FabSwingers.com forum: who looked at me

By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit, I perv in stealth mode. Don't want to scare some of you

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaysus I'd get arrested for all (ahem) "perving" I do...

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By *eddybear_14Man
over a year ago

Somewhere...

"Jaysus I'd get arrested for all (ahem) "perving" I do...

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we hate is people who have not paid as a site supporter can hide them selfs from people they view I think if your a site supporter u can have a choice and if your not well then hey your loss you can't hide your self or show up on who's looked at me

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"What we hate is people who have not paid as a site supporter can hide them selfs from people they view I think if your a site supporter u can have a choice and if your not well then hey your loss you can't hide your self or show up on who's looked at me

very good point, this would maybe also keep some fakes away...

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas

"So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

I look at your profile a bit

im not hidden thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very good point, this would maybe also keep some fakes away..."
fakes are always can be here but if cash is involved it will reduce it abit

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

very good point, this would maybe also keep some fakes away... fakes are always can be here but if cash is involved it will reduce it abit "

I'd say that just as many site supporters are fakes as non site supporters from the various threads started about them. The worst ones are usually verified as well.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh. "

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is..."

I was exactly the same at one time.

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By *itanium 5Man
over a year ago

Cork

"So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

Didn,t realise you can look incognito.

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is..."

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat "

lol, I put my hands up, I have looked at you guys several times without ever pm you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat

lol, I put my hands up, I have looked at you guys several times without ever pm you"

Lol wasn't a comment aimed at yourself just a general comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we find the same people look a lot but don't message just presume their not interested ! Have to admit tho I do all my perving in secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat "

We get that a lot, kinda funny. But I must say I've done it a bit. Sometimes I look a few couples on here and think "their just to hot or to well verified to bother with us". Doesn't stop us from looking but.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat "

Fully agree. It's kind of silly. If you like the pics and you want to hook up, just send a mail. The worst we would ever do is decline nicely. I'm Sure most people would do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat

Fully agree. It's kind of silly. If you like the pics and you want to hook up, just send a mail. The worst we would ever do is decline nicely. I'm Sure most people would do the same"

We realise some would be stopped by filters but its the ones that would not be stopped that we get a giggle at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

U aswell

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat

Fully agree. It's kind of silly. If you like the pics and you want to hook up, just send a mail. The worst we would ever do is decline nicely. I'm Sure most people would do the same

We realise some would be stopped by filters but its the ones that would not be stopped that we get a giggle at "

It was said here before that if you appear on someone's "who's near" page then they will appear to have looked at you although they might not have. I don't know if it's true though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,v had a look at nearly everyone who uses the forums n not just to perv btw lol

I use the looked at out if interest, just to see who takes a peep xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is the Who's Near option? Is it on the full site version or the mobile version? Thanks to anyone who can point us in the right direction

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Where is the Who's Near option? Is it on the full site version or the mobile version? Thanks to anyone who can point us in the right direction

On the mobile version you hit search in the top right corner, then "see who's near"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Where is the Who's Near option? Is it on the full site version or the mobile version? Thanks to anyone who can point us in the right direction

On the mobile version you hit search in the top right corner, then "see who's near" "

You can switch the feature on or off though. I think that's on the home page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perv in secret too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode Kaizer

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I perv in secret too

Mmmmm.. Bottom, not that I've ever looked Ahem

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By *lo1 slo2Couple
over a year ago

newry

Too shy too send the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I perv in secret too

Mmmmm.. Bottom, not that I've ever looked Ahem

Wasn't that a tv show...Bottom

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I perv in secret too

Mmmmm.. Bottom, not that I've ever looked Ahem

Wasn't that a tv show...Bottom "

It was one of my favorites as well!

Rik Mayall and Adrian Edmondson. Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat

Fully agree. It's kind of silly. If you like the pics and you want to hook up, just send a mail. The worst we would ever do is decline nicely. I'm Sure most people would do the same

We realise some would be stopped by filters but its the ones that would not be stopped that we get a giggle at

It was said here before that if you appear on someone's "who's near" page then they will appear to have looked at you although they might not have. I don't know if it's true though "

Ive heard the same but think that's a load of codswallop in my opinion

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I perv in secret too

Mmmmm.. Bottom, not that I've ever looked Ahem

Wasn't that a tv show...Bottom

It was one of my favorites as well!

Rik Mayall and Adrian Edmondson. Brilliant "

A grotty, wondrous comedy.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

U aswell

Hmm, I even replied! Ha, but I've never heard back from me since. Must have been a rather harsh impolite rejection...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

What a coincidence Kaizer also messaged you 8 months ago

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Whether people have looked at you or not doesn't make any real difference. I don't see why it matters tbh.

true, I found it funny the first 3 days but then the novelty wore off and barely ever checked since, it's like a useless gadget as it is...

We find it interesting sometimes especially the people that keep looking over and over but yet never mail or try contacting us.

Tomcat

Fully agree. It's kind of silly. If you like the pics and you want to hook up, just send a mail. The worst we would ever do is decline nicely. I'm Sure most people would do the same"

When someone looks at your profile doesn't necessarily mean they like your pics or want to hook.

Most profiles I look up are because of a particular forum posts or verifications I cross read...

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

What a coincidence Kaizer also messaged you 8 months ago

I just checked that, it was actually a year ago and I had not even the courtesy to reply

I'm sorry...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I'm nearly 6 weeks a site supporter. I learned two things:

The whole 'who looked at me' is pointless because half of the members on here perv incognito/hidden which takes the whole fun out of it! Pity. Why? I stand to my perving and don't have to hide...

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

What a coincidence Kaizer also messaged you 8 months ago

I just checked that, it was actually a year ago and I had not even the courtesy to reply

I'm sorry...

No problem, thank you

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

I'm a fan of the who's looked at you feature. We've discovered interesting people that we hadn't come across before (ooh-er matron) through using it.

Personally I think it should be like the who's near feature though, if you turn off your location, you can't check who's near. Similarly I think if you turn off people knowing you've looked at them, you shouldn't be able to see who's looked at you. Not a big deal though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perv with all hanging out.

Don't be so shy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know "

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I perv with all hanging out.

Don't be so shy....

I can see that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with having a wee perv at sexxxy profiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who looked at me is usually man man man man man man man man man woman man man man

Lol catch my drift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely knowing who has looked at is the whole point on this.. On some normal dating sites you can see who, seems on this there so much secrecy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer incognito perving

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter "

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Surely knowing who has looked at is the whole point on this.. On some normal dating sites you can see who, seems on this there so much secrecy, "

How is it the whole point? What does it tell you?

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Surely knowing who has looked at is the whole point on this.. On some normal dating sites you can see who, seems on this there so much secrecy, "

I appreciate the choices you have on this site, with filters, private pics, fabs or no fabs etc, but it takes a bit of the fun out of this gadget...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter "

Where did I say I could view who looked at me , what I said as a non site supporter I have the option to hide when I look at profiles which is what I prefer.

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter "

it's just to have a laugh and a bit of fun, but as it is kinda censored, the fun is gone...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter

Where did I say I could view who looked at me , what I said as a non site supporter I have the option to hide when I look at profiles which is what I prefer."

Er... No, you said you had turned off "who's looked at me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter

Where did I say I could view who looked at me , what I said as a non site supporter I have the option to hide when I look at profiles which is what I prefer.

Er... No, you said you had turned off "who's looked at me"

I have when I look at profiles in privacy settings

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter

Where did I say I could view who looked at me , what I said as a non site supporter I have the option to hide when I look at profiles which is what I prefer.

Er... No, you said you had turned off "who's looked at me"

I have when I look at profiles in privacy settings "

All I'm saying is that as a non site supporter you can't view who's looked at you anyway. Forget it, it doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter

Where did I say I could view who looked at me , what I said as a non site supporter I have the option to hide when I look at profiles which is what I prefer.

Er... No, you said you had turned off "who's looked at me"

I have when I look at profiles in privacy settings

All I'm saying is that as a non site supporter you can't view who's looked at you anyway. Forget it, it doesn't matter.

I know that

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I've turned off who's looked at me like to do it ninja style

It only works for site supporters as far as I know

I have the option to turn it off in settings and I'm not a site supporter

You can turn on and off the Who's Near feature but you can't view who's looked at you unless you're a site supporter

Where did I say I could view who looked at me , what I said as a non site supporter I have the option to hide when I look at profiles which is what I prefer.

Er... No, you said you had turned off "who's looked at me"

I have when I look at profiles in privacy settings

All I'm saying is that as a non site supporter you can't view who's looked at you anyway. Forget it, it doesn't matter.

I'm admiring your patience, Mccarthy...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

Do u often talk to yourself

I.like to let it all hang out when I am perving, u never know when u look at a profile and think naw they are out of my league when they check WHOS looked u may get a surprise msg

I like surprises

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"So

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

Do u often talk to yourself

I.like to let it all hang out when I am perving, u never know when u look at a profile and think naw they are out of my league when they check WHOS looked u may get a surprise msg

I like surprises

Don't give me the league shit, you can do better than that!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

Do u often talk to yourself

I.like to let it all hang out when I am perving, u never know when u look at a profile and think naw they are out of my league when they check WHOS looked u may get a surprise msg

I like surprises

Don't give me the league shit, you can do better than that! "

U got me I am an exibonishist I like to be looked at

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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago

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"So

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

Do u often talk to yourself

I.like to let it all hang out when I am perving, u never know when u look at a profile and think naw they are out of my league when they check WHOS looked u may get a surprise msg

I like surprises

Don't give me the league shit, you can do better than that!

U got me I am an exibonishist I like to be looked at

What if I want more than just looking?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"So

I also learned that I sent myself a message 8 month ago and even got a reply!

Do u often talk to yourself

I.like to let it all hang out when I am perving, u never know when u look at a profile and think naw they are out of my league when they check WHOS looked u may get a surprise msg

I like surprises

Don't give me the league shit, you can do better than that!

U got me I am an exibonishist I like to be looked at

What if I want more than just looking?

U join in and let the others look

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

I'm a stealth perver too lol...but if I like a pic I fab it or message to say hello

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We learnt to perv in secret. At the start we realised we were looking at people loads and felt like stalkers...He looked, I looked, we looked together then i maybe had a wee peek again etc...best done in secret lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sticking the filters on doesn't half cut down on the number of views I get

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I keep mine turned off. When I'd be on the hunt for a guy & looking 4 a well verif one, I'd obv click into their profile 4 a read, most would have 1 verif & would b months old or there'd be something on their profile that I don't like so I wouldn't want 2 meet them BUT because theyv seen that I looked, it was like an invitation for them 2 message me. My inbox would then be filled with males that I know I don't want to meet so was catch69 for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo no fun being hidden

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