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By *ehindblueeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

sandyford

Hi guys and girls,

A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!

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By *ne of manyMan
over a year ago

east Galway


"Hi guys and girls,

A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little reply?

How about no reply means no interest?

Its pretty simple.

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Hey man, it's not bad manners at all, she owes you nothing, that includes a reply to your message, no matter how sweet and lovely it was.

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By *ehindblueeyes OP   Man
over a year ago

sandyford

That's your opinion chief and never said I was owed ...but it's nice to be nice it's called conversation..that's the problem here if we didn't write to the lovely ladies you would be reading about it ...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"That's your opinion chief and never said I was owed ...but it's nice to be nice it's called conversation..that's the problem here if we didn't write to the lovely ladies you would be reading about it ..."

I get ur point but from previous experience once a lady replied with a no thanks it can lead to abusive msgs so a no reply no interest is the best way to go

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"That's your opinion chief and never said I was owed ...but it's nice to be nice it's called conversation..that's the problem here if we didn't write to the lovely ladies you would be reading about it ..."

You'll soon learn there's no point in wasting time sending nice messages!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's just the imbalance of this site, move on, that's just life,

oh, if the shoe was on other foot, what would it be like on here, haha

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"it's just the imbalance of this site, move on, that's just life,

oh, if the shoe was on other foot, what would it be like on here, haha"

Exactly..things are what they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I get all those rude emails too.. women just sending pics of Boobs! I'm like I got a brain and feelings

Just can't reply to them all so just don't reply to the ones I'm not interested in. Tough but fair.... I'm only human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys and girls,

A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"

Ok we shall it this way. Most women and couples have mails in the 100s on here. Do you think that most have the time to reply to all of them? And some replies to mails no matter how polite end up getting abuse in return. Sorry but people here have lives to get on with. If you don't get a reply just move on. Dwelling on it will get you no where. Just our two cents

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I reply with a no thanks I usually get

Why not

Surely we should chat first

What's your type so

Sometimes easier to not reply tbh

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"If I reply with a no thanks I usually get

Why not

Surely we should chat first

What's your type so

Sometimes easier to not reply tbh "

and understandable too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I get all those rude emails too.. women just sending pics of Boobs! I'm like I got a brain and feelings

Just can't reply to them all so just don't reply to the ones I'm not interested in. Tough but fair.... I'm only human "

Kaizer is the exact same, treated like a piece of beautiful meat!

"Wanna Eff?"

"How many inches?"

"Here is my fanjita!"

It's not easy at times, mail after mail, can't reply to them all and if you try be polite they see it as an invite to send rude and lewd messages!

Just gotta bear with it and be tolerant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would need a secretary to reply to all mail and when you do all you get is why not followed by abuse

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"You would need a secretary to reply to all mail and when you do all you get is why not followed by abuse"

and females/couples get abused while the CAUSE is guys sending idiotic messages and/or not taking No for an answer!!

The question should be "What causes females/couples not to reply?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you send a mail doesn't mean we have to reply. No reply means no thanks. The same way if I message someone and they don't reply I take it as a no thanks. They don't owe me anything. I've had to block people when I've replied and said no thanks and got abuse in response. It's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys and girls,

A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"

...."no one knows what it's like

To be The Batman

To be the sad man

Behind blue eyes"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manner cost nothing and should be used at ever possible moment on here

Come on folks treat others the way you de like to be treated - don't think that's to much to ask for is it ?

respectfully

Honestly

Courteously to name a few points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was honest.. would just say they not in my league, ugly or out of shape

Is that better than saying nothing

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Hi guys and girls,

A little rant ...There are a lot of women giving out and rightly to about abusive messages they get and it's terrible, but there are genuine men here that take the time write and are respectful towards the fairer sex...A little reply is all it takes I know you get tons of mail ladies not saying reply straight away but manners cost nothing...and for all the genuine men keep faith!!"
. If someone has no interest in a message what would be the point of replying . The site rules state that no reply means no interest . Why would anyone want to receive replies with rejection messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I reply with a no thanks I usually get

Why not

Surely we should chat first

What's your type so

Sometimes easier to not reply tbh "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm used to not getting replies, I'm used to mails not getting read, I'm used to being told ill meet you but nothing coming of it....

.

.but...... I MEET ppl who reply, read mails and are as enthusiastic about arranging meets as me......simples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was honest.. would just say they not in my league, ugly or out of shape

Is that better than saying nothing "

Manners would dictate a diplomatic no thank you. Nicer than your fat or ugly!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem replying to anyone on fab who takes the time to read all our profile, it will always get a mannerly response either way, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the manners camp...but probably a hypocrit at times too...sometimes I don't reply if not interested sometimes I do

I prefer to knows it's a no go vs. maybe my message wasn't read or maybe the timing wasn't good

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh

plenty of views on this topic, and i fully understand that the ladies and couples get tons of mail, and it most be difficult to reply to all..........me i will still send good mannered messages, and hope for the same in reply, but wont hold it against anyone who does not reply

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

No reply means not interested.

But to be fair to most guys,I joined here as a cpl years ago and she always replied to guys and 99.9 percent of guys said no prob and a lot sent a sweet thanks for replying anyway msg. Very rarely got abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No reply means not interested.

But to be fair to most guys,I joined here as a cpl years ago and she always replied to guys and 99.9 percent of guys said no prob and a lot sent a sweet thanks for replying anyway msg. Very rarely got abuse"

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

I try to reply to all messages and I'm never rude.

If the messages are derogatory I just ignore them.

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By *omtom500Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I actually prefere not to get a reply at leasts that way if you go to msg the same lady again later on it tells you already have and didn't get a reply so saves ya time lol

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Hey man, it's not bad manners at all, she owes you nothing, that includes a reply to your message, no matter how sweet and lovely it was.

"

Spot on

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

When I started out I tried to reply to all. Was time consuming so decided not to reply to those are like 'hi/how's ur week going etc'. I did also try to reply to the nice ones who altho I knew hadn't read my profile but still made an attempt to send a personal message but found even if I sent a 'thank u but not interested' etc they will still re message me with 'why not' or something similar that they want me to rereply to, so now I'm more ruthless. As other posts say, there's no obligation to reply to any message anyways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what annoys me is men who send unsolicited mails to womens profiles at silly o clock of the night and then get arsey if a woman politely replies but doesnt want to be drawn further into conversation ... ring any bells ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what annoys me is men who send unsolicited mails to womens profiles at silly o clock of the night and then get arsey if a woman politely replies but doesnt want to be drawn further into conversation ... ring any bells ? "

Define silly o clock

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