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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not a site for relationships I know but for a bit of fun what traits or characteristics put u off dating men/women? What imminently puts you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a site for relationships I know but for a bit of fun what traits or characteristics put u off dating men/women? What imminently puts you off? "

Being owned...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not a site for relationships I know but for a bit of fun what traits or characteristics put u off dating men/women? What imminently puts you off?

Being owned... "
that is something I can't understand either but each to their own and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont get attached emotionaly if the sex turns out to be the you ever had and you click.. If she wants to let her make that choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont get attached emotionaly if the sex turns out to be the you ever had and you click.. If she wants to let her make that choice "
i would imagine that's one big thing on sites like this! You have to remember it's fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a site for relationships I know but for a bit of fun what traits or characteristics put u off dating men/women? What imminently puts you off?

Being owned... that is something I can't understand either but each to their own and all that "

What dont ya understand about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is not a site for relationships I know but for a bit of fun what traits or characteristics put u off dating men/women? What imminently puts you off?

Being owned... that is something I can't understand either but each to their own and all that

What dont ya understand about it? "
haha I think it's strange but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must have falling for a girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its possible to get into a relationship her,people have over the years and are very possibly happy but both parties have to have the same interests I think.jealousy cant come into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think its possible to get into a relationship her,people have over the years and are very possibly happy but both parties have to have the same interests I think.jealousy cant come into it"
i agree! Of course it can happen but as u say both need to want it but I would imagine the norm in general is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having played here for a while, we rather regret that many (not all) acquaintances just stay at the level of shallow one night stands. A fling with a little romance would be so much more exiting as the pure appointment for a shag meet degrades the sex to an act if masturbating on each other. This with the concequence of lads just being seen as dildos in flesh and blood and lassies as fuck dolls to serve someone's need.

We would love our play partners not to be scared of depth. The ONS approach is only exiting once...After that it needs more levels of connection otherwise it will be boring.... (For us)

However...to deal with the roller coasters of emotions it needs very mature peeps who rest on their inner centre.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having played here for a while, we rather regret that many (not all) acquaintances just stay at the level of shallow one night stands. A fling with a little romance would be so much more exiting as the pure appointment for a shag meet degrades the sex to an act if masturbating on each other. This with the concequence of lads just being seen as dildos in flesh and blood and lassies as fuck dolls to serve someone's need.

We would love our play partners not to be scared of depth. The ONS approach is only exiting once...After that it needs more levels of connection otherwise it will be boring.... (For us)

However...to deal with the roller coasters of emotions it needs very mature peeps who rest on their inner centre."
just in regard to what you say. What about people who meet where distance is involved and have fun? In that regard something regular is not possible so it might be just occasionally

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Having played here for a while, we rather regret that many (not all) acquaintances just stay at the level of shallow one night stands. A fling with a little romance would be so much more exiting as the pure appointment for a shag meet degrades the sex to an act if masturbating on each other. This with the concequence of lads just being seen as dildos in flesh and blood and lassies as fuck dolls to serve someone's need.

We would love our play partners not to be scared of depth. The ONS approach is only exiting once...After that it needs more levels of connection otherwise it will be boring.... (For us)

However...to deal with the roller coasters of emotions it needs very mature peeps who rest on their inner centre.just in regard to what you say. What about people who meet where distance is involved and have fun? In that regard something regular is not possible so it might be just occasionally "

Anything is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having played here for a while, we rather regret that many (not all) acquaintances just stay at the level of shallow one night stands. A fling with a little romance would be so much more exiting as the pure appointment for a shag meet degrades the sex to an act if masturbating on each other. This with the concequence of lads just being seen as dildos in flesh and blood and lassies as fuck dolls to serve someone's need.

We would love our play partners not to be scared of depth. The ONS approach is only exiting once...After that it needs more levels of connection otherwise it will be boring.... (For us)

However...to deal with the roller coasters of emotions it needs very mature peeps who rest on their inner centre.just in regard to what you say. What about people who meet where distance is involved and have fun? In that regard something regular is not possible so it might be just occasionally "
it is not about the dense of the sequence to meet ...it is about depth of mind and souls, quality without emotion is impossible, as mentioned before it would reduce the play part to some mechanical deed. Sexuslity satisfaction beyond an ONS is not just an itch between the legs..and distance does not matter. We are a couple where the spouses are separated over 1000+miles for most of the week

Swinging for us is a lifestyle for body and mind....and the swing starts in mind not below the belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is not a site for relationships I know but for a bit of fun what traits or characteristics put u off dating men/women? What imminently puts you off? "

Liars...

People who can't be honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont get attached emotionaly if the sex turns out to be the you ever had and you click.. If she wants to let her make that choice "

It is possible to meet someone and have mindblowing sex yet not click emotionaly.

I have in the past been fortunate to experience this with two guys who were longterm fbuddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly question.. But whats ONS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly question.. But whats ONS? "

One night stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly question.. But whats ONS?

One night stand"

How did I not figure that one out..

Thank u!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly question.. But whats ONS?

One night stand

How did I not figure that one out..

Thank u! "

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Some people have met on here,after all people have a common mind set or interests but I wouldn't recommend it to specifically look for a relationship.however if you meet someone regularly the chances are you get to know each Other better and understand what they like etc so the sex gets even better. I have met a few people a number of times as I find this the case and yes a friendship can develop ,trust can be vital in certain types of play, but we are all adults and is up to each to decide what they do our don't want out of this.

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people have met on here,after all people have a common mind set or interests but I wouldn't recommend it to specifically look for a relationship.however if you meet someone regularly the chances are you get to know each Other better and understand what they like etc so the sex gets even better. I have met a few people a number of times as I find this the case and yes a friendship can develop ,trust can be vital in certain types of play, but we are all adults and is up to each to decide what they do our don't want out of this.

Mrs S"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its rare as hens teeth and those few that got together here have something special going on but I don't think it's the right place to actively seek a relationship which many do. Most end up with a couples profile that he but mostly she has bargained with the promise of meeting others for sex. Then comes the ownership and the jealousy. Some don't even need a couples profile for all that drama. Car crash stuff to be honest x

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Some people have met on here,after all people have a common mind set or interests but I wouldn't recommend it to specifically look for a relationship.however if you meet someone regularly the chances are you get to know each Other better and understand what they like etc so the sex gets even better. I have met a few people a number of times as I find this the case and yes a friendship can develop ,trust can be vital in certain types of play, but we are all adults and is up to each to decide what they do our don't want out of this.

Mrs S"

thats true one of my longest relationships started on an other swinging site and lasted for 5 years but it ended badly ( to say the least ) so id never rule it out again but id be a lot more careful when getting involved again and iv learned not to trust my initial gut feeling as its been pointed out by a lot of people I know both on the scene and real life friends that I either attract or I subconsciously go for damaged or broken women the list is scary eg the dog killer , the one who tried to stab me, one was insanily jealous of the time I spent with my daughter, one tried to run me over in my own car, the codine addict , the alcoholic the list goes on and on so its probably better if I stay single or at least get others to vet them first because im a liability lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people have met on here,after all people have a common mind set or interests but I wouldn't recommend it to specifically look for a relationship.however if you meet someone regularly the chances are you get to know each Other better and understand what they like etc so the sex gets even better. I have met a few people a number of times as I find this the case and yes a friendship can develop ,trust can be vital in certain types of play, but we are all adults and is up to each to decide what they do our don't want out of this.

Mrs S

thats true one of my longest relationships started on an other swinging site and lasted for 5 years but it ended badly ( to say the least ) so id never rule it out again but id be a lot more careful when getting involved again and iv learned not to trust my initial gut feeling as its been pointed out by a lot of people I know both on the scene and real life friends that I either attract or I subconsciously go for damaged or broken women the list is scary eg the dog killer , the one who tried to stab me, one was insanily jealous of the time I spent with my daughter, one tried to run me over in my own car, the codine addict , the alcoholic the list goes on and on so its probably better if I stay single or at least get others to vet them first because im a liability lol"
your doomed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship wich incorporates the concept of ownership of each other is doomed anyways.

As we are a happuly married couple since 15 years we can say we are committed to each other but we would refuse to claim ownership over the other...it is a concept weird to us. We are two individuals and none is a piece of inventory of the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people have met on here,after all people have a common mind set or interests but I wouldn't recommend it to specifically look for a relationship.however if you meet someone regularly the chances are you get to know each Other better and understand what they like etc so the sex gets even better. I have met a few people a number of times as I find this the case and yes a friendship can develop ,trust can be vital in certain types of play, but we are all adults and is up to each to decide what they do our don't want out of this.

Mrs S

thats true one of my longest relationships started on an other swinging site and lasted for 5 years but it ended badly ( to say the least ) so id never rule it out again but id be a lot more careful when getting involved again and iv learned not to trust my initial gut feeling as its been pointed out by a lot of people I know both on the scene and real life friends that I either attract or I subconsciously go for damaged or broken women the list is scary eg the dog killer , the one who tried to stab me, one was insanily jealous of the time I spent with my daughter, one tried to run me over in my own car, the codine addict , the alcoholic the list goes on and on so its probably better if I stay single or at least get others to vet them first because im a liability lol"

Holy Moly Laid, you can't fix us all!

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By *obbie65Man
over a year ago

kildare


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thats true one of my longest relationships started on an other swinging site and lasted for 5 years but it ended badly ( to say the least ) so id never rule it out again but id be a lot more careful when getting involved again and iv learned not to trust my initial gut feeling as its been pointed out by a lot of people I know both on the scene and real life friends that I either attract or I subconsciously go for damaged or broken women the list is scary eg the dog killer , the one who tried to stab me, one was insanily jealous of the time I spent with my daughter, one tried to run me over in my own car, the codine addict , the alcoholic the list goes on and on so its probably better if I stay single or at least get others to vet them first because im a liability lol"

Bloody hell - that's mad - so you come on here to get some vanilla time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having played here for a while, we rather regret that many (not all) acquaintances just stay at the level of shallow one night stands. A fling with a little romance would be so much more exiting as the pure appointment for a shag meet degrades the sex to an act if masturbating on each other. This with the concequence of lads just being seen as dildos in flesh and blood and lassies as fuck dolls to serve someone's need.

We would love our play partners not to be scared of depth. The ONS approach is only exiting once...After that it needs more levels of connection otherwise it will be boring.... (For us)

However...to deal with the roller coasters of emotions it needs very mature peeps who rest on their inner centre."

Totally agree ... very well said

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