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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford

... Are these good things to have on a sex site ? Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in that order,lol

xx

eve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well not sure if one of them topic is good for here maybe a std clinic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Are these good things to have on a sex site ? Discuss "

Erm no. Or in any walk of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The concept of ethical behaviour seems a little challenging to some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call the Fab Police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhhh God!!!!!!

Don't start me on this!!!

What do you think my status is about?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say trust your instincts they are more then often right, I don't think the site will ever be free of those things,

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"... Are these good things to have on a sex site ? Discuss "

Well a site, any site, that allows all and sundry to join without even having to send in a photo to admin for verification will always be subject to abuse!!

Sites would make more even if they only charged €5 a year to join! Just commercial sense, plus a lot less administering to be done.

Certainly cut down on abuses.... not eliminate them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab wouldnt be Fab without the nut cases ye do get tired of it tho it takes the fun away from the place.But when people do this there obviously unstable.

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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE ELUSIVE........AND HOT!!!

I am staying the hell a way from this one.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Nutcases on fab really I'm shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even walter mitty types all sorts sure

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico Gran Canaria

Well we dont want diseases so go to your clinic and get tested.

Plenty of fake profiles on here.

I am sure none of us lie on our profiles.

Lots of pics here stolen from other fabbers as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have these things with such a large number of people involved plus the secret nature of fab, thing at sum point we all have a bad experience, hopefully tho it's not disease x

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Well not sure if one of them topic is good for here maybe a std clinic! "

Not sure any are good ! Lol but all stem from lies so maybe that should have been first

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"... Are these good things to have on a sex site ? Discuss

Erm no. Or in any walk of life. "

Well said Bref

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"The concept of ethical behaviour seems a little challenging to some"

Think the challenge of behaviour , period , is to some !

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"... Are these good things to have on a sex site ? Discuss

Well a site, any site, that allows all and sundry to join without even having to send in a photo to admin for verification will always be subject to abuse!!

Sites would make more even if they only charged €5 a year to join! Just commercial sense, plus a lot less administering to be done.

Certainly cut down on abuses.... not eliminate them!"

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Fab wouldnt be Fab without the nut cases ye do get tired of it tho it takes the fun away from the place.But when people do this there obviously unstable."

But what if the nut cases aren't that easy to spot? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

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OMG I am soooo with you on this one hun xxx

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I am staying the hell a way from this one. "

Okay lol

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Nutcases on fab really I'm shocked "

Took me awhile to read that post had to remove the sarcasm first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

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Catch 22 hun

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Well we dont want diseases so go to your clinic and get tested.

Plenty of fake profiles on here.

I am sure none of us lie on our profiles.

Lots of pics here stolen from other fabbers as well."

Definitely....

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Always have these things with such a large number of people involved plus the secret nature of fab, thing at sum point we all have a bad experience, hopefully tho it's not disease x"

Specially when so many diseases are asymptomatic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

OMG I am soooo with you on this one hun xxx"

All of this. It is so easy to pick people up the wrong way in text only format. If someone is defensive then everything will seem against them.

Regarding topic on hand though less of those things everywhere would be Fab.

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

"

Exactly! Shoot the messenger kind of thing ....

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

Catch 22 hun "

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

OMG I am soooo with you on this one hun xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab wouldnt be Fab without the nut cases ye do get tired of it tho it takes the fun away from the place.But when people do this there obviously unstable.

But what if the nut cases aren't that easy to spot? lol "

Very true!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab wouldnt be Fab without the nut cases ye do get tired of it tho it takes the fun away from the place.But when people do this there obviously unstable.

But what if the nut cases aren't that easy to spot? lol

Very true!!!"

Its definitely harder when most people think the sun shines out their arse lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab wouldnt be Fab without the nut cases ye do get tired of it tho it takes the fun away from the place.But when people do this there obviously unstable.

But what if the nut cases aren't that easy to spot? lol

Very true!!!

Its definitely harder when most people think the sun shines out their arse lol ..."

Ahh but ya know what they say "you need an excellent memory to be a good liar"

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


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Ahh but ya know what they say "you need an excellent memory to be a good liar""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we might of completely missed something.

Anyways to answer the question, all of the above is what we call drama. Best off to avoid getting involved. We do this and we enjoy fab all the more for it

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Fab is none of these things to me. Touch wood on the disease part.

I haven't a clue what this thread is about nor do I want to

Its only there if you're there to receive it

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Fab is none of these things to me. Touch wood on the disease part.

I haven't a clue what this thread is about nor do I want to

Its only there if you're there to receive it"

But yet you commented ? And considering in our everyday lives we come across lies , fakeness etc you must be one of the lucky people on fab who has never been lied to or sucked in by a fake profile or maybe you just don't realise ...

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Think we might of completely missed something.

Anyways to answer the question, all of the above is what we call drama. Best off to avoid getting involved. We do this and we enjoy fab all the more for it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

OMG I am soooo with you on this one hun xxx"

Ahhhhhh....Thanks hunny xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

Catch 22 hun "

Live and learn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much to discuss, they're all negatives...sorry for your pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

Exactly! Shoot the messenger kind of thing ...."

Totally...

And when that person tries to DESTROY single GUYS not just one guy...3guys character...some people never learn!!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't really get this thread...but it doesn't sound good.

However I hope you're ok _in and senses. Big hug and take care! x

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I don't really get this thread...but it doesn't sound good.

However I hope you're ok _in and senses. Big hug and take care! x"

Seconded!! Obviously something has happened, NOT ASKING, but as you know you have a lot of support here!!

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I don't really get this thread...but it doesn't sound good.

However I hope you're ok _in and senses. Big hug and take care! x

Seconded!! Obviously something has happened, NOT ASKING, but as you know you have a lot of support here!!"

Might have something to do with her former party planner partner using her profile without permission? or so she said on a thread the other day.....

...or maybe this thread isn't related to that at all, but it's an obvious choice.

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Oh the drama.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Oh the drama. "

there's more "U OK HUN?" here than there is on facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... Are these good things to have on a sex site ? Discuss "

First three are part and parcel of any swing site, you learn to look after yourself and avoid the drama.

Theft?

A crime and should be reported to admin and the authorities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with all things in life , do your due dilligance before engaging people in this scene . Watch out for red flags and dont be afraid to ask questions , there is little point in crying over spilt milk and creating innuendo filled threads saying something whilst also saying nothing , I mean what the fucking point ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with all things in life , do your due dilligance before engaging people in this scene . Watch out for red flags and dont be afraid to ask questions , there is little point in crying over spilt milk and creating innuendo filled threads saying something whilst also saying nothing , I mean what the fucking point ? "

Look out for number one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be your own boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is that even a question? of course it's not, not here, not anywhere.. be yo'self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab wouldnt be Fab without the nut cases ye do get tired of it tho it takes the fun away from the place.But when people do this there obviously unstable.

But what if the nut cases aren't that easy to spot? lol

Very true!!!

Its definitely harder when most people think the sun shines out their arse lol ...

Ahh but ya know what they say "you need an excellent memory to be a good liar""

That's so true!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've still got my socks on!!!

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

Someone must be living the dream.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with all things in life , do your due dilligance before engaging people in this scene . Watch out for red flags and dont be afraid to ask questions , there is little point in crying over spilt milk and creating innuendo filled threads saying something whilst also saying nothing , I mean what the fucking point ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do people put posts up then hide their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the Oscar for best drama goes to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people put posts up then hide their profile "

Anyone can post,most of us knows the poster,and lots of people post with hidden profiles!

Not a crime...

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"And the Oscar for best drama goes to...."

Sorry but is this C or A ? Cos if we are giving out Oscars you should get it for best supporting performance after the long, sincere message you sent to me the other day . I can repost it here if you can't remember?

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"As with all things in life , do your due dilligance before engaging people in this scene . Watch out for red flags and dont be afraid to ask questions , there is little point in crying over spilt milk and creating innuendo filled threads saying something whilst also saying nothing , I mean what the fucking point ? "

Due diligence - check

Ask questions - check

No innuendo - check

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"why do people put posts up then hide their profile

Anyone can post,most of us knows the poster,and lots of people post with hidden profiles!

Not a crime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people put posts up then hide their profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posting private correspondence in forums is against site rules.

And yes, that mail was indeed sincere, however since mailing it some things have changed.

We won't be attending any of the BC Parties. Our opinion there has not differed. Your posts yesterday helped us come to that decision.

It's totally fine to make folks aware that you are no longer part of an organising duo. It's totally fine to state why also, should it be in the best interests of members who, having not seen your posts, were to attend one or more of your organised parties.

Your posts stated yesterday that you could no longer stand by and see how your counterpart was treating members, and of the practices he employs.

Today you start a thread about lies, diseases & stealing within this community. the innuendo in this latest thread jumps out at everyone that read yesterday's posts.

It seems, to me at least, that you are insinuating in a very vague way that your counterpart in BC Parties has

1) stolen from you in some capacity

2) is using a fake profile

3) has lied to you

4) transmitted some kind of disease to you

But instead of maybe making the community aware of such dangers (should they be real), you prefer to start a thread asking others if these things are good things to have on a sex site, when it's abundantly clear that they are not.

Hence the Oscar comment. If you've got something to say about unsafe sexual practices carried out by your counterpart then please, by all means say it. If not, then why post what you posted, asking questions that you clearly know the answer to?

Therein lies the drama...

Your a very astute lady Sinead, it's self evident. If you feel the need to warn people of things that may be unsafe to them then do just that. I would feel obliged to inform other members, if I were to become aware of any danger towards them either perceived or real.

If there's no safety issues, then maybe leave off on the innuendos. Less drama = more fun.

Peace and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I can't understand is when people get told about these people and choose to ignore it and call you a shit stirrer or bully because you pulled them up on it!!

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Feel free to PM me any confirmed fakes or general dodgy b@$+@Rds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am wondering why would anyone feel the need to post this kind of thread .. what is the actual message here ... can someone please clarify , I did ask , but was told to go fuck myself .

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Posting private correspondence in forums is against site rules.

And yes, that mail was indeed sincere, however since mailing it some things have changed.

We won't be attending any of the BC Parties. Our opinion there has not differed. Your posts yesterday helped us come to that decision.

It's totally fine to make folks aware that you are no longer part of an organising duo. It's totally fine to state why also, should it be in the best interests of members who, having not seen your posts, were to attend one or more of your organised parties.

Your posts stated yesterday that you could no longer stand by and see how your counterpart was treating members, and of the practices he employs.

Today you start a thread about lies, diseases & stealing within this community. the innuendo in this latest thread jumps out at everyone that read yesterday's posts.

It seems, to me at least, that you are insinuating in a very vague way that your counterpart in BC Parties has

1) stolen from you in some capacity

2) is using a fake profile

3) has lied to you

4) transmitted some kind of disease to you

But instead of maybe making the community aware of such dangers (should they be real), you prefer to start a thread asking others if these things are good things to have on a sex site, when it's abundantly clear that they are not.

Hence the Oscar comment. If you've got something to say about unsafe sexual practices carried out by your counterpart then please, by all means say it. If not, then why post what you posted, asking questions that you clearly know the answer to?

Therein lies the drama...

Your a very astute lady Sinead, it's self evident. If you feel the need to warn people of things that may be unsafe to them then do just that. I would feel obliged to inform other members, if I were to become aware of any danger towards them either perceived or real.

If there's no safety issues, then maybe leave off on the innuendos. Less drama = more fun.

Peace and love

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Posting private comments is against the rules but if we are talking rules and hypothetically someone wanted to say something about another member then nothing can be said directly about anyone in the forums/status etc .

I am very astute and therein lies my problem...because I have to wonder why you would feel that a show of support for me was to be posted privately to me but yet a sarcastic comment concerning my post gets posted on a public forum ?

And IF I was insinuating anything could it not be that the Fab community was

1. Being lied to

2. Being taken in by fake profiles

3. Other people leaving themselves open to theft

4. Other people leaving themselves open to disease

So if a person did feel obliged to warn other members because of rules could not do so

But hey like you said ....peace and love

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I am wondering why would anyone feel the need to post this kind of thread .. what is the actual message here ... can someone please clarify , I did ask , but was told to go fuck myself . "

Unfortunately as stated early private correspondence cannot be posted here as it is against site rules so you are free to give any version of what I wrote back to you to anyone who reads your post regardless of the truth of the matter .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people put posts up then hide their profile

Anyone can post,most of us knows the poster,and lots of people post with hidden profiles!

Not a crime...

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Sinead can you pm me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been warning posts about all these matters before and threads but like any other forum post if it doesn't actually effect a person they're not gonna want to know.... Sadly that's the way fab is it's just for fun not for Drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go by instinct and am very careful about who we meet play and party with and I would advise all newbies to think carefully too! We have attended parties where we immediately felt uneasy. Do not forget with technology now you could be filmed or worse. The party host is the number one thing to consider in our opinion.

We hate drama too ... Except in the bedroom

Sam

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman
over a year ago

Palookaville


"I always go by instinct and am very careful about who we meet play and party with and I would advise all newbies to think carefully too! We have attended parties where we immediately felt uneasy. Do not forget with technology now you could be filmed or worse. The party host is the number one thing to consider in our opinion.

We hate drama too ... Except in the bedroom

Sam "

Ditto

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I always go by instinct and am very careful about who we meet play and party with and I would advise all newbies to think carefully too! We have attended parties where we immediately felt uneasy. Do not forget with technology now you could be filmed or worse. The party host is the number one thing to consider in our opinion.

We hate drama too ... Except in the bedroom

Sam "

I definitely agree with you that the host is the most important thing to

consider - as you are trusting them with your own personal security , privacy and even your personal property while at the party location . Also trusting them that only verified members of Fab attend parties etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am wondering why would anyone feel the need to post this kind of thread .. what is the actual message here ... can someone please clarify , I did ask , but was told to go fuck myself .

Unfortunately as stated early private correspondence cannot be posted here as it is against site rules so you are free to give any version of what I wrote back to you to anyone who reads your post regardless of the truth of the matter . "

err the truth of the matter is that you told me to go fuck myself , just to clarify .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i dont get is is she talking abt her own parties she held wit her partner and if so why drop bits and pieces of what was happening . Sum serious issues she has brought to the attention of the fourm and if that worrued why not contact the ppl u invited if that worried .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always go by instinct and am very careful about who we meet play and party with and I would advise all newbies to think carefully too! We have attended parties where we immediately felt uneasy. Do not forget with technology now you could be filmed or worse. The party host is the number one thing to consider in our opinion.

We hate drama too ... Except in the bedroom

Sam

I definitely agree with you that the host is the most important thing to

consider - as you are trusting them with your own personal security , privacy and even your personal property while at the party location . Also trusting them that only verified members of Fab attend parties etc "

But weren't you joint hosting with him?

I think there are very serious issues you have raised and if they happened at parties you joint hosted you should be messaging your guests direct. I have never been your guest ...just to clarify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!"

Everyone should be aware of all times of the risk of stds and get regularly tested for the sake of their own health. You have no idea what anyone could be carrying and condoms do NOT offer full protection anyway. Quite simply, the more people you play with - regardless of condom use - the higher your risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

Everyone should be aware of all times of the risk of stds and get regularly tested for the sake of their own health. You have no idea what anyone could be carrying and condoms do NOT offer full protection anyway. Quite simply, the more people you play with - regardless of condom use - the higher your risk."

Your right with what you said. But if you are a host for parties and you know something like that it's your responsibility to inform guests that have attended rather than slapping a word on a thread, hiding your profile and not giving a straight answer UNLESS it's just up for a bit of fun, beginning to think it was the way it was written

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over a year ago

I'm also not sure what the thread is about.

I agree if you were a co-host, you should probably speak to your guests.

I have been to a few of the parties you co-hosted with blackcannadian as a couple, and I am still looking forward to more to end the year in style. I'm excited about the upcoming Belfast party

I have known security and privacy to be good at blackcannadian parties, and I know you guys provide condoms(even though I prefer bringing my own durex brand, always. like I say, not sure what the thread is really about. it's not fab if it is stressful and people get told to go fuck themselves lol, on a very light note.

we hope problems (If any) can be sorted out at administrative level and we can all have responsible fun as adults!!

Happy days happy fabbers. Let's enjoy stress free, No Strings Attached Safe Fun!!

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I am wondering why would anyone feel the need to post this kind of thread .. what is the actual message here ... can someone please clarify , I did ask , but was told to go fuck myself .

Unfortunately as stated early private correspondence cannot be posted here as it is against site rules so you are free to give any version of what I wrote back to you to anyone who reads your post regardless of the truth of the matter .

err the truth of the matter is that you told me to go fuck myself , just to clarify . "

Just because you keep repeating the same lie it doesn't make it true , you do know that don't you ?

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over a year ago


"I am wondering why would anyone feel the need to post this kind of thread .. what is the actual message here ... can someone please clarify , I did ask , but was told to go fuck myself .

Unfortunately as stated early private correspondence cannot be posted here as it is against site rules so you are free to give any version of what I wrote back to you to anyone who reads your post regardless of the truth of the matter .

err the truth of the matter is that you told me to go fuck myself , just to clarify .

Just because you keep repeating the same lie it doesn't make it true , you do know that don't you ? "

i politely mailed you and asked you to clarify things , you chose not to and thats your perogative . I dont know you , and have not attended the parties you co hosted , but I do know several people who have , you will aprreciate , in the interest of clarification , I simply asked you why your no longer hosting , you werent forthcoming with an answer , so why post this thread at all ....unless it is to create drama .

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By *nita BlackmanWoman
over a year ago

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Me to unsure what's going on as I have been to blackcanadians parties along with you and condom s always in rooms if people dont use its down to them .also we were all having a great time up till now it seems a pity it has come to this ...as afar as I aware nothing had ever gone missing at any of blackcanadianparty before .and am sure Leo dealt with it ..was all ment to be good clean fun .lets get back to having fun again and I look forward to more of the parties in the future xx

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!"

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji

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over a year ago


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji "

If you actually read the line properly above your response I said with an emoji AFTER IT. And your response was very similar to "I will think about it" with an emoji after it very similar to the green one.

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji

If you actually read the line properly above your response I said with an emoji AFTER IT. And your response was very similar to "I will think about it" with an emoji after it very similar to the green one.

"

....very similar to the green one ??? Are you kidding me ???

well it is either the smiley face or the green one ....which, as well you know, there is a big difference between both and the message they convey so would you like to clarify which was used ? I'm sure you can discern the difference between

and

And to clarify my position I have NEVER mentioned parties , my question related to Fab IN GENERAL . People took from it what they wanted .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so basically a thread saying something about nothing but hinting at something ,while saying nothing and hiding behind being general , calling people liars and insisting theres a huge difference between a smile and a grin . Congrats at making yourself look like an untrustable , unreliable , blame passer on party organiser , the award for dumbest thread ever goes to you .

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"so basically a thread saying something about nothing but hinting at something ,while saying nothing and hiding behind being general , calling people liars and insisting theres a huge difference between a smile and a grin . Congrats at making yourself look like an untrustable , unreliable , blame passer on party organiser , the award for dumbest thread ever goes to you . "

Coming from you I actually take that as a compliment

But yet again I have to clarify that I have never called anyone a liar in connection to this thread and if you can state there are no lies on Fab I admire your naivety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thread is ridiculous!!!!!!!!!

People at parties are responsible for their own sexual health, who they meet be it fakes or honest members.

Theft however is a very serious matter and the onus is on the hosts to report the matter.

By the way OP, as an onlooker it is quute clear that this thread was opened to highlight problems at one of yoyr events.

Stop beating around the bush !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh I think we all know who the naieve one here is ...and its not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji

If you actually read the line properly above your response I said with an emoji AFTER IT. And your response was very similar to "I will think about it" with an emoji after it very similar to the green one.

....very similar to the green one ??? Are you kidding me ???

well it is either the smiley face or the green one ....which, as well you know, there is a big difference between both and the message they convey so would you like to clarify which was used ? I'm sure you can discern the difference between

and

And to clarify my position I have NEVER mentioned parties , my question related to Fab IN GENERAL . People took from it what they wanted . "

Oh get a grip would ya. You were asked in private mail. You could have said it was a general question and wasnt anything to do about anyone instead all the crap with being elusive in answering. You were asked because people were worried.

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I am wondering why would anyone feel the need to post this kind of thread .. what is the actual message here ... can someone please clarify , I did ask , but was told to go fuck myself .

Unfortunately as stated early private correspondence cannot be posted here as it is against site rules so you are free to give any version of what I wrote back to you to anyone who reads your post regardless of the truth of the matter .

err the truth of the matter is that you told me to go fuck myself , just to clarify .

Just because you keep repeating the same lie it doesn't make it true , you do know that don't you ?

i politely mailed you and asked you to clarify things , you chose not to and thats your perogative . I dont know you , and have not attended the parties you co hosted , but I do know several people who have , you will aprreciate , in the interest of clarification , I simply asked you why your no longer hosting , you werent forthcoming with an answer , so why post this thread at all ....unless it is to create drama . "

So let me see have I this right .... You before yesterday never contacted me in any way shape or form , you never came to a party that had any connection to me and when you send me a message asking me my personal reasons for no longer hosting parties with black Canadian you are surprised when I don't answer you , politely telling you that and quoting a phrase you used in a post in the forum BEFORE you contacted me ...

Is that a precise summary ?

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji

If you actually read the line properly above your response I said with an emoji AFTER IT. And your response was very similar to "I will think about it" with an emoji after it very similar to the green one.

....very similar to the green one ??? Are you kidding me ???

well it is either the smiley face or the green one ....which, as well you know, there is a big difference between both and the message they convey so would you like to clarify which was used ? I'm sure you can discern the difference between

and

And to clarify my position I have NEVER mentioned parties , my question related to Fab IN GENERAL . People took from it what they wanted .

Oh get a grip would ya. You were asked in private mail. You could have said it was a general question and wasnt anything to do about anyone instead all the crap with being elusive in answering. You were asked because people were worried. "

If people use protection and get regularly checked why would you need to ask even ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you ACTUALLY think no one who reads the forums and attends parties on this scene would enquire what exactly was going on , on the back of this thread?

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

the sooner this thread fills up the better its been a car crash thread since it started. the first post was was attention grabbing and vague at the same time of course people are going to ask questions especially about theft and sexual health. so op if you had of been more to the point in the first post there wouldn't have been such a kurffulle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the sooner this thread fills up the better its been a car crash thread since it started. the first post was was attention grabbing and vague at the same time of course people are going to ask questions especially about theft and sexual health. so op if you had of been more to the point in the first post there wouldn't have been such a kurffulle "

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"the sooner this thread fills up the better its been a car crash thread since it started. the first post was was attention grabbing and vague at the same time of course people are going to ask questions especially about theft and sexual health. so op if you had of been more to the point in the first post there wouldn't have been such a kurffulle "

I was to the point - I asked about the site ? can anyone say that all the things I mentioned aren't on Fab ? So as I have stated earlier I cannot take responsibility for anyone else and their percepetions . if you look back at the first few posts ppl took it for what it was ....a general question on ppl's thoughts about the problems on the site

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

well the things mentioned in the first post are not really wanted on any site so i dont know what there was to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a funny feeling the thread served the purpose that was intended by the OP

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I've a funny feeling the thread served the purpose that was intended by the OP "

That is the beauty of forums , and indeed the type of society we live in , you are more than entitled to your " funny feeling " and to think there was a purpose to my post other than just posting a subject relavent to Fab and the swinging lifestyle and that you think the purpose that I wanted served was served .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab should introduce a little fee to keep fake's away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a funny feeling the thread served the purpose that was intended by the OP

That is the beauty of forums , and indeed the type of society we live in , you are more than entitled to your " funny feeling " and to think there was a purpose to my post other than just posting a subject relavent to Fab and the swinging lifestyle and that you think the purpose that I wanted served was served ."

Exactly and if you want to twist words you can but I meant exactly as I've written

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I've a funny feeling the thread served the purpose that was intended by the OP

That is the beauty of forums , and indeed the type of society we live in , you are more than entitled to your " funny feeling " and to think there was a purpose to my post other than just posting a subject relavent to Fab and the swinging lifestyle and that you think the purpose that I wanted served was served .

Exactly and if you want to twist words you can but I meant exactly as I've written "

Did I twist the words ??

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"well the things mentioned in the first post are not really wanted on any site so i dont know what there was to discuss "

Maybe what could be done about them ?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I think fab should introduce a little fee to keep fake's away"

indeed, and suffers as a result of not having one! All and sundry can join, post what they want and leave... much to the detriment of genuine people.

Plus makes more commercial sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji

If you actually read the line properly above your response I said with an emoji AFTER IT. And your response was very similar to "I will think about it" with an emoji after it very similar to the green one.

....very similar to the green one ??? Are you kidding me ???

well it is either the smiley face or the green one ....which, as well you know, there is a big difference between both and the message they convey so would you like to clarify which was used ? I'm sure you can discern the difference between

and

And to clarify my position I have NEVER mentioned parties , my question related to Fab IN GENERAL . People took from it what they wanted .

Oh get a grip would ya. You were asked in private mail. You could have said it was a general question and wasnt anything to do about anyone instead all the crap with being elusive in answering. You were asked because people were worried.

If people use protection and get regularly checked why would you need to ask even ? "

Because inbetween times being regularly checked and even using protection there is a chance of catching something and passing it on. You could have just point out to people when asked it was a general question. Hope you enjoyed your fun and games Sinead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think admin should close this post

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I'm also not sure what the thread is about.

I agree if you were a co-host, you should probably speak to your guests.

I have been to a few of the parties you co-hosted with blackcannadian as a couple, and I am still looking forward to more to end the year in style. I'm excited about the upcoming Belfast party

I have known security and privacy to be good at blackcannadian parties, and I know you guys provide condoms(even though I prefer bringing my own durex brand, always. like I say, not sure what the thread is really about. it's not fab if it is stressful and people get told to go fuck themselves lol, on a very light note.

we hope problems (If any) can be sorted out at administrative level and we can all have responsible fun as adults!!

Happy days happy fabbers. Let's enjoy stress free, No Strings Attached Safe Fun!! "

Again I reiterate that this is not about BC parties ....but that seems not to be registering with ppl . So lets state facts I was the co-host for Sin and Senses parties as my profile name was even used in the title .

I am no longer connected so even if I wanted to tell the next batch of party goers IF there was a problem with the last party it would be impossible . I'm sure you will enjoy them and any person who contacted me and told me that the fact I had stopped hosting had put them off attending future parties I told them that they should go .

And as a member of Black Canadians party crew , as he likes to call you , you were not privy to the things I was privy to as a co-host simple as that .

And as you say " Let's enjoy stress free, No Strings Attached Safe Fun!! "

I'm sure we can manage that much specially the no strings bit

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Ahhhh had enough of this shite. Forget about the lies, fake profiles and theft can be put down to lesson learned. The first thing you mentioned was disease which brings this topic to a whole new level.

I've been on phone talking to someone who was with someone at one of your parties. Who has met another person since.Regardless of protection used is worried to fook. No one can contact you because of hidden profile.

I did ask you to tell people who were at your parties. Your reply with a emoji after said it all !!!

I actually went back to check what I wrote you in response and it wasn't just an emoji

If you actually read the line properly above your response I said with an emoji AFTER IT. And your response was very similar to "I will think about it" with an emoji after it very similar to the green one.

....very similar to the green one ??? Are you kidding me ???

well it is either the smiley face or the green one ....which, as well you know, there is a big difference between both and the message they convey so would you like to clarify which was used ? I'm sure you can discern the difference between

and

And to clarify my position I have NEVER mentioned parties , my question related to Fab IN GENERAL . People took from it what they wanted .

Oh get a grip would ya. You were asked in private mail. You could have said it was a general question and wasnt anything to do about anyone instead all the crap with being elusive in answering. You were asked because people were worried.

If people use protection and get regularly checked why would you need to ask even ?

Because inbetween times being regularly checked and even using protection there is a chance of catching something and passing it on. You could have just point out to people when asked it was a general question. Hope you enjoyed your fun and games Sinead"

I did .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you still a couple or just a couple profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 sides to all stories ..theirs ..yours and the truth

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I think fab should introduce a little fee to keep fake's away

indeed, and suffers as a result of not having one! All and sundry can join, post what they want and leave... much to the detriment of genuine people.

Plus makes more commercial sense!"

...and do more thorough checks ..maybe even use IP addresses ??

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"3 sides to all stories ..theirs ..yours and the truth "

Philosophy would argue that there is no such thing as truth ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 sides to all stories ..theirs ..yours and the truth "

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Are you still a couple or just a couple profile? "

As stated in previous posts that I put with all the party post I had posted previously in the forums I have nothing more to do with Black Canadian , Black Canadian Party Profile or Black Canadian Entertainment .

But my original couple profile wasnt set up with BC - so it has always been a couple profile with me meeting as a single fem also from day one and as I had done most of the meets with couples as a single fem I didn't want to lose my verifications so never changed it to a single profile

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I think fab should introduce a little fee to keep fake's away

indeed, and suffers as a result of not having one! All and sundry can join, post what they want and leave... much to the detriment of genuine people.

Plus makes more commercial sense!

...and do more thorough checks ..maybe even use IP addresses ?? "

Trouble there is anyone can use a Cafe/Library etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 sides to all stories ..theirs ..yours and the truth

Philosophy would argue that there is no such thing as truth ..."

Maybe so, but we for one dont go by rumour either ...truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you still a couple or just a couple profile?

As stated in previous posts that I put with all the party post I had posted previously in the forums I have nothing more to do with Black Canadian , Black Canadian Party Profile or Black Canadian Entertainment .

But my original couple profile wasnt set up with BC - so it has always been a couple profile with me meeting as a single fem also from day one and as I had done most of the meets with couples as a single fem I didn't want to lose my verifications so never changed it to a single profile "

Ah ok was totally confused before joys of listening to kids all week.. Welcome back to being a single fem on fab so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is car crash stuff

I don't know you from Adam but

For what its worth Sins?

Having read this through as an outsider,it appears you were trying to shit stir and generate a thread of controversy.

What it has also done is portray you in poor light and if you still act as a planner of parties? fabbers will probably pass on attending in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is car crash stuff

I don't know you from Adam but

For what its worth Sins?

Having read this through as an outsider,it appears you were trying to shit stir and generate a thread of controversy.

What it has also done is portray you in poor light and if you still act as a planner of parties? fabbers will probably pass on attending in future "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost all of the above should be immediately transferred to the one opened earlier titled Much Ado About Nothing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is car crash stuff

I don't know you from Adam but

For what its worth Sins?

Having read this through as an outsider,it appears you were trying to shit stir and generate a thread of controversy.

What it has also done is portray you in poor light and if you still act as a planner of parties? fabbers will probably pass on attending in future "
Jack of all trades.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happen to know Sinead through Fab for some time now, and I have to say that she is one of the nicest, most genuine and trusting person I've ever met.

Incredibly warm hearted, perhaps she had placed too much of her time and energies lately on something that was very difficult to get off the ground...

In my honest opinion her decision to part from her partnership with Blackcanadian was purely her choice, and it was an amicable parting.

She posted this thread not out of being malicious... rather to gather honest opinion on a seemingly regular practice on swing sites.

I hope this will clarify things a little....

And she will always have our support and love xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happen to know Sinead through Fab for some time now, and I have to say that she is one of the nicest, most genuine and trusting person I've ever met.

Incredibly warm hearted, perhaps she had placed too much of her time and energies lately on something that was very difficult to get off the ground...

In my honest opinion her decision to part from her partnership with Blackcanadian was purely her choice, and it was an amicable parting.

She posted this thread not out of being malicious... rather to gather honest opinion on a seemingly regular practice on swing sites.

I hope this will clarify things a little....

And she will always have our support and love xxx

"

Fair enough

But the thread doesn't read well does it?

Ps hugs

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I happen to know Sinead through Fab for some time now, and I have to say that she is one of the nicest, most genuine and trusting person I've ever met.

Incredibly warm hearted, perhaps she had placed too much of her time and energies lately on something that was very difficult to get off the ground...

In my honest opinion her decision to part from her partnership with Blackcanadian was purely her choice, and it was an amicable parting.

She posted this thread not out of being malicious... rather to gather honest opinion on a seemingly regular practice on swing sites.

I hope this will clarify things a little....

And she will always have our support and love xxx

"

There was absolutely no need for that but it was so nice to read , thank you . Xxxx

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By *rishblackcanadianMan
over a year ago

Holywood Ireland

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering what pull the OP has with admin, she's written on lots of different threads distancing herself from her former partner, starts up this thread woffling on in vague terms about apparently nothing but each of her posts have a sharp edge. Normally admin pull these threads. You're a grown woman, act like it or spit whatever it is you have to say out.

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Are you still a couple or just a couple profile?

As stated in previous posts that I put with all the party post I had posted previously in the forums I have nothing more to do with Black Canadian , Black Canadian Party Profile or Black Canadian Entertainment .

But my original couple profile wasnt set up with BC - so it has always been a couple profile with me meeting as a single fem also from day one and as I had done most of the meets with couples as a single fem I didn't want to lose my verifications so never changed it to a single profile

Ah ok was totally confused before joys of listening to kids all week.. Welcome back to being a single fem on fab so "

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering what pull the OP has with admin, she's written on lots of different threads distancing herself from her former partner, starts up this thread woffling on in vague terms about apparently nothing but each of her posts have a sharp edge. Normally admin pull these threads. You're a grown woman, act like it or spit whatever it is you have to say out. "

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"This is car crash stuff

I don't know you from Adam but

For what its worth Sins?

Having read this through as an outsider,it appears you were trying to shit stir and generate a thread of controversy.

What it has also done is portray you in poor light and if you still act as a planner of parties? fabbers will probably pass on attending in future "

Good job so that I never intend to so isn't it? As for portraying me in a poor light the only opinion I care about are that of my friends not random strangers on a swinging site

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I think fab should introduce a little fee to keep fake's away

indeed, and suffers as a result of not having one! All and sundry can join, post what they want and leave... much to the detriment of genuine people.

Plus makes more commercial sense!

...and do more thorough checks ..maybe even use IP addresses ??

Trouble there is anyone can use a Cafe/Library etc "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is car crash stuff

I don't know you from Adam but

For what its worth Sins?

Having read this through as an outsider,it appears you were trying to shit stir and generate a thread of controversy.

What it has also done is portray you in poor light and if you still act as a planner of parties? fabbers will probably pass on attending in future

Good job so that I never intend to so isn't it? As for portraying me in a poor light the only opinion I care about are that of my friends not random strangers on a swinging site "

Was simply giving a neutral opinion for what it's worth

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I'm wondering what pull the OP has with admin, she's written on lots of different threads distancing herself from her former partner, starts up this thread woffling on in vague terms about apparently nothing but each of her posts have a sharp edge. Normally admin pull these threads. You're a grown woman, act like it or spit whatever it is you have to say out. "

I only posted to the threads that as a previous co-host I had put up in the first place to let ppl know that I no longer had any connection to them as my profile name was still being used . And as I have before I have no control over how my post us read or what inference is taken from it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering what pull the OP has with admin, she's written on lots of different threads distancing herself from her former partner, starts up this thread woffling on in vague terms about apparently nothing but each of her posts have a sharp edge. Normally admin pull these threads. You're a grown woman, act like it or spit whatever it is you have to say out.

I only posted to the threads that as a previous co-host I had put up in the first place to let ppl know that I no longer had any connection to them as my profile name was still being used . And as I have before I have no control over how my post us read or what inference is taken from it . "

its all well and good now in hindsight , but it may possibly have been better to keep your cryptic muttering to yourself , if you didnt want to be challenged on what you wrote .

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"I'm wondering what pull the OP has with admin, she's written on lots of different threads distancing herself from her former partner, starts up this thread woffling on in vague terms about apparently nothing but each of her posts have a sharp edge. Normally admin pull these threads. You're a grown woman, act like it or spit whatever it is you have to say out.

I only posted to the threads that as a previous co-host I had put up in the first place to let ppl know that I no longer had any connection to them as my profile name was still being used . And as I have before I have no control over how my post us read or what inference is taken from it .

its all well and good now in hindsight , but it may possibly have been better to keep your cryptic muttering to yourself , if you didnt want to be challenged on what you wrote . "

I have no problem on being challenged on what I wrote ...which was about those subjects and ppls thoughts on them in the context of Fab/swinging scene

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By *ick and TracyCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

And people wonder why we don't meet any more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cryptic Mutterings

Brilliant, but cryptic scuttering is more apt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering what pull the OP has with admin, she's written on lots of different threads distancing herself from her former partner, starts up this thread woffling on in vague terms about apparently nothing but each of her posts have a sharp edge. Normally admin pull these threads. You're a grown woman, act like it or spit whatever it is you have to say out. "

Other threads have been removed for less

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Cryptic Mutterings

Brilliant, but cryptic scuttering is more apt"

Like your lovely message to my profile ? ..giving me your condolences etc how you'd never now go to one of his parties so lets see how full of scutterings you are and tell everyone here on the forum exactly what I said in response to that ? I will categorically state to admin that I give my permission for you to do so .

So guys what was my response ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that's right we will never go to his parties. Not a hope in hell after what you posted on the party threads. Hell will freeze over first.

Yep I said that. Yep I meant it. No we won't be changing our minds on that. I'd rather shovel shite out of a cowshed then mop the stalls out with my tongue.

All of my condolences were genuine and honest. Since I mailed you, you have started this thread of pure innuendo. Saying lots without saying anything. And the result? The majority of posters on this thread have a negative view of you now and it's self inflicted. Sometimes it takes a while to see a person for what and who they truly are. In hindsight I should have waited a couple of days before deciding to mail my best wishes.

You wanted attention and you got it. Sadly for you it's not the positive attention that you so badly craved.

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By *in and senses OP   Woman
over a year ago

Waterford


"Yep that's right we will never go to his parties. Not a hope in hell after what you posted on the party threads. Hell will freeze over first.

Yep I said that. Yep I meant it. No we won't be changing our minds on that. I'd rather shovel shite out of a cowshed then mop the stalls out with my tongue.

All of my condolences were genuine and honest. Since I mailed you, you have started this thread of pure innuendo. Saying lots without saying anything. And the result? The majority of posters on this thread have a negative view of you now and it's self inflicted. Sometimes it takes a while to see a person for what and who they truly are. In hindsight I should have waited a couple of days before deciding to mail my best wishes.

You wanted attention and you got it. Sadly for you it's not the positive attention that you so badly craved.

"

You still didn't state what my response was guys ? So I will .... why would I say to you that at you should go ...make up your own mind ...he was a good host ....

If I was then going to start a malicious thread ?

I reiterate that I asked this question in relation to fab as a whole but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you keep telling yourself that all you want.

Not many believe you, including me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you keep telling yourself that all you want.

Not many believe you, including me"

Well you never seem to have anything nice to say to anybody so im pretty sure everyone has similar opinions of you,but it's best left unsaid...

Hopefully admin will remove this thread!

It's getting tedious...

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By *arky90Couple
over a year ago

Killarney

I need more popcorn lol

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By *ick and TracyCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I've the pan on.

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By *arky90Couple
over a year ago

Killarney


"I've the pan on."

Hope it's a big pan? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you keep telling yourself that all you want.

Not many believe you, including me

Well you never seem to have anything nice to say to anybody so im pretty sure everyone has similar opinions of you,but it's best left unsaid...

Hopefully admin will remove this thread!

It's getting tedious... "

Says the person who knowing they aren't being invited to a party still has to post on that party thread and prior party threads started by the party hoster with snide comments. Another attention seeker.

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By *ick and TracyCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've the pan on.

Hope it's a big pan? Lol"

Big enough for several guests. Except obviously we don't go to/have parties, cos they seem to be nothing but bother, by the looks of it! Anyway...dig in...help yourself.

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By *arky90Couple
over a year ago

Killarney


"I've the pan on.

Hope it's a big pan? Lol

Big enough for several guests. Except obviously we don't go to/have parties, cos they seem to be nothing but bother, by the looks of it! Anyway...dig in...help yourself. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah you keep telling yourself that all you want.

Not many believe you, including me

Well you never seem to have anything nice to say to anybody so im pretty sure everyone has similar opinions of you,but it's best left unsaid...

Hopefully admin will remove this thread!

It's getting tedious...

Says the person who knowing they aren't being invited to a party still has to post on that party thread and prior party threads started by the party hoster with snide comments. Another attention seeker.

"

Fair play guys..ye never dissapoint

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