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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

heres a question for ye fellas ....how would you feel if I uploaded a pic to my profile of your full face viewable whilst you were licking my fanny ...would you be a tad annoyed ? if your face pic was displayed to all of fab , and im not talking a blurry shot , I mean the type of pic anyone who knew you would instantly recognise ya .... id bet youd be fooking livid wouldnt you ...so heres the thing ..... what makes men here think that its acceptable to upload a pic of a woman clearly identifiable full face sucking your cock , when the only pics you have on your single male profile are corner shots of the top of your knob . thoughts ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single verified guy on here, I for one don't think its acceptable, discretion and respect are a must on here, and some people don't care that silly actions like posting said pic can have an adverse and long lasting effect on people's lives.. Sorry to hear about this midnight

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

That's not good I thought people on here are desicret and would not do that with out asking the person first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its a general question , im just wondering what peoples thoughts are on the scenario . Am I being a bit much to be enraged by such things ? I should point out , this has not happened to me recently , but it has happened to me in the past and when I see pics like that I always become extremely irritated on behalf of the person who may not have any idea their pic is being displayed like some kind of sex trophy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all midnight, I think you're spot on if it is the case, nobody should have to suffer potentially family friends and work colleagues finding out stuff like that, like I said it can have a seriously adverse effect on people's lives outside fab, which a lot on here could do with remembering that fab is not the real world but merely a means of escape from it for a while, and people should be able to pursue their fab activities in peace before returning to "the real world"

I've been apprehensive about people taking pics in the past as you just don't know where or when the might pop up...

it's also possible it could also be a fake profile with an inet pic set up by some chancer who doesn't really know what they're doing on here....

And on a slightly more jocular note, sex trophies shouldn't be displayed, as the public aren't ready therefore ensuring, that our "trophies"and sexual conquests should be embraced, rejoiced, shared and acted out privately in our dens of debauchery haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

spot on yep

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree that you should NEVER post a face pic, whatever they're doing with that person on here without that person's permission, it's some serious disrespect on their part but keeping to that, permission or not we are all on the same site (while keeping in your mind if it happened to me I'd be pretty pissed too) so if friends (most of mine know I'm on it) and family (they don't know but if they did they'd have a casual, "what the fuck you doing?" for me) so if they saw it, then aren't they on the same site and can't say crap? Or they could say, "well well, look at you" ha

Different obviously if they send them off somewhere else which may be the problem if they're ok with putting them up here without permission who knows what else they'd do with them!?

It's definitely tougher for you ladies too cause with this whole revenge porn and shaming thing that's going on the moment, which is heart breaking for everyone concerned.

Again, I wanna restate, absolute distaste for anyone that does this to anyone else and I don't think going balistic about it is over reaccting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under fab rules,a single male profile can not show someone else's face on an uploaded pic,if this has happened then the pic moderators are also to blame for passing the pic.report to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under fab rules,a single male profile can not show someone else's face on an uploaded pic,if this has happened then the pic moderators are also to blame for passing the pic.report to admin."

Not just a single male. Any profile is not allowed to display a persons face that does not belong to the person or people on the profile. OP I agree with the above poster. Report it. Ive done that in the pass and their usually very quick to remove said picture if its against the rules for pictures

Tomcat

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray

First of all I would never post any picture without the partner (s) consent and I would expect the same courtesy.

And even with that consent I would edit the pic to mask or blur recognizable feature of the faces and put it only as "friends only" or "private"

Unfortunately there are people here though that do not understand the concepts of discretion and respect and spoil it for everyone else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully agree unless full permission is given from "both parties " no pics should be put up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be livid n so would Mr!!!! Def report if that happened, I would only allow pics to be taken from my phone n shared after editing, similar happened tho not at as graphic and lessons learned xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under fab rules,a single male profile can not show someone else's face on an uploaded pic,if this has happened then the pic moderators are also to blame for passing the pic.report to admin.

Not just a single male. Any profile is not allowed to display a persons face that does not belong to the person or people on the profile. OP I agree with the above poster. Report it. Ive done that in the pass and their usually very quick to remove said picture if its against the rules for pictures

Tomcat "

Yes that's right I only used the phrase single male as the op was asking single males.

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"Under fab rules,a single male profile can not show someone else's face on an uploaded pic,if this has happened then the pic moderators are also to blame for passing the pic.report to admin."

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I would not be happy at all ..

I have a picture on my profile it's not visible of the other parties but when I did have it on profile I asked would they mind it going on profile.

This was not even a picture of a face..... I would not like it done to me and am sure the other party would not like it done to them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the gentleman wants to share the sheer joy the lady experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the gentleman wants to share the sheer joy the lady experienced "

If a gentleman publicly shared my joy I'd knock his block off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my issue is that he has ensured his own anonimity by having nothing to identify himself on his profile , why hasnt he shown the joy of his own recognisable face on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had photos of myself put on profiles without my permission with easily identifiable tattoos etc showing. Their reasoning was they took the pics and they have full rights to show them. It took countless complaints to administration to get them removed and even now I know of pics of me still up from when I was a single lady here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the gentleman wants to share the sheer joy the lady experienced

If a gentleman publicly shared my joy I'd knock his block off. "

You keep those right hooks under wraps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people out there with no respect for the feelings/rights/boundaries of others?

#notnewstome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

General rule of thumb, no face pics on public display..

but in the past if I was uploading a photo of two of us, herself was always there to see what I was doing.. only fair if shes involved

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

A person meeting and having pictures taken, shouldn't be that naive to believe that the pictures couldn't turn up in public.

One always has to check the photos taken and delete those that are not appropriate.

I wouldn't allow anyone I don't know good enough to have face pics of me.

The only person that can protect your privacy is yourself and nobody else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See here's the thing with me! I'm extremely discrete on here yet I have noting to hide! I have no gf/wife! I'm a single lad having some fun but I still wouldn't like my face been visible, in a normal matter or between a woman's legs! I can only imagine the going over I'd get if fam or friends knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are people out there with no respect for the feelings/rights/boundaries of others?

#notnewstome"

Totally agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its simple.100% unacceptable without the persons permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What woman at 30+ lets a fella take a picture of sucking dick in the 1st place?, i know 19 year olds that not even dream of ever letting that happen

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Those kinds of profiles are totally off putting anyway. If there are more pics of random females than the male I pass on by. He must have something to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's terrible, that some people think it's ok to disrespect, other people's privacy. ..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"There are people out there with no respect for the feelings/rights/boundaries of others?

#notnewstome"

That's why you shouldn't allow pictures like that in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang out of order but as DH said, who would let someone else take a full face photo of themselves without permission & an "only if you use our camera/phone"???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say ' men here ' surely you mean a man here or a few gobshites and it aint just men who do it. I had to poiltely two different cpls to take my face pics off there profile. They always say oh its for personal use only, dont believe it and never allow anyone to take your face pic at a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is a big thing. It's not right to do that to anyone.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"heres a question for ye fellas ....how would you feel if I uploaded a pic to my profile of your full face viewable whilst you were licking my fanny ...would you be a tad annoyed ? if your face pic was displayed to all of fab , and im not talking a blurry shot , I mean the type of pic anyone who knew you would instantly recognise ya .... id bet youd be fooking livid wouldnt you ...so heres the thing ..... what makes men here think that its acceptable to upload a pic of a woman clearly identifiable full face sucking your cock , when the only pics you have on your single male profile are corner shots of the top of your knob . thoughts ??? "

Infuriating. And tacky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say ' men here ' surely you mean a man here or a few gobshites and it aint just men who do it. I had to poiltely two different cpls to take my face pics off there profile. They always say oh its for personal use only, dont believe it and never allow anyone to take your face pic at a meet."

I would never allow anyone take pictures of myself or Mr.E for this exact reason...its better to be safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Single Guy should have Face pics in Public on their fab page unless it's their own...and Couples pics should also only be of both of them and no one else. That way no others are compromised and people viewing the profiles are not then seeing someone else they possibly know....Seems simple

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"What woman at 30+ lets a fella take a picture of sucking dick in the 1st place?, i know 19 year olds that not even dream of ever letting that happen"

Sometimes they can take the picture before you realise they have done it....and it DOES happen as it happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would never take a picture or let one be taken, once a picture is uploaded to internet, you have no control over where it may end up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's me fucked so lol Jen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to topic.

I am all in for respect and privacy and personally would not do so without permission. Said that, personally me I don't mind. Ppl who know me usually do not judge me on my private life or sex life.

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

I don't think admin should allow face photos from users that are not photo verified nor of people that are obviously not the user (I.e. The example the Op gave). Appreciate it might be difficult to police though.

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

I always report then to admin when I see them. Chances are the person pictured doesn't know! #spoilingitforusall

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