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By *murph OP   Man
over a year ago

drogheda

I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the site FAQ

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"From the site FAQ

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No replies=not interested on fab, same way "won't meet at the drop of a hat" only applies to women but men must be prepared to meet "at the drop of a hat" it's a woman's world my friend get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?"

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat

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By *murph OP   Man
over a year ago

drogheda

That is life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are that sick of it,then stop messaging people.at least you have control over that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat "
Well aren't you the popular cat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not another one of these stupid threads. I'm not getting any attention wawawahhhh.

How many times per month does this question/statement be put forward on these forums?

RTFM people. Read The Fucking Manual.

Some single lads need their hands held like they're little boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat."

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty "
Why are you on here if you're talking a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile - not Gay or Bi but would experiment with bi male female couple....

Confusing

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty Why are you on here if you're talking a break."

Because they want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty Why are you on here if you're talking a break.

Because they want to?"
I'm sure you don't have to answer for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not another one of these stupid threads. I'm not getting any attention wawawahhhh.

How many times per month does this question/statement be put forward on these forums?

RTFM people. Read The Fucking Manual.

Some single lads need their hands held like they're little boys. "

Everyone is entitled to post any subject they want...

You don't like the thread don't answer it...

That's why it's a public forum...

And it says nothing in the rules about that FYI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty Why are you on here if you're talking a break."

That my friend is for us to know. So don't worry ur pretty head about it

Kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty Why are you on here if you're talking a break.

That my friend is for us to know. So don't worry ur pretty head about it

Kitty "
Meow meow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty Why are you on here if you're talking a break.

Because they want to?I'm sure you don't have to answer for them. "

And they (kittycatty) don't have to answer it either.

What a silly question to ask anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

Women and couples can in some cases have mails in the hundreds. To take the time to reply would be impossible as many including ourselves have busy lives outside this site. Its harsh granted but that's fab.

Tomcat Well aren't you the popular cat.

Never said it was us ourselves,as we have our filters set quite high to avoid huge amounts of messages,especially considering we are taking a break. People who are actively meeting do however tend to have large volumes of messages.

Kitty Why are you on here if you're talking a break.

Because they want to?I'm sure you don't have to answer for them.

And they (kittycatty) don't have to answer it either.

What a silly question to ask anyway. "

Don't worry. We don't mind answering it. Think we know who it is anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not another one of these stupid threads. I'm not getting any attention wawawahhhh.

How many times per month does this question/statement be put forward on these forums?

RTFM people. Read The Fucking Manual.

Some single lads need their hands held like they're little boys.

Everyone is entitled to post any subject they want...

You don't like the thread don't answer it...

That's why it's a public forum...

And it says nothing in the rules about that FYI "

Love the way you keep quoting my posts. I feel so special with all the attention you keep showering upon me.

Mr Sugarloaf x

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

yes totally agree.wat does our heads is people we msg,and delete witout even having a look at who msgd themtotal ingnorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not another one of these stupid threads. I'm not getting any attention wawawahhhh.

How many times per month does this question/statement be put forward on these forums?

RTFM people. Read The Fucking Manual.

Some single lads need their hands held like they're little boys.

Everyone is entitled to post any subject they want...

You don't like the thread don't answer it...

That's why it's a public forum...

And it says nothing in the rules about that FYI

Love the way you keep quoting my posts. I feel so special with all the attention you keep showering upon me.

Mr Sugarloaf x"

I know likewise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab I'm the same message away and not even a f**k off back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest not messaging anyone, chat on forums and go with the flow, without complaining

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By *murph OP   Man
over a year ago

drogheda

Glad I posted message everyone feels the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got to realise that couples and females get loads more mails then single men on here. For some im sure its too time consuming if they replied to everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe administration might consider a "No thanks" auto reply button before you have to open and read the message to reply to it as it is now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone doesn't feel the same

Tbh most of the time a "no thanks" leads to dogs abuse so you can thank those who dish that out for your lack of replies....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you read our profile, we will always reply, and you will only message us if you have read it.

The amount of guys who message "your profile caught my eye" and they so obviously never looked past the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?"
the problem is some guys take the polite no thanks as the ultimate rejection then the tirade of abuse starts, don't blame the people who don't reply, blame the people before you! It's much easier to ignore sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be arsed replying to a mail saying "hi,hru" so no reply means no interest,

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The wimmin do be fierce awful annoying so they do. Every Tuesday and Thursday, as well as Monday Wednesday and Friday I do be messaging the lucky ones to let them know that the wife is gone to bingo and I'm in their area with a full bag and am offer of curry chips when the job is done. I'd only ever get two or three takers on it. The rest of them are up their own holes if you ask me. Bah.. Wimmin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wimmin do be fierce awful annoying so they do. Every Tuesday and Thursday, as well as Monday Wednesday and Friday I do be messaging the lucky ones to let them know that the wife is gone to bingo and I'm in their area with a full bag and am offer of curry chips when the job is done. I'd only ever get two or three takers on it. The rest of them are up their own holes if you ask me. Bah.. Wimmin! "

So it's safe to message ya on Saturday and Sunday's so is it???? I'd be wantin a dinner box mind.....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The wimmin do be fierce awful annoying so they do. Every Tuesday and Thursday, as well as Monday Wednesday and Friday I do be messaging the lucky ones to let them know that the wife is gone to bingo and I'm in their area with a full bag and am offer of curry chips when the job is done. I'd only ever get two or three takers on it. The rest of them are up their own holes if you ask me. Bah.. Wimmin!

So it's safe to message ya on Saturday and Sunday's so is it???? I'd be wantin a dinner box mind..... "

That's the wimmin for ya. Never happy. You'll have curry chips and like them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone doesn't feel the same

Tbh most of the time a "no thanks" leads to dogs abuse so you can thank those who dish that out for your lack of replies...."

True, or if you don't get the abuse you're asked why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wimmin do be fierce awful annoying so they do. Every Tuesday and Thursday, as well as Monday Wednesday and Friday I do be messaging the lucky ones to let them know that the wife is gone to bingo and I'm in their area with a full bag and am offer of curry chips when the job is done. I'd only ever get two or three takers on it. The rest of them are up their own holes if you ask me. Bah.. Wimmin! "

Hahahahaha...

Any chance of a sausage too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wimmin do be fierce awful annoying so they do. Every Tuesday and Thursday, as well as Monday Wednesday and Friday I do be messaging the lucky ones to let them know that the wife is gone to bingo and I'm in their area with a full bag and am offer of curry chips when the job is done. I'd only ever get two or three takers on it. The rest of them are up their own holes if you ask me. Bah.. Wimmin!

So it's safe to message ya on Saturday and Sunday's so is it???? I'd be wantin a dinner box mind.....

That's the wimmin for ya. Never happy. You'll have curry chips and like them! "

Well there'll be no anal for u so, dat curry gives me the runs ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning in the forums is one way to go about cock blocking yourself!!

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray


"yes totally agree.wat does our heads is people we msg,and delete witout even having a look at who msgd themtotal ingnorance."

That does my head in too. Glad Im not the only one feeling that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What difference does it make? Either way it means you're not going up in that cunt so just go knock one out in the jacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's impossible to reply to all mail I have a job and a life, I'm not going to spend my evenings replying to mail when I have no interest in the profile.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Not another one of these stupid threads. I'm not getting any attention wawawahhhh.

How many times per month does this question/statement be put forward on these forums?

RTFM people. Read The Fucking Manual.

Some single lads need their hands held like they're little boys. "

Well at least you're not passive aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?"

No, never.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

No, never."

Liar. I never reply to your constant "fancy a fuck" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

No, never.

Liar. I never reply to your constant "fancy a fuck" messages. "

We're in the dance now MM, you can't refuse...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?

No, never.

Liar. I never reply to your constant "fancy a fuck" messages.

We're in the dance now MM, you can't refuse... "

Feck it, you've worn me down. Go on so..

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"yes totally agree.wat does our heads is people we msg,and delete witout even having a look at who msgd themtotal ingnorance.

That does my head in too. Glad Im not the only one feeling that way "

How do you know that?

I, and many others, view the profile before opening a message

Just because I don't show on 'looked at me' doesn't mean I didn't look

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes


"I am sick of messaging people on here getting a reply And then nothing it is only polite to say not interested anyone else experience this?"

LOL... people don't have time to reply to all messages!!

Don't even bother messaging them!!

If they want you they will find you, when they are actually looking to meet someone.

Mailing them is a waste of time which would be better used in a bar etc chatting up people rather than wasting your time here!

Put your profile up... if someone is actually interested they will look at your profile, if it is interesting they MIGHT message you!

If you send messages be prepared for them to be deleted/ignored and move on!!

People aren't being rude... they are either not interested or busy!!

GIVE UP messaging them and look for Socials etc and get known!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to every message we receive. Always politely. We are yet to receive a negative nasty message. Could be our sunny disposition.

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