no. Some women get upwards of 250 mails a DAY so don't think it's odd if your mails go unanswered.

Eventually a few will reply and you can get chatting.

But just because your chatting doesn't mean your ENTITLED to a meet to be verified.

It's no different to any other social scene. There needs to be a bit of banter and something there to justify these woman choosing to go for coffee with you instead of the other 249 fellas in their inbox lol

So basically Chillax

Send out some mails (don't copy and paste they have built in BS detectors fab gave them when they signed up haha)

Then go have a and a smile and just wait.

It's that simple.

"

Agreed

When I first joined, I would have received over a hundred messages the first day... Then I learnt about filters and the BIG block button

I personally wouldn't meet anyone unless they have been verified and I like to read the verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair

If you've zero filters you can't complain about that many mails lol.

It's hardly possible that fab has some people who crave the attention is it? ........

Don't be talking crazy"

I'm sorry I realise now how ridiculous and preposterous this statement is.

I shall return to my box haha

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the parties and meet and greets are verified only??

Then simply forget about them and concentrate on getting verified instead?????

The bottom line on this site is it doesn't matter how hot ye think you are how amazing you think you are in bed or that you've a seven inch tongue and can breathe through your ears.

None of it matters. Fab is a woman's world (ok it's a woman's and couples world but it doesn't have the same ring to it does it?)

So just get chatting to some of the singles or couples who take your eye.

Will they all reply?

Hell no. Some women get upwards of 250 mails a DAY so don't think it's odd if your mails go unanswered.

Eventually a few will reply and you can get chatting.

But just because your chatting doesn't mean your ENTITLED to a meet to be verified.

It's no different to any other social scene. There needs to be a bit of banter and something there to justify these woman choosing to go for coffee with you instead of the other 249 fellas in their inbox lol

So basically Chillax

Send out some mails (don't copy and paste they have built in BS detectors fab gave them when they signed up haha)

Then go have a and a smile and just wait.

It's that simple.

Agreed

When I first joined, I would have received over a hundred messages the first day... Then I learnt about filters and the BIG block button

I personally wouldn't meet anyone unless they have been verified and I like to read the verifications "

You read the veri's??

What are you? Some sort of sexual deviant?

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks "
. It might help to have a more detailed profile with hobbies and interests listed. What do you consider to be your ten unique selling points ?.

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By *LICK IF U DAREWoman
over a year ago

good girl gone bad!!!!!!


"Lads,

You've only joined a couple of weeks....give people chance ...if you see M&G's advertised request an invite ....simple as that....plenty of singles on here so can be difficult but persevere i have already asked to go too 3 meet and greets and was told have to be meet verified "
get a move on so

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks . It might help to have a more detailed profile with hobbies and interests listed. What do you consider to be your ten unique selling points ?. "

Hobbies? Do women really care that I spend my day off in my boxers playing PlayStation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks . It might help to have a more detailed profile with hobbies and interests listed. What do you consider to be your ten unique selling points ?.

Hobbies? Do women really care that I spend my day off in my boxers playing PlayStation?"

That's hot

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks . It might help to have a more detailed profile with hobbies and interests listed. What do you consider to be your ten unique selling points ?.

Hobbies? Do women really c are that I spend my day off in my boxers playing PlayStation?"
. At least it gives them a chance to judge what type of peson you are and add some personality to a profile ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone any ideas on getting meets or getting invited to partys..have alot of free time over the holidays.. If you've any input on my profile feel free to let me know thanks . It might help to have a more detailed profile with hobbies and interests listed. What do you consider to be your ten unique selling points ?.

Hobbies? Do women really care that I spend my day off in my boxers playing PlayStation?"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly for both of the guys try putting a bit more about what your into sexually, let the ladies know a hat your looking for otfer that just nsa fun were all here for a bit of no strings fun but you need to make your profiles stand out

There's a bit of humor in the second guys profile which is good but other that that I'm sure you'd be forgotten in an instant.

Op your pics aren't the best either have a look at some of the more successful guys profiles see what they have written but don't copy them make your profile about YOU and what you would like to try etc etc etc

Other than that try chat rooms women are more likely to meet someone they have had a chat with and seen on cam (face that is) and get to a social !!! Simple really lol

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

Plenty of people on here for over a year and atill not verified.

You might have a long wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of people on here for over a year and atill not verified.

You might have a long wait. "

Don't care what anyone says.

More than 6 months and still unverified is fishy as fu#€

I wouldn't even reply to a mail from someone over 6 months never mind a year and a half lol

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D


" well why don't ye lads go for a pint and verify each other"

*************

That's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can u verify each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of people on here for over a year and atill not verified.

You might have a long wait.

Don't care what anyone says.

More than 6 months and still unverified is fishy as fu#€

I wouldn't even reply to a mail from someone over 6 months never mind a year and a half lol"

I've met a lad after him being on the site unverified over a year and he was exactly as his pics and really sound and just was afraid to meet someone from the internet. Sometimes the gut instincts work.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


" well why don't ye lads go for a pint and verify each other

*************

That's a good idea "

You need a verified person to get verified

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By *rian78Man
over a year ago

navan


"Lads,

You've only joined a couple of weeks....give people chance ...if you see M&G's advertised request an invite ....simple as that....plenty of singles on here so can be difficult but persevere i have already asked to go too 3 meet and greets and was told have to be meet verified well why don't ye lads go for a pint and verify each other"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can u verify each other? "

Not if neither of u are varified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can u verify each other?

Not if neither of u are varified lol"
then that's out! Be honest and it's a question open to all males! Was your first verification a tea coffee meet with another male?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me""

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?"

Neither

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I think the women of fab are missing out on all this untapped testosterone from frustrated unveried males

I was waiting 3 months for first meet and when it finally happened I nearly broke her

She even came back the next night

Its like the worlds biggest build up

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

Neither"

That's fair enough, if that's the way you view veris. Nothing wrong with that.

But I feel it would be unfair to dismiss a guy because his first veri is from another guy, to get him in the ladder. We all had to start somewhere.

My opinion is that veris, by their definition verify you as being genuine...not that you had sex. So the gender you get the veri from is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

Neither

That's fair enough, if that's the way you view veris. Nothing wrong with that.

But I feel it would be unfair to dismiss a guy because his first veri is from another guy, to get him in the ladder. We all had to start somewhere.

My opinion is that veris, by their definition verify you as being genuine...not that you had sex. So the gender you get the veri from is irrelevant."

And my opinion is that someone who cannot tempt someone of their um target audience to even meet them socially is not someone we would be interested in. We don't have a lot of time for meets, will leave the chance-taking to those with more time on their hands.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

Neither

That's fair enough, if that's the way you view veris. Nothing wrong with that.

But I feel it would be unfair to dismiss a guy because his first veri is from another guy, to get him in the ladder. We all had to start somewhere.

My opinion is that veris, by their definition verify you as being genuine...not that you had sex. So the gender you get the veri from is irrelevant.

And my opinion is that someone who cannot tempt someone of their um target audience to even meet them socially is not someone we would be interested in. We don't have a lot of time for meets, will leave the chance-taking to those with more time on their hands."

Yep, that is a fair point, if that's the situation you're in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

Neither

That's fair enough, if that's the way you view veris. Nothing wrong with that.

But I feel it would be unfair to dismiss a guy because his first veri is from another guy, to get him in the ladder. We all had to start somewhere.

My opinion is that veris, by their definition verify you as being genuine...not that you had sex. So the gender you get the veri from is irrelevant.

And my opinion is that someone who cannot tempt someone of their um target audience to even meet them socially is not someone we would be interested in. We don't have a lot of time for meets, will leave the chance-taking to those with more time on their hands."
it's all about someone willing to give u a bit of their time for a quick tea coffee!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

Neither

That's fair enough, if that's the way you view veris. Nothing wrong with that.

But I feel it would be unfair to dismiss a guy because his first veri is from another guy, to get him in the ladder. We all had to start somewhere.

My opinion is that veris, by their definition verify you as being genuine...not that you had sex. So the gender you get the veri from is irrelevant.

And my opinion is that someone who cannot tempt someone of their um target audience to even meet them socially is not someone we would be interested in. We don't have a lot of time for meets, will leave the chance-taking to those with more time on their hands.it's all about someone willing to give u a bit of their time for a quick tea coffee! "

I'm back in the new year for a week. If you haven't had a veri by then I'll meet you for a drink.

Now for ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh,a straight guy whose only veri is a social meet with another male says "couldn't tempt a female to even have a coffee with me"

I see your point, but when fems/couples get so much mail and requests it makes it practically impossible for some guys to get a social veri from them.....so if you had a to choose two single guy profiles that you liked the look of, one unverified and one verified by a guy....which would it be?

Neither

That's fair enough, if that's the way you view veris. Nothing wrong with that.

But I feel it would be unfair to dismiss a guy because his first veri is from another guy, to get him in the ladder. We all had to start somewhere.

My opinion is that veris, by their definition verify you as being genuine...not that you had sex. So the gender you get the veri from is irrelevant.

And my opinion is that someone who cannot tempt someone of their um target audience to even meet them socially is not someone we would be interested in. We don't have a lot of time for meets, will leave the chance-taking to those with more time on their hands.it's all about someone willing to give u a bit of their time for a quick tea coffee!

I'm back in the new year for a week. If you haven't had a veri by then I'll meet you for a drink.

Now for ya. "

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