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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To introduce myself...

Hi everyone,I've been on fab a few weeks now and could do with a few pointers as I feel I'm in a rut already. I want to be approachable and don't like to waste my time or anyone else's sending messages that are unwanted. Have taken the necessary steps so far with verification and became a site supporter too. My catch 22 is getting verified by a person when most people here seem to only wish to chat/meet already verified folks.All comments & criticism taken on board.Thanks,M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome.i find myself its best to chat in the forums and get to know people that way and if you come across decent someone will offer to go for a coffee with you.good way to get started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep trying lad...update photos regularly and chat on forums more and always show respect and respect will be shown to you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers dub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just keep trying lad...update photos regularly and chat on forums more and always show respect and respect will be shown to you.."

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have all been there and know how difficult it is.the only thing Il say about the forums if your planning on using them regularly is be thick skinned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have all been there and know how difficult it is.the only thing Il say about the forums if your planning on using them regularly is be thick skinned "
That I can manage! Thanks for the pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your welcome.im sure as the day goes on you will get better advice from more experienced people.best of luck anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey there the boys are right, make sure you read the profiles properly as people may as for keywords to be used in the subject header n it shows you will make the effort, you will get out what you are put in to site, you are gona get stick for saying in a rut already, buckle up for that, it takes time n effort and can be good Craic happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask someone just for coffee if you need a veri, it doesn't need to be a sesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ratio of I'd say 30-50 men to every 1 women in here so the odds are against you

Might help thou is:

1. Coffee meet

2. M & g party

3. Forum chats

4. Winks

5. Be clear what you want on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ratio of I'd say 30-50 men to every 1 women in here so the odds are against you

Might help thou is:

1. Coffee meet

2. M & g party

3. Forum chats

4. Winks

5. Be clear what you want on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey there the boys are right, make sure you read the profiles properly as people may as for keywords to be used in the subject header n it shows you will make the effort, you will get out what you are put in to site, you are gona get stick for saying in a rut already, buckle up for that, it takes time n effort and can be good Craic happy hunting "
thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask someone just for coffee if you need a veri, it doesn't need to be a sesh."
of course. I wouldn't dream of expecting a session just like that...nor would I ask. Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the ratio of I'd say 30-50 men to every 1 women in here so the odds are against you

Might help thou is:

1. Coffee meet

2. M & g party

3. Forum chats

4. Winks

5. Be clear what you want on your profile"
Thanks,I'm getting through that list bit by bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome 32...

Just be polite and patience...

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome 32...

Just be polite and patience...

Best of luck "
Thanks you very much. I shall

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