FabSwingers.com forum: why did u start swinging???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe it's been posted here before. But why did yous start to swing and which in a couple first mentioned it. For us I himself was thinking about it for maybe 18 months before I got the balls to say it to herself. I was very surprised when she fully agreed to it, for our reason for swinging is, years of marriage, bringing up a young family, busy working,not getting out together. Our sex life dropped a lot, maybe if lucky we had sex once a week and it was near as if we had to have sex for the sake of it because that's what marriage is for. So in short we were bored in our sex life. We needed more to spice it up. Since starting to swing we could have sex with each other 3-4 times a week now. We're like newlyweds again. Live to hear your side of the story...himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All really began with Mr asking Did I like porn?? Developed from watching, drooling over girls, Mrs I may add lol, to wanting to try stuff, bi to start, then mmf, then progressed on x

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All really began with Mr asking Did I like porn?? Developed from watching, drooling over girls, Mrs I may add lol, to wanting to try stuff, bi to start, then mmf, then progressed on x "

I forgot vto add the porn bit also. I watched porn from time to time. Herself found out, went a bit mad. I asked her to watch it with me. Oh man, she got so turned on by watching mmf, mff and ff. So it kinda broke the ice when I asked about trying it out for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When are we meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The next weekend I get off, or maybe around Xmas time when kids off school. Midweek. How about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough! "

Oh man, that ads picture always does things to me.

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By *iceguydubMan
over a year ago

"Maybe it's been posted here before. But why did yous start to swing and which in a couple first mentioned it. For us I himself was thinking about it for maybe 18 months before I got the balls to say it to herself. I was very surprised when she fully agreed to it, for our reason for swinging is, years of marriage, bringing up a young family, busy working,not getting out together. Our sex life dropped a lot, maybe if lucky we had sex once a week and it was near as if we had to have sex for the sake of it because that's what marriage is for. So in short we were bored in our sex life. We needed more to spice it up. Since starting to swing we could have sex with each other 3-4 times a week now. We're like newlyweds again. Live to hear your side of the story...himself"

Fair play for your honest answer...Id assume it's the same for most couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into an old work colleague in a supermarket in Spain (where I lived and worked at the time) around 2004/5. After exchanging pleasantries, he began to tell me how he'd resently talked his misses into a 3some, and after I had congratulated him he said "and we thought of you"

I was like "Ohhhhhh, that kind of threesome". I had met his misses before (smoking hot) and said something a long the lines of "Fuck yeah"

Became a regular met, where they'd introduce me to some of their friends and informed me what site to use. I haven't looked back since

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

I wanted to have a threesome so i asked a mate what was the best site for it to happen and she told me about fab. I own her a drink for that great advice too.

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough! "

exactly my reason too

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too"
that's why we get on well

haha

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha"

I wish u would

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

"
get it on? Haha

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha "

Hell yeah

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

"
I think I could be good with that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still yet to swing... So not sure what brought me here

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha "

Anytime

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

"
Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha"

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

"
you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on other adult sites as I wanted a sex life, somebody from one of my sites mentioned Fab so I joined Fab, checked it out & stayed, experienced a lot more than I expected to...... I'm enjoying it more now I have to say!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1 reason is myself (Sarah) is very greedy & can never get enough and got into it after I told himself about a 3sum I'd had in the past and after hubby going mental he realized how much it turned him on and here we are

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha"

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.

Tomcat "

Love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.

Tomcat "

Did ye leave Fab for a while first then come back as a couple on Fab or did you go straight into setting up a couple profile....?

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me"
won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha "

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

I was always a libertine, as I grew up in a city with a very libertine mindset sexuality was never a theme for the pillow only. The hotwife who had a very active sex life before me wanted to try it out to push the boundaries so we did and she got hooked as well...so here we are

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

"
haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha "

Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck

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By *0shadesofashWoman
over a year ago

DUBLIN

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha

Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck

"
Hahahaha wer just fiesty fuckers that's all

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha

Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck

Hope its not a fight she'd destroy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.

Tomcat

Did ye leave Fab for a while first then come back as a couple on Fab or did you go straight into setting up a couple profile....?

Kept our single profiles and took a break. Came back as a couple then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha

Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck

Hope its not a fight she'd destroy me "

I think that's what she has in mind anyway

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I met a girl on a NSA site five years ago, she told me about a couple of threesomes she'd had. Group play had never occurred to me before. I was intrigued and she got me an invite to a party with about seventy people at it. I was hooked straight away.

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

"Was all my idea cause I'm a horny bastard and enough is never enough!

exactly my reason too that's why we get on well

haha

I wish u would

get it on? Haha

Hell yeah

I think I could be good with that haha

Anytime

Xmas social should be a lot more fun now

haha

I will be the shy one hiding in the corner

you where far from shy last year in cork in the smoking area hahaha

that was me being shy when I lose my nervousness the

cums outa me won't be the only thing coming outta ya haha

Lol you've no idea

take a deep breath and hold on

haha ur the one that's gonna need the deep breaths haha

Jasus I'm not sure if you guys are warming up to fight or fuck

Hope its not a fight she'd destroy me

I think that's what she has in mind anyway

I can hold my own in that department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages ago I was on a "dating" site and someone off there told me about s4i. Eventually heard about fab through that and said id have a look. Funny enough ive ran into a couple people off that same dating site that I talked to oh so many years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine thought I should have more sex and after shagging me thought I might enjoy this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just came across it on Google purely by accident many years ago. Life hasn't been the same since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we both met here and decided to stay and explore more then the two of us already had.

Tomcat

Did ye leave Fab for a while first then come back as a couple on Fab or did you go straight into setting up a couple profile....?

Kept our single profiles and took a break. Came back as a couple then. "

That's really cool!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find the mystery and anticipation that's involved with talking to someone online about sex, and getting butterflies before meeting to be a massive thrill. I love the tension around it all, its a real buzz. Fab just happens to be the best place to find genuine people...

Also, because group sex is fucking awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wanted to feel the excitement and we are excitement junkies.... Now we love group sex and the buzz we get from it fun fun fun!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I told my ex hubby id have an affair, the sex became pointless and mundane and watching relentless amounts of porn wasnt for me when i wanted to be the porn star!!.My boat wasnt floating so he took me on a hedonistic holiday and the rest as they say is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started with an ex as was a compromise between my bdsm interests and his swinging. Found I enjoyed it a lot and stuck around as a single. Now dragging my other half into all the debauchery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wanted raw passionate kinky fun

guilt free nsa

got a whole load more too and I love every minute of this weird n wacky addiction

wouldn't change a minute of the whole thing

we're on a roller coaster so may as well just enjoy the ride lol

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By *oldenFingersMan
over a year ago

Fairview

A couple introduced me to it in America a long time ago now. I liked it and that was that.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Been a horny hot blooded male I need to feel the warmth of bodies in this cold weather.....

Well the first part is correct, the second would help too, but it's the excitement of meeting people in a way that others may only dream of. First experienced it in the US a number of years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs macmully here. I had gotten a crush at work on a fella who I worked closely in the same area. It got really bad that everyone knew even he did. I came home crying one day from work nd we had a great chat about it. Brendan was fine about it but I wasn't. It got us chatting about the lack of experience and we both said about swinging. He came home one day and I had out account opened and he didn't know as it there for a week before I told him. The rest is history that was just over 6 years ago now. And still loving it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs macmully here. I had gotten a crush at work on a fella who I worked closely in the same area. It got really bad that everyone knew even he did. I came home crying one day from work nd we had a great chat about it. Brendan was fine about it but I wasn't. It got us chatting about the lack of experience and we both said about swinging. He came home one day and I had out account opened and he didn't know as it there for a week before I told him. The rest is history that was just over 6 years ago now. And still loving it

What about the fella at work, did u manage to get ur way with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the fella at work, did u manage to get ur way with him"

No wish I did. I still see him ofter and had loads of time on our own to try but for some reason the childish feeling comes back and I can't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A workmate told me about a club called Entropy in Dublin that he had attended. So I said "You gotta come over to our apartment and tell my girlfriend (now my wife) about this place".

He did, we drank some wine, had a threesome that evening and then he passed our details to the party organiser and we attended the next party. That was 2001

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being honest I was horny

one night never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of people were saying that they'd love to see me swinging....

I must be on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I find the mystery and anticipation that's involved with talking to someone online about sex, and getting butterflies before meeting to be a massive thrill. I love the tension around it all, its a real buzz. Fab just happens to be the best place to find genuine people...

Also, because group sex is fucking awesome!"

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By *m158Couple
over a year ago

Cork

We often fantasised about having sex with other people but never taught it would happen. We went on holiday himself took me out and had a meet arranged i didnt even know fab existed we met a couple for drinks hit it off and the following night we did more than hit it off ....

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I started because I wanted to.

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