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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes a good one and how would you know to avoid??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met this lad and can verify he's genuine" always screams "don't touch with a barge pole" to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Met this lad and can verify he's genuine" always screams "don't touch with a barge pole" to me!"
would that not just be reading to much into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Met this lad and can verify he's genuine" always screams "don't touch with a barge pole" to me!"

Oh god and I think I've said that on loads but not meaning anything bad I may start rethinking my words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Met this lad and can verify he's genuine" always screams "don't touch with a barge pole" to me!

Oh god and I think I've said that on loads but not meaning anything bad I may start rethinking my words "

It's more so when it's just those words and nothing else, usually people flesh it out a bit and you can see they had a good time etc but if it's a one liner and that's all that's written it screams alarm bells for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Met this lad and can verify he's genuine" always screams "don't touch with a barge pole" to me!

Oh god and I think I've said that on loads but not meaning anything bad I may start rethinking my words

It's more so when it's just those words and nothing else, usually people flesh it out a bit and you can see they had a good time etc but if it's a one liner and that's all that's written it screams alarm bells for me!"

I get ya now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are just indicators. Some of the people you meet write fantastically some don't. I just take them as giving an indication that a person is looking more genuine than an unverified profile.

After that trust your instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are just an indication that the person or couple are real and do actually meet....I mean if you sent someone a "poor verification" then I am sure they wouldn't put it on public display in their profile.....A good verification though does indicate to me that not only do the people meet but that they also do play...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so if you met a very rare breed for coffee would you let others meet too or try warn on the verification

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By *iceguydubMan
over a year ago

CC

Quick question...when fabbers say they only meet verified profiles.. is a photo verified profile included?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question...when fabbers say they only meet verified profiles.. is a photo verified profile included?"

For me I'd only meet with meet verified guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quick question...when fabbers say they only meet verified profiles.. is a photo verified profile included?"

Not really most want meet verified even for some socials

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By *iceguydubMan
over a year ago

CC

Thanks for d replies girls..that's exactly what I thought and would expect myself, I read a forum recently where the couple said photo verification by site was suffice for a meet..some crazy people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hard here for single lads with verisimilitude without it impossible I found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so if you met a very rare breed for coffee would you let others meet too or try warn on the verification"

It would be good if every verification showed what the other party said too under it. Its easy for someone to hide bad veri's and no one would ever know they turned up wearing a nappy( reference to another thread.lol.) You lose discretion tho but all for the greater good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has a cock to die for"

I like to steer clear of health risks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give him a chance ladies"

Anyone for a pity fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question...when fabbers say they only meet verified profiles.. is a photo verified profile included?"

Meet verified for us and usually recent verifications too ie has had a verification in the last six months.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for my first one and it better be an epic story lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still waiting for my first one and it better be an epic story lol... "

Just do it already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well for 1 thing safety is the biggest concern.

I de never trust a 1 liner verification and then I de look at who gave then it. If they 1 I de look again. You have to do a bit of P.I yourself.

Wouldn't go as far as asking question to who ever left the verification. A profile tell a lot. The way you ve been inter actions through mails

Then finally always trust ur gut feeling and never be pressurised into meeting. If it feel right it will be

I ve never seen a totally crap verification and sometimes u just have to read between the lines. What I ve seen on profiles re the update I think helps fellow peeps - naming bad mannered profiles. It's a close knit community and words spreads fast about such a person

At the end of the day it's our safety.

What I would like to seen from the site owners is a small ban on closing an ac one day and being able to re open an other ac the same day

IP address etc

That's my view anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still waiting for my first one and it better be an epic story lol... "

You'd better impress then!

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By *ienDePlusCouple
over a year ago

dublin

A good verification should indicate that the other party (1) physically met (2) played. After that there is no need for any further information but its nice to give compliments and express thanks for having met / hoping to meet again. Wordplay can be attractive to some.

Phone and webcam verifications are worthless.

'I met this person when they had an old profile' verifications are worthless.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I stay clear of the 'she sucked me for hours' or 'she'd the tightest little pussy' type overly graphic verifications. Too much info for me. I judge not only the person or people that left that but also the person that left it visible on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stay clear of the 'she sucked me for hours' or 'she'd the tightest little pussy' type overly graphic verifications. Too much info for me. I judge not only the person or people that left that but also the person that left it visible on their profile. "

Amusingly they will often have the word "discreet" on the same profile.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I rather judge someone on what I think of them not on a veri even when fuckers like to send there bitchy Mail on here about other people I still make my own mind up on them I wouldn't let a sentence put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still waiting for my first one and it better be an epic story lol...

Just do it already! "

Yes boss! Waiting on the lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I probably have been guilty in the past of listening to others opinions of people, and looking too much into veris but now that I'm here a while I make up my own mind and since meeting people myself have Definitly changed my original perceptions of some.

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"I probably have been guilty in the past of listening to others opinions of people, and looking too much into veris but now that I'm here a while I make up my own mind and since meeting people myself have Definitly changed my original perceptions of some. "
always make ur own mind up on people most always add there own little bits in Aswel when they hear something unless it's someone u trust and know I wouldn't be listening to half the shite on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh I just take them with a pinch of salt.

I don't hold much with the social ones if I'm honest. I was at a social last xmas and received a verification from a guy I said hello to for all of 60 seconds. Apparently I was lovely, easy going, great fun and great craic and he really enjoyed my company, basically best friend kinda stuff that eluded to more than what really happened. I just didn't get the point. It's kinda laughable when people say in a status I don't remember names from last night but if we said hello leave me a veri and I'll leave one back. I just don't get it.

I love all the sucks like a dyson and fucks like a pornstar ones, they give me a giggle. Oh and get in line ladies is a complete turn off as I fooking hate queuing

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Meh I just take them with a pinch of salt.

I don't hold much with the social ones if I'm honest. I was at a social last xmas and received a verification from a guy I said hello to for all of 60 seconds. Apparently I was lovely, easy going, great fun and great craic and he really enjoyed my company, basically best friend kinda stuff that eluded to more than what really happened. I just didn't get the point. It's kinda laughable when people say in a status I don't remember names from last night but if we said hello leave me a veri and I'll leave one back. I just don't get it.

I love all the sucks like a dyson and fucks like a pornstar ones, they give me a giggle. Oh and get in line ladies is a complete turn off as I fooking hate queuing "

Don't worry little one, I'll let you skip the queue the first time

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I probably have been guilty in the past of listening to others opinions of people, and looking too much into veris but now that I'm here a while I make up my own mind and since meeting people myself have Definitly changed my original perceptions of some. "

Yep, I trust my own judgement more than I trust anyone else's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meh I just take them with a pinch of salt.

I don't hold much with the social ones if I'm honest. I was at a social last xmas and received a verification from a guy I said hello to for all of 60 seconds. Apparently I was lovely, easy going, great fun and great craic and he really enjoyed my company, basically best friend kinda stuff that eluded to more than what really happened. I just didn't get the point. It's kinda laughable when people say in a status I don't remember names from last night but if we said hello leave me a veri and I'll leave one back. I just don't get it.

I love all the sucks like a dyson and fucks like a pornstar ones, they give me a giggle. Oh and get in line ladies is a complete turn off as I fooking hate queuing "

I've read a few from same person and they want to keep all they've met too thought I was greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I'm off to read peoples veris....

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By *iceguydubMan
over a year ago

CC


"I rather judge someone on what I think of them not on a veri even when fuckers like to send there bitchy Mail on here about other people I still make my own mind up on them I wouldn't let a sentence put me off "

If only more people judged others on personal experience rather than hearsay the world would be a nicer place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go much by veris but I hate really graphic ones.. Just not for me. But I'll make up my own mind through texting and coffee if it gets that far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if mine are any good anymore might need a few new one's

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

In general I like reading verifications and always cross read, some have really entertaining value if you have a sense of humour.

The only useful verification is the one confirming that the person has really met for play and has behaved behind closed doors.

Everything else (coffee/social/cam etc) only confirms that the person exists but ain't no good to me.

Regarding content, the ones along the line 'I met this cheeky chap/lovely lady, really knows how to please a woman/men' are the ones to stay away from. Really does he/she??? First of all that's such a blunt generalisation and secondly my conclusion is he/she was that boring/rubbish that the writer couldn't think of anything better to say. There might be the odd exception where the sex was mind blowing and he/she wasn't able any more to come up with something more creative....

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I like reading veris and I think you get a general idea of how someone is or how they behave but really you need to meet someone and form your own opinion,one persons dream may be another's nightmare. Personally I don't like graphic ones, I prefer the details to remain private although and I prefer it to be clear if it was a simple social/coffee meet as opposed to a meet where I played...but hey each to their own

Mrs S

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By *arky90Couple
over a year ago

Killarney


"I like reading veris and I think you get a general idea of how someone is or how they behave but really you need to meet someone and form your own opinion,one persons dream may be another's nightmare. Personally I don't like graphic ones, I prefer the details to remain private although and I prefer it to be clear if it was a simple social/coffee meet as opposed to a meet where I played...but hey each to their own

Mrs S"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the veries are reading the same way through is a general indicator but always judge by tone of messages and a coffee meet first before play date sorted x

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Quick question...when fabbers say they only meet verified profiles.. is a photo verified profile included?

Not really most want meet verified even for some socials "

The vicious circle, need a meet to veri, need a veri to meet! There is no easy way to resolve this sadly

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I like reading veris and I think you get a general idea of how someone is or how they behave but really you need to meet someone and form your own opinion,one persons dream may be another's nightmare. Personally I don't like graphic ones, I prefer the details to remain private although and I prefer it to be clear if it was a simple social/coffee meet as opposed to a meet where I played...but hey each to their own

Mrs S"

A lady that knows a good verification and i can gladly and respectfully say is genuine

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Recently seeing a trend to verify a person more than once. Not sure my opinion on this, if you met them and you liked them enough to leave a verification; do you need to do it again?? Any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently seeing a trend to verify a person more than once. Not sure my opinion on this, if you met them and you liked them enough to leave a verification; do you need to do it again?? Any thoughts?"

We've had a few repeat veri's because we had left the site for a while.. and as our meets were genuine 'met in person' meets we were sincerely greatful to receive the veri's again..,

You seem to have a few repeat meets yourself....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really see the issue with fluffing up the language a bit. Would be a bit boring if people just wrote, we met, we played it was good. People always seem to be griping about what people with in verificationa. Can't seem to win either way. That being said I personally don't like the overly graphic ones myself but if that is how peple wanna verify then let them off with it. It doesnt change the whole point of verifying.

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Recently seeing a trend to verify a person more than once. Not sure my opinion on this, if you met them and you liked them enough to leave a verification; do you need to do it again?? Any thoughts?

We've had a few repeat veri's because we had left the site for a while.. and as our meets were genuine 'met in person' meets we were sincerely greatful to receive the veri's again..,

You seem to have a few repeat meets yourself....??"

I do and its from that and this thread I am thinking about it more. Maybe its something I should do, but I never have. It is why I posted to find out other perspectives, thank you for your comment; it was not something I had considered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no problem!

You do have an impressive array of veri's... Be proud and here's to plenty more to cum..for both our profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When and if I get to actually meet people Then I will discuss this at length

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Recently seeing a trend to verify a person more than once. Not sure my opinion on this, if you met them and you liked them enough to leave a verification; do you need to do it again?? Any thoughts?"

Personally if I've more than one verification from someone I just leave the most recent one visible. It hasn't happened too often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good one and how would you know to avoid?? "

So what if you have no meet verification (like me) should one avoid ?

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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Recently seeing a trend to verify a person more than once. Not sure my opinion on this, if you met them and you liked them enough to leave a verification; do you need to do it again?? Any thoughts?

Personally if I've more than one verification from someone I just leave the most recent one visible. It hasn't happened too often."

I'd be surprised at that Wilder, good idea on only showing the most recent , keeps it fresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually all verifications we have issued reflect how we felt about the meeting in positive manner. Even if there was no play involved for whatever reason we would not attempt to leave a veri which leaves hints to conclude a avoid. Whether someone is worth the meet or not stays an individual perspective. ..so our verifications serve the purpose to verify someone is a real person or couple and beyond we enjoy to leave the one verified a little feedback which should make the one concerned feels good.

The style of verification issued is depending on who of us writes it...Mr enjoys the play with words more than Mrs

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