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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not avoiding them I just don't have the time .. I forgot about fri nights party n made plans.

Thing is I get a good few offers to go with but I don't know who to choose

How do you pic a social partner (to attend with) or can you go with different men each time or does it even matter ?!?!?

I have female friends I can attend with but fellas get the hump coz I don't go with them ..

So just pick the one to avoid awkwardness or fuck it n be the social slag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just go alone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not just go alone?"

Hahaha that never even occurred to me Just thought It would b more fun going with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you pick a guy to go with it could cause problems like jealousy.i know its a swinging social/party but that's blokes for ye.I'm going on the 12th alone butbi have people iv talked to that I'm meeting before hand for a drink so its grand.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

go on your on. and if you are bringing someone it doesn't matter if you went with a different guy each time no body cares iv accompanied a few different women to socials because they didn't want to attend alone some times there are pre drinks for newbies and not so newbies and that helps if you are alone because you end up getting to know a gang before you head in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"go on your on. and if you are bringing someone it doesn't matter if you went with a different guy each time no body cares iv accompanied a few different women to socials because they didn't want to attend alone some times there are pre drinks for newbies and not so newbies and that helps if you are alone because you end up getting to know a gang before you head in "

Great reply

Didn't realise that's the way it went .. Good to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you pick a guy to go with it could cause problems like jealousy.i know its a swinging social/party but that's blokes for ye.I'm going on the 12th alone butbi have people iv talked to that I'm meeting before hand for a drink so its grand."

This is what I'm experiencing tbh ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you pick a guy to go with it could cause problems like jealousy.i know its a swinging social/party but that's blokes for ye.I'm going on the 12th alone butbi have people iv talked to that I'm meeting before hand for a drink so its grand.

This is what I'm experiencing tbh .. "

Went to my first social as a newbie and on my own...as a single woman...you wont be left by yourself for long

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I always go to socials alone, it can be daunting at start but Fab socials are great as everyone is friendly. It gives u confidence & independence.

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By *otLips 69Woman
over a year ago

Here or There

Why take only one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have gone to socials on my own many a time....... I have survived lol!!! Don't have a problem at all, always someone you know at socials when you've gone to at least 2/3!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that choice, why not go with someone different each time?

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By *ornybarMan
over a year ago

clonmel

I'm attending my first 1 in Limerick on the 5th. Going on my own but am nervously excited. Hoping that maybe a few people might be having a pre social drink. That I can get to know people before it starts

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Just go on your own.

I would always attend on my own, it's less complicated. No one has any ideas about you being their "date" and you can go flirt n chat to everyone without a care.

I went to my first swing party alone too! Scary, but very exciting!

You're doing this for you.. So do as you please and ignore the neh neh 'ers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone , and thanks for the mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're giving it too much though. .goung alone or with someone male or female. .who cares..just go enjoy. If theres a person who gets the hump coz ya didn't go with them...my opinion is they don't belong on this site. .regards;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often go alone to socials as himself is always too busy..the socials are just drinks with fab friends lol

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