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"No, sexual assault does nothing for me." lol.... what if it had turned out to be a TV  | |||
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"You'd be leaving the club without your balls if it was me." Hahaha | |||
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"No, sexual assault does nothing for me. lol.... what if it had turned out to be a TV "I'm pretty sure he meant fingering her pussy not her ass. But your comment made me laugh lmao | |||
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"You'd be leaving the club without your balls if it was me." he's probably shot himself in the foot IF any females/couples were thinking of messaging him!! | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny?" Dude you really need to take this down if possible hahaha,what if the woman had taken it the other way and had you arrested for sexual assault? | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny? Dude you really need to take this down if possible hahaha,what if the woman had taken it the other way and had you arrested for sexual assault? " Yep.... basically says "Hi guys, I'm a pervert!"
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny?" And then you woke up......... | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny? And then you woke up......... "  | |||
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"OP just because you got away with it once, doesn't make it right. Being d*unk is not an excuse for loosing control of your mind and hands and abusing the situation..." I'm not saying its right. Is it excuse if the girl likes it, or she's dirty perv even by standard of this site? | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved." So being d*unk makes it OK? | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK?" Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force." So she "wanted it"? | |||
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 not to mention the wrong idea... People are here to consensually meet others threw mutual agreement no one here is forced to meet one another and or have any unwanted sexual acts preformed upon them if they don't want it. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"?" Yes, wanted it, enjoyed id, liked it. Lets say you see attraction in strangers eyes in full bus, this atraction is given back and let the madness of moment, discretely start. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"?" To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. | |||
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"I stuck my finger up a girls arse in a swimming pool before she liked it "Isn't there a song about that? | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny?" I'd break every one of your fingers and probably knee you in the rollers too... You are the definition of a creep in every sense of the word!!!! | |||
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"I stuck my finger up a girls arse in a swimming pool before she liked it
Isn't there a song about that? "Or....is it I kissed a girls arse and she liked it? Something like that anyway.....  | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny? I'd break every one of your fingers and probably knee you in the rollers too... You are the definition of a creep in every sense of the word!!!! " agreed | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved." How about you be open-minded enough to consider the boundaries of others - groping a stranger is sexual assault - and why on earth would being d*unk be an excuse for anything? | |||
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"OP just because you got away with it once, doesn't make it right. Being d*unk is not an excuse for loosing control of your mind and hands and abusing the situation... I'm not saying its right. Is it excuse if the girl likes it, or she's dirty perv even by standard of this site?" "OP just because you got away with it once, doesn't make it right. Being d*unk is not an excuse for loosing control of your mind and hands and abusing the situation... I'm not saying its right. Is it excuse if the girl likes it, or she's dirty perv even by standard of this site?" Well, there's a difference in setting up a scenario like this, should one be into it, ie setting up a blindfolded dogging meet and you have a partner with you so that the situation is under control or walking into a d*unk fella who chances his arm/fingers off. Surely we all had our odd nightclub adventure however it's normally preceded by some flirting and eye contact...in your case you obviously met a woman who went along with it and enjoyed it. It has to be said though that we women are not fair game that like to be groped by any stranger once we're out in a nightclub... | |||
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"OP just because you got away with it once, doesn't make it right. Being d*unk is not an excuse for loosing control of your mind and hands and abusing the situation... I'm not saying its right. Is it excuse if the girl likes it, or she's dirty perv even by standard of this site? OP just because you got away with it once, doesn't make it right. Being d*unk is not an excuse for loosing control of your mind and hands and abusing the situation... I'm not saying its right. Is it excuse if the girl likes it, or she's dirty perv even by standard of this site? Well, there's a difference in setting up a scenario like this, should one be into it, ie setting up a blindfolded dogging meet and you have a partner with you so that the situation is under control or walking into a d*unk fella who chances his arm/fingers off. Surely we all had our odd nightclub adventure however it's normally preceded by some flirting and eye contact...in your case you obviously met a woman who went along with it and enjoyed it. It has to be said though that we women are not fair game that like to be groped by any stranger once we're out in a nightclub..." My just 15 year old daughter tells me it's pretty common at teenage discos too. | |||
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" It has to be said though that we women are not fair game that like to be groped by any stranger once we're out in a nightclub..." ...and shows the attitude the OP has towards women! | |||
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" It has to be said though that we women are not fair game that like to be groped by any stranger once we're out in a nightclub... ...and shows the attitude the OP has towards women!" It's hardly just the OP, sad to say. | |||
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" It has to be said though that we women are not fair game that like to be groped by any stranger once we're out in a nightclub... ...and shows the attitude the OP has towards women!" I agree | |||
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"I stuck my finger up a girls arse in a swimming pool before she liked it
Isn't there a song about that?
Or....is it I kissed a girls arse and she liked it? Something like that anyway..... "there's no arse kissing in the song haha | |||
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"I stuck my finger up a girls arse in a swimming pool before she liked it "Why doesn't that surprise us | |||
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"I stuck my finger up a girls arse in a swimming pool before she liked it
Why doesn't that surprise us "cause u got it aswel hahahaha | |||
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Why doesn't that surprise us cause u got it aswel hahahaha"rapeyshadesofashanddave | |||
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"Many years ago in a nightclub I got gropped by a stranger in a nightclub. He got my hand across his face the bouncer came over and throw him out by the scruff of his neck. For the rest of the night I wanted to go home. I went into the toilet and actually cried I felt violated..... " Its awful letme... 
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved." ...your honour. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved." It was lucky yea didnt get a kick in the bollox. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. " Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!! | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!! "You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. " I agree also..by the time this thread ends,he will be up for assault ffs.. No one ever did anything mad/crazy like this in a night out.Imagine all saints on here!! | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. "yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it. "So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no? Jesus | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no?
Jesus"If u read what the op said she pushed back on his hand which to me means she wanted it as much as he did. We obviously have different oponions on sexual assault. What was he gonna do ask her can he feel her arse before he touched her?? | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny?" Actually sounds kinda hot! Not too sure if id be into it but she obviously consented by moving towards you. Youve got some balls i admire that | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no?
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If u read what the op said she pushed back on his hand which to me means she wanted it as much as he did. We obviously have different oponions on sexual assault. What was he gonna do ask her can he feel her arse before he touched her?? "Wow, just wow. I'd better tell my daughter that she has it all wrong and groping her arse is a perfectly acceptable way for a lad to introduce himself. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no?
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If u read what the op said she pushed back on his hand which to me means she wanted it as much as he did. We obviously have different oponions on sexual assault. What was he gonna do ask her can he feel her arse before he touched her??
Wow, just wow. I'd better tell my daughter that she has it all wrong and groping her arse is a perfectly acceptable way for a lad to introduce himself."Are you not getting it? She pushed back into him..she accepted it..The crowd didn't push her she moved back into him..she gave him the indication it was ok..she liked it..seriously you can't be that thick..read the post again!!! | |||
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"So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no? Jesus" Surely it's consensual until they say no?? you could snog, undress, oral both ways and then the girl (or guy even) says no further.... is what went before sexual assault? I don't think so and I am sure most of us have been there. hysterical overreaction to what was a consensual act..... especially given what some people get up to at parties  | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no?
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If u read what the op said she pushed back on his hand which to me means she wanted it as much as he did. We obviously have different oponions on sexual assault. What was he gonna do ask her can he feel her arse before he touched her??
Wow, just wow. I'd better tell my daughter that she has it all wrong and groping her arse is a perfectly acceptable way for a lad to introduce himself.
Are you not getting it? She pushed back into him..she accepted it..The crowd didn't push her she moved back into him..she gave him the indication it was ok..she liked it..seriously you can't be that thick..read the post again!!!"No no he felt her arse so that's the sexual assault bit. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no?
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If u read what the op said she pushed back on his hand which to me means she wanted it as much as he did. We obviously have different oponions on sexual assault. What was he gonna do ask her can he feel her arse before he touched her??
Wow, just wow. I'd better tell my daughter that she has it all wrong and groping her arse is a perfectly acceptable way for a lad to introduce himself.
Are you not getting it? She pushed back into him..she accepted it..The crowd didn't push her she moved back into him..she gave him the indication it was ok..she liked it..seriously you can't be that thick..read the post again!!!"I don't think I'm the thick one here | |||
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"Actually sounds kinda hot! Not too sure if id be into it but she obviously consented by moving towards you. Youve got some balls i admire that "message me please... not to role play this scenario tho | |||
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You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
So it's fine to sexually assault someone up until they say no?
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If u read what the op said she pushed back on his hand which to me means she wanted it as much as he did. We obviously have different oponions on sexual assault. What was he gonna do ask her can he feel her arse before he touched her??
Wow, just wow. I'd better tell my daughter that she has it all wrong and groping her arse is a perfectly acceptable way for a lad to introduce himself.
Are you not getting it? She pushed back into him..she accepted it..The crowd didn't push her she moved back into him..she gave him the indication it was ok..she liked it..seriously you can't be that thick..read the post again!!!
I don't think I'm the thick one here"The fact she thinks it's OK is irrelevant, it's his initial approach that is all wrong. You cannot do this to any person and think it's acceptable. Where does this pushing boundaries end up? Keep going until she says no? I'm the male in this couple and my opinion is that you just shouldn't approach a stranger like this, because to them you are too! | |||
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"How many people here have been on a night out and had a fella grab or feel their arse????? Personally if i didn't like it I would stop them right there and then. Doesn't mean I'd be taking them to court for sexual assault. OP says she didn't stop him and pushed back on his hand meaning she wanted more of what he was giving her. Just cause she didn't turn around to him and say Oh finger me please. She didn't stop him or protest in any way shape or form. "I get me arsed slapped the whole time or pinched biggy by the ladys doesnt complain tho cause biggy likes it. | |||
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"I have. I slapped him, the bouncers intervened & he was ejected which I felt was punishment enough. Yeah so u stopped him there and then and didn't push back on his hand in search of more. And u were dead right to slap him if you didn't like it. " Maybe he had met the OP's girl before? It sets a precedent, an unhealthy one is what I think we are saying. | |||
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"Don't see what the fuss is about. According to post she co-operated and enjoyed it. Many women fantasise about public sex and strangers and she had both and apparently enjoyed herself. :- "Good to see different opinion.thx | |||
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"I have. I slapped him, the bouncers intervened & he was ejected which I felt was punishment enough. Yeah so u stopped him there and then and didn't push back on his hand in search of more. And u were dead right to slap him if you didn't like it. Maybe he had met the OP's girl before? It sets a precedent, an unhealthy one is what I think we are saying. Some people like it. Some people don't. " So why should someone who doesn't "like" being sexually assaulted be subjected to it on the offchance that they might "like" it? | |||
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"Wish a few ladies would fiddle with mine. I wouldn't complain at all at all at all...... "Hahaha. Discrimination of sexes ?? | |||
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..... people (guys & gals) we are all adults ok, don't forget that!! It is wrong what he did in the first place but she consented to it so it's not abuse, she even enjoyed it so much so that she came.....
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You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it. "Finally we got point. If I touch ass and she put hand away or slap me, kick me, break my fingers, shoot me... Ok fine I am huge pervert. But if she does like it, gets closer... Am I still pervert? | |||
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"Hope this link is allowed. It's relevant to the topic. https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8" Is the person going to ask "can I feel ur arse?" before doing so????? | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
Finally we got point. If I touch ass and she put hand away or slap me, kick me, break my fingers, shoot me... Ok fine I am huge pervert. But if she does like it, gets closer... Am I still pervert? "I wouldn't say pervert, just someone who probably doesn't want to respect others boundaries by finding out after the fact, you would "beg forgiveness rather than ask permission" Lee | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. So being d*unk makes it OK? Being d*unk in both side and momentarily agreement from both I suppose it does. I'm talking no abuse, or force. So she "wanted it"? To be fair, he has already said she moved toward his hand, not away. She wanted it at the time. Presumably/hopefully had she moved away at first touch, he would have left it like that. I'm not saying it's OK to do this every night, and I personally would have a problem with the idea that 'we were both d*unk, so it was ok', but on the night in question, the OP seems to have gotten lucky. If he met her again and expected the same result, things might not go so well. Totally agree. I was snogging the face off a lad in a nightclub on a jam packed dance floor before and he dropped the hand!!! I liked it!!!
You were "snogging the face off him", the OP is talking about feeling up someone he was pushed up against in a crowd. yeah but shur if he started off by feelin her arse and she didn't stop him. It's not like he forced her to let him do it.
Finally we got point. If I touch ass and she put hand away or slap me, kick me, break my fingers, shoot me... Ok fine I am huge pervert. But if she does like it, gets closer... Am I still pervert? "You approached a complete stranger at a bar and began to fondle her, it does not matter if she enjoyed it and let you continue. The fact is, you felt it was okay to initaly begin fondling her, being d*unk is no excuse. Did it ever cross your mind that the girl was so d*unk that she was not coherent enough to stop you?. You initiated the act, grow up !! | |||
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"Hope this link is allowed. It's relevant to the topic. https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8 Is the person going to ask "can I feel ur arse?" before doing so????? " In my opinion It's more polite to do so. but I respect personal space. I could look at the arse and lust after the arse, and maybe even want to fuck the arse. but am I gonna feel the arse without checking with the arse owner that it's ok? In a vanilla situation most likely not. in a swingers social or party situation i would read the situation and act accordingly. The difference between being a well behaved pervert....and a creep. | |||
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"Hope this link is allowed. It's relevant to the topic. https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8 Is the person going to ask "can I feel ur arse?" before doing so????? In my opinion It's more polite to do so. but I respect personal space. I could look at the arse and lust after the arse, and maybe even want to fuck the arse. but am I gonna feel the arse without checking with the arse owner that it's ok? In a vanilla situation most likely not. in a swingers social or party situation i would read the situation and act accordingly. The difference between being a well behaved pervert....and a creep. "So why can't in a normal night out the situation be read and act accordingly? | |||
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" ..... I am sure though and I would hope that if she didn't like it & told him so abruptly, he would then stop..... if he continued regardless of her saying no, then it is abuse. Sorry Rosie but if I didn't invite him to do it, he's already gone too far and been sexually abusive. Now I agree there are places where that wouldn't be a problem, for instance at a swingers social where the attendees are of a like mind but I have chosen to enter that environment so it goes with the territory. " I'm not condoning it nor do I think it's right because it's not.... I repeat - it's not but in this case she consented to it & obviously enjoyed it, it is not abuse. I will stand by that. ...... now if the girl or any other girl had said no to it & he continued regardless then it is abuse & deserves punishment for it..... | |||
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"I can see no time in my life where I feel its ok to touch a strangers arse without their permission.. ..i would even go so far as to say If they are naked and taking part in sexual deviance at a party..you must still ask or 'get the nod' before joining in or even groping.. . .but thas jus me.. "Maybe she did " give him the nod!!!!" | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny?" I don't think this happened at all..I think he just made it all up. | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny? I don't think this happened at all..I think he just made it all up." I think were gone wayyyyy past that point at this stage!!!! | |||
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"Once in nightclub I stood behind girl I didn't know. It was crowded so much, we were on top of each other. D*unk as I was, I started rubbing her bum and going, lower. She didn't move away, but towards, and let herself cum be me. What is your thoughts about. Would female reader let happened if you are horny? I don't think this happened at all..I think he just made it all up." Even if I made it up, I like the banter and opinions revealed. | |||
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"I'm not saying the OP abused the girl....but he did take liberties. It was not OK. Even if she liked it. Foxie, you might like your arse felt on a night out, and more power to you (its a great arse, I should know ) but regardless of the outcome what the OP did isnt OK.
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"I'm not saying the OP abused the girl....but he did take liberties. It was not OK. Even if she liked it. Foxie, you might like your arse felt on a night out, and more power to you (its a great arse, I should know ) but regardless of the outcome what the OP did isnt OK.
Thank God somebody is saying IT'S NOT ABUSE but at the same time it's NOT RIGHT either.... "Nobody has the right to feel someone up on the offchance they might like it. It's a violation. I'm sad to see my teens growing up in a world where according to some adults here, my daughters have to expect this kind of behaviour as an ok approach. Seems there is a long way to go yet. | |||
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"I deeply apologize if I offended anyone here. Nobody was hurt in story and both actors enjoyed it. I know risk was huge. Memory on other hand is mine. And again thx for stirring such huge conversation. No need for thanks or apologies to us, but i'd be curious to know if you've learned anything...." I read what I already know. I'm not going touching asses around. I do read body language, that eye contact and sense of feeling the same tune. It doesn't happen much, but it does. Attraction of strangers acting in passion of intimacy, no bother what place it is. Does nobody secretly dream of at least snog someone nice looking hidden for example in church mass? | |||
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" Now I agree there are places where that wouldn't be a problem, for instance at a swingers social where the attendees are of a like mind but I have chosen to enter that environment so it goes with the territory. Hold on a second there.... That's a bit of a contradiction. It's ok for some random stranger I don't know and have never met before to come up and start feelin my arse at a swingers event but not on a normal night out???? So because I enter into a swingers event sexual assault goes out the window. Yes, because YOU chose to go to an event where sexually open people are going to be present and swingers are usually quite tactile. If I go to Hangar on a Saturday night, I don't expect to have random strangers groping me because they're d*unk & I'm more than likely going to be with my vanilla friends. (Who don't randomly grope people) Have I got this right? If I choose to go a swingers event I can expect to be groped by random strangers because they're tactile? Does this apply to socials?" Maybe not expect but be prepared for? But as in any situation, you reserve the right to decline any advances. | |||
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" Now I agree there are places where that wouldn't be a problem, for instance at a swingers social where the attendees are of a like mind but I have chosen to enter that environment so it goes with the territory. Hold on a second there.... That's a bit of a contradiction. It's ok for some random stranger I don't know and have never met before to come up and start feelin my arse at a swingers event but not on a normal night out???? So because I enter into a swingers event sexual assault goes out the window. Yes, because YOU chose to go to an event where sexually open people are going to be present and swingers are usually quite tactile. If I go to Hangar on a Saturday night, I don't expect to have random strangers groping me because they're d*unk & I'm more than likely going to be with my vanilla friends. (Who don't randomly grope people) Have I got this right? If I choose to go a swingers event I can expect to be groped by random strangers because they're tactile? Does this apply to socials? Maybe not expect but be prepared for? But as in any situation, you reserve the right to decline any advances. " And it's ok because it's a swingers event? Just curious to hear views. | |||
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"is it any wonder why the op is here a year without a verification with an attitude to women like that." Agreed!!! Total creep | |||
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"I deeply apologize if I offended anyone here. Nobody was hurt in story and both actors enjoyed it. I know risk was huge. Memory on other hand is mine. And again thx for stirring such huge conversation. No need for thanks or apologies to us, but i'd be curious to know if you've learned anything.... There's always someone spoiling for a fight?? I think this thread was more a "heated discussion" but yeah, you've got a point. I'm hoping a different lesson was learned though. " What lesson do you mean? | |||
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"I deeply apologize if I offended anyone here. Nobody was hurt in story and both actors enjoyed it. I know risk was huge. Memory on other hand is mine. And again thx for stirring such huge conversation. No need for thanks or apologies to us, but i'd be curious to know if you've learned anything.... There's always someone spoiling for a fight?? I think this thread was more a "heated discussion" but yeah, you've got a point. I'm hoping a different lesson was learned though. What lesson do you mean?" That personal space is to be respected and don't take liberties? It will mean you go through life not groping many arses, but hey, them's the breaks. | |||
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" Have I got this right? If I choose to go a swingers event I can expect to be groped by random strangers because they're tactile? Does this apply to socials? Maybe not expect but be prepared for? But as in any situation, you reserve the right to decline any advances. And it's ok because it's a swingers event? Just curious to hear views. NO, IT'S NOT OK IF YOU DON'T WANT IT. Even if It's exactly the same action, the location has to be considered. " You responded to Roxie by saying it was ok. Sorry just a little confused Thanks for clarifying.
"Hold on a second there.... That's a bit of a contradiction. It's ok for some random stranger I don't know and have never met before to come up and start feelin my arse at a swingers event but not on a normal night out????
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" Have I got this right? If I choose to go a swingers event I can expect to be groped by random strangers because they're tactile? Does this apply to socials? Maybe not expect but be prepared for? But as in any situation, you reserve the right to decline any advances. And it's ok because it's a swingers event? Just curious to hear views. NO, IT'S NOT OK IF YOU DON'T WANT IT. Even if It's exactly the same action, the location has to be considered. You responded to Roxie by saying it was ok. Sorry just a little confused Thanks for clarifying.
"Hold on a second there.... That's a bit of a contradiction. It's ok for some random stranger I don't know and have never met before to come up and start feelin my arse at a swingers event but not on a normal night out????
Yes, because YOU chose to go to an event where sexually open people are going to be present and swingers are usually quite tactile" "Yes, I did. My bad. | |||
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"Hold on a second there.... That's a bit of a contradiction. It's ok for some random stranger I don't know and have never met before to come up and start feelin my arse at a swingers event but not on a normal night out????
Yes, because YOU chose to go to an event where sexually open people are going to be present and swingers are usually quite tactile"
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"Guys. Girls. Chill......think everyone's views are known by now but, as I was saying, I wouldn't object to one of you lovely ladies gropin mine. Just sayin...... "lol you are cheeky mister!!!  | |||
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"I deeply apologize if I offended anyone here. Nobody was hurt in story and both actors enjoyed it. I know risk was huge. Memory on other hand is mine. And again thx for stirring such huge conversation. No need for thanks or apologies to us, but i'd be curious to know if you've learned anything.... There's always someone spoiling for a fight?? I think this thread was more a "heated discussion" but yeah, you've got a point. I'm hoping a different lesson was learned though. What lesson do you mean? That personal space is to be respected and don't take liberties? It will mean you go through life not groping many arses, but hey, them's the breaks." Seems the OP isn't the only one who skipped that class | |||
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"I deeply apologize if I offended anyone here. Nobody was hurt in story and both actors enjoyed it. I know risk was huge. Memory on other hand is mine. And again thx for stirring such huge conversation. No need for thanks or apologies to us, but i'd be curious to know if you've learned anything.... There's always someone spoiling for a fight?? I think this thread was more a "heated discussion" but yeah, you've got a point. I'm hoping a different lesson was learned though. What lesson do you mean? That personal space is to be respected and don't take liberties? It will mean you go through life not groping many arses, but hey, them's the breaks. Seems the OP isn't the only one who skipped that class" I actually responded similarly before this post.  | |||
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"I deeply apologize if I offended anyone here. Nobody was hurt in story and both actors enjoyed it. I know risk was huge. Memory on other hand is mine. And again thx for stirring such huge conversation. No need for thanks or apologies to us, but i'd be curious to know if you've learned anything.... There's always someone spoiling for a fight?? I think this thread was more a "heated discussion" but yeah, you've got a point. I'm hoping a different lesson was learned though. What lesson do you mean? That personal space is to be respected and don't take liberties? It will mean you go through life not groping many arses, but hey, them's the breaks. Seems the OP isn't the only one who skipped that class" I only grope when given permission. | |||
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Good to see different opinion.thx"Yes she Co operated after he groped her without her consent.... that part is not okay at all! | |||
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"Don't see what the fuss is about. According to post she co-operated and enjoyed it. Many women fantasise about public sex and strangers and she had both and apparently enjoyed herself. :-
Good to see different opinion.thx
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"Don't see what the fuss is about. According to post she co-operated and enjoyed it. Many women fantasise about public sex and strangers and she had both and apparently enjoyed herself. :-
Good to see different opinion.thx
Yes she Co operated after he groped her without her consent.... that part is not okay at all!
Yeah so see it does happen often and the op isn't the only one who does this. "And that makes it ok? Smh | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. Are you saying we are all perverts on this site???? Obviously it depends on point of view. We aren't angels either Blocked and a little private note describing your view on us... Unbelievable arrogance and the nerve to make such a comment.. To call a section of society perverted and you "trying" to become immersed within that society, beggars belief. To make that comment shows how ignorant you are in the mindset of the people who partake in the swing lifestyle... You do not come across as a very nice person, and I sincerely hope people here see that.." Now please, you didn't understand it properly. Put here preacher or nun and we are worst sinners. Send here random neighbour old woman, we are rotten people. Do I think that are perverts here? No! It all depends who is looking and what point of view you got. I sincerely don't want to offend. But we all are pervs in somones eyes | |||
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"Don't see what the fuss is about. According to post she co-operated and enjoyed it. Many women fantasise about public sex and strangers and she had both and apparently enjoyed herself. :-
Good to see different opinion.thx
Yes she Co operated after he groped her without her consent.... that part is not okay at all!
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"So basically the op is a self confessed pervert who has little or no control over his actions when alcohol is consumed and views it ok to grop vulnurable females just because they too have alcohol consumed and is in a situation where he admitted she couldnt move from. So iv a question or two: 1) how d*unk does a girl have to be for you to make this move? 2) would u do this if she was walking home alone? 3) did u ever think she let you do it cause she was terrified to stop it? "
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" I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this... "I can't believe some ladies here think it is. | |||
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" I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
I can't believe some ladies here think it is." | |||
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I can't believe some ladies here think it is."Me either!!! I'm shocked to say the least | |||
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" I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
I can't believe some ladies here think it is.
Me either!!!
I'm shocked to say the least "I'm baffled by how anyone genuinely thinks it's okay to grope anyone male or female without consent | |||
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" I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
I can't believe some ladies here think it is."It's incredible alright. | |||
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" I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
I can't believe some ladies here think it is.
Me either!!!
I'm shocked to say the least
I'm baffled by how anyone genuinely thinks it's okay to grope anyone male or female without consent "This is also true - I've seen ladies (I use the term loosely) who think it's funny to grope men. | |||
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I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this... "1) I would not use girl by state of d*unkenness 2)definitely would not do that. 3)in first sign of her being terrified id stop. But she did like it. | |||
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"So basically the op is a self confessed pervert who has little or no control over his actions when alcohol is consumed and views it ok to grop vulnurable females just because they too have alcohol consumed and is in a situation where he admitted she couldnt move from. So iv a question or two: 1) how d*unk does a girl have to be for you to make this move? 2) would u do this if she was walking home alone? 3) did u ever think she let you do it cause she was terrified to stop it?
I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
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2)definitely would not do that.
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"So basically the op is a self confessed pervert who has little or no control over his actions when alcohol is consumed and views it ok to grop vulnurable females just because they too have alcohol consumed and is in a situation where he admitted she couldnt move from. So iv a question or two: 1) how d*unk does a girl have to be for you to make this move? 2) would u do this if she was walking home alone? 3) did u ever think she let you do it cause she was terrified to stop it?
I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
1) I would not use girl by state of d*unkenness
2)definitely would not do that.
3)in first sign of her being terrified id stop. But she did like it.
So you've learned nothing then."Looks like you have issues with boundaries and little or no empathy towards others. Why approach a woman knowing the possible outcome could be that you terrify her? You have issues man and so does anyone who agrees with you. Were you the bully in the school yard, or the victim? Lee | |||
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"There may be something being lost in translation here OP, is English your first language? Why you think that. I think I was perfectly clear. It's your presentation. It's not quite right. It's not a problem if you don't want to answer, people from different countries can have wildly differing thoughts on some things is all." I'm ok answering. No it's not my first language, but speaking 9 years I think I could be understood | |||
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"So basically the op is a self confessed pervert who has little or no control over his actions when alcohol is consumed and views it ok to grop vulnurable females just because they too have alcohol consumed and is in a situation where he admitted she couldnt move from. So iv a question or two: 1) how d*unk does a girl have to be for you to make this move? 2) would u do this if she was walking home alone? 3) did u ever think she let you do it cause she was terrified to stop it?
I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
1) I would not use girl by state of d*unkenness
2)definitely would not do that.
3)in first sign of her being terrified id stop. But she did like it.
So you've learned nothing then.
Looks like you have issues with boundaries and little or no empathy towards others. Why approach a woman knowing the possible outcome could be that you terrify her?
You have issues man and so does anyone who agrees with you.
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"There may be something being lost in translation here OP, is English your first language? Why you think that. I think I was perfectly clear. It's your presentation. It's not quite right. It's not a problem if you don't want to answer, people from different countries can have wildly differing thoughts on some things is all. I'm ok answering. No it's not my first language, but speaking 9 years I think I could be understood " If you feel you have been clear, unfortunately that only leaves me with one opinion. And thank you for an interesting if controversial debate this Monday. | |||
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. Are you saying we are all perverts on this site???? Obviously it depends on point of view. We aren't angels either Blocked and a little private note describing your view on us... Unbelievable arrogance and the nerve to make such a comment.. To call a section of society perverted and you "trying" to become immersed within that society, beggars belief. To make that comment shows how ignorant you are in the mindset of the people who partake in the swing lifestyle... You do not come across as a very nice person, and I sincerely hope people here see that.. Now please, you didn't understand it properly. Put here preacher or nun and we are worst sinners. Send here random neighbour old woman, we are rotten people. Do I think that are perverts here? No! It all depends who is looking and what point of view you got. I sincerely don't want to offend. But we all are pervs in somones eyes " To an outsider reading your opening post, yes we are all pervs, you do the swinging community a disservice . Can I also ask, given that you claim to have been so d*unk, how would you have reacted had the girl freaked out when you began to finger her?. Did it not once cross your mind that she may also have been underage , not capable of dealing with the situation? | |||
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" I still can't believe that this guy thinks it's okay to have done this...
I can't believe some ladies here think it is.
Me either!!!
I'm shocked to say the least
I'm baffled by how anyone genuinely thinks it's okay to grope anyone male or female without consent
This is also true - I've seen ladies (I use the term loosely) who think it's funny to grope men."
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"It's funny, being called pervert and having aggressive reply on site like this. I was expecting more open-minded people. First of all, small sign of disagreement is enough. Second lets assume, alcohol involved. Are you saying we are all perverts on this site???? Obviously it depends on point of view. We aren't angels either Blocked and a little private note describing your view on us... Unbelievable arrogance and the nerve to make such a comment.. To call a section of society perverted and you "trying" to become immersed within that society, beggars belief. To make that comment shows how ignorant you are in the mindset of the people who partake in the swing lifestyle... You do not come across as a very nice person, and I sincerely hope people here see that.. Now please, you didn't understand it properly. Put here preacher or nun and we are worst sinners. Send here random neighbour old woman, we are rotten people. Do I think that are perverts here? No! It all depends who is looking and what point of view you got. I sincerely don't want to offend. But we all are pervs in somones eyes To an outsider reading your opening post, yes we are all pervs, you do the swinging community a disservice . Can I also ask, given that you claim to have been so d*unk, how would you have reacted had the girl freaked out when you began to finger her?. Did it not once cross your mind that she may also have been underage , not capable of dealing with the situation?" It would occur my mind if I was on different place than nightclub. It would occur my mind if she didn't enjoy it and pretending that she is it would be stupid in middle of public. | |||
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