FabSwingers.com forum: How to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok guys how does a man get a meet as I wudnt call myself a newbie as I've been on this awhile but in plp eyes I am as I can't get a meet to get verified so how does it work I've been on here before asking and plp said put more photos up abd say much and I have and I'm sure I've mailed a lot of women on this alot haven't replyed for whatever reason which I think is pure igorant and a few have replyed and chatted judt I wasn't there type but thanks to them they had manners it's hard for a guy in here I'm a geuine guy looking a meet are party invites but don't get any cause I'm not verified even a meet for a coffee would do

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Jut put up posts that you would like to meet a female for a coffee with no agenda!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've tryed that on many occasions but no luck lad only mails I'm getting is from lads but I'm a straight guy

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Just keep posting until females get fed up and reply to shut you up!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

It's a catch 22 situation.

Most women won't meet if not verified... even socials ate hard to get too if not verified.

Just have to keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah its impossible I've asked about socials but I've got the reply no only verified plp so I don't understand how u can if no one will meet its funny but annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join in the forums and always in a positive witty way...

Good banter is a very attractive trait .

Plus it'll get you noticed and will lead to social invites

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"It's a catch 22 situation.

Most women won't meet if not verified... even socials ate hard to get too if not verified.

Just have to keep trying. "

..and try some more!

It's not easy because of messers, no shows, abusive guys etc

And not only for guys, females and couples have difficulties too... less of the though but have to put up with a lot of crap messages etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have to keep trying best way is to interact on the forums and join in on the craic get yourself out there abit more dont give up alot of us single guy were in the same boat at somestage.best of luck op.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Just have to keep trying best way is to interact on the forums and join in on the craic get yourself out there abit more dont give up alot of us single guy were in the same boat at somestage.best of luck op.

..and coming up to Xmas keep an eye out for meetings for Xmas drinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys for your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the "search forum" for "first meet" posts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's the way to go,met 2 ladys last week of a chat,now go to my first meet and greet party next month, stick with it you crack it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try the "search forum" for "first meet" posts?"

Hey I search first meet not much of a help last comment thst was made are talked about was months ago but thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going into chat. If you're comfy put yer cam on. Let ppl get a look at you. And join in the chat. And most importantly stick with it, if this is really what yer after. But if you're one of the many who joined this thinking you'd get an easy lay you'll be Sussed out straight off.

hope that helps. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

Its holly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

Its holly lol"

Ah it would have been better if it was Sasha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Yes Conor is only looking to meet for a cuppa...

Conor.. Make sure the woman keeps her hands off you!! If she tries anything chuck her out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

Its holly lol

Ah it would have been better if it was Sasha

Sasha is the male lmaooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

Watch this one Connor.

And don't let her shortness fool ye!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

Its holly lol

Ah it would have been better if it was Sasha

Sasha is the male lmaooooo"

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

Watch this one Connor.

And don't let her shortness fool ye!!"

Jazuz you lot gonna scare the life out of him lol I don't bite lmaooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

Watch this one Connor.

And don't let her shortness fool ye!!

Jazuz you lot gonna scare the life out of him lol I don't bite lmaooooo"

Nooooo????;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't forget once you go through all the bother of organising the meet it's just good manners to show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And don't forget once you go through all the bother of organising the meet it's just good manners to show up

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Now there is a thing MissCar....some people actually showing up after arranging a meet...Sadly it happens too often here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And don't forget once you go through all the bother of organising the meet it's just good manners to show up

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

Its holly lol

Ah it would have been better if it was Sasha

Sasha is the male lmaooooo"

Maybe he knew that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

Fair play Sasha

Conor you are a lucky man well played

Its holly lol

Ah it would have been better if it was Sasha

Sasha is the male lmaooooo

Maybe he knew that?

Yup

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

1. Engage in the forum in a positive way.

2. Use good grammar and punctuation. Bad grammer makes you look immature.

3. Don't be immature. Be playful.

4. Don't be a timewaster.

5. Don't be a prick.

6 ??????

7 profit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Engage in the forum in a positive way.

2. Use good grammar and punctuation. Bad grammer makes you look immature.

3. Don't be immature. Be playful.

4. Don't be a timewaster.

5. Don't be a prick.

6 ??????

7 profit. "

Good grammar?

Does this also apply to females and couples? .

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

good grammar and.... Bad grammer

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"good grammar and.... Bad grammer

Damn autocorrect.

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"1. Engage in the forum in a positive way.

2. Use good grammar and punctuation. Bad grammer makes you look immature.

3. Don't be immature. Be playful.

4. Don't be a timewaster.

5. Don't be a prick.

6 ??????

7 profit.

Good grammar?

Does this also apply to females and couples? ."

For me, yes. I'd rather a few typos within a legible message that a load of did dat nd de udder.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"good grammar and.... Bad grammer

Damn autocorrect. "

Sure is a pain... apologies wasn't trying to correct someone on their spellings, was just trying to spell it in my head and saw both....

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"good grammar and.... Bad grammer

Damn autocorrect.

Sure is a pain... apologies wasn't trying to correct someone on their spellings, was just trying to spell it in my head and saw both...."

No offence taken !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"good grammar and.... Bad grammer

Damn autocorrect. "

It corrected it to grammer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Engage in the forum in a positive way.

2. Use good grammar and punctuation. Bad grammer makes you look immature.

3. Don't be immature. Be playful.

4. Don't be a timewaster.

5. Don't be a prick.

6 ??????

7 profit. "

Listen to this man he speaks the truth

Tomcat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone sorry with late reply abd thanks Holly that be great to meet up abd will look forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone sorry with late reply abd thanks Holly that be great to meet up abd will look forward to it "

Just get rid of that blocked nose first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone sorry with late reply abd thanks Holly that be great to meet up abd will look forward to it "

Listen to Mingo will you ffs

Good grammar

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"good grammar and.... Bad grammer

Damn autocorrect.

It corrected it to grammer?

My phone does weird things. Like sending out random nudie pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"good grammar and.... Bad grammer

Damn autocorrect.

It corrected it to grammer?

My phone does weird things. Like sending out random nudie pics

I can attest to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine receives 'em..

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

"Hey everyone sorry with late reply abd thanks Holly that be great to meet up abd will look forward to it

Just get rid of that blocked nose first..."

..or the nerves??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

fairplay for giving the guy a chance.

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

fairplay for giving the guy a chance.

Well it doesn't take much... just ask someone to meet for a coffee and get verified as being ;as per profile'!!

Better than all the moaners who post moaning that they can't get meets....

They don't even look for coffee meets!

Hopefully the OP will then consider doing same for someone else!

The more verified members there are the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jazuz conor your breaking my heart here lol put the violins away I'll meet you for a cuppa when I get back from holiday an take note its a cuppa meet lol

fairplay for giving the guy a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone sorry with late reply abd thanks Holly that be great to meet up abd will look forward to it "

Your very welcome conor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes time for singles guys as some are utter time wasters. Try get to parties and M&G so you can mix with other people. Takes time but worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes time for singles guys as some are utter time wasters. Try get to parties and M&G so you can mix with other people. Takes time but worth the wait. "
Sure he cant get to a party his not verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes time for singles guys as some are utter time wasters. Try get to parties and M&G so you can mix with other people. Takes time but worth the wait. "

As you said it takes time for single guys to get verified and he should try get to parties. You are having one in a few weeks. Why don't you invite him and help a fellow fabber out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ack op..its,simples...ya need to go read the rules of fab...its all in there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes time for singles guys as some are utter time wasters. Try get to parties and M&G so you can mix with other people. Takes time but worth the wait.

As you said it takes time for single guys to get verified and he should try get to parties. You are having one in a few weeks. Why don't you invite him and help a fellow fabber out ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a quick update, we meeting up for coffee today an hopefully conor will finally have his verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

Watch this one Connor.

And don't let her shortness fool ye!!

Jazuz you lot gonna scare the life out of him lol I don't bite lmaooooo"

Oh you do Miss Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself.

Be patient.

Be polite.

Be in the right place at the right time.

Be reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

Watch this one Connor.

And don't let her shortness fool ye!!

Jazuz you lot gonna scare the life out of him lol I don't bite lmaooooo

Oh you do Miss Holly

Ohhhhhh no I don't only when asked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will meet anyone I like for coffee verified or unverified but.... When it's made pretty clear that they only want to meet for a coffee just to get verified so other women will meet them and so they can attend parties/socials etc it's a huge turnoff... That isn't my job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience padwan learner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh wat a cutie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a quick update, we meeting up for coffee today an hopefully conor will finally have his verification

Then Take him out the back and fook the bejesus outa him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you taking Conor along to meet Lou?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a quick update, we meeting up for coffee today an hopefully conor will finally have his verification

Then Take him out the back and fook the bejesus outa him

Nope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you taking Conor along to meet Lou?

Nope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations Conor

Veri achieved, now of out with ye and cause mayhem

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Ok guys how does a man get a meet as I wudnt call myself a newbie as I've been on this awhile but in plp eyes I am as I can't get a meet to get verified so how does it work I've been on here before asking and plp said put more photos up abd say much and I have and I'm sure I've mailed a lot of women on this alot haven't replyed for whatever reason which I think is pure igorant and a few have replyed and chatted judt I wasn't there type but thanks to them they had manners it's hard for a guy in here I'm a geuine guy looking a meet are party invites but don't get any cause I'm not verified even a meet for a coffee would do "
. Good pictures and a detailed well written profile that is at least fifteen lines ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good man Connor your meeting the queen bee of fab lol god help ya

Smart ass lol we all were newbies at some stage

Watch this one Connor.

And don't let her shortness fool ye!!

Jazuz you lot gonna scare the life out of him lol I don't bite lmaooooo

Oh you do Miss Holly

Ohhhhhh no I don't only when asked lol

So bite me pkease Holly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Met Holly today for a chat and it was great finally meeting her she a real nice woman and we had a real good chat and maybe ill see her again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Congratulations Conor

Veri achieved, now of out with ye and cause mayhem

Cheers lad well hopefully it will help me now

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