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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not Kaizers strongest subject in school but this aint the leaving cert

In Fab terms, how important is sexual chemistry?

Would you have a meet where there's no chemistry but it's just a bit of coitus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me its very important no point meeting someone if you have no chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not Kaizers strongest subject in school but this aint the leaving cert

In Fab terms, how important is sexual chemistry?

Would you have a meet where there's no chemistry but it's just a bit of coitus? "

It's very important, sad thing is I have only realised that in the last year or so. Can't believe I shagged the ex for so long with no sexual chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its super important to moi. I think its pointless with no chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not important its everything,why would anyone play if there's no sexual chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry is the Daddy...

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish


"its not important its everything,why would anyone play if there's no sexual chemistry?"

Now that's sorted let's progress to the biology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely important for chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual Chemistry is 100% important to me both here on Fab meets and in any other meets I have outside of Fab community....I would find it impossible just to shag someone for the sake of it because it happened to be offered or available...It has to be FUN!!!! and it cant be fun without Sexual Chemistry..

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Sexual chemistry is very important. For both parties involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are fookers herewho would get up on the crack in a plate yep

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Agree 100% well said has to be same for both or wouldn't work!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's what it's all about really. But there are individuals in the Fab universe that see Chemistry of little importance.

This is puzzling

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

No way would I go any further without sexual chemistry.

It's a definite must on all accounts..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It what makes the world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chemistry = no meet for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry is important.... But so are vaginas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are fookers herewho would get up on the crack in a plate yep "

So true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual Chemistry is a must . If there is none there is nothing.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

What does define sexual chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does define sexual chemistry?"

The spark u feel in your chest when someone catches your attention n makes I tingle xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So important. I (mrs) only ever once had a meet with a guy whose sole purpose was as a tool and though he performed admirably I felt awful afterwards because there was no connection. We observed some guys in clubs in NL and Germany. They pay a fortune to get in and they'll fuck whatever is going because they want their money's worth. No fun though (for the receiver anyway).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So important. I (mrs) only ever once had a meet with a guy whose sole purpose was as a tool and though he performed admirably I felt awful afterwards because there was no connection. We observed some guys in clubs in NL and Germany. They pay a fortune to get in and they'll fuck whatever is going because they want their money's worth. No fun though (for the receiver anyway).

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"What does define sexual chemistry?

The spark u feel in your chest when someone catches your attention n makes I tingle xx"

I'm not sure about the spark in the chest when it comes down to NSA fun, the spark is more happening in the pussy and in the head.

Seriously the word chemistry is thrown around quite a lot when it comes down to meet someone and it's quite a vague expression. I guess it's the mix of personality, physical attraction and sexual interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


". I guess it's the mix of personality, physical attraction and sexual interests."

sum's it up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good sex starts in the brain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good sex starts in the brain. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does define sexual chemistry?

The spark u feel in your chest when someone catches your attention n makes I tingle xx

I'm not sure about the spark in the chest when it comes down to NSA fun, the spark is more happening in the pussy and in the head.

Seriously the word chemistry is thrown around quite a lot when it comes down to meet someone and it's quite a vague expression. I guess it's the mix of personality, physical attraction and sexual interests."

Yeah very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is this thing we call “sexual chemistry”? It’s so elusive, so difficult to define using words.

It’s the unexpected electric shock of sexuality that surges through our bodies when we accidentally brush up against a stranger in a crowded subway car.

It’s the palpable heat that ignites when two bodies ever so suddenly find themselves inexplicably attracted to one another.

It’s when you feel that irrepressible tug, the curious magnetic pull drawing you toward another person with such a ferocious intensity; it feels almost beyond the realm of your own self-control.

It’s the seductive sensation that sensually sweeps itself across our cores when our gaze meets another gaze from across a room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this thing we call “sexual chemistry”? It’s so elusive, so difficult to define using words.

It’s the unexpected electric shock of sexuality that surges through our bodies when we accidentally brush up against a stranger in a crowded subway car.

It’s the palpable heat that ignites when two bodies ever so suddenly find themselves inexplicably attracted to one another.

It’s when you feel that irrepressible tug, the curious magnetic pull drawing you toward another person with such a ferocious intensity; it feels almost beyond the realm of your own self-control.

It’s the seductive sensation that sensually sweeps itself across our cores when our gaze meets another gaze from across a room"

When you see piercing eyes n tingle in soft places

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is this thing we call “sexual chemistry”? It’s so elusive, so difficult to define using words.

It’s the unexpected electric shock of sexuality that surges through our bodies when we accidentally brush up against a stranger in a crowded subway car.

It’s the palpable heat that ignites when two bodies ever so suddenly find themselves inexplicably attracted to one another.

It’s when you feel that irrepressible tug, the curious magnetic pull drawing you toward another person with such a ferocious intensity; it feels almost beyond the realm of your own self-control.

It’s the seductive sensation that sensually sweeps itself across our cores when our gaze meets another gaze from across a room

When you see piercing eyes n tingle in soft places "

Does that happen often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual chemistry is vital for me.

To me it means people being themselved and naturally putting the other person at ease and allowing each other to feel comfortable.

It enables each person to feel at ease and see the other people as who they are and not what their exterior or fab identity portrays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a very interesting topic. For me if you are having meets with couples or singles the chemistry is very very important, but sometimes in group play situation it's about the activity not the person or people at all. I don't really understand it myself tbh ..but hey I'm not a psychologist. Sometimes I love the disconnected feeling you get during group sex maybe because you can let yourself go completely hmmmm sex really is a mysterious thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's everything.

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

All important...but ya never know till you meet you he person in the flesh...texting and chatting is all well and good but face to face is only way to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a very interesting topic. For me if you are having meets with couples or singles the chemistry is very very important, but sometimes in group play situation it's about the activity not the person or people at all. I don't really understand it myself tbh ..but hey I'm not a psychologist. Sometimes I love the disconnected feeling you get during group sex maybe because you can let yourself go completely hmmmm sex really is a mysterious thing!"

I would kind of agree with this, the whoel eroticism of group play is a huge turn on in itself but for one on ones there has to be sexual chemistry.

Now, for me physical attraction, someone I can have a bit of banter with would be the primary factors. A role play scenario or a first time doing smething might provide or add to the chemical reaction but it generally the basics that do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All important...but ya never know till you meet you he person in the flesh...texting and chatting is all well and good but face to face is only way to know!"

True honestly I go for all types of people so you could never say I have a type and it really is about the face to face meet in terms of attraction

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Some people grow on you!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is NSA fun so I'd be a bit worried if the chemistry was as good as you described Kaiser.

Nevertheless some attraction in whatever form is required for one-to-one meets but group play can be such horny fun without that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is NSA fun so I'd be a bit worried if the chemistry was as good as you described Kaiser.

Nevertheless some attraction in whatever form is required for one-to-one meets but group play can be such horny fun without that "

Don't we know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grow on you!!!!"

Post of the day..hahahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is this thing we call “sexual chemistry”? It’s so elusive, so difficult to define using words.

It’s the unexpected electric shock of sexuality that surges through our bodies when we accidentally brush up against a stranger in a crowded subway car.

It’s the palpable heat that ignites when two bodies ever so suddenly find themselves inexplicably attracted to one another.

It’s when you feel that irrepressible tug, the curious magnetic pull drawing you toward another person with such a ferocious intensity; it feels almost beyond the realm of your own self-control.

It’s the seductive sensation that sensually sweeps itself across our cores when our gaze meets another gaze from across a room"

Yeah if i felt this way id definitely start to back away from someone... Beyond the realm of self control is where it comes to the end of the path for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ya don't want Chemistry wouldn't ya be better going to the local hoor house for a Fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is this thing we call “sexual chemistry”? It’s so elusive, so difficult to define using words.

It’s the unexpected electric shock of sexuality that surges through our bodies when we accidentally brush up against a stranger in a crowded subway car.

It’s the palpable heat that ignites when two bodies ever so suddenly find themselves inexplicably attracted to one another.

It’s when you feel that irrepressible tug, the curious magnetic pull drawing you toward another person with such a ferocious intensity; it feels almost beyond the realm of your own self-control.

It’s the seductive sensation that sensually sweeps itself across our cores when our gaze meets another gaze from across a room

Yeah if i felt this way id definitely start to back away from someone... Beyond the realm of self control is where it comes to the end of the path for me "

That's a definition for Sexual Chemistry that Google threw up.

Personally Kaizer is content with a bit of bant and laughing etc

Without chemistry ya might as well stick ur flute in a bowl of porridge just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people grow on you!!!!"

Yep,chemistry is'nt always instant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we all have different definitions of chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If ya don't want Chemistry wouldn't ya be better going to the local hoor house for a Fuck. "

Poetry in motion

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone "

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!?

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!? "

Haha,,I'd bet it happens most Saturday night's

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!? "

Haha,,I'd bet it happens most Saturday night's

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!? "

Haha,,I'd bet it happens most Saturday night's

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!? "

Haha,,I'd bet it happens most Saturday night's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

De ja vu again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kaizer has been experiencing alot of déjà vu recently!

Anyone else feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's chemistry on a Saturday night.

There's incredulity on a Sunday morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kaizer has been experiencing alot of déjà vu recently!

Anyone else feel the same?

"

Check your inbox x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's chemistry on a Saturday night.

There's incredulity on a Sunday morning."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly important especially for us. No chemistry no attraction for us.

Tomcat

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By *itty14Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Some people grow on you!!!!

Yep,chemistry is'nt always instant"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have my brain well fucked before the main event. It has be a fantasy made real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be chemistry, a connection, a spark, a mutual kink.. you name it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There has to be chemistry, a connection, a spark, a mutual kink.. you name it! "

A certain je ne sais quoi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voulez vous coucher avec moi??? Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chemistry is when neither side have to say a word or a nudge or a suggestions it just goes with the flow from start to finish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry starts in the brain for me. No chemistry in the chats, no meet. When you meet the person, sexual chemistry is sensed instantly in a split second. However there's one last step to be completed and that's the kissing...if the kissing is,right, then it's a definite yes as bad kissing is just such a turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry starts in the brain for me. No chemistry in the chats, no meet. When you meet the person, sexual chemistry is sensed instantly in a split second. However there's one last step to be completed and that's the kissing...if the kissing is,right, then it's a definite yes as bad kissing is just such a turn off for me. "

Girl you got it in one

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By *oughandCurvyCouple
over a year ago

galway

Chemistry is hugely important without it the coitus would just be going through the motions for the sake of the other person which to me defeats the purpose of being on fab in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Voulez vous coucher avec moi??? Hehe "

And that means....???

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!? "

Yes. Long story and not proud of it....and definitely will not be repeating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Voulez vous coucher avec moi??? Hehe

And that means....??? "

Kaizer is proficient in all things French

Will you go to bed with me

Heres another:

Jaime beaucoup le petite pois

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!?

Yes. Long story and not proud of it....and definitely will not be repeating"

Haha

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"Definitely has to be a physical attraction for me to have sex with someone

Has anyone ever had sex with someone they not attracted to?!?

Yes. Long story and not proud of it....and definitely will not be repeating

Haha "

I wish it was a haha story

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville

Definitely has to be chemistry ....couldn't play with someone in not attracted to both physically and mentally

Mrs S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the piercing eyes are required and he gets me every time

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over a year ago

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