FabSwingers.com forum: would u meet a married guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi....would u meet a married guy playing alone......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi....would u meet a married guy playing alone......"

I wouldn't...but have very personal reasons why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably would , I'm certainly not here to judge why people are here and what there home life is all I'd ask is that its not lied about x

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married people playing alone with partner's awareness? Sure! Why not? Some couples play seperately sometimes and that is fine with us.

Married people playing away on the sly?

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowingly? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Knowingly? No."

This

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Jaysos, those threads seem to grow like mushrooms these days, must be the wet weather...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Jaysos, those threads seem to grow like mushrooms these days, must be the wet weather...

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Hi....would u meet a married guy playing alone......"

no....and I wouldn't meet him even if he was single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jaysos, those threads seem to grow like mushrooms these days, must be the wet weather...

These, bi guy threads and the infamous bad single guys make it harder for the rest of us. Feck it sure. Could be full of whingey threads about the weather

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure how this thread makes it harder for others......discuss.... (lol its like an essay topic.....shivers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of an odd response to that so I have. I'd meet a married guy before I'd meet a guy who just has a girlfriend!! Yes I know. Im strange. Makes sense in my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met married men before and sometimes find it easier because in my mind they are here simply for sex and that's it. There is no feelings or emotions involved. And I would never meet anyone more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would meet a married man only if we have met his wife with him before hand not just a phone call but in person and have her consent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no , I dont want to be an accessory to someone innocents hurt .

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Shouldn't this thread title read "Would you meet a married person?"

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Shouldn't this thread title read "Would you meet a married person?""

There has been enough of them!! We all know the answer to the question!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

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"Shouldn't this thread title read "Would you meet a married person?""

Welcome to the fabulous world of double standards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no , I dont want to be an accessory to someone innocents hurt ."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one knows why a married man (or woman) would want to hide their status. There could be multiple reasons other than simply 'looking for sex'... I would have thought, first and foremost that this is a site, for adults looking to meet other adults for sex, possibly friendship (of a kind), companionship maybe, but first and foremost sex. It is an 'unbalanced' site anyway, women tend to call the shots. Chances are 99.99 % of 'first messages' are sent by men anyway. Quite a number of womens profiles state that they do not want to meet SINGLE GUYS ?? does this mean they want to meet married guys ? I even saw one profile that says 'don't bother sending messages... 'I will find you'.

Ask yourself the question... if you were out on the town and a good looking guy, or gal approaches you, with a beaming smile, and asks 'would you join me for a drink'... do you respond "Are you married"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a couples profile and he asked to meet on his own. Then no I wouldn't. But If it was a single profile and he did mention he is married yes I would no problem. At the end of the day it's my marriage I have to come home to not his. It's not my place to judge why they are playing away. Plus anytime we are meets never think to ask the fella.sorry are you married.just my opinion from Mrs macmully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't this thread title read "Would you meet a married person?"

Welcome to the fabulous world of double standards!

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

"If it was a couples profile and he asked to meet on his own. Then no I wouldn't. But If it was a single profile and he did mention he is married yes I would no problem. At the end of the day it's my marriage I have to come home to not his. It's not my place to judge why they are playing away. Plus anytime we are meets never think to ask the fella.sorry are you married.just my opinion from Mrs macmully"

What about a married couple that swing separately and openly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a married couple that swing separately and openly?"

Don't see a problem there as they do it openly. Not every couple can swing together due to kids and fiance etc

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

What about a married couple that swing separately and openly?

Don't see a problem there as they do it openly. Not every couple can swing together due to kids and fiance etc"

Yea thats exactly why we tend to swing separately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a married couple that swing separately and openly?

Don't see a problem there as they do it openly. Not every couple can swing together due to kids and fiance etc

Yea thats exactly why we tend to swing separately"

Nothing wrong with that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi....would u meet a married guy playing alone......

no....and I wouldn't meet him even if he was single

Well there goes my joke.

But I have met married women who said they were in an open relationship. I didn't really question it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is amazing how a swingers site is full of double standards...

You say you won't play with a cheater your you go to parties and there are single men at them are you going to ask if they are married and get their pps number?

No...

So it really shouldn't matter...

Swinging isn't an affair...

It's sex and some fun at the end of the day...

Married men in my opinion are less complicated than single guys and way more discreet too...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

annie that is your opinion and its valid for you and everyone else's opinions are valid for them. People have the right to no want to play a part in an affair give a choice. Some people judge a person by their actions how could you trust someone who is lying to their partners not to be lying to you too ? honesty and integrity are important to some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is amazing how a swingers site is full of double standards...

...you go to parties and there are single men at them are you going to ask if they are married and get their pps number?

No...

I usually just do a hotel swipe on their CC...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a question about honesty and integrity it's about choice laid...

I choose not to judge people are here for their own reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no , I dont want to be an accessory to someone innocents hurt ."

This

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"It's not a question about honesty and integrity it's about choice laid...

I choose not to judge people are here for their own reasons..."

You're doing a lot of judging,just of ppl who choose not to meet married ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is amazing how a swingers site is full of double standards...

You say you won't play with a cheater your you go to parties and there are single men at them are you going to ask if they are married and get their pps number?

No...

So it really shouldn't matter...

The only person with the right to say whether or nor it "matters" is unfortunately kept in the dark. What about their choices?

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

So if a woman is married and her hubby can't perform for once reason or another she just has to put up with having no sex???

There are females too who for one reason or another can't have sex...

Have met a few females whose hubby can't perform and all they wanted was some fun!!

Another had hubby who had very tiny cock...

There are all sorts of reasons why married people like a little fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a question about honesty and integrity it's about choice laid...

I choose not to judge people are here for their own reasons...

You're doing a lot of judging,just of ppl who choose not to meet married ppl"

I'm not judging...

No I'm pointing out that the "single" men they meet are married yet they have won't meet married guys on their profiles.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is amazing how a swingers site is full of double standards...

You say you won't play with a cheater your you go to parties and there are single men at them are you going to ask if they are married and get their pps number?

No...

So it really shouldn't matter...

The only person with the right to say whether or nor it "matters" is unfortunately kept in the dark. What about their choices?"

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

No I'm pointing out that the "single" men they meet are married yet they have won't meet married guys on their profiles.....

Seems to be a lot of contradictions between what is in PROFILE.. and what is in the VERIFICATIONS alright.

But who cares? All one has to do is read them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"annie that is your opinion and its valid for you and everyone else's opinions are valid for them. People have the right to no want to play a part in an affair give a choice. Some people judge a person by their actions how could you trust someone who is lying to their partners not to be lying to you too ? honesty and integrity are important to some people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a married women every so often that I met on this site, she's into things that she's never felt comfortable approaching her husband about. We're never going to run off together its purely a sex thing an it works for both of us. Different people have different reason for being here. She's been completely honest with me from the first time we spoke never lied of hid a thing. Each to their own I say!!

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

"I meet a married women every so often that I met on this site, she's into things that she's never felt comfortable approaching her husband about. We're never going to run off together its purely a sex thing an it works for both of us. Different people have different reason for being here. She's been completely honest with me from the first time we spoke never lied of hid a thing. Each to their own I say!!"

Fair play to both of you, life is too short for regrets!! Have fun, as this site is meant to be about having fun...

**** the begrudgers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to both of you, life is too short for regrets!! Have fun, as this site is meant to be about having fun...

**** the begrudgers!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm pointing out that the "single" men they meet are married yet they have won't meet married guys on their profiles.....

Seems to be a lot of contradictions between what is in PROFILE.. and what is in the VERIFICATIONS alright.

But who cares? All one has to do is read them!"

Loads of contradictions not only on profiles but comments also....

You can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to both of you, life is too short for regrets!! Have fun, as this site is meant to be about having fun...

**** the begrudgers!!

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

No I'm pointing out that the "single" men they meet are married yet they have won't meet married guys on their profiles.....

Seems to be a lot of contradictions between what is in PROFILE.. and what is in the VERIFICATIONS alright.

But who cares? All one has to do is read them!

Loads of contradictions not only on profiles but comments also....

You can't win

Well if one puts them all together one gets a picture of the actual people!

So they might as well be honest upfront!

They are only showing themselves as liars anyway so just move on!

Not worth bothering over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm pointing out that the "single" men they meet are married yet they have won't meet married guys on their profiles.....

Seems to be a lot of contradictions between what is in PROFILE.. and what is in the VERIFICATIONS alright.

But who cares? All one has to do is read them!

Loads of contradictions not only on profiles but comments also....

You can't win

Well if one puts them all together one gets a picture of the actual people!

So they might as well be honest upfront!

They are only showing themselves as liars anyway so just move on!

Not worth bothering over!"

I agree...

I'm not gonna bother anymore either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if a woman is married and her hubby can't perform for once reason or another she just has to put up with having no sex???

There are females too who for one reason or another can't have sex...

Have met a few females whose hubby can't perform and all they wanted was some fun!!

Another had hubby who had very tiny cock...

There are all sorts of reasons why married people like a little fun.."

My ex couldn't preform after a couple of yrs we spent another 8 yrs together n i didn't stray

Unfortunately for me he did.. With a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mother of sweet mother of Jesus Devine, another day of back stabbing and bickering hundereds of families across Europe and even here in Ireland have lost loved ones in a terrible tradegy , not to mention everyday life and people are concerned about what others do in their own personal time and space,and double standards and what not, if people don't like it they don't have to, but people in glass houses shouldn't thrown stones. No one here is a saint myself included nor will I ever pretend to be but I will never critise people for doing acts I have done and will prob do again. In an ideal world we would all be married and living happy ever after , but we're not, life is hard stop for God sake making it harder , fab is meant to be a place of sanctuary for most people to get away from the daily doom and gloom not a place of bitterness. Haters are always going to hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mother of sweet mother of Jesus Devine, another day of back stabbing and bickering hundereds of families across Europe and even here in Ireland have lost loved ones in a terrible tradegy , not to mention everyday life and people are concerned about what others do in their own personal time and space,and double standards and what not, if people don't like it they don't have to, but people in glass houses shouldn't thrown stones. No one here is a saint myself included nor will I ever pretend to be but I will never critise people for doing acts I have done and will prob do again. In an ideal world we would all be married and living happy ever after , but we're not, life is hard stop for God sake making it harder , fab is meant to be a place of sanctuary for most people to get away from the daily doom and gloom not a place of bitterness. Haters are always going to hate. "

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree nanaya...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why before I meet them I make sure they acomodate as lota man are here cheating in them wife's and poor women dont know I will not meet mariade man

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

These damn threads do more harm than good!!

This STUPID question has been asked over and over and over...

The answers are on the Forum if one just searches, why post such divisive threads!!!

The last married one just posted had over 150 replies yesterday and one is glad when it gets onto page 2, then it starts all over again!

One wonders if the OP of these thread just wants to shit stir and cause all the friction they end up in!!

That and the guys moaning about not getting meets...

Lately there seems to be thread after thread posted to cause friction!!

Everyone has their own answers/opinions to whether they would or would not meet... why the need for getting everyone at each others throat is beyond me!

F is for FUN.... not FRICTION!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of an odd response to that so I have. I'd meet a married guy before I'd meet a guy who just has a girlfriend!! Yes I know. Im strange. Makes sense in my head!"

alot of thought gone into that one but i kinda get your point..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why before I meet them I make sure they acomodate as lota man are here cheating in them wife's and poor women dont know I will not meet mariade man "

as someone who been on all sides of this situation best advice is dont judge.. you dont know that mans home life.. he could be a shit but he could just as easily be in a loveless marriage .. who are we to judge him on his situation judge him on who he is with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been on all sides of this .. been the single married man which i never hid . and im now the single guy. I have always found it slightly weird the level of judgement in a place like this. There is more judgement in here than in the real world. My method is simple. Talk to the person see if ye get on. Pics then see if yer attracted to each other.. And then fuck alot.. Very few relationships start in here we're here for the fucking and the craic . Marital status is a complete irrelevance to be honest

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotspice. ..can't reply privately but I had exactly the same thing. 8 celibate years n now he's only into cock..I never cheated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotspice. ..can't reply privately but I had exactly the same thing. 8 celibate years n now he's only into cock..I never cheated"

Ouch ladies! You both must have been fuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotspice. ..can't reply privately but I had exactly the same thing. 8 celibate years n now he's only into cock..I never cheated

Ouch ladies! You both must have been fuming. "

Lol..he was a prick anyway..gay or straight .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come to all sorts of assumptions about others without asking ....

I remember chatting to a very happily married woman... She loved her husband so much and she hated the fact that she was "playing away"...they hadn't had sex for years and she missed that part...

Its assumed by some that I'm married or attached cos I don't accommodate.. Also it has been assumed that I'm bi cos I don't have males or TV/ts blocked. ..

Everyone should make up their own mind about meeting people...

Its really no one else's business anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legend

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

That's the first time ever that I've seen Jesus' granny being invoked. How cool is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah dear. The reason I am now trying to steer clear of attached men is not due to judgement but just single guys are easier to meet, no sneaking around, can venture out in public etc. If someone is here and married then fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the first time ever that I've seen Jesus' granny being invoked. How cool is that?

Another prequel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can it not just be personal choice. I've had hassle from guys on here for not having interest in married guys. If im not supposed to judge them..doesn't it work both ways?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can it not just be personal choice. I've had hassle from guys on here for not having interest in married guys. If im not supposed to judge them..doesn't it work both ways?

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....definitely...Everyone has the right to meet whoever they choose.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legend

Agree

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

"Can it not just be personal choice. I've had hassle from guys on here for not having interest in married guys. If im not supposed to judge them..doesn't it work both ways?

....definitely...Everyone has the right to meet whoever they choose....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can it not just be personal choice. I've had hassle from guys on here for not having interest in married guys. If im not supposed to judge them..doesn't it work both ways?

....definitely...Everyone has the right to meet whoever they choose.....

And yet despite saying it in my profile they'll still chance their arms..it's like the straight guys whinging about messages from other guys. Respect preferences PC, non PC..I'm very sub..the mental side for me is huge..I don't care how big your cock is ...if you're married I won't enjoy it..doesn't make me wrong..respect my choices to...don't go on about judging coz im not interested .if you're straight guy and won't meet men ...are you judging?

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