FabSwingers.com forum: Friendly debate

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there a reason why women on this don't really want much to do with younger guys?

I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ?? probably won't get a response but if you have input say thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion ... But maybe add some more pics & more to your profile ! Xxx

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

One of the main reasons is that so many of us young lads here act like entitled idiots and throw childish tantrums when people don't wish to meet us.

Hope this answers your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ??

Was nice knowing ya buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with the more pic's lol nothing for me to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't you start a similar thread the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to "Forum search" & type in "younger guys".

*This is an automated message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More pics than you In fairness

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

" I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ??

Was nice knowing ya buddy

He just answered his own question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Funplaything I put up a form but wasn't the same and didn't get enough of a debate out of it..sorry if you thought it was the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funplaything I put up a form but wasn't the same and didn't get enough of a debate out of it..sorry if you thought it was the same

That's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone go on my profile have two pics up that I thought were public but we're private

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you're gonna start please don't I have no intentions of arguing with you so sorry if your annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I gonna start?? Ah stop. Good luck with your debate young one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your to hot to fight with

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I just prefer mature lads and I guess I'm not the only one, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I get that but I'm young and mature but just don't see why I don't be given the same chance with meets is all

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"Yeah I get that but I'm young and mature but just don't see why I don't be given the same chance with meets is all"

Not trying to insult you or jump on the bandwagon but these threads make you seem immature. People are on this site for different things. If you don't fit what they want, don't think of it as a bad thing or get upset over it. Just keep living and ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok have a look at the amount of under 30 males on the site then have a peep at their profiles and pics. Then take a critical look at your own and it might help answer your question. You've a veri that's hidden which makes most women suspicious and your location is not clear. I like your confidence but you'll have to put the work in here I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate the comments people

to be honest I'm not great on this I thought my photos were public only till ten minutes ago ha...ah didn't think my verification was private either... I'm from kildare just ment Dublin kildare region because I can meet in both..thanks for your opinion keep them coming lads

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I used to love the word "mature" but it's been abused so much here that it now appears to have lost all meaning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I am and you don't know me so not my fault if others abuse it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ??

Was nice knowing ya buddy

Gods gift has entered the building, stand aside everyone....

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

" I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ??

Was nice knowing ya buddy

Gods gift has entered the building, stand aside everyone....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See them two question marks at the end of that sentence... That was a laughing face but didn't work so that was me cracking a joke.. And I just wanted friendly advice so jog on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For someone looking to meet you're a tad rude to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man not a boy, experience means a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah it's just I'm not full of myself was cracking a joke I knew I wouldn't be getting loads of mail.. I'm only looking for advice don't wanna offend people including yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a man not a boy, experience means a lot "

I would consider myself a man ha but I get what your saying thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See them two question marks at the end of that sentence... That was a laughing face but didn't work so that was me cracking a joke.. And I just wanted friendly advice so jog on there "

All in the interpretation, and you typed what you typed

But yes we will jog on, alienate people that are close to you...good move newbie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most likely because us young lads only have bum fluff growing on our faces...my theory

have to agree with you though,didnt think it would be such an uphill struggle myself,who knows why we send 5 times the messages we get back...competition must be fierce

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

here's some advice

add more text to your profile you have one sentence

you are verified show the verification women might want to read it.

and getting stroppy when people critique you or your profile just shows how immature you are.

why did you think you'd be overwhelmed with mails ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Get what your saying don't wanna argue with anyone.. Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok OP add something to your profile text other than the university notice (waste of space) tell people about yourself. Add pictures. Lose the whingey status. Your one among thousands of men here (including the British part of the site)make yourself stand out from the crowd

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"here's some advice

add more text to your profile you have one sentence

you are verified show the verification women might want to read it.

and getting stroppy when people critique you or your profile just shows how immature you are.

why did you think you'd be overwhelmed with mails ? Thanks for the advice... Ah the woman I met ' hot mom' is no longer on the site but gave good review..also that was a joke... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok OP add something to your profile text other than the university notice (waste of space) tell people about yourself. Add pictures. Lose the whingey status. Your one among thousands of men here (including the British part of the site)make yourself stand out from the crowd

Tomcat "
thanks for the advice I will take it on bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need skin like a rhino OP when using the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a man not a boy, experience means a lot

I would consider myself a man ha but I get what your saying thanks

Repeated use of the word ha and haha shows to me immaturity maybe that's just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need skin like a rhino OP when using the forums

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haha your dead right red hot I'm only looking for advice but think I've a few haters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a man not a boy, experience means a lot

I would consider myself a man ha but I get what your saying thanks

Repeated use of the word ha and haha shows to me immaturity maybe that's just me"
I choose to Say it instead of lol...if haha means I'm immature well then I guess I must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can people hate you? No one knows you?

You just are not giving a very positive first impression . We certainly don't hate u . But would be apprehensive of meeting u based on profile and this thread ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come on guys,we know well the detail on a guys profile has no bearing on it,it might help but mostly its just what people say to give an explanation for not replying...sometimes no matter what a guy does he can do no right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"come on guys,we know well the detail on a guys profile has no bearing on it,it might help but mostly its just what people say to give an explanation for not replying...sometimes no matter what a guy does he can do no right

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ye like everyone is looking into everything I'm saying so seriously can we not all just have a bit of crack on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow back up and support from a week old newbie, well by jaysus that carries some weight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha exactly,its not a job interview the lad is going for people,shouldnt be as much judging on what he has or hasnt written and more on what he is sending in his mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha i dont think how long ive been here as much to do with it,its common sense....too much judging and analysing going on...everyones profile will be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha exactly,its not a job interview the lad is going for people,shouldnt be as much judging on what he has or hasnt written and more on what he is sending in his mails"

Mr here, it is an interview. Single lad wants to shag my wife? Damn right I want to know who he is and more about him!

Any guy wants the privilege of getting to know Mrs K better, may well be prepared to talk to me first and if that doesn't suit you "jog on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha exactly,its not a job interview the lad is going for people,shouldnt be as much judging on what he has or hasnt written and more on what he is sending in his mails"

Unfortunately we only have one set of text to go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mr k my point is if the guy wrote four or five paragraphs he still might not get the replies he is looking for....hence there isnt realy an answer...its all random and who knows what anyone is looking for...alot makes no sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the opinions lads alot of good points.. Hopefully I get a few more messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of the main reasons is that so many of us young lads here act like entitled idiots and throw childish tantrums when people don't wish to meet us.

Hope this answers your question. "

Now now young man....many you are not the entitled idiot if you catch my drift.

Some older ladies like young guys, some don't but the number of guys with a milf fantasy way out number them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the debate guys. I think the bottom line is how can anyone feel entitled to replies? It's not your local elected representatives you're writing to. If someone isn't interested then they just aren't. Whining isn't really going to make you more attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loving the debate guys. I think the bottom line is how can anyone feel entitled to replies? It's not your local elected representatives you're writing to. If someone isn't interested then they just aren't. Whining isn't really going to make you more attractive "
very true man just hard to see nearly all women not reply it can just make you question why your on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People on swinging sites with statuses like 'I am one man woman'....go figure!!"

This your status update!

What are you saying or calling all the couples on the site?

Your answer is going to be very interesting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ha exactly,its not a job interview the lad is going for people,shouldnt be as much judging on what he has or hasnt written and more on what he is sending in his mails

Mr here, it is an interview. Single lad wants to shag my wife? Damn right I want to know who he is and more about him!

Any guy wants the privilege of getting to know Mrs K better, may well be prepared to talk to me first and if that doesn't suit you "jog on""

exactly how we feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was referring to one female user with the status I am a one man woman, who was not looking for another woman, so essentially she was not looking for anything. Sorry this answer was probably not the one you expected. Given you seem to like wagging the aul finger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People on swinging sites with statuses like 'I am one man woman'....go figure!!"

This your status update!

What are you saying or calling all the couples on the site?

Your answer is going to be very interesting.."
Not sure if you're talking to me or someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was referring to one female user with the status I am a one man woman, who was not looking for another woman, so essentially she was not looking for anything. Sorry this answer was probably not the one you expected. Given you seem to like wagging the aul finger "

Lo just drawing you out!!

Acting the bollix actually...

I just couldn't resist it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devil's advocate. Lol

I'll be careful with those status updates in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that one could well have been misinterpreted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Playing devil's advocate. Lol

I'll be careful with those status updates in future "

Slagging aside, you can see how easily they can be misinterpreted...

I just thought it was worth a shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye I'll give you that one but since mother nature is all our mother's, I think you should fuck her less often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a reason why women on this don't really want much to do with younger guys?

I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ?? probably won't get a response but if you have input say thanks

Personally I won't be with someone the same age as my kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aye I'll give you that one but since mother nature is all our mother's, I think you should fuck her less often "

That's why we're here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there a reason why women on this don't really want much to do with younger guys?

I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ?? probably won't get a response but if you have input say thanks

Personally I won't be with someone the same age as my kid

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haha love the comment thats the best point I've heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough..carry on

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By *effers5Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Forums on this are very bitchy don't beat yourself up. A lot of people think age is a measurement of maturity, which is silly but you just got to roll with it.

Just move on and keep trying and you'll get chatting to some interesting people.

Chin up bud, there's a cougar out there for all of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger guys.

Just sayin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this an invite to all of the above?

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Is there a reason why women on this don't really want much to do with younger guys?

I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ?? probably won't get a response but if you have input say thanks

some women are in to young guys and some are not....

The main problem is there's way too many guys on this site for the amount of women that's here....

By posting a tread here tonight,you have got noticed by a lot of women,that never seen you before...now that you have their attention,you should be turning on the charm,not slagging them or moaning about what people post as it dose not do you any favours..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this an invite to all of the above?

You've got a smart gob on you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this an invite to all of the above?

You've got a smart gob on you!

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so bold girl you like younger guys yeah?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone who's young enough to be my kid first message includes "im very mature" my knee jerks reaction is to think immature and god love em...im hard work..scary even for the most experienced..but god. You're a tryer..I'll give you that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When someone who's young enough to be my kid first message includes "im very mature" my knee jerks reaction is to think immature and god love em...im hard work..scary even for the most experienced..but god. You're a tryer..I'll give you that "
don't know what to think of that post is it a compliment or not but appreciate the message

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

In the words of cat Stephens

It's now time to make a change

Just relax take it easy

Ur still young its not your fault there's so much u have to learn

Amongst the many many men on here u have to stand out every post u make gives someone here an insight into you. Mr k is dead on every cpl on here are here as a partnership there fore decisions are made and agreed by both so treat posts as an interview by all means debate but don't disrespect ( not saying u have). Join in the craic here on the forums when sending a mail read the profile first and try bring things u read in the profile into the mail. Remember no reply means no interest or they may not have had time to reply due to volume of mail or heavens forbid real life takes up the front seat

No matter what u do have fun if it ain't fun its not worth the effort

happy swinging

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"In the words of cat Stephens

It's now time to make a change

Just relax take it easy

Ur still young its not your fault there's so much u have to learn

No matter what u do have fun if it ain't fun its not worth the effort

happy swinging "

Cj the philosopher

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"In the words of cat Stephens

It's now time to make a change

Just relax take it easy

Ur still young its not your fault there's so much u have to learn

No matter what u do have fun if it ain't fun its not worth the effort

happy swinging

Cj the philosopher

Oi u don't u be calling me names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger guys. The best advice I can give is get onto the chat room. Put your cam on. Get into the convos that are happening and don't give up. Chat can be tough to start but when ppl see you can take it on the chin , have a laugh ( sometimes at your own expense) and let ppl see you and that you're serious about meeting then you'll get further. It's how I met float. It worked for him (he was only new and 16 yrs younger than me). Oh and most importantly don't moan about what you're not getting. Always try to put a positive spin on things. Or you'll get a butt load of grief for being a crybaby. Hope that helps and best of luck doll. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and not to be funny but maybe change or post new pics. You look mad fit but covered in spots that look angry. Remember your photos are like a business card of sorts. And a good or bad pic will stick in ppl minds.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Oh and not to be funny but maybe change or post new pics. You look mad fit but covered in spots that look angry. Remember your photos are like a business card of sorts. And a good or bad pic will stick in ppl minds. "

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"In the words of cat Stephens

It's now time to make a change

Just relax take it easy

Ur still young its not your fault there's so much u have to learn

No matter what u do have fun if it ain't fun its not worth the effort

happy swinging "

Good advice mr cj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a reason why women on this don't really want much to do with younger guys?

I thought I'd be bombarded with messages ?? probably won't get a response but if you have input say thanks

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all you have to do is look at the female quota to male quota on the site and you have a lot of your answer! That will never change as you will always have a lot more males doing nsa fun then females. It's like a job interview for a job ud love! You have to work your arse off to get it, tedious but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope he got all the info he needed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was he from sligo

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

"Was he from sligo

Nope, the Kildare/Dublin area apparently.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Was he from sligo

No, just a young man with no standing power

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun

Maybe he's moving around the country so no one suspects that it's him all the time

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Was he from sligo

No, just a young man with no standing power

Joined the UNLOS family!!

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