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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so say you have been chatting to a guy/girl/couple for a good bit, couple of weeks, and you make plans to meet, but they cancel, you keep chatting , set another meet and another cancellation, how many chances you give that person? Life can mess things for us at times and i get that , just interested to know people's opinions on this

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Maybe twice but after that no more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe twice but after that no more. "

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless they beg for forgiveness after first cancellation and accompany it with flowers or chocolates then one strike policy should be the norm. Just sayin........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proble newbies and nervous or some strange man pretending hes in a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol i can get my own flowers and chocolate, being a decent genuine person is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe twice but after that no more. "

Definitely twice but sometimes they only get one chance and I block

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Anyone, regardless of status, can have a genuine reason to cancel so it depends on it being genuine, not a wimpish reason and give them a 2nd chance or not, then that's it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice if your Kaizer

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Had this done to us on a previous site by the same cpl, 3 times.

So let's just say we've learned our lesson.

Tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say Twice.....the first cancellation could be genuine family issues etc or may be if new to scene some last minutes nerves which they could overcome with time....but if Second cancellation then I would say they have had their last chance...Phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip twice, things happen but if not in position to sort a second meet doesn't bode well for future x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two. Allow one for unforeseen circumstances and the second no show is a strike out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to cancel a coffee meet this week and I hate letting people down but I had a genuine reason...

It's beyond me why people constantly arrange meets then don't bother to commit!

If someones has a reason for cancelling fine but if it happens the second time then they can piss off!!

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over a year ago

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By *tsUS1990Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

We had this with a couple. Chatting for weeks,made plans, they didn't show. Had a 'family issue'. Fair enough.

Second time got 'stuck in work'. Again, possible.

Then they invited us to their home as way of making it up.

Waiting on their info and they are online saying they're looking for company. That they can't understand why its so hard to get a meet.

I messaged them asking what's going on and they said maybe another time.

Blocked and deleted.

Some people.

My own fault really, but I was very new then.

I don't make that mistake any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on logistics and how much u want to meet hard enough to find a couple you gel with and why the rush

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