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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I ask peoples opinion on exchanging face pics. I normally as a rule don't give out face pics as I believe a face to face coffee meet will certainly determine whether or not things go further. But on occasion I have agreed to exchange pics. What do people think when like what happened to me recently when I sent mine they wouldn't send theirs back.. Love to hear your comments...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens.....and I mean..all the time...but recently. The facepic exchange goin gooooooooood...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like you, I don't send either. I rely on meeting in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually would send a face pic but only if we have arranged to meet....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thing is very recently I was chatting to what seemed to be a nice couple, things seemed to be going great. Then that shit.. I'm wondering maybe they know me? Pmsl....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually would send a face pic but only if we have arranged to meet...."

Rosie I would agree with that if an agreement of a meet has been made then it maybe a bit earlier for some to know what you look like..in that circumstance id exchange..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only send face pics if we get on well with someone and we were thinking of meeting them socially first.

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

I don't have a face PIC. If I'm having a local coffee meet then we will see each other at the cafe. If there's no connection there's no harm done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only send face pics if we get on well with someone and we were thinking of meeting them socially first. "

That's what I thought was going to happen then all went pear shaped.. Ah well learn from these things and move on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have a face PIC. If I'm having a local coffee meet then we will see each other at the cafe. If there's no connection there's no harm done."

Totally agree, and that's what I would normally do.. Think from now on ill stick to that policy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type! "

Hi Annie, maybe and I'm cool with that. But I just think if you've agreed to exchange pics then its something that should be followed through.. Maybe a bit of decency.. No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't send face pics as a privacy policy you don't know who you are sending them to if they want to meet they will see us soon enough just our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

Hi Annie, maybe and I'm cool with that. But I just think if you've agreed to exchange pics then its something that should be followed through.. Maybe a bit of decency.. No?"

From what I understand people don't have to return a face pic,just the same as gals don't need to reply to a message....

Just my opinion...

Mabye they weren't interested...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type! "

I agree , I ask for a face pic coz if there's no physical attraction I'm wasting your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it

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By *ymguylMan
over a year ago

ennis

well it about trust' the same thing happened to me' for me' she live near some relations of mine' it not nice' do the meet if you comfortable and then say no not interested' just my opion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get over it"

Oh believe me your not worth it. I thought that maybe there was some decency left in people but in this case I was sadly mistaken..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well it about trust' the same thing happened to me' for me' she live near some relations of mine' it not nice' do the meet if you comfortable and then say no not interested' just my opion"

Thanks for that, I would agree..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

I agree , I ask for a face pic coz if there's no physical attraction I'm wasting your time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a face pic is sent unasked for and you don't like the look - then its fine to ignore/not send one back. But if its agreed to swap then surely you should keep to the agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

I agree , I ask for a face pic coz if there's no physical attraction I'm wasting your time."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a face pic is sent unasked for and you don't like the look - then its fine to ignore/not send one back. But if its agreed to swap then surely you should keep to the agreement"

Thankyou for that, I thought I was starting to think there was no decency left. You've given me hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting "

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here.."

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me."

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a face pic is sent unasked for and you don't like the look - then its fine to ignore/not send one back. But if its agreed to swap then surely you should keep to the agreement"

Agree here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends.."

Nasty people here too...

And you're friends with them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends.."

If there's is an agreement to send then of course I will but if one is sent to me and I didn't ask for it then I wouldn't. There are good people here and I've made friends with lots of people that I haven't played with. Just chalk it up to them being rude and move on to someone who'll appreciate you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends..

If there's is an agreement to send then of course I will but if one is sent to me and I didn't ask for it then I wouldn't. There are good people here and I've made friends with lots of people that I haven't played with. Just chalk it up to them being rude and move on to someone who'll appreciate you "

So true here too!!

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By *armakazzyCouple
over a year ago

dublin south

I would never meet even for the initial social coffee without swapping face pics but if I said I will send mine then I will but not if someone assumes to send theirs and expects me to return.. I have to like your face as well as your body for play!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends..

Nasty people here too...

And you're friends with them too "

Annie you need to get your facts right before making gratuitous comments!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting "

A pity fuck haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

A pity fuck haha

"

Only give them to the hubby cha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Only give them to the hubby cha "

lol classic snow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Only give them to the hubby cha

lol classic snow"

Or he gives to to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Only give them to the hubby cha

lol classic snow

Or he gives to to me "

I doubt u need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Only give them to the hubby cha

lol classic snow

Or he gives to to me

I doubt u need them "

Someone has to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends..

Nasty people here too...

And you're friends with them too

Annie you need to get your facts right before making gratuitous comments!!"

Believe me my facts are 100%

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends..

If there's is an agreement to send then of course I will but if one is sent to me and I didn't ask for it then I wouldn't. There are good people here and I've made friends with lots of people that I haven't played with. Just chalk it up to them being rude and move on to someone who'll appreciate you "

Thanks girl, really appreciate your comments..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

And just as in real life, some people will let you down if you trust them - why anyone expects better behaviour on a sex site is beyond me.

I suppose your right, and maybe its the hope on my behalf that there are some good people on this site.. In fact I know there is because iv met them and they have become friends..

Nasty people here too...

And you're friends with them too

Annie you need to get your facts right before making gratuitous comments!!

Believe me my facts are 100%

Best of luck "

But their not, talk to someone who really knows, someone you also know very well...

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

We went on a meet with a lovely couple recently. ...

No exchange of face pics...

We never do, so it'd be rude to request same.

We often play spot the swingers when we are out (it's easy when you are in the venue)...rarely get it wrong.

However, funny thing was, it was our 4th guess that was correct...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we the only 'idiots' on here who have face-pics up on our public profile?

Or are we the only ones with nothing to hide?

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

Isn't it a personal choice what people put on their profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't it a personal choice what people put on their profiles? "

Absolutely! But a picture speaks a thousand words (they say) and I'd be more inclined to want to meet with someone showing their face than their genitals.

Also, (being really old...) we don't want to be wasting people's time, and our own, by posting pictures that don't show who we really are.

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

Well I wouldn't put my face PIC on this for my own reasons. Privacy being one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I wouldn't put my face PIC on this for my own reasons. Privacy being one of them.

"

Fair enough, as a young and beautiful single woman, I'm sure you'll have no shortage of eager people wanting to meet with you whether you choose to show yourself or not.

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray

I agree...

Personally I am a very "visual" person and the only reason why I would be asking for a face pics is to see if I would be attracted to that person as I am sucker for nice eyes and a killer smile.

I see it as way to avoid wasting time and enjoy a good conversation

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!


"Well I wouldn't put my face PIC on this for my own reasons. Privacy being one of them.

Fair enough, as a young and beautiful single woman, I'm sure you'll have no shortage of eager people wanting to meet with you whether you choose to show yourself or not. "
age is only a number but having said that I have filters.its not always about the outer wrapping.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Why would someone send back a face pic to someone their not interested in? Even if their was an agreement.

And why would you want 1 anyway if they not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not interested, there's no point sending a face pic.. what gets me is not even a 'thanks but no thanks'

If I don't tickle your fancy, that's absolutely fine.. But it's no call for rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not interested, there's no point sending a face pic.. what gets me is not even a 'thanks but no thanks'

If I don't tickle your fancy, that's absolutely fine.. But it's no call for rudeness "

Yes have to agree, at least say 'not interested' if you're not going send a photo.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not interested, there's no point sending a face pic.. what gets me is not even a 'thanks but no thanks'

If I don't tickle your fancy, that's absolutely fine.. But it's no call for rudeness "

totally agree, there is no excuse for rudeness, even on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the risk you take as a single guy I think, no show, no go.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Theoretically it would be only polite to return a face pic when agreed however if there's no attraction from the other side you might as well skip that but I think it's not asking for too much expecting a polite message saying 'no thanks, you're not really my type'

I've no face pic here and use kik photo bomb when needed

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Can I ask peoples opinion on exchanging face pics. I normally as a rule don't give out face pics as I believe a face to face coffee meet will certainly determine whether or not things go further. But on occasion I have agreed to exchange pics. What do people think when like what happened to me recently when I sent mine they wouldn't send theirs back.. Love to hear your comments..."

I only send face pics by kik....don't have any face pics connecting me to fab....I definitely wouldn't meet anyone without seen what they look like first...lol...don't want to be meeting me sister.

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Can I ask peoples opinion on exchanging face pics. I normally as a rule don't give out face pics as I believe a face to face coffee meet will certainly determine whether or not things go further. But on occasion I have agreed to exchange pics. What do people think when like what happened to me recently when I sent mine they wouldn't send theirs back.. Love to hear your comments..."

I only send face pics by kik....don't have any face pics connecting me to fab....I definitely wouldn't meet anyone without seen what they look like first...lol...don't want to be meeting me sister.

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By *urious2013cCouple
over a year ago

Co Cork


"Can I ask peoples opinion on exchanging face pics. I normally as a rule don't give out face pics as I believe a face to face coffee meet will certainly determine whether or not things go further. But on occasion I have agreed to exchange pics. What do people think when like what happened to me recently when I sent mine they wouldn't send theirs back.. Love to hear your comments...

I only send face pics by kik....don't have any face pics connecting me to fab....I definitely wouldn't meet anyone without seen what they look like first...lol...don't want to be meeting me sister. "
we very rarely meet even for a coffee without swapping face pics the reaction we get from some people when we ask would they like to swap face pics is often priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here.."

But why would you want their face pics if they don't want to meet, seems pretty pointless really, unless of course you just want to collect face pics...

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

At the start of our profile we clearly state no face pics sent so theres no need for people to waste their time even reading to the end we would never request any...I totally agree with paddyandemily no excuse for bad manners regardless of the situation.. If you use your filters it very easy to answer all messages

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"If you're not interested, there's no point sending a face pic.. what gets me is not even a 'thanks but no thanks'

If I don't tickle your fancy, that's absolutely fine.. But it's no call for rudeness

totally agree, there is no excuse for rudeness, even on a sex site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

Hi Annie, maybe and I'm cool with that. But I just think if you've agreed to exchange pics then its something that should be followed through.. Maybe a bit of decency.. No?

From what I understand people don't have to return a face pic,just the same as gals don't need to reply to a message....

Just my opinion...

Mabye they weren't interested..."

No one needs to reply...no one actually needs to show up for a meet either from what I'm reading in a number if forums now. The Trust has gone on here and it's why many people now recently saying in their profiles...only meeting with friends now. It's slowly going pear shaped...only way to move forward is be tough and assume others are ignorant...then u may get a nice surprise sometime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get over it

Oh believe me your not worth it. I thought that maybe there was some decency left in people but in this case I was sadly mistaken.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not interested, there's no point sending a face pic.. what gets me is not even a 'thanks but no thanks'

If I don't tickle your fancy, that's absolutely fine.. But it's no call for rudeness

Yes have to agree, at least say 'not interested' if you're not going send a photo..... "

You're a rose in the bog.....and a lovely one by the sound of it.

I've never ever had a no thanksor not interested reply....just delete and ignore. So my policy has then been to block that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would someone send back a face pic to someone their not interested in? Even if their was an agreement.

And why would you want 1 anyway if they not interested"

I'm with you on this one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

Hi Annie, maybe and I'm cool with that. But I just think if you've agreed to exchange pics then its something that should be followed through.. Maybe a bit of decency.. No?

From what I understand people don't have to return a face pic,just the same as gals don't need to reply to a message....

Just my opinion...

Mabye they weren't interested...

No one needs to reply...no one actually needs to show up for a meet either from what I'm reading in a number if forums now. The Trust has gone on here and it's why many people now recently saying in their profiles...only meeting with friends now. It's slowly going pear shaped...only way to move forward is be tough and assume others are ignorant...then u may get a nice surprise sometime... "

Lol that's the way to go!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you want one back? because now that person that you dont know from adam has your pic..... and they didn't have the courtesy to give you theirs.

Doesnt help the old trust issues going around.

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

I only exhange or send to an already trusted fabber a face image that is already up on a public forum. That way if it goes pear shaped with pic hunters I can deny and state that it already a public picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only exhange or send to an already trusted fabber a face image that is already up on a public forum. That way if it goes pear shaped with pic hunters I can deny and state that it already a public picture.

"

Only copped on to this recently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask peoples opinion on exchanging face pics. I normally as a rule don't give out face pics as I believe a face to face coffee meet will certainly determine whether or not things go further. But on occasion I have agreed to exchange pics. What do people think when like what happened to me recently when I sent mine they wouldn't send theirs back.. Love to hear your comments...

I only send face pics by kik....don't have any face pics connecting me to fab....I definitely wouldn't meet anyone without seen what they look like first...lol...don't want to be meeting me sister. "

By the looks of your profile pic you could have already had a fright like that!!lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask peoples opinion on exchanging face pics. I normally as a rule don't give out face pics as I believe a face to face coffee meet will certainly determine whether or not things go further. But on occasion I have agreed to exchange pics. What do people think when like what happened to me recently when I sent mine they wouldn't send theirs back.. Love to hear your comments...

I only send face pics by kik....don't have any face pics connecting me to fab....I definitely wouldn't meet anyone without seen what they look like first...lol...don't want to be meeting me sister. we very rarely meet even for a coffee without swapping face pics the reaction we get from some people when we ask would they like to swap face pics is often priceless "

How so?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"why would you want one back? because now that person that you dont know from adam has your pic..... and they didn't have the courtesy to give you theirs.

Doesnt help the old trust issues going around."

Sure its only a face pic. Once you don't have your willy or your nibbles out in it what's the harm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

But why would you want their face pics if they don't want to meet, seems pretty pointless really, unless of course you just want to collect face pics..."

I think some people have got what Im trying to say on here. I honestly don't care about their face pics, they were ignorant and gratuitous. If I agree to meet someone then I absolutely will unless a real life situation arises that prevents me, id always notify. The same principle applies here. If you've agreed to exchange pics then both parties should follow through.. I know this is a sex site, but does that make it alright to act like an ass?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only exhange or send to an already trusted fabber a face image that is already up on a public forum. That way if it goes pear shaped with pic hunters I can deny and state that it already a public picture.

Only copped on to this recently"

Good idea...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why would you want one back? because now that person that you dont know from adam has your pic..... and they didn't have the courtesy to give you theirs.

Doesnt help the old trust issues going around."

Thankyou, you get it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get over it

Oh believe me your not worth it. I thought that maybe there was some decency left in people but in this case I was sadly mistaken..

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask for face pix what is the point chatting if theres no attraction and tbh waste of time goin on a blind coffee meet .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loads of guys send me face pics...

I don't send my face pic to all of them...

Mabye you just weren't their type!

Hi Annie, maybe and I'm cool with that. But I just think if you've agreed to exchange pics then its something that should be followed through.. Maybe a bit of decency.. No?

From what I understand people don't have to return a face pic,just the same as gals don't need to reply to a message....

Just my opinion...

Mabye they weren't interested...

No one needs to reply...no one actually needs to show up for a meet either from what I'm reading in a number if forums now. The Trust has gone on here and it's why many people now recently saying in their profiles...only meeting with friends now. It's slowly going pear shaped...only way to move forward is be tough and assume others are ignorant...then u may get a nice surprise sometime... "

Recently had one of those nice surprise's, well worth the wait!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always ask for face pix what is the point chatting if theres no attraction and tbh waste of time goin on a blind coffee meet ."

Can I ask you if you've agreed to exchange face pics, the other person has sent theirs and there's no attraction for you would you still send yours as a sign of politeness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no i will send it if the guy is verified .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's impolite to not send a face pic back but at least say a 'sorry, not interested' message if that person doesn't do it for you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

But why would you want their face pics if they don't want to meet, seems pretty pointless really, unless of course you just want to collect face pics...

I think some people have got what Im trying to say on here. I honestly don't care about their face pics, they were ignorant and gratuitous. If I agree to meet someone then I absolutely will unless a real life situation arises that prevents me, id always notify. The same principle applies here. If you've agreed to exchange pics then both parties should follow through.. I know this is a sex site, but does that make it alright to act like an ass?"
jaysus they obviously didn't fancy ya, couples and women can sometimes be protective of their pics, people often steal them and set up fake profiles, they should have told you that you weren't for them, but calling them asses for not sending you a pic is a wee bit over the top...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

But why would you want their face pics if they don't want to meet, seems pretty pointless really, unless of course you just want to collect face pics...

I think some people have got what Im trying to say on here. I honestly don't care about their face pics, they were ignorant and gratuitous. If I agree to meet someone then I absolutely will unless a real life situation arises that prevents me, id always notify. The same principle applies here. If you've agreed to exchange pics then both parties should follow through.. I know this is a sex site, but does that make it alright to act like an ass? jaysus they obviously didn't fancy ya, couples and women can sometimes be protective of their pics, people often steal them and set up fake profiles, they should have told you that you weren't for them, but calling them asses for not sending you a pic is a wee bit over the top..."

You didn't read the messages and are not privy to all..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and no i will send it if the guy is verified . "

That's cool with me girl.. At least there's a decent soul in you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but there's no way in hell is meet someone without seeing a pic first.. And if someone's not attractive to you why meet them? I'm not just going turn up not knowing who I'm meeting

Not having a physical attraction is fine, I'm cool with that. But if an agreement has been made to exchange pics then shouldn't that be fulfilled? Its about trust. If you say your going to meet someone if you don't turn up is there not a trust been broken? Same thing applies here..

But why would you want their face pics if they don't want to meet, seems pretty pointless really, unless of course you just want to collect face pics...

I think some people have got what Im trying to say on here. I honestly don't care about their face pics, they were ignorant and gratuitous. If I agree to meet someone then I absolutely will unless a real life situation arises that prevents me, id always notify. The same principle applies here. If you've agreed to exchange pics then both parties should follow through.. I know this is a sex site, but does that make it alright to act like an ass? jaysus they obviously didn't fancy ya, couples and women can sometimes be protective of their pics, people often steal them and set up fake profiles, they should have told you that you weren't for them, but calling them asses for not sending you a pic is a wee bit over the top...

You didn't read the messages and are not privy to all.. "

I'm only forming an opinion in what you have told, which is what you asked for...

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray

thank you!

my point exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thank you!

my point exactly "

Which is!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing there face first.. I need to be attracted to them... Not everyone is everyone's type... Plus I make them send me theirs first.. Some mite find this rude but I always send mine back.. I gave it in my profile aswel so if they do t want to then they shouldn't bother writing.

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By *axxyMaLeMan
over a year ago

Bray


"thank you!

my point exactly

Which is!!? "

I meant to quote bustyblonde's post but didn't get it right it seems...here it goes:

"I always ask for face pix what is the point chatting if theres no attraction and tbh waste of time goin on a blind coffee meet"

.... My point exactly

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

So I'm alone in enjoying the surprise of finding out what they look like on a meet...?

The few face pictures I've been sent rarely look like the person anyway. ....

Almost as much use as the age box...

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"So I'm alone in enjoying the surprise of finding out what they look like on a meet...?

The few face pictures I've been sent rarely look like the person anyway. ....

Almost as much use as the age box... "

Ollie(Apples has requested I sign my posts from now on......yeah, like she's the voice of tact & reason...lol)

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I rarely have to send face pics these days I think everyone has seen my face at this stage

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"I rarely have to send face pics these days I think everyone has seen my face at this stage "

Just your face Laid?

Ollie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely have to send face pics these days I think everyone has seen my face at this stage "

I've never seen your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely have to send face pics these days I think everyone has seen my face at this stage

I've never seen your face "

To answer the OP, I think if someone asks to see a face pic, they should be prepared to send one first. If two parties agree to swap face pics, then both parties should send them. If someone sends an unasked for face pic, there is no need for the receiver to return one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely have to send face pics these days I think everyone has seen my face at this stage

I've never seen your face

To answer the OP, I think if someone asks to see a face pic, they should be prepared to send one first. If two parties agree to swap face pics, then both parties should send them. If someone sends an unasked for face pic, there is no need for the receiver to return one. "

You've hit the nail on the head there, it's what I believe should be the case too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely have to send face pics these days I think everyone has seen my face at this stage

I've never seen your face

To answer the OP, I think if someone asks to see a face pic, they should be prepared to send one first. If two parties agree to swap face pics, then both parties should send them. If someone sends an unasked for face pic, there is no need for the receiver to return one. "

I totally agree

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis

yes happened to usswaped face pic and people dont send 1 back and delete ther page.also had our face pic screen shot and shown to people in our area.so we are site supporters now,and if we send one it is deleted straite away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was recently asked to send through face pics n so we did but then they didnt return pics so wasnt a happy bunny thought we wer chatting to nice cple but then they just said no sorry not for us which is fine,but dnt ask for face pics if u aint gonny return urs so god knows who we sent our faces to lol ,u live n learn eh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg shocking behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexybitch here we don't send face pics don't look for them either ,, no point but we do look for contact number chat to them on phone as you get an idea of the way the person is meet up in public place if person doesn't like the look of us they don't have to stay it's their choice if they do let the fun begins ... Then you know where you stand we ain't into waisting anyone's times like we don't want them to waiste our time and it gets rid of the messer a and fakes ,, cause if they are fake they won't give out their number and be caught

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