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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last week I lost a very close friend of mine to addiction/suicide/depression , I'm sure theirs many fab people on here who have had a similar experience. Use this as a reference point to help anyone you know who has,needs help,or need to just say what's on your mind about it.

Much love Barry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barry, I'm very sorry for your loss. Sudden death of any kind is hard to understand, but suicide adds a whole other dimension to the pain of loss. I wish you strength in the times ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry to hear that, deepest sympathies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sorry for your loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very sorry for your loss xx"
sorry for your loss I've had this experience I feel sorry for anyone who lost someone to suicide I fought through it I tried to take my own life on 2 occasion there is also support for those grieving suicide I started to help in a centre helping people after my experience I've been there know how hard it is my help and support is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last week I lost a very close friend of mine to addiction/suicide/depression , I'm sure theirs many fab people on here who have had a similar experience. Use this as a reference point to help anyone you know who has,needs help,or need to just say what's on your mind about it.

Much love Barry

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We lost a very close boyhood friend of ours 10 years ago to suicide. As a reminder and in his honour we started and named an annual sports tournament. A great way to remember our dear friend and also to get the old gang back together. Every year it grows in numbers, and an almighty piss up afterwards, Just how he would of wanted it.

Always loved and never forgotten Rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss Barry. We've encountered sudden death and suicide from quite a few close family members ourselves. Can't say that I understand what your going through because we are all different and have different coping mechanisms. Although I can empathise. But I hope you find your own way to cope. Much love and prayers.

Mrs B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss I know how it feels and it is right hard to cope sometimes. I have lost 3 members of my family to suicide in a space of a few months altogether . Thinking of you at this time xxx Mrs macmully

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By *EEZMRCALABREEZEMan
over a year ago

City

A problem shared is a problem halved.

Your mind can play awful tricks when you are feeling low.

Even talking to a complete stranger face

to face can make a huge difference.

Try and fit a 15 min walk into your day to get some fresh air ..it can also give the brain a much needed break from overthinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the the positive comments. It Is greatly appreciated, I mean that from the bottom of my heart.

I started thread to remind people that it might be your best friend, neighbor,anyone close to you that might be going through some stuff and to drop them a line, it really can make all the difference. Also to open up the discussion of mental health in Ireland, as it seems like such touchy subject. Which is rediculous as we all go through some sort of psychological disorder in one way or another at one time or another in our lives.

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be a very poor reflection on anyone who responded negatively. Good on you for being brave and sorry for your loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't feel yourself half the battle is acknowledging there is something wrong and seeking help go to your doctor or hospital talk with a stranger it's no harm to have a cry and ask for help it doesn't make you weak it makes you strong I was afraid to tell anyone or ask for help I thought people would think I'm weak when my brother had to cut me from hanging this time last year and what my poor family went through I got help in my local hospital the support was phenomenal it's not easy my partner left me when I got depressed which wasn't easy either things can get better there will always be good days and bad days have to have hope you can overcome your darkness and come into light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss. I've been at the other side and it isn't pretty xx

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo

Pieta House is there to help google it They have Centres all over the country. They are non judgemental and available at any time .Console is another national organisation and aware numbers available everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost a good freind to it a few years ago still don't know why.

I do know that he must off been so low to do it and not speak out but it's not easy to speak up about it.

I still wonder why and ask myself if their waz anyway I could off know or done anything to help him.

Be strong and talk to someone it can help understand

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Sorry to hear this and my thoughts go out to you and their family members...surviving suicide isn't easy but there are always people who care. .never doubt that.

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