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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?"

Grow a set of balls!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!"

Profile wasnt "Verified Genuine" which worried me. I know mine isnt either btw. Im new to this.

The idea of me with a woman in the back of the car and her husband in the front seat watching also worried me. As in would he be ok with what im doing.

Im a paranoid virgin lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!"

Play nice sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!

Profile wasnt "Verified Genuine" which worried me. I know mine isnt either btw. Im new to this.

The idea of me with a woman in the back of the car and her husband in the front seat watching also worried me. As in would he be ok with what im doing.

Im a paranoid virgin lol"

If they asked you to do that it's certainly ok, genuine fabbers will tell you the craic before

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!

Profile wasnt "Verified Genuine" which worried me. I know mine isnt either btw. Im new to this.

The idea of me with a woman in the back of the car and her husband in the front seat watching also worried me. As in would he be ok with what im doing.

Im a paranoid virgin lol"

Well tell them that!! Anyway you'd be better off meeting them for a coffee or drink before, instead of getting into a car 'to perform'!!

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!

Profile wasnt "Verified Genuine" which worried me. I know mine isnt either btw. Im new to this.

The idea of me with a woman in the back of the car and her husband in the front seat watching also worried me. As in would he be ok with what im doing.

Im a paranoid virgin lol"

You better grow a pair soon....and the lol doesn't hide the fact you're a virgin

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats true I suppose, the fact I didnt get a face pic didnt help either. Perhaps im being too cautious..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!"

mao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol face pic is ok but sub right, coffee meet n then if happy fuck away

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Thats true I suppose, the fact I didnt get a face pic didnt help either. Perhaps im being too cautious.."

No, but meet socially for a while first!! If you don't like them, or them you then just leave...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats true I suppose, the fact I didnt get a face pic didnt help either. Perhaps im being too cautious..

No, but meet socially for a while first!! If you don't like them, or them you then just leave..."

Pity your so far for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to Sub

He has nailed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?"

relax, take a deep breath and keep walking. lot on man are nervous on first intteraction

you'll pass that and have a good laught after a hile

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Listen to Sub

He has nailed it "

Oh I'm not just an ugly face!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will try learn from this experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Instead of making a new thread, I may just ask here?

Do any females or Couples have time for Male Virgins or do they see them as time wasters?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Instead of making a new thread, I may just ask here?

Do any females or Couples have time for Male Virgins or do they see them as time wasters?"

Well as there are many fantasies and interests, I don't see why there aren't people out there taking a male virgin by the hand. However I guess most prefer experienced men like myself.

You're very young and you're throwing yourself into the ice cold water here. I personally think the nicer way to loose your virginity is something more vanilla where you can slowly grow into it and explore...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" Well as there are many fantasies and interests, I don't see why there aren't people out there taking a male virgin by the hand. However I guess most prefer experienced men like myself.

You're very young and you're throwing yourself into the ice cold water here. I personally think the nicer way to loose your virginity is something more vanilla where you can slowly grow into it and explore..."

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis


"Instead of making a new thread, I may just ask here?

Do any females or Couples have time for Male Virgins or do they see them as time wasters?"
hi i gotta question?how does a virgin end up ona swing site?lol.u gotta learn to walk before u runnot manny virgins first is a 3 sum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point I'll admit ha.

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By *isalashes888400Couple
over a year ago

ennis


"Fair point I'll admit ha.

"
wish i cud go back to virginity age and hav a site like fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair point I'll admit ha.

wish i cud go back to virginity age and hav a site like fab"

Aahh.....wouldn't we all. The mind boggles......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virgins should find another virgin to break the mould. Not a virgin and not into that part of me showing you how to lose it. X

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

Attend a Social!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would I be acepted at one of these socials?

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes


"Would I be acepted at one of these socials?"

Why not??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A guy in my position thats all.

20 Year old male virgin who people know is only there for one thing.

Might give off a bad vibe

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes


"A guy in my position thats all.

20 Year old male virgin who people know is only there for one thing.

Might give off a bad vibe "

Well the people there aren't there to sell popcorn!! You're very defeatist!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True,

I'll have to keep an eye out for these socials so!

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By *ilg41Man
over a year ago

schticks

People go to the socials to meet people they might fuck at some stage - you do know that this is a site that people use to meet other for sex right??

I have never been by the way so I hope thats what happens ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Don't chicken or you'll never get a meet. It gives guys a bad rep. Don't agree until you know you can do it. It's not just your night and feelings affected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys,

Having no luck lately so tried updating the profile. Would greatly appreciate any feedback.

(Said id post here instead of making a new thread for the same kind of topic)

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city


"Hey guys,

Having no luck lately so tried updating the profile. Would greatly appreciate any feedback.

(Said id post here instead of making a new thread for the same kind of topic)

your profile looks fine,but maybe put your friends pics on public so the wimmen get a better look at you....I am surprised the girls have not bothered to break you in yet. Shame on them

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

Having no luck lately so tried updating the profile. Would greatly appreciate any feedback.

(Said id post here instead of making a new thread for the same kind of topic)

your profile looks fine,but maybe put your friends pics on public so the wimmen get a better look at you....I am surprised the girls have not bothered to break you in yet. Shame on them

"

Will change that now, Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys,

Having no luck lately so tried updating the profile. Would greatly appreciate any feedback.

(Said id post here instead of making a new thread for the same kind of topic)

your profile looks fine,but maybe put your friends pics on public so the wimmen get a better look at you....I am surprised the girls have not bothered to break you in yet. Shame on them

Will change that now, Thanks "

Break him in or break him completely .. Ur only a baby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

U got a chance to play with a couple n u chickened u should have called one of us . U will probably find it a lot harder to meet people since u let some one down . That's horrible had 2 messers last week not turn up sick of messers to b honest .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No need to open a new thread for myself I reckon.

Ive noticed a lot of "straight" guys are messaging me looking to meet up. Would I be right in saying a fair majority of guys who advertise as straight here actually swing both ways?

Would also appreciate any improvements ye guys could point out to me on my profile

Became a site supporter recently also so people would think im actually serious about a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was very close to my first meet last night but chickened out.

Any advice?

Grow a set of balls!!"

Gee I just love how subtle you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instead of making a new thread, I may just ask here?

Do any females or Couples have time for Male Virgins or do they see them as time wasters?hi i gotta question?how does a virgin end up ona swing site?lol.u gotta learn to walk before u runnot manny virgins first is a 3 sum"

What a way to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just buy an apple pie !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just buy an apple pie !!!

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

.

Whats your hurry to meet , join in here on the fourms . Get chatting to people on here and then try phone call before meeting for chat coffee or drinks and see what happens . Im only new on here but was in the same position as you a few years back on here . I have met a few but I still have to get to a social ....

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