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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What would you call fab? I see it refer to as just a sex site while others call it as a swing site? What's fab to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swing site most definitely for me. Sex is part of swinging but swinging is a community aswell, so I enjoy the social aspect as much as the rest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex site with a touch of swing added although a lot of singles involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you call fab? I see it refer to as just a sex site while others call it as a swing site? What's fab to you?"
i get lost abit on this as I'm not fully sure what swinging entails! Had a woman ask Me yesterday was I here for sex, I said yes and she said what about swinging and I'm like what do you mean to which she didn't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely swing! I find it very annoying when I come across people who use it as a sex site!!

Mrs B

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

definitely a swingers site sure the clue is in the name lol

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

It's more than just sex for me anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"definitely a swingers site sure the clue is in the name lol"

Smartarse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is however you think it is, there is no right or wrong answer, just go with the flow and do what you feel comfortable with, respect others respect yourself and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swing site most definitely for me. Sex is part of swinging but swinging is a community aswell, so I enjoy the social aspect as much as the rest! "

This couldn't have put it better ourselves Lolli

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Swinging implies the social side to me. The meeting of friends outside of the bedroom.

If a group of friends can sit and enjoy each other's company, and then go have sex together, that's swinging.

Equally, if just 2 people can sit and enjoy each other's company and THEN go have sex, I think that counts as swinging too, especially if they both have several friends they can do that with

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh, and sorry to butt in but I saw the thread title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging - be promiscuous, especially by engaging in group sex or swapping sexual partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, and sorry to butt in but I saw the thread title "

You didn't. That's actually an extremely good post you wrote above.

Tomcat

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

just because some people use it as a way try and get the leg over doesn't change what fab is. the same people would do anything if they thought it increased their chances of a ride. and the old saying of the site is for what ever you want from it is bollox. if I sold a car on here would that make it a car sales site ? no so its a swingers site just because some people use it for different reasons doesn't change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might sound crazy..but im here to possibly meet someone like minded sexually to actually maybe have something more then nsa with and eventually swing with .I get an awful lot of stick from guys because I won't meet for once off sex. Saying it's a sex site I shouldn't be here... swinging .to me implies consensual partner swapping. Two single people meeting for nsa sex is not swinging to me it's just sex...but I don't judge or criticise for that so why am I judged???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about singles joining couples? Does that count as swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A swing site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swing site for us! It's about the social aspect as well as the possibility of sex

Dressing up having fun and the secrecy FABTASTIC!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a swinging site,pof is a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sherwing!! It's a swing site.

It's definitely more of a lifestyle choice where you can happily explore your innocent kinks with like minded friends.

As for a sex site I dunno most people I know here have no problem in their real lives getting laid with out the need for being on here looking for an easy ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sherwing!! It's a swing site.

It's definitely more of a lifestyle choice where you can happily explore your innocent kinks with like minded friends.

As for a sex site I dunno most people I know here have no problem in their real lives getting laid with out the need for being on here looking for an easy ride. "

That probably best explains it!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman
over a year ago

northside


"This might sound crazy..but im here to possibly meet someone like minded sexually to actually maybe have something more then nsa with and eventually swing with .I get an awful lot of stick from guys because I won't meet for once off sex. Saying it's a sex site I shouldn't be here... swinging .to me implies consensual partner swapping. Two single people meeting for nsa sex is not swinging to me it's just sex...but I don't judge or criticise for that so why am I judged???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swing, as laid says some will use if for just a shag. Rest of us play the game so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sherwing!! It's a swing site.

It's definitely more of a lifestyle choice where you can happily explore your innocent kinks with like minded friends.

As for a sex site I dunno most people I know here have no problem in their real lives getting laid with out the need for being on here looking for an easy ride. "

Perfectly sums it up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just because some people use it as a way try and get the leg over doesn't change what fab is. the same people would do anything if they thought it increased their chances of a ride. and the old saying of the site is for what ever you want from it is bollox. if I sold a car on here would that make it a car sales site ? no so its a swingers site just because some people use it for different reasons doesn't change it. "

Good points made by you there laid and strange enough I have seen people try sell cars here

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By *uncouple3030Couple
over a year ago

Belfast:Dublin

I agree it's a swing site for us. But there is to many singles us it as a sex site. Someone needs to divert them.

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"Definitely swing! I find it very annoying when I come across people who use it as a sex site!!

Mrs B"

Totally agree Mrs B.. theres so much more to swinging than jus sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging implies the social side to me. The meeting of friends outside of the bedroom.

If a group of friends can sit and enjoy each other's company, and then go have sex together, that's swinging.

Equally, if just 2 people can sit and enjoy each other's company and THEN go have sex, I think that counts as swinging too, especially if they both have several friends they can do that with "

Well said dawg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think you are all right. I like the social side too make new friends and relax.

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

KILCULLEN

It actually depends what your looking for , yet it all leads to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's a swing site ie couples meeting for socials and swapping etc A lot of single females and a few males would treat it as the same, meeting couples and the odd singles at parties. For a lot of the single males it's a SEX SITE.. Phwoarrrr get your leg over it's easy peasy lets just message EVERYONE on the site at least 20 times and I'm bound to get a ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabswingers .... Name gives it all away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a sex site because when you swing you have sex but when you have sex you dont necessarily swing all the time, so its a sex site . Its nothings to be embarrased about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was a sex site because when you swing you have sex but when you have sex you dont necessarily swing all the time, so its a sex site . Its nothings to be embarrased about "

Sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was a sex site because when you swing you have sex but when you have sex you dont necessarily swing all the time, so its a sex site . Its nothings to be embarrased about "

Soft swinging?

I absolutely get why singles would call it a sex site as technically they're not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A swinging sex site .... A sex site ....

Deffo not a social site

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I thought it was a sex site because when you swing you have sex but when you have sex you dont necessarily swing all the time, so its a sex site . Its nothings to be embarrased about

Soft swinging?

I absolutely get why singles would call it a sex site as technically they're not swinging. "

So when couples have promiscuous sex, it's called swinging? And when singles do it, it's not swinging, it's just sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well...im happy to do both...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first I used it just for nsa sex . But then I went to one if lolli & laid socials and found out that theres much more to the site .Ive made a few close friends and I love the social aspect of it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was a sex site because when you swing you have sex but when you have sex you dont necessarily swing all the time, so its a sex site . Its nothings to be embarrased about

Soft swinging?

I absolutely get why singles would call it a sex site as technically they're not swinging.

So when couples have promiscuous sex, it's called swinging? And when singles do it, it's not swinging, it's just sex?

"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this explain it?

A site where most sign up for no strings attached sex and then it differs slightly! Some are only here for that and some love the social side to? Is there really anything wrong with either?

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Its both I think. You can hardly use it for just socials as sex is big part of swinging otherwise it's just a social site.

I love both the socials, where u can meet likeminded folks that enjoy themselves & sex and I also love the sex.

A lot of couples out there are not just looking for another couple to meet with but also mmf & ffm etc so even tho it's not technically swinging if your a single, us singles are very much needed. I do think if I was using this site for just 1-1 nsa I wouldn't be a real swinger but i contribute with couples & group so I feel very much a swinger.

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I am a genuine single guy and I get hit on by a lot of bi or gay guys on here who don't bother to read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you call fab? I see it refer to as just a sex site while others call it as a swing site? What's fab to you?"

Lots of fun

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I am a genuine single guy and I get hit on by a lot of bi or gay guys on here who don't bother to read profiles "

That's because there are a lot of guys who put straight on their profiles and yet are Bi.

Par for the course! Just the way things are.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Let's call a spade a spade. It's a sex site aimed at swingers.

Any person not into swinging or nsa sex would call it a sex site and couldn't see the difference anyway.

So what is the difference between swinging and NSA sex?

In my opinion swinging is a sub category of NSA sex. NSA sex is two people or more having sex without the necessity of a relationship and with no obligations beyond the act. I would define swinging as non-monogamous liberated sex without an emotional commitment (NSA) but with like minded people who also appreciate the social aspect of it. Hence that 'little community' also meets for informal gatherings such as m&g or for organised parties and in clubs.

Now, the big question is where do you draw the border? I'm not a party animal and haven't attended a m&g or a party, but I have my meets and I like the social aspect of meeting a person as well as the sex and I've made friends on here. Does that make me a swinger or do I use the site just as a sex site? Or the other way around, when a swinger organises a gangbang and the guys come in have sex and leave straight after again, does the swinger then use the site as a sex site?

By the end of the day promiscuous sex is promiscuous sex no matter what title you put to it and it doesn't make you any better person than the one who looks for a one night stand/once of sex only. Each on their own. Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's call a spade a spade. It's a sex site aimed at swingers.

Any person not into swinging or nsa sex would call it a sex site and couldn't see the difference anyway.

So what is the difference between swinging and NSA sex?

In my opinion swinging is a sub category of NSA sex. NSA sex is two people or more having sex without the necessity of a relationship and with no obligations beyond the act. I would define swinging as non-monogamous liberated sex without an emotional commitment (NSA) but with like minded people who also appreciate the social aspect of it. Hence that 'little community' also meets for informal gatherings such as m&g or for organised parties and in clubs.

Now, the big question is where do you draw the border? I'm not a party animal and haven't attended a m&g or a party, but I have my meets and I like the social aspect of meeting a person as well as the sex and I've made friends on here. Does that make me a swinger or do I use the site just as a sex site? Or the other way around, when a swinger organises a gangbang and the guys come in have sex and leave straight after again, does the swinger then use the site as a sex site?

By the end of the day promiscuous sex is promiscuous sex no matter what title you put to it and it doesn't make you any better person than the one who looks for a one night stand/once of sex only. Each on their own. Happy fabbing!"

Well said!

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By *wingpeterMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Definetly a swinging site as love the social side,meet and greets and its great meeting up for drinks before a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definetly a swinging site as love the social side,meet and greets and its great meeting up for drinks before a party."

Not every swinger enjoys the social side that people keep banging on about . Neither of us have any interest in going to a meet and greet and we do just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's call a spade a spade. It's a sex site aimed at swingers.

Any person not into swinging or nsa sex would call it a sex site and couldn't see the difference anyway.

So what is the difference between swinging and NSA sex?

In my opinion swinging is a sub category of NSA sex. NSA sex is two people or more having sex without the necessity of a relationship and with no obligations beyond the act. I would define swinging as non-monogamous liberated sex without an emotional commitment (NSA) but with like minded people who also appreciate the social aspect of it. Hence that 'little community' also meets for informal gatherings such as m&g or for organised parties and in clubs.

Now, the big question is where do you draw the border? I'm not a party animal and haven't attended a m&g or a party, but I have my meets and I like the social aspect of meeting a person as well as the sex and I've made friends on here. Does that make me a swinger or do I use the site just as a sex site? Or the other way around, when a swinger organises a gangbang and the guys come in have sex and leave straight after again, does the swinger then use the site as a sex site?

By the end of the day promiscuous sex is promiscuous sex no matter what title you put to it and it doesn't make you any better person than the one who looks for a one night stand/once of sex only. Each on their own. Happy fabbing!"

Excellent post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty simple! If you want just sex and no added extras just use the site like that! If u want the social aspect add that in 2! One thing we are all here for is sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's call a spade a spade. It's a sex site aimed at swingers.

Any person not into swinging or nsa sex would call it a sex site and couldn't see the difference anyway.

So what is the difference between swinging and NSA sex?

In my opinion swinging is a sub category of NSA sex. NSA sex is two people or more having sex without the necessity of a relationship and with no obligations beyond the act. I would define swinging as non-monogamous liberated sex without an emotional commitment (NSA) but with like minded people who also appreciate the social aspect of it. Hence that 'little community' also meets for informal gatherings such as m&g or for organised parties and in clubs.

Now, the big question is where do you draw the border? I'm not a party animal and haven't attended a m&g or a party, but I have my meets and I like the social aspect of meeting a person as well as the sex and I've made friends on here. Does that make me a swinger or do I use the site just as a sex site? Or the other way around, when a swinger organises a gangbang and the guys come in have sex and leave straight after again, does the swinger then use the site as a sex site?

By the end of the day promiscuous sex is promiscuous sex no matter what title you put to it and it doesn't make you any better person than the one who looks for a one night stand/once of sex only. Each on their own. Happy fabbing!"

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Let's call a spade a spade. It's a sex site aimed at swingers.

Any person not into swinging or nsa sex would call it a sex site and couldn't see the difference anyway.

So what is the difference between swinging and NSA sex?

In my opinion swinging is a sub category of NSA sex. NSA sex is two people or more having sex without the necessity of a relationship and with no obligations beyond the act. I would define swinging as non-monogamous liberated sex without an emotional commitment (NSA) but with like minded people who also appreciate the social aspect of it. Hence that 'little community' also meets for informal gatherings such as m&g or for organised parties and in clubs.

Now, the big question is where do you draw the border? I'm not a party animal and haven't attended a m&g or a party, but I have my meets and I like the social aspect of meeting a person as well as the sex and I've made friends on here. Does that make me a swinger or do I use the site just as a sex site? Or the other way around, when a swinger organises a gangbang and the guys come in have sex and leave straight after again, does the swinger then use the site as a sex site?

By the end of the day promiscuous sex is promiscuous sex no matter what title you put to it and it doesn't make you any better person than the one who looks for a one night stand/once of sex only. Each on their own. Happy fabbing!"

Our very own fab CEO... well said DH...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's call a spade a spade. It's a sex site aimed at swingers.

Any person not into swinging or nsa sex would call it a sex site and couldn't see the difference anyway.

So what is the difference between swinging and NSA sex?

In my opinion swinging is a sub category of NSA sex. NSA sex is two people or more having sex without the necessity of a relationship and with no obligations beyond the act. I would define swinging as non-monogamous liberated sex without an emotional commitment (NSA) but with like minded people who also appreciate the social aspect of it. Hence that 'little community' also meets for informal gatherings such as m&g or for organised parties and in clubs.

Now, the big question is where do you draw the border? I'm not a party animal and haven't attended a m&g or a party, but I have my meets and I like the social aspect of meeting a person as well as the sex and I've made friends on here. Does that make me a swinger or do I use the site just as a sex site? Or the other way around, when a swinger organises a gangbang and the guys come in have sex and leave straight after again, does the swinger then use the site as a sex site?

By the end of the day promiscuous sex is promiscuous sex no matter what title you put to it and it doesn't make you any better person than the one who looks for a one night stand/once of sex only. Each on their own. Happy fabbing!"

Well said DH

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We have been to so many m&g's and socials , we are done with them for now as we dont find them fun for us anymore , we just want sex now lol , pardon the pun , so we would call ourselves swingers as we swap with other cpls and at parties, but its also nice to have the odd mmf or mff too.

Mrs crazy

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

No need to complicate things....once everyone agrees that its NSA it will work when the lines get blurred that's the problem.... We like party's mainly because it saves us having 10 plus coffee meets for the same result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need to complicate things....once everyone agrees that its NSA it will work when the lines get blurred that's the problem.... We like party's mainly because it saves us having 10 plus coffee meets for the same result"

Exactly, why complicate it, we hate parties because we are introverts - to each their own.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I luv d company of a nice lady just one on one n just b with d her rather than meeting once off . One nite stands don't do it for me regular meets do it for me a good friend to enjoy .

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

As always it's perspective, each to their own, horse for courses, whatever floats your boat etc etc etc

But for the sake of discussion, for me technically swinging needs to involve least one couple who are in a relationship, so when a MMF,FFM, MMM or FFF (and all the other combos!) meet through fab, 2 people view the site as a swingers site, the single party views it as a sex site, all from the same meet

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