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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
"Once their not meeting your Hubbie (if you were married) then leave them to it,,,,, they say a woman can change their minds like the weather,,,, me personally I wouldn't meet a guy knowing he was married,,, but then there's a lot on here who say they aren't but they are so no one really knows for sure who's 100% single,,,,, each to their own and what they choose to do,, once it's not effecting you then don't worry about them and what they get up to what others do on here is really no one else's business but their own after all it's supposed to be about fun | |||
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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
Once their not meeting your Hubbie (if you were married) then leave them to it,,,,, they say a woman can change their minds like the weather,,,, me personally I wouldn't meet a guy knowing he was married,,, but then there's a lot on here who say they aren't but they are so no one really knows for sure who's 100% single,,,,, each to their own and what they choose to do,, once it's not effecting you then don't worry about them and what they get up to what others do on here is really no one else's business but their own after all it's supposed to be about fun "My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! | |||
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"It's probably the "reasonable lie" that they use in case an idiot message them. Case in point: woman gets a "im in ur area bbz and i need to cum can i cum on u plz bbz" message and she checks the profile and sees married/smoker/illiterate idiot (pick whatever suits) Then she just uses that as an excuse not to meet them (or she just ignores and blocks) I bet if any sane, reasonable married man sent them a nice message they'd stand a chance. " Nodding my head at this one... | |||
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"My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! " What if guy has Single on profile, yet is Married?? It should be NSA fun.... with no lies! | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc." Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's  | |||
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Think there's an exception to every rule having being that exception on a few occasions there's nothing wrong with it  | |||
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"My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! What if guy has Single on profile, yet is Married?? It should be NSA fun.... with no lies!" Agreed here too... It's better if guys are up front from the start... | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc. Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's "She likes em young and hung | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc. Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's
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"My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! What if guy has Single on profile, yet is Married?? It should be NSA fun.... with no lies! Agreed here too... It's better if guys are up front from the start... " If both parties are upfront! | |||
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"It's probably the "reasonable lie" that they use in case an idiot message them. Case in point: woman gets a "im in ur area bbz and i need to cum can i cum on u plz bbz" message and she checks the profile and sees married/smoker/illiterate idiot (pick whatever suits) Then she just uses that as an excuse not to meet them (or she just ignores and blocks) I bet if any sane, reasonable married man sent them a nice message they'd stand a chance. Nodding my head at this one... "So your telling me all the profiles I never send a message to because the state no married or attached men . I should start messaging them ??? | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc. Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's
She likes em young and hung
Me likes em old n bold "Damm I in the middle and like to fiddle | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc. Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's
She likes em young and hung
Me likes em old n bold
Damm I in the middle and like to fiddle "And you play that fiddle perfectly | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married... "Probably afraid of name calling?? Home wrecker etc?? | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? " That's your preference and what you yourself are entitled to,,,and your business,,same as say the likes of myself and other women who won't meet married guys,, that's my/their preference and my/their business I am finding the site lately is a lot of people wondering and worrying about others and who their meeting,, not meeting,,,,,, we are all individuals on here and here for our own reasons and needs I just don't think what others do on here is anyone else's business unless it's directly involving them | |||
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"I won't meet married men or attached guys only because I was once married and my DH strayed n it hurt so I wouldn't want to b part of that whole side. On the flip side married men are much better at NSA " I'm sorry to hear that.. But it's Nsa nobody should be the wiser,married guys are less complicated I agree! | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married... "Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place? | |||
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"A Single profile doesn't mean that person is single in real life, just that it's the profile of one person and anyone who makes assumptions on their actual married status is just being silly. Lots of couples will not meet married/attached men, but don't have an issue with a married/attached woman. Where's the difference? Just be honest before your meets." Rock of sense as always  | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place? "I don't... But it makes me laugh that's all... Hypocrisy... | |||
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"I think the whole meeting married people is a personal choice and whos to say that any of the people we meet are married or not unless they tell you in advance. its like anything else on here you have to take people at face value and trust they are honest. I have a preference for not playing with cheating married people but whos to say any of my meet are married or not ? so if one or more are does that make me a hypocrite ? no it makes me uninformed of the facts. as for the "genuine" married people on fab behind their patbers back id only class them as genuine if they admit to it on their profile and let people decide if they want to meet them rather than lie about it to get a ride because that's not being genuine." Excatly this | |||
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"Maybe she did meet a bunch of married men, they verid her and then she had a wife go postal on her so she changed her profile, but she's unwilling to remove the veris, maybe "Not just one SHE many of them... | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place?
I don't...
But it makes me laugh that's all...
Hypocrisy... "Ah now .. it's not nice to make fun of others behind their back .. tut tut | |||
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"My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! What if guy has Single on profile, yet is Married?? It should be NSA fun.... with no lies! Agreed here too... It's better if guys are up front from the start... "
100% the very reason why I am very open about in my description too for instance | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place?
I don't...
But it makes me laugh that's all...
Hypocrisy...
Ah now .. it's not nice to make fun of others behind their back .. tut tut "In a Woody Allen kinda way | |||
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"My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! What if guy has Single on profile, yet is Married?? It should be NSA fun.... with no lies! Agreed here too... It's better if guys are up front from the start...
100% the very reason why I am very open about in my description too for instance"Totally...  | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place?
I don't...
But it makes me laugh that's all...
Hypocrisy...
Ah now .. it's not nice to make fun of others behind their back .. tut tut
In a Woody Allen kinda way "Never found him particularly funny tbh. Each to their own. | |||
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"My point is yes it's Nsa... So married or otherwise shouldn't matter... Look at all the "genuine" guys out there who are married!! What if guy has Single on profile, yet is Married?? It should be NSA fun.... with no lies! Agreed here too... It's better if guys are up front from the start...
100% the very reason why I am very open about in my description too for instance
Totally..."
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place?
I don't...
But it makes me laugh that's all...
Hypocrisy...
Ah now .. it's not nice to make fun of others behind their back .. tut tut
In a Woody Allen kinda way
Never found him particularly funny tbh. Each to their own."I don't either... But your suggesting I'm laughing at people..I'm not...no malice intended! It's funny peculiar... Aka Woody Allen kinda way! | |||
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"We have on our profile that status is unimportant to us.....But its like any preference if it bothers you put it on the profile....but I think its a little niave to think that just cause someone male or female has single on their profile they are"
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"t there's a lot on here who say they aren't but they are so no one really knows for sure who's 100% single,,,,, each to their own and what they choose to do,, once it's not effecting you then don't worry about them and what they get up to what others do on here is really no one else's business but their own after all it's supposed to be about fun " | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place?
I don't...
But it makes me laugh that's all...
Hypocrisy...
Ah now .. it's not nice to make fun of others behind their back .. tut tut
In a Woody Allen kinda way
Never found him particularly funny tbh. Each to their own.
I don't either...
But your suggesting I'm laughing at people..I'm not...no malice intended!
It's funny peculiar...
Aka Woody Allen kinda way! "Ah, you mean the sharp but subtle sort of funny peculiar laced with sarcasm? Nah.. not my thing. | |||
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"It's like with everything on fab there's barely anything that doesn't exist. I also noticed that there are peeps shouting loudest on the forum about 'married cheaters' and judge them, but have actually met married 'single guys/women'... Being on here for a while, the only way to deal with such phenomena is to laugh. I'm here to have fun and not to get annoyed..."
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"It's like with everything on fab there's barely anything that doesn't exist. I also noticed that there are peeps shouting loudest on the forum about 'married cheaters' and judge them, but have actually met married 'single guys/women'... Being on here for a while, the only way to deal with such phenomena is to laugh. I'm here to have fun and not to get annoyed..." | |||
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"It's like with everything on fab there's barely anything that doesn't exist. I also noticed that there are peeps shouting loudest on the forum about 'married cheaters' and judge them, but have actually met married 'single guys/women'... Being on here for a while, the only way to deal with such phenomena is to laugh. I'm here to have fun and not to get annoyed..." Well said | |||
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"It's like with everything on fab there's barely anything that doesn't exist. I also noticed that there are peeps shouting loudest on the forum about 'married cheaters' and judge them, but have actually met married 'single guys/women'... Being on here for a while, the only way to deal with such phenomena is to laugh. I'm here to have fun and not to get annoyed..." Exactly hun....Too many so called rules here now....Just have was site was set up for..."some good safe no strings attached sexxxy fun"...Everyone will be happy...I know I will... | |||
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"I think married guys are less complicated than single guys! But my point is why do women insist on not meeting married guys??? Yet her veris they are married...
Slightly confused... why would you care in the first place?
I don't...
But it makes me laugh that's all...
Hypocrisy...
Ah now .. it's not nice to make fun of others behind their back .. tut tut
In a Woody Allen kinda way
Never found him particularly funny tbh. Each to their own.
I don't either...
But your suggesting I'm laughing at people..I'm not...no malice intended!
It's funny peculiar...
Aka Woody Allen kinda way!
Ah, you mean the sharp but subtle sort of funny peculiar laced with sarcasm? Nah.. not my thing."Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit... I'm more of a Edieeeeeeee what have you done for me lateleeeeyyyyy kinda gal! | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc. Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's "Well that could be excused...If she is into fresh meat... | |||
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"I'm a married cheater. What's the point in lying about it. Those who I have met I have given my reasons why I do what I do. I also BS about being athletic like most guys on fab. Or being a genuine honest guy. No one here is honest, if we were the whole world would know exactly who we are and our reasons for being here. Personally I have been contacted by people of both sexes who say they wouldn't meet married people only to roll back on that statement pretty quick when I say I am. It's amazing quick people will jump off that high horse to get their hands on the prize, dancing all over their morals and high opinions as they do so. I do however respect those who have that stance and stick to it. This is fab, the land of fantasy and perversion. The whole point is to do things and people we couldn't day to day. To come here we all have to lie, just in some people's eyes my lie is worse than theirs even though some will never know the reasons why " Verieeeee true!! Couldn't agree with you more | |||
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"Leave everyone paddle their own canoe. Who in here has that right to comment or pass judgement on how any other member conduct their life. People say one thing and do another all the time. And preferences are set out at the start of the journey and change during it. let each of us concentrate on our own lives and let everyone one else concentrate on theirs and most of all do what makes you happy were here for a good time not a long time .xx" | |||
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Now as far as I'm concerned that's a smoker but I decide to carry on with the meet as we got on well .
It does not make me a hypocrite just shows that not all preferences are set in stone
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging " Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly! | |||
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"We all have our preferences and it's up to each person if it's a hard and fast rule or one that can be bent I have on my profile I won't meet smokers but I had a meet one time and when the guy showed up said " well I don't smoke but have the odd one when I'm out "
Now as far as I'm concerned that's a smoker but I decide to carry on with the meet as we got on well .
It does not make me a hypocrite just shows that not all preferences are set in stone
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"We all have our preferences and it's up to each person if it's a hard and fast rule or one that can be bent I have on my profile I won't meet smokers but I had a meet one time and when the guy showed up said " well I don't smoke but have the odd one when I'm out "
Now as far as I'm concerned that's a smoker but I decide to carry on with the meet as we got on well .
It does not make me a hypocrite just shows that not all preferences are set in stone
I like a woman that is flexible!! "I have been known to get myself into some strange positions | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly! "Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly!
Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere "My friend said the exact same,I mean it's silly,I understand everyone has their preferences but if it's NSA it shouldn't matter if you want a boyfriend get on a dating site! | |||
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"It's probably the "reasonable lie" that they use in case an idiot message them. Case in point: woman gets a "im in ur area bbz and i need to cum can i cum on u plz bbz" message and she checks the profile and sees married/smoker/illiterate idiot (pick whatever suits) this Then she just uses that as an excuse not to meet them (or she just ignores and blocks) I bet if any sane, reasonable married man sent them a nice message they'd stand a chance. " | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging " Mrs can get meets easy due to numbers where as Mr has to join the ranks of single guys(married,attached or not)due to the amount of fake cpls profiles if he's mailing from ur cpls profile chances are he be deleted however if ye have single profiles referencing the cpls profile and vise versa his score rate may rise along with other things | |||
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"As long as your not married to one of my sisters your fair game !!! Not my business if you cheat." Is ur sisters name Mary | |||
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"Here's to moments of weakness ??" Or how about looking at it as a moment of strength. Doing sometime that brings joy to your life despite it being slightly taboo in my eyes isn't a weakness. A strong person will say feck it and go for it as long as they do their best not to hurt anyone it's all good | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly!
Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere
My friend said the exact same,I mean it's silly,I understand everyone has their preferences but if it's NSA it shouldn't matter if you want a boyfriend get on a dating site!"What a silly statement to make,,,'it shouldn't matter' just because a woman or guy chooses not to meet married/attached people on here doesn't mean their looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend,,,, and should be on a dating site,,,,,, each person to their own and their preferences and their choices as individuals and adults,,, and shouldn't have to explain themselves to anyone else on here or worry about others opinions of them cause of their preferences on their own profiles | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly!
Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere
My friend said the exact same,I mean it's silly,I understand everyone has their preferences but if it's NSA it shouldn't matter if you want a boyfriend get on a dating site!
What a silly statement to make,,,'it shouldn't matter' just because a woman or guy chooses not to meet married/attached people on here doesn't mean their looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend,,,, and should be on a dating site,,,,,, each person to their own and their preferences and their choices as individuals and adults,,, and shouldn't have to explain themselves to anyone else on here or worry about others opinions of them cause of their preferences on their own profiles "It doesn't matter... But if it's NSA it shouldn't matter... Nsa is a a bita fun and a fuck... Nothing more! If you want long walks on the beach get on a dating site! I apologise if I've hit a nerve | |||
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"Here's to moments of weakness ?? Or how about looking at it as a moment of strength. Doing sometime that brings joy to your life despite it being slightly taboo in my eyes isn't a weakness. A strong person will say feck it and go for it as long as they do their best not to hurt anyone it's all good" So wise..... Yet so bold | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly!
Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere
My friend said the exact same,I mean it's silly,I understand everyone has their preferences but if it's NSA it shouldn't matter if you want a boyfriend get on a dating site!
What a silly statement to make,,,'it shouldn't matter' just because a woman or guy chooses not to meet married/attached people on here doesn't mean their looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend,,,, and should be on a dating site,,,,,, each person to their own and their preferences and their choices as individuals and adults,,, and shouldn't have to explain themselves to anyone else on here or worry about others opinions of them cause of their preferences on their own profiles
It doesn't matter...
But if it's NSA it shouldn't matter...
Nsa is a a bita fun and a fuck...
Nothing more!
If you want long walks on the beach get on a dating site!
I apologise if I've hit a nerve "Haven't hit any nerve with me at all, just think what you think about being on here and your reasons,, preferences are yours and not everyone has to or should think the same as you do about the site Each to their own,, what they want or what they get from here is their own Choice and their preference not everyone is going to want the same thing or look for the same thing on here as others do,,,,,, and no one has the right to judge anyone,,, but there is an awful lot of judging going on on this post | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Yes... A lovely friend of mine from a couple said the same,he mails only to get told they don't meet married men! I mean the mrs is on fab too,it's pretty silly!
Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere
My friend said the exact same,I mean it's silly,I understand everyone has their preferences but if it's NSA it shouldn't matter if you want a boyfriend get on a dating site!
What a silly statement to make,,,'it shouldn't matter' just because a woman or guy chooses not to meet married/attached people on here doesn't mean their looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend,,,, and should be on a dating site,,,,,, each person to their own and their preferences and their choices as individuals and adults,,, and shouldn't have to explain themselves to anyone else on here or worry about others opinions of them cause of their preferences on their own profiles
It doesn't matter...
But if it's NSA it shouldn't matter...
Nsa is a a bita fun and a fuck...
Nothing more!
If you want long walks on the beach get on a dating site!
I apologise if I've hit a nerve
Haven't hit any nerve with me at all, just think what you think about being on here and your reasons,, preferences are yours and not everyone has to or should think the same as you do about the site
Each to their own,, what they want or what they get from here is their own
Choice and their preference not everyone is going to want the same thing or look for the same thing on here as others do,,,,,, and no one has the right to judge anyone,,, but there is an awful lot of judging going on on this post "Its just my opinion everyone is entitled to their opinion as is everyone is entitled to their preferences,it's a open forum you don't have to comment on it if it upsets you,i'm not judging anyone just expressing my personal opinion.....As every other poster is here... I'm here because I have kinks and desires very different to people in vanilla life... I like to keep both lives separate... | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Mrs can get meets easy due to numbers where as Mr has to join the ranks of single guys(married,attached or not)due to the amount of fake cpls profiles if he's mailing from ur cpls profile chances are he be deleted however if ye have single profiles referencing the cpls profile and vise versa his score rate may rise along with other things "Just to make things a bit more complicated a single woman could have the principle of not meeting a married man of a couple on here with the argument that the male part of a couple gets already his fair share of fun while a single guy (married or not) doesn't, lol, but she might deviate from the rule if it's the 'right' guy!!! | |||
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Ya we feel like giving up on here sometimes but we live in hope. Mr travels a lot so he could meet anywhere it's not just cork this seems to happen everywhere
My friend said the exact same,I mean it's silly,I understand everyone has their preferences but if it's NSA it shouldn't matter if you want a boyfriend get on a dating site!
What a silly statement to make,,,'it shouldn't matter' just because a woman or guy chooses not to meet married/attached people on here doesn't mean their looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend,,,, and should be on a dating site,,,,,, each person to their own and their preferences and their choices as individuals and adults,,, and shouldn't have to explain themselves to anyone else on here or worry about others opinions of them cause of their preferences on their own profiles
It doesn't matter...
But if it's NSA it shouldn't matter...
Nsa is a a bita fun and a fuck...
Nothing more!
If you want long walks on the beach get on a dating site!
I apologise if I've hit a nerve
Haven't hit any nerve with me at all, just think what you think about being on here and your reasons,, preferences are yours and not everyone has to or should think the same as you do about the site
Each to their own,, what they want or what they get from here is their own
Choice and their preference not everyone is going to want the same thing or look for the same thing on here as others do,,,,,, and no one has the right to judge anyone,,, but there is an awful lot of judging going on on this post
Its just my opinion everyone is entitled to their opinion as is everyone is entitled to their preferences,it's a open forum you don't have to comment on it if it upsets you,i'm not judging anyone just expressing my personal opinion.....As every other poster is here...
I'm here because I have kinks and desires very different to people in vanilla life...
I like to keep both lives separate...
"Indeed it is a public forum,,,for whoever chooses to cement which I have as I chose to,, I am not that easily upset takes a lot to upset me
Your reason for being on here is your reason and you don't have to explain to anyone on here your reasons for being here,,,, just as women or men don't have to explain their reasons as to why they won't meet married people,,, aswell as those that have whatever preferences on their profiles,, the ones they set up as adults,, and probably pay for all by themselves have to explain to others,, why they have verifications from married guys after having on their profiles 'not meeting married guys'
No disrespect Annie but I find your opening post on this forum judgemental
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Your reason for being on here is your reason and you don't have to explain to anyone on here your reasons for being here,,,, just as women or men don't have to explain their reasons as to why they won't meet married people,,, aswell as those that have whatever preferences on their profiles,, the ones they set up as adults,, and probably pay for all by themselves have to explain to others,, why they have verifications from married guys after having on their profiles 'not meeting married guys'
No disrespect Annie but I find your opening post on this forum judgemental
"If you think my post is judgemental you must think that of most posts that are posted here on a open forum for discussion... It's something I observed from reading many profiles from many people,it is mostly from females as I have yet to read a single guys profile with "WON'T MEET MARRIED WOMEN" women on their profiles...that's one I've yet to read! Nothing judgemental... But it makes my eyes roll up to the heavens... It's an observation... And my opinion | |||
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" Indeed it is a public forum,,,for whoever chooses to cement which I have as I chose to,, I am not that easily upset takes a lot to upset me
Your reason for being on here is your reason and you don't have to explain to anyone on here your reasons for being here,,,, just as women or men don't have to explain their reasons as to why they won't meet married people,,, aswell as those that have whatever preferences on their profiles,, the ones they set up as adults,, and probably pay for all by themselves have to explain to others,, why they have verifications from married guys after having on their profiles 'not meeting married guys'
No disrespect Annie but I find your opening post on this forum judgemental
If you think my post is judgemental you must think that of most posts that are posted here on a open forum for discussion...
It's something I observed from reading many profiles from many people,it is mostly from females as I have yet to read a single guys profile with "WON'T MEET MARRIED WOMEN" women on their profiles...that's one I've yet to read!
Nothing judgemental...
But it makes my eyes roll up to the heavens...
It's an observation...
And my opinion
"Not a lot of posts in the forums have hidden agendas and aimed at one person as this post is,,, even a 10 Year old can work that one out from reading your recent statues and now this forum post,,,,, so no I wouldn't and don't think all forum posts are judgemental but you carry on with your statues and your posts and for the record I have never met or chatted with this person Have chatted with yourself on here on any occasions and at length,,, you did come across as a straight out open lovey woman,,, maybe use some of those characteristics that you had shown me via chat to mail The person your having a right dig at these past few days and have it out in person instead of all Over the forums and your statues
Just an observation and my opinion
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" Indeed it is a public forum,,,for whoever chooses to cement which I have as I chose to,, I am not that easily upset takes a lot to upset me
Your reason for being on here is your reason and you don't have to explain to anyone on here your reasons for being here,,,, just as women or men don't have to explain their reasons as to why they won't meet married people,,, aswell as those that have whatever preferences on their profiles,, the ones they set up as adults,, and probably pay for all by themselves have to explain to others,, why they have verifications from married guys after having on their profiles 'not meeting married guys'
No disrespect Annie but I find your opening post on this forum judgemental
If you think my post is judgemental you must think that of most posts that are posted here on a open forum for discussion...
It's something I observed from reading many profiles from many people,it is mostly from females as I have yet to read a single guys profile with "WON'T MEET MARRIED WOMEN" women on their profiles...that's one I've yet to read!
Nothing judgemental...
But it makes my eyes roll up to the heavens...
It's an observation...
And my opinion
Not a lot of posts in the forums have hidden agendas and aimed at one person as this post is,,, even a 10
Year old can work that one out from reading your recent statues and now this forum post,,,,, so no I wouldn't and don't think all forum posts are judgemental but you carry on with your statues and your posts and for the record I have never met or chatted with this person
Have chatted with yourself on here on any occasions and at length,,, you did come across as a straight out open lovey woman,,, maybe use some of those characteristics that you had shown me via chat to mail
The person your having a right dig at these past few days and have it out in person instead of all
Over the forums and your statues
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Is this for me??
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"Again Firey I have no idea what your talking about... My recent status is a joke between friends as The force awakens is out on Dec 18th... "'Again' sorry if I confuse you so much on this post,,, I did think what I said was very easy to understand Anyway enjoy 'The force Awakens' maybe we'll see a forum post about it though don't think I'll be commenting as it's really not my thing so wouldn't have an opinion on it or observe anything about it | |||
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"I thought it was a swingers site not an NSA site in my opinion these are two very different things . Swinging for me is a lifestyle choice not a chance for a quick ride and I stay clear of people who view it as such . There is no such thing as no strings sex . Married attached people come with the strings attached to that , such as can't meet in the evening , only have a certain amount of time , can be seen in public . All strings . And I'm not going to play with someone who won't be seen in public with me , that's one of my strings as its called ." Excellent statement that is | |||
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"I thought it was a swingers site not an NSA site in my opinion these are two very different things . Swinging for me is a lifestyle choice not a chance for a quick ride and I stay clear of people who view it as such . There is no such thing as no strings sex . Married attached people come with the strings attached to that , such as can't meet in the evening , only have a certain amount of time , can be seen in public . All strings . And I'm not going to play with someone who won't be seen in public with me , that's one of my strings as its called . Excellent statement that is "No, it's not, it's a contradiction in itself... | |||
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"I thought it was a swingers site not an NSA site in my opinion these are two very different things . Swinging for me is a lifestyle choice not a chance for a quick ride and I stay clear of people who view it as such . There is no such thing as no strings sex . Married attached people come with the strings attached to that , such as can't meet in the evening , only have a certain amount of time , can be seen in public . All strings . And I'm not going to play with someone who won't be seen in public with me , that's one of my strings as its called ." I disagree... You see a person in Dunnes/Tesco wherever you recognise you met them in a meet n greet would you go up to that person and openly talk to them? Pinch them on the bum? Your post is a complete contradiction... | |||
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I still am at a loss to understand how OP can be justifiably annoyed or even care about other people's personal preferences on fab. Easy fix. Don't read their profiles maybe? "Mabye take your own advice... If this forum post upsets you so much stop reading it... | |||
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"I thought it was a swingers site not an NSA site in my opinion these are two very different things . Swinging for me is a lifestyle choice not a chance for a quick ride and I stay clear of people who view it as such . There is no such thing as no strings sex . Married attached people come with the strings attached to that , such as can't meet in the evening , only have a certain amount of time , can be seen in public . All strings . And I'm not going to play with someone who won't be seen in public with me , that's one of my strings as its called . Excellent statement that is
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"Again Firey I have no idea what your talking about... My recent status is a joke between friends as The force awakens is out on Dec 18th...
'Again' sorry if I confuse you so much on this post,,, I did think what I said was very easy to understand
Anyway enjoy 'The force Awakens' maybe we'll see a forum post about it though don't think I'll be commenting as it's really not my thing so wouldn't have an opinion on it or observe anything about it "Can't wait for it! I've not been this excited about a film in a verieeeee long time | |||
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I still am at a loss to understand how OP can be justifiably annoyed or even care about other people's personal preferences on fab. Easy fix. Don't read their profiles maybe?
Mabye take your own advice...
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"Just a thought, but does anyone think that fab should display a relationship status. Single, married, attached etc. That way there can be no confusion regarding current status and if you didn't want to meet married or attached people you could simply filter them out. " Yeah, sure people don't lie on the internet. | |||
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"A Single profile doesn't mean that person is single in real life, just that it's the profile of one person and anyone who makes assumptions on their actual married status is just being silly. Lots of couples will not meet married/attached men, but don't have an issue with a married/attached woman. Where's the difference? Just be honest before your meets." The difference is that women thst will meet couples are as rare as hens teeth so couples will take practically anything they can get. Married or not If however a couple wants a guy to join them they have an abundance of them to choose from so they can be more particular | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Mrs can get meets easy due to numbers where as Mr has to join the ranks of single guys(married,attached or not)due to the amount of fake cpls profiles if he's mailing from ur cpls profile chances are he be deleted however if ye have single profiles referencing the cpls profile and vise versa his score rate may rise along with other things "Thanks for that reply nice one never taught of that  | |||
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 I try not to but I'm sure I've been lied to along the way and have anyway. It's rare someone reveals their true selves here u less they really have nothing to hide. Now I just make it clear if you have a partner and u lie about it and she contacts me remember I owe you nothing | |||
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"We are a married couple we play togeather and separate we have no problem with this . Mrs M can get a meet anytime anywhere but for Mr it is impossible. We write are upfront from word go. No replies are gutting to anyone. We have played abroad and it's totally different swinging means swinging Mrs can get meets easy due to numbers where as Mr has to join the ranks of single guys(married,attached or not)due to the amount of fake cpls profiles if he's mailing from ur cpls profile chances are he be deleted however if ye have single profiles referencing the cpls profile and vise versa his score rate may rise along with other things
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"I'm a married cheater. What's the point in lying about it. Those who I have met I have given my reasons why I do what I do. I also BS about being athletic like most guys on fab. Or being a genuine honest guy. No one here is honest, if we were the whole world would know exactly who we are and our reasons for being here. Personally I have been contacted by people of both sexes who say they wouldn't meet married people only to roll back on that statement pretty quick when I say I am. It's amazing quick people will jump off that high horse to get their hands on the prize, dancing all over their morals and high opinions as they do so. I do however respect those who have that stance and stick to it. This is fab, the land of fantasy and perversion. The whole point is to do things and people we couldn't day to day. To come here we all have to lie, just in some people's eyes my lie is worse than theirs even though some will never know the reasons why " | |||
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"I'm a married cheater. What's the point in lying about it. Those who I have met I have given my reasons why I do what I do. I also BS about being athletic like most guys on fab. Or being a genuine honest guy. No one here is honest, if we were the whole world would know exactly who we are and our reasons for being here. Personally I have been contacted by people of both sexes who say they wouldn't meet married people only to roll back on that statement pretty quick when I say I am. It's amazing quick people will jump off that high horse to get their hands on the prize, dancing all over their morals and high opinions as they do so. I do however respect those who have that stance and stick to it. This is fab, the land of fantasy and perversion. The whole point is to do things and people we couldn't day to day. To come here we all have to lie, just in some people's eyes my lie is worse than theirs even though some will never know the reasons why " | |||
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"I thought swinging was all about sex and getting the most from our short lives. I'd meet a married woman ,adds an extra thrill, and not judge her. Not knowing what her husband is like maybe she has a sexless life . I know it's not an affair, only sex and swingers don't want to wreck homes . I think anyone starting an affair with a married person is wrong" Couldn't agree with you more... I originally posted this because a gorgeous man from a married couple on fab pointed it out to me how hard it was for the guys from couples to get meets for this exact reason,lots of people have gotten the wrong idea of this post, I've also got so much positive feedback too, thank you for all the mails from the soundest people on fab! And so many guys for your uplifting mails... Men are always given a rough time when it comes to this subject.. It's a swing site... Nobody is judging it's just my opinion! | |||
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"Hard to make sense of a lot of profiles...Don't think many even read their own, some are Smokers but 'Won't meet smokers' etc. Lol...agreed! And the age preferences She's 42 but won't meet over 40's
She likes em young and hung "She has become a he after a sex change clearly
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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
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The smell of double standards off some profiles do make me chuckle!
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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
The smell of double standards off some profiles do make me chuckle!
...and a cause for why so married men lie on their profile and say they are single???
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"I'm not here that long, so maybe I'm not qualified to comment. Personally I don't think it should matter if a person, he or she, is married or not. We are all hopefully adults, so it's a choice. I have a woman friend I see now and again, maybe once or twice a year. She is very happily married, with children, and by all accounts has a good sex life. She simply likes the thrill of being with someone 'different'. While she does not go out with the intention of 'cheating' if she sees an attractive man, and they strike a conversation.. well nature can take it's course. An issue I do have, is on some women's profiles, where they have no photos, either public or private, yet they will insist on a mans photo being included in a message, or they will not reply. !! Like everything in life, ye take the good with the bad, fishing is all about patience I suppose..." Plus if a man is married states on his profile they refuse to meet him... But "single" guys are mostly married too,playing away yet they meet them because they say they are single on their profiles... It's ridiculous... | |||
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" Plus if a man is married states on his profile they refuse to meet him... But "single" guys are mostly married too,playing away yet they meet them because they say they are single on their profiles... It's ridiculous... " Doesn't bother me... some prefer married guys instead of guys that can't get any!! Each to their own! | |||
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"I thought it was a swingers site not an NSA site in my opinion these are two very different things . Swinging for me is a lifestyle choice not a chance for a quick ride and I stay clear of people who view it as such . There is no such thing as no strings sex . Married attached people come with the strings attached to that , such as can't meet in the evening , only have a certain amount of time , can be seen in public . All strings . And I'm not going to play with someone who won't be seen in public with me , that's one of my strings as its called ." This | |||
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"Married guys should be honest and say it. The problem is it annunciation reduces your market hence the reason why guys don't offer the honesty of their position. However ladies should be given the choice not, that it matters in my opinion as its nsa. I would prefer married myself as I find that more nsa. A lot of guys never tell their meets and many ladies and couples have been with married men, without knowing it. Then they harp or give out to those who do tell them in advance. another reason why men hide their status as women can be disrespectful to those men who are upfront, its not only ladies who get hate mail. Conclusion : Does it matter, no, its nsa as previously said.But married men should take into consideration and respect the wishes of a meet not to broadcast they were with them either verbally or by verification. Respect, honesty and discretion is what swinging is about and the foundation of what fun times and engagement should be built on. Also maybe they got married after the verification was given to the meet " | |||
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"I'm here looking at so many women on the site with this line on their profiles, everything from I won't meet attached/married men,don't need the drama bla bla bla... Yet... When you look at the veris they ARE from "married men".. Married/attached men have them on their veris..
Once their not meeting your Hubbie (if you were married) then leave them to it,,,,, they say a woman can change their minds like the weather,,,, me personally I wouldn't meet a guy knowing he was married,,, but then there's a lot on here who say they aren't but they are so no one really knows for sure who's 100% single,,,,, each to their own and what they choose to do,, once it's not effecting you then don't worry about them and what they get up to what others do on here is really no one else's business but their own after all it's supposed to be about fun " | |||
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"My preference is not to meet anyone here behind their partner's back. That simple. Actual relationship status is immaterial, but I don't want to be party to an act that would hurt someone else. That's all. It's a personal choice, and while obviously some people will lie about their situation, if I'm offered information to that end, it will make it a no thank you from me. To me, consent from all affected parties is the difference between swinging and cheating. NSA doesn't negate my need to keep a clear conscience, but to each their own. "Well I'll accept your no thank you lol, but I must say I'm fabbing those hot pics of yours missus as you look really hot in them | |||
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"I won't meet married men or attached guys only because I was once married and my DH strayed n it hurt so I wouldn't want to b part of that whole side. On the flip side married men are much better at NSA " I think so too. I am only looking for a few moments of romance and exitment...in addition to my existing commitment made..no intend to break my vow | |||
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