FabSwingers.com forum: Reading profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rant time

Going on rant ,I'm sick at moment so probably more cranky then usual

I like to think we have made effort with our profile. We don't expect to get loads of mailsnor do we expect a reply back to everyone we mail, everyone has different tastes and requirements

But how can people view your profile and mail you and ignore things written on a profile

The amount of friend requests we get is unreal , our friends list is for our friends on here . we get friends request s from people we have never spoken to and requests from people who have mailed us and we haven't had a chance to reply to.

Usually we ignore them but today I mailed only to be meant with excuses o i do it out of habit ,I didn't realise I sent it etc..

We don't want to be rude and abrasive in our profile with warnings and big rules but if people aren't even going bothered to read/ take note of our profile why should we bother ?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

No people don't read profiles! Got a semi-abusive one this morning asking why I've never contacted this person!

The reason was that I had read their profile and they "Won't meet Smokers" ..

If they had read mine they see I am a smoker... so asked them why they hadn't read mine!!

Profiles are there for a reason!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No people don't read profiles! Got a semi-abusive one this morning asking why I've never contacted this person!

The reason was that I had read their profile and they "Won't meet Smokers" ..

If they had read mine they see I am a smoker... so asked them why they hadn't read mine!!

Profiles are there for a reason! "

It's worth nothing its not just males who are guilty of this couples too

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"No people don't read profiles! Got a semi-abusive one this morning asking why I've never contacted this person!

The reason was that I had read their profile and they "Won't meet Smokers" ..

If they had read mine they see I am a smoker... so asked them why they hadn't read mine!!

Profiles are there for a reason!

It's worth nothing its not just males who are guilty of this couples too "

Indeed!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Can be a bit annoying, but par for the course!

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By *oinfourmilesMan
over a year ago

cork

We all also need to keep our profiles current its probably same few pushy crowd but its a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare they try and be friends with you! Yes it's annoying when people don't bother reading a profile but if you're not expecting a friend request can't you just ignore or delete & block?

I saw a funny one recently, the lady said something like "my friends only pics are just me in cardigans & trousers so don't bother sending a friend request"

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

A lot of the friends requests are just so they can perv private photos...

others like to have a long list of friends just to 'look good' and probably haven't met anyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Normally ignore , don't delete as it allows them to send it again

I was just ranting

, just cranky and needed to rant about something it was this or water charges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only imagine what it is like for people who get a lot of contacts for sure. But then I don't get any contacts I don't initiate (after reading their profile) and my profile isn't that great.... I really should sort it out.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Normally ignore , don't delete as it allows them to send it again

I was just ranting

, just cranky and needed to rant about something it was this or water charges

Rant away so.. we'll just ignore you!!

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad."

Really?

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

"Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad.

Really?

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yes really .

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What's a profile?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"What's a profile?

its a step up from amateurfile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rant time

Going on rant ,I'm sick at moment so probably more cranky then usual

I like to think we have made effort with our profile. We don't expect to get loads of mailsnor do we expect a reply back to everyone we mail, everyone has different tastes and requirements

But how can people view your profile and mail you and ignore things written on a profile

Usually we ignore them but today I mailed only to be meant with excuses o i do it out of habit ,I didn't realise I sent it etc..

We don't want to be rude and abrasive in our profile with warnings and big rules but if people aren't even going bothered to read/ take note of our profile why should we bother ?

Rant over

We feel the exact same. We think also we made an effort in our profile. And the amount of mail we get, and it's obvious they never looked at the profile only the pictures. If they are that lazy to look at a profile, where else in life are they equally as lazy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad."

8 months and no veris...Just saying

Maybe spend the time reading profiles and all could change for you

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

"Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad.

8 months and no veris...Just saying

Maybe spend the time reading profiles and all could change for you

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I'm not complaining about 8 months and no veris.just read your profile.its good I have to say.not boring states few valued points.mite contact you one day when I do get vertified.no panic this end.getting the time is my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad.

8 months and no veris...Just saying

Maybe spend the time reading profiles and all could change for you

I'm not complaining about 8 months and no veris.just read your profile.its good I have to say.not boring states few valued points.mite contact you one day when I do get vertified.no panic this end.getting the time is my problem."

Time is mans enemy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done on the rant....get it off your chest......its about respect,but some profiles say there looking for single males and when you go to message them it say they do not wish to meet men.....im straight but ive had one or two males wanting to meet.....only once did i have ever have to block a bloke he was not abbusive just told me what i needed....

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

Keep me in mind one day.farmer lad from portlaois dave is the name.

Sarah g is very attractive looking I mite add.

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

"Keep me in mind one day.farmer lad from portlaois dave is the name.

Sarah g is very attractive looking I mite add."
flipping hell I meant to send the above in private msgs.the rain today has me not thinking straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep me in mind one day.farmer lad from portlaois dave is the name.

Sarah g is very attractive looking I mite add.flipping hell I meant to send the above in private msgs.the rain today has me not thinking straight."

If you did, it would mean you didn't read our profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a profile?

its a step up from amateurfile"

What's the next step??

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By *ardy cowboyMan
over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

"Keep me in mind one day.farmer lad from portlaois dave is the name.

Sarah g is very attractive looking I mite add.flipping hell I meant to send the above in private msgs.the rain today has me not thinking straight.

If you did, it would mean you didn't read our profile lol

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a but I did. what im trying to say is i will be contacting you when I'm vertified and that other matter would be corrected thats not a problem lol.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I was thinking a while ago if self explanatory signs and pictures in the photo gallery would solve the illiteracy issues on here, then again it wouldn't really make any difference to ignorance.

Not reading/ignoring what it says on a profile is just part of the fab package, and the friend request are just piling away while I simply pursue what I'm on here, to find some frolics with the right people.

All you can do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't want to be rude and abrasive in our profile with warnings and big rules

Good idea...

A profile full of angry bird rules is very unappealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best off just ignoring people who don't read them. Aren't worth getting annoyed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people aren't bothered to read your profile, It's instant disqualification for future progress. Use the fact that people disregard your profile and boundaries to your advantage. You will find then that the cream rises to the top. Makes the decision process so much easier, I think

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If people aren't bothered to read your profile, It's instant disqualification for future progress. Use the fact that people disregard your profile and boundaries to your advantage. You will find then that the cream rises to the top. Makes the decision process so much easier, I think

Lee"

As we said earlier, if they are too lazy to read a profile, what else are they too lazy for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell if someone has read my profile as they comment on a certain line. Others send cock pics...clearly not having read it. Bite bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can tell if someone has read my profile as they comment on a certain line. Others send cock pics...clearly not having read it. Bite bite "

I promise I won't!!!!!

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By *yintotryCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"No people don't read profiles! Got a semi-abusive one this morning asking why I've never contacted this person!

The reason was that I had read their profile and they "Won't meet Smokers" ..

If they had read mine they see I am a smoker... so asked them why they hadn't read mine!!

Profiles are there for a reason!

It's worth nothing its not just males who are guilty of this couples too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No people don't read profiles! Got a semi-abusive one this morning asking why I've never contacted this person!

The reason was that I had read their profile and they "Won't meet Smokers" ..

If they had read mine they see I am a smoker... so asked them why they hadn't read mine!!

Profiles are there for a reason!

It's worth nothing its not just males who are guilty of this couples too

Probably the male in the couple guilty most of the time - Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people read some of the time...

Profiles often contradict themselves too ie. "Won't meet smokers".. Yet verified by smokers..

Also " not meeting " ...yet ongoing veris...

Many people will always chance their arm anyway

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

"Normally ignore , don't delete as it allows them to send it again

I was just ranting

, just cranky and needed to rant about something it was this or water charges

I do this to. .If you delete they can send again, if you don't delete ground requests they just sit there.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"I think people read some of the time...

Profiles often contradict themselves too ie. "Won't meet smokers".. Yet verified by smokers..

Also " not meeting " ...yet ongoing veris...

Many people will always chance their arm anyway

lol

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

"Some profile are so long by the time you get to the bottom of them the horn would be gone off a lad."

I have to agree with this,plus I'm a very very very slow reader

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"I think people read some of the time...

Profiles often contradict themselves too ie. "Won't meet smokers".. Yet verified by smokers..

Also " not meeting " ...yet ongoing veris...

Many people will always chance their arm anyway

Don't think people read their own profiles!!

You get smokers that won't meet smokers. straight guys verified by meets with guy.. etc etc

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